We're Going There with Bianca Olthoff

What does true friendship mean to you? How do you know when it's time to let go of a friendship? Friend, I LOVE you! And I know that friendship is so important in our lives. That's why my BFF Lauren and I dive deep into the intricacies of friendship. We explore how to nurture, grow, and gracefully let go of relationships as we journey through life's different stages.  We share personal insights on the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing when it's time to let go of friendships that no longer serve us.  Some key takeaways are: Intentionality is key: Friendship requires effort and conscious nurturing to thrive. Vulnerability is essential: Sharing our true selves with others deepens our connections. Friendships evolve: As we grow and change, our relationships may naturally shift or end. It's okay to let go: Sometimes, holding onto friendships that are no longer fulfilling can be detrimental to our well-being. Losing a friendship can be emotionally challenging, and it's important to allow ourselves to grieve. Share the dynamics of your relationships by tagging me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-Host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/  Watch the video on Youtube: https://youtu.be/SfVNmRE0cd4 Resources Podcast Episode with Lysa Terkeurst Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-100-setting-clear-boundaries-communicating-our-needs/id1529509063?i=1000586081202  Book by Lysa Terkeurst Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are https://www.p31bookstore.com/collections/lysa-terkeurst-books-and-bible-studies  Takeaways Intentionality is key in maintaining friendships. Vulnerability allows for deeper connections between friends. It's important to evaluate friendships regularly. Friendship requires risk and investment. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. A friend audit can help clarify relationship dynamics. I stay too long in relationships. Friendships can be categorized as weeds, flowers, or trees. Seasonal friendships are valid and should be honored. Adaptability is crucial in friendships. Friendship is a choice, not an obligation. Boundaries are essential in protecting relationships. Mourning the end of a friendship is a necessary process. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW?si=sgf1iKWzQg6QzjEMEvuW2A ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever faced a crisis that tested your resilience and self-awareness? Are you needing to find peace amidst the chaos of significant life changes? Joining me today again is my co-host and dear friend Lauren and together we explore the profound themes of mind shifts, grief, and new beginnings. This episode was very difficult to do, but I opened up about my personal journey through a major crisis following my divorce.  We talk about important topics like: Leadership in Crisis: Bianca shares the raw and real challenges she faced while leading her church through a turbulent period. The Role of Therapy: The conversation delves into the necessity of therapy and its transformative power in processing grief and loss. Resilience and Self-Care: Bianca's journey emphasizes the importance of taking time for self-care and seeking help when needed, providing inspiration for others navigating their own struggles. Identity and Community: The episode highlights the importance of maintaining one’s identity outside of the church and the power of community in fostering personal growth. Intentional Relationships: The dialogue underscores the significance of intentional relationships and leadership development. Finding Peace Amidst Chaos: Bianca discusses her journey of self-discovery, grieving, and finding excitement in new beginnings within her church community. Friend, I want to highlight the importance of community support, self-awareness, and resilience during challenging times.  Let us know if this episode has helped you find strength and hope through adversity by tagging and me @biancaolthoff and @laurenbronsonpetrous Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous https://boundlessandco.com/ Watch the video on Youtube https://youtu.be/hg4QEoHYJyw Takeaways Community support is crucial during challenging times. Leadership requires integrity and self-awareness. Therapy can provide necessary tools for healing. Loss can transform you into a stronger individual. It's important to have accountability in leadership. Navigating crises requires both personal and professional strategies. It's essential to have guardrails around your identity. Grieving is a necessary process that should not be rushed. New beginnings can emerge from grief and loss. Peace can coexist with chaos and uncertainty. Being vulnerable about struggles can foster deeper connections. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/ ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option https://amzn.to/3MO74OC ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4 Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt lost or alone after a significant life change? Are you ready to find strength and resilience in the face of adversity? In this emotional conversation with my friend and co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous, I share how I’ve had to navigate a significant life change, my experience with divorce and the subsequent journey of self-discovery and healing.  I’ve experienced many challenges while making difficult decisions, but holding on to God's provision and support during tough times throughout the healing process has kept me going. Some of the topics that we will highlight are: Navigating significant life changes The journey of self-discovery and healing The role of faith and community in difficult times Lessons learned from aloneness and personal growth Distinguishing between secrecy and privacy Challenges and healing in the aftermath of divorce The importance of accountability and community support Experiencing God's provision and support Embracing wholeness after loss Friend, change is hard, especially when it is thrust upon you. I want to encourage you to embrace change and growth through life's toughest moments, using faith, community, and self-awareness as powerful tools for healing and personal development. If you are on a similar path to finding hope, let us know by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous & @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com Takeaways Faith plays a crucial role in accepting life's changes. It's important to distinguish between secrecy and privacy. You cannot force someone to change; it takes two for a healthy relationship. Healing requires accountability and community support. God can be a provider and protector in times of need. Being alone can reveal deeper truths about oneself. Embracing wholeness is essential after experiencing loss. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wrestled with being alone? How can a season of solitude be a catalyst for personal growth?  I am in a very difficult season of forced aloneness and I wanted to share my story with you. Thankfully my good friend Lauren Bronson Petrous is joining me as my co-host and we delve into the importance of changing our perspectives on aloneness. We emphasize that being alone does not equate to being lonely and explore the power of solitude for self-discovery, personal growth, and emotional health, while addressing societal perceptions of being alone.  Our goal is to underscore the significance of self-awareness and the journey of understanding one's identity, particularly in a culture that often prioritizes community and partnership. Some key topics are: Redefining aloneness and its importance The power of solitude for self-discovery and personal growth Societal perceptions of being alone versus being lonely The role of self-awareness in personal and professional success Intentional solitude as a catalyst for growth and resilience Insights from the Bible on the value of aloneness Scientific support for the benefits of solitude Empowerment and liberation through being alone Balancing community and self-understanding Profound personal insights gained from forced aloneness We want to encourage you to embrace the transformative power of aloneness, using it as a tool for self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. Let us know how you are embracing aloneness by tagging Lauren and I at @laurenbronsonpetrous &  @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Co-host Lauren Bronson Petrous boundlessandco.com ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/tnJVOdDVLS8  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do experiences from different generations influence leadership styles in the church? Friends, in this bonus interview by Amy Ayala, I get the privilege to have a conversation with someone who is not only a wonderful teacher and preacher, but also my father, Pastor Pancho Juarez. My dad has had a very unique journey as an immigrant and a pastor in the United States. He has gone through many challenges and triumphs while leading a church in East Los Angeles, The Ark Montebello.  We discuss the importance of cultural identity, and also reflect on the sacrifices made in ministry. One of the highlights of our conversation is when we get to discuss the generational legacy of faith and resilience that my dad has modeled as the leader in our family. We also touch on the impact that our shared experiences have had on our leadership styles and community-building efforts.  Our goal is to encourage future generations of leaders, particularly those from immigrant backgrounds, to embrace their unique stories and continue their calling with tenacity and faith. Key Topics: The unique journey of immigrant pastors in the U.S. Challenges and triumphs of church leadership The importance of cultural identity in ministry Generational legacy of faith and resilience Impact of experiences on leadership styles Encouragement for future generations of leaders Friends, we want you to embrace your unique story and continue your calling with unwavering faith and resilience. Let us know where you’re at on your remarkable journey of faith by tagging Pastor Pancho @thearkmontebello and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Pancho Juarez The Ark Montebello  Quote Embracing cultural identity to build stronger communities. Takeaways Pastor Bianca attributes her leadership qualities to her father's sacrifices. The journey of immigrant pastors is filled with challenges but also immense rewards. Cultural identity plays a significant role in their ministry approach. The importance of resilience and grit in church planting is emphasized. Ministry is a privilege that comes with both joy and pain. The cost of ministry includes personal sacrifices and emotional challenges. Encouragement for future leaders to embrace their unique backgrounds. The significance of community building in a thriving church environment. The conversation highlights the importance of mentorship and legacy. Faith and the Holy Spirit empower them to overcome obstacles. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ We are so grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like a leader but didn't know it? Bianca sits down with Jordan Montgomery, the host of the Growth Over Goals podcast. Together, they explore Bianca’s remarkable journey as a leader, delving into the challenges she faced growing up as a first-generation American and the valuable lessons she has learned along the way. Key Discussion Points: Bianca’s Leadership Journey: Bianca shares her personal story, highlighting the obstacles she overcame and the pivotal moments that shaped her path to becoming a recognized leader. Challenges of a First-Generation American: Insights into the unique challenges Bianca faced and how these experiences influenced her leadership style. Leadership Insights: Bianca emphasizes the importance of time and patience in developing leadership skills, encouraging young leaders to serve others and prioritize personal growth. Health and Boundaries: The significance of maintaining personal health and setting boundaries to ensure effective leadership and overall well-being. Hope and Redemption: Bianca discusses the role of hope and redemption in leadership, sharing her perspective on overcoming adversity and inspiring others. Upcoming Projects: Bianca gives a sneak peek into her upcoming projects, offering listeners a glimpse of what’s on the horizon for her. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for aspiring leaders. This is a testament to the power of resilience, hope, and the importance of serving others in the journey of leadership. Friends, listen now to gain inspiration and actionable tips for your own leadership journey. Follow @jordanmmontgomery and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jordan Montgomery  The Growth Over Goals Podcast Takeaways Bianca identifies as a leader only in the last five years. She faced significant challenges growing up in East LA. Time is essential for developing leadership skills. Young leaders often overlook the importance of patience. Setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining health. Soul health is a game changer for leaders. Rest and recovery are vital for productivity. Serving others can lead to personal growth. Redemption and healing are always possible. The health of a leader reflects the health of their organization. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Has pride ever impacted your life? Ready to recognize and address hidden pride in your heart? Bible teacher, theologian, author, podcaster, book coach, husband and father of four, Dr. Joel Muddamalle and I discuss the profound topics of humility and pride. Dr. Joel shares his personal journey, revealing how a humiliating childhood experience shaped his understanding of humility and its significance. He explains that biblical humility is rooted in recognizing God and our true identity as His royal children. Pride, on the other hand, is the elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion. Dr. Joel emphasizes that humility acts as a protection, prevention, and preservation, and that curiosity without limits can be destructive. The conversation shifts to the crucial role of boundaries and limits in the context of curiosity and desire. Dr. Joel explains how God established boundaries in the pre-fallen world to safeguard Adam and Eve from self-destruction. He clarifies that limits are not punitive but rather a means to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires. Dr. Muddamalle also explores the concept of hidden pride, which can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit and lead to destructive behavior. He highlights the importance of humility in overcoming pride and accepting our limits and weaknesses. Key Points: Humility: A foundational understanding rooted in recognizing God and our identity as His children. Pride: The elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion. Boundaries and Limits: Essential for protecting us from self-destruction and enslavement to unholy desires. Hidden Pride: A subtle form of pride that can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit. The Power of Humility: Overcoming pride, accepting limits, and embracing our weaknesses. Tag Joel @muddamalle and I @biancaolthoff to let us know what practical handles you are applying in your daily life. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Dr. Joel Muddamalle muddamalle.com  Book: The Hidden Peace: Finding True Security, Strength, and Confidence Through Humility Quote Hidden pride is so deceptive because the conversation is happening in the chambers of the human heart. Takeaways Biblical humility starts with an awareness of God and our identity as royal children of God. Pride is the elevation of self and leads to chaos and confusion. Humility is a protection, prevention, and preservation. Curiosity without limits is chaotic. Boundaries and limits were established by God in the pre-fall world to protect us from self-destruction. Limits are not a punishment, but a way to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires. Hidden pride corrupts the fruit of the Spirit and leads to destructive behavior. Humility is the antidote to pride and helps us accept our limits and weaknesses. Anxiety and shame can be addressed through humility and accepting our weaknesses. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to create a life that you love? Are you ready to take small steps to make it happen? My friend Stephanie May Wilson, a writer, speaker, and podcaster, and I talk about the unique challenges and pressures women face in their 20s and 30s, a time Stephanie calls the "everything era." This is a period marked by significant life decisions, societal expectations, and a whole lot of figuring it out. Stephanie shares her own experiences navigating this tricky terrain and offers some valuable takeaways: Embrace the Power of Choice: The 'everything era' is YOUR time to take the reins and create the life YOU want. It's about aligning your decisions with your values, even when those values don't always align with traditional expectations. Transition to the "I Get to Create It Now Era": Life throws curveballs. Embrace those detours as opportunities for personal growth and course correction. Each challenge is a chance to refine your vision and build the life you love. Don't Be Afraid of Disagreements: Navigating this phase can lead to conflicts with loved ones, especially when it comes to life choices. Use these disagreements as opportunities for open communication and mutual understanding. Listen in as Stephanie shares her personal journey of embracing the "I get to create it now era" and how a move to Spain opened up a whole new chapter of her life.  Follow us on social media at @biancaolthoff and @smaywilson. Stay connected with Stephanie through her adventures.   XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Stephanie May Wilson stephaniemaywilson.com Book: Create a Life You Love: How to Quiet Outside Voices So You Can Finally Hear Your Own Quote The 'everything era' is a time of uncertainty and pressure to figure out life. Takeaways The 'everything era' refers to the period in a woman's life, typically in her 20s and 30s, when she is making significant life decisions and facing societal pressures. It's important to define what success and happiness mean to you personally, rather than conforming to societal expectations. The transition from the 'everything era' to the 'I get to create it now era' is a defining moment for personal growth and decision-making. You have the power to decide how you want to live your life and make choices that align with your values and desires. When life doesn't go as expected, you have options: you can quit, keep moving forward, change tactics, or ask for help. Surround yourself with a supportive inner circle who can provide guidance and advice, but ultimately trust yourself to make the best decisions for your life. Creating a life you love may involve making intentional decisions that fit for a season but may not be permanent. Taking control of your own life and making decisions that align with your values and desires can lead to personal fulfillment and happiness. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you gripping the reins too tightly? Have you ever felt the need to control every aspect of your life, only to realize that control is just an illusion? Today I speak to Sharon Hodde Miller, Pastor, Speaker, Author, and PhD about the often-unacknowledged desire for control. Together, we explore the seductive nature of control, how it often creates illusions of security, and the hidden costs of clinging to it. Some takeaways from our conversation are: Control is an Illusion: We might think we have more control than we actually do, but true control is often fleeting. Exploring the limitations of our influence can be a liberating step. Surrender & Agency: Letting go of control doesn't mean giving up agency. It’s about finding the sweet spot between healthy boundaries and trust, recognizing that relinquishing control can lead to greater peace and flexibility. Cost of Control: Clinging to control can manifest in anxiety, stress, and unhealthy relationships. Sharon highlights the benefits of surrendering control and embracing the power of trust in fostering healthy connections. We also discuss the theological and cultural roots of our obsession with control. Sharon offers practical advice for exercising agency instead of constant control. She also challenges us to embrace the benefits of surrendering control in our personal lives and relationships. Let us know how you are letting go of control by tagging us at @sharonhmiller and me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Sharon Hodde Miller Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises Quote The most free we ever were was not in the absence of boundaries, but because of them. Takeaways Control promises security and peace, but it ultimately betrays us, causing anxiety, complexity, and division. The desire for control has theological roots in the story of Adam and Eve and cultural roots in a society that constantly promises control. Letting go of control is important because it costs us more than it gains us. Instead of control, God gives us agency and influence to exercise within the boundaries He has set. Restoring boundaries, such as limiting phone usage, can help us exercise agency and let go of control. Surrendering control can strengthen relationships and build trust. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/ngc1Ye9XbG4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do we understand and live out holiness in our daily lives? Do you believe it's possible to live a truly holy life in a world full of distractions? Author, poet, bible teacher, and hip-hop artist Jackie Hill Perry is on the show and together we explore: The true meaning of holiness The motivations that drive us to pursue a holy life The essential role of the Holy Spirit in the process of sanctification We candidly discuss the challenges and obstacles that often hinder our pursuit of holiness and the vital importance of understanding God's holiness in building a deeper trust in Him. Remember that holiness isn’t about perfection; it’s about surrendering to the One who is perfectly holy. May this conversation inspire you to seek God’s holiness in every aspect of your life. Let Jackie know how much you appreciate her wisdom by tagging her @jackiehillperry and me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Jackie Hill Perry https://jackiehillperry.com/  Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jackie-Hill-Perry/author/B07HGTR8XC?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Quote We don't want to be like God in terms of His holiness, we want to be like God in terms of His authority. Takeaways Holiness is a decision of our will and is based on our conduct, comportment, and character. The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in sanctification by changing our hearts, giving us power over sin, and illuminating the Scriptures. Understanding God's holiness is essential in building trust in Him. The book on holiness by Jackie Hill Perry is recommended for all Christians, especially those who struggle with trusting God. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. http://dwellbible.com/wgt  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/mVL6emS3mF4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had feelings of insecurity and inadequacy? Ever felt like an imposter when surrounded by big names? Friends, today I get real about feeling like a fraud. That’s why I delve into the concept of imposter syndrome and that nagging inner voice that questions our abilities and worthiness. Some of the insights that I want you to walk away with are how to: Overcome insecurity and use it as a tool for growth Recognize your inner saboteur and challenge its negativity Use feelings of insecurity as a springboard for action, not self-deprecation I’ve had to battle with self-doubt and the voices in my head that whisper I’m not good enough. I want us to use self-doubt as a tool for growth, not a weapon of self-destruction. Ask yourself ‘If not me, then who? If not now, then when?’ Unleash your Godfidence to find your voice; The world needs your message! Let us know how you are taming your inner saboteur by tagging me @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Quote The beauty of that voice of insecurity is an earnest recognition that I'm not everything. But the dark side of that voice is when we let that voice convince us that we're nothing. Takeaways Imposter syndrome is common and can make us doubt our abilities and feel like frauds. The voice of insecurity can be used as a tool for self-reflection and growth. Humility is a choice and allows us to recognize our limitations while still using our gifts. We should remind ourselves that we are called to fulfill a purpose and use our voices. Asking 'If not me, then who? If not now, then when?' can help overcome self-doubt and take action. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube: https://youtu.be/mD3Nlb5YZ5s Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you ready to laugh and be inspired? Actress, comedian and author of ‘Bamboozled by Jesus’, Yvonne Orji joins me for a conversation that will challenge your perception of faith and leave you smiling. Friend, you are going to LOVE Yvonne's wit and infectious personality while also gaining insights into finding your purpose and living a joyful life. Yvonne and I discuss what it means to: Understand and experience God’s favor Choose authenticity over societal expectations Rethink what it means to have faith and a relationship with God I hope that Yvonne’s inspiring story helps you gain a fresh perspective on faith, comedy, and personal growth. Show your love by tagging @yvonneorji and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Yvonne Orji https://www.yvonneorji.com/ Bamboozled By Jesus: How God Tricked Me into the Life of My Dreams The wait is sexy | Yvonne Orji | TEDxWilmingtonSalon Quote If I know who I am and God called me to be here, then clearly who I am is good enough for here. Takeaways God has a sense of humor and wants us to have a relationship with Him. The perception of God as vengeful is often based on out-of-context scripture and human perception. Yvonne Orji discovered her calling in comedy and uses humor to reach people. Yvonne's book, 'Bamboozled by Jesus,' shares her journey of faith and how she turned losses into wins. Believe in yourself and your abilities, even when others may doubt you. Stay true to your values and don't compromise them for success. Favor is when God opens doors and blesses you in unexpected ways. Don't settle for less than you deserve in relationships; wait for someone who appreciates and supports you fully. Success is not always measured by societal standards; trust in God's plan for your life. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by HomeChef. For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals, plus Free Shipping on your first box, and Free Dessert for Life, at HomeChef.com/goingthere. Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. This episode is sponsored by AirDoctor Pro. Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! http://tinyurl.com/WGTAirDoctor  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” YouTube:  https://youtu.be/zS1u7RxbeDo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you ever feel like you're going through the motions in your spiritual life?  Many of us crave a deeper connection with God, but where do we start? Today, I chat with John Mark Comer about the power of spiritual disciplines, the practices that can unlock real transformation in your faith. We discuss the following key points: Spiritual Formation: John Mark Comer defines spiritual formation as the process of becoming someone with a greater capacity to receive and give love in relationship with God and others. Spiritual Disciplines: Discussed as "means of grace" that allow us to surrender to God's transformative work. They are practices, not performances, used to offer our bodies to God. Fasting: Highlighted as a way to let go of control and identify the things that control us. Sabbath: Examined as a challenge to our busy culture, teaching the importance of rest and stillness. Comer shares his personal experience with Sabbath and its transformative power in his life. The Three Enemies of Peace: Identified by the desert fathers and mothers as the world, the flesh, and the devil. These enemies hinder our ability to experience true peace. Following Jesus: Acknowledged as not an easy path, but the way to true joy and peace. Sin and Happiness: The impact of sin on our capacity for happiness is discussed. Trusting in God's definition of goodness is highlighted as essential. John Mark also shares his experience growing up in a church that emphasized the importance of Sabbath and how it has shaped his family's life. Let us know how you are deepening your relationship with God by tagging us @biancaolthoff and @johnmarkcomer. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest John Mark Comer https://johnmarkcomer.com/  Quote Working fasting into my regular life has been one of the most transformative things I've ever done. Takeaways Spiritual disciplines are means of grace that allow us to offer our bodies to God and surrender to His transformative work. Fasting helps us let go of control and reveals the things that control us. Sabbath challenges our culture of busyness and teaches us the importance of rest and stillness. Both fasting and Sabbath are practices that can lead to spiritual transformation and a deeper relationship with God. Sabbath is a transformative practice that can bring emotional and relational healing and shape the rhythm of our lives. The three enemies of peace identified by the desert fathers and mothers are the world, the flesh, and the devil. Following Jesus is not easy, but it is the way to true joy and peace. Sin sabotages our capacity for happiness by appealing to our God-given desire for happiness through deceptive ideas. Trusting in God's definition of goodness and following His pathway to life leads to freedom and a deeper experience of love and joy ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by AirDoctor Pro. Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! http://tinyurl.com/WGTAirDoctor  This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today. http://dwellbible.com/wgt ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feeling overwhelmed by the fast pace of life, constant pressures and never-ending to-do list? You're not alone.  I get to dive deep into the challenges of navigating today's fast-paced world with former lawyer turned pastor turned podcaster, Carey Nieuwhof. Listen and learn how to: Prioritize your relationships and protect your time Maximize your productivity through focused work Manage your energy for optimal performance Break free from the stress cycle Implement effective strategies for taking breaks that recharge you This episode is packed with actionable tips and insights to help you thrive in today's demanding environment. Show your appreciation to Carey by tagging him @careynieuwhof and me @biancaolthoff. Until next time, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Carey Nieuwhof https://careynieuwhof.com/  Book: At Your Best: How to Get Time, Energy, and Priorities Working in Your Favor  Book: Leading Change Without Losing It: Five Strategies That Can Revolutionize How You Lead Change When Facing Opposition Podcast: The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast Quote You know how to do a vacation. Well, but time off won't heal you because the problem is how you spend your time on. Takeaways Our relational circles have expanded due to technology, leading to overwhelm and burnout. Setting boundaries and prioritizing relationships are essential for managing the constant pressure of life. Managing energy and identifying peak productivity hours can help optimize productivity and prevent burnout. Creating a daily routine that includes self-care practices and intentional social interactions can contribute to overall well-being and balance. Prioritize your 'green zone' to optimize your time, energy, and efforts. Eliminate distractions and focus on deep work to produce your best work. Manage interruptions and develop a disciplined approach to work. Take extended breaks to rest and rejuvenate, allowing for personal growth and increased productivity. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value!  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt called to start something new, but fear held you back? Is it really possible to be successful without feeling 100% ready? In today’s episode we share with you the interview that I had the honor to be part of with Pastor Craig Groeschel. We discuss  The art of starting a business Recognizing the need for systems and structures Overcoming assumptions and embracing your unique leadership style Starting a new business or ministry comes with its challenges and surprises. I encourage you to put your faith into action and NEVER GIVE UP! Having the right people around you will shape your journey in a positive way.  Friend, you have a unique voice that has the power to create change, so take the courage to start something today! Let us know what you’re starting by tagging us at @craiggroeschel and @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Craig Groeschel  Leadership Podcast https://www.life.church/leadershippodcast/  Quote Whenever the road gets tough, people are going to quit. Takeaways Have a strong conviction and belief in what you are meant to do. Surround yourself with people who compliment your weaknesses and push you to think differently. Have faith and a sense of hope that you will succeed. Don't let the lack of a team or resources hold you back from starting something. Embrace your unique voice and be true to yourself. Failure is a part of the journey, but resilience is key to success. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! AquaTru comes with a 30-day Money-Back Guarantee and even makes a great gift… My listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier! Just go to AquaTru.com - that’s A-Q-U-A-T-R-U-dot com and enter code “WGT” at checkout.   ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  https://youtu.be/02c9Evq2yC8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're stuck in a season of life that just doesn't feel right? Wondering if God's promises still hold true?  Buckle up for an inspiring conversation with Priscilla Shirer, a powerhouse woman of faith who is a communicator, author, Bible teacher, and actress! Priscilla opens up about her journey to becoming the woman of God and influential communicator she is today. She shares the story of her early involvement in ministry and how God has been faithful throughout her life.  Priscilla shares words of encouragement and shares more on the following: Lessons learned through seasons of disappointment and loss Words of wisdom for those feeling discouraged or burnt out Finding joy and purpose in every season The Power of Ephesians 3:20 There is joy to be found in EVERY season of life. Share this episode with someone who needs a boost of encouragement! Tag @priscillashirer and me @biancaolthoff and let us know what season you are in right now?  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Priscilla Shirer https://www.goingbeyond.com/ministry/biography/ Link to all of Priscilla’s Books: https://www.goingbeyond.com/product-category/books/  Quote I get to ask questions of God without questioning God. Takeaways Treasuring each season of life and finding joy in the present moment is important. Studying the Word of God is a lifelong pursuit that can be influenced by mentors and family. God's ability to exceed our expectations and do immeasurably more than we can ask or imagine is a source of hope and trust. Seasons of disappointment and loss can be opportunities for growth and a deeper understanding of God's plans. Having mentors and role models can provide guidance and inspiration in our own journeys. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value!  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube https://youtu.be/KRapsBnL_-Y  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you fulfilling your God given destiny and unlocking your power? How have you embraced your calling with boldness and authority?  In this episode, I share a teaching from the book of Mark given at The Father’s House Orange County. In it I delve into the theme of being marked for power and purpose. We are marked by God, and with this divine marking comes the power to overcome any bondage or sin. Some of the key takeaways are: Being Marked by God: Exploring the profound concept that each one of us is marked by God, instilled with a unique purpose and the power to fulfill it. Lessons from the book of Mark: The book of Mark presents a radical explanation of the supernatural power of Jesus and the power that we, as disciples, possess. The Authority of Jesus: I focus on the authority of Jesus, particularly his ability to cast out demons, showcasing the extent of his divine power. Confronting Spirits: I encourage you to recognize and confront the spirits that may be tormenting you, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging these challenges in order to overcome them. Embrace Your Calling: I urge you to embrace your calling with boldness and authority, stepping into the power that has been bestowed upon you. Friend, I want you to recognize the power within you, confront the spirits that torment you, and embrace your divine calling with boldness and authority. Remember, you are marked by God for a unique purpose. Step into your power and fulfill your destiny.  You are MARKED for power and purpose. Embrace it! Let me know how you are stepping into your authority, confronting your challenges, and boldly embracing your calling by tagging me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS The Father’s House Orange County MARK’D Series Quote I want you to know that you are marked and that you have power to do what God's called you to do. Takeaways We are marked by God and have the power to overcome any bondage or sin. The book of Mark emphasizes the supernatural power of Jesus and the power we possess as disciples. We have the authority to confront and cast out the spirits that may be tormenting us. Embracing our calling requires stepping out of our comfort zone and confronting the spirits that hold us back. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Youtube https://youtu.be/8Zhi83TYi7U Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever experienced the pain of exclusion and rejection, particularly within the church?  Gird your loins friends because in today’s enlightening conversation with Dr. Anita Phillips we discuss the issues of race, exclusion and rejection that are often overlooked within the church. We also talk about the role that our emotions play in having healthy conversations and the impact they can have in leading to greater understanding and acceptance.  We discuss and dive deep into some key points that can help us reflect in our own experiences and attitudes like: Psychological safety and belonging Understanding the role of trauma and healing The need for humility, empathy, and intentional action in healing Regulating our emotions so that they don’t tell us what is right but our Bible does Dr. Anita’s words serve as a powerful reminder that the church, like any community, must continually strive for growth, inclusivity, and understanding. Through open conversations like this one, we can all learn, grow, and work towards a better future. Show Dr. Anita some love! Let us know how you are overcoming your own challenges by tagging us @dranitaphillips and @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Dr. Anita Phillips Book: The Garden Within: Where the War with Your Emotions Ends and Your Most Powerful Life Begins In The Light with Dr Anita Phillips // The Betrayal Podcast Episode Quote The absence of humility is destroying us and it's necessary. Humility is the healing balm that is missing. Takeaways Experiencing rejection activates the same part of the brain as physical pain, highlighting the emotional toll of exclusion. Creating psychological safety and a sense of belonging is crucial for individuals to take risks and reach out to others. The church must address issues of race and create a safe space for healing and reconciliation. Curiosity about different perspectives and cultures can lead to a deeper understanding of God and a more inclusive church. Humility, empathy, and intentional action are necessary to heal and transform the church. ⋇ Watch on YouTube ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Imagine waking up each day and having a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit. How would that empower you in your daily life and ministry?  My good friend Alex Seeley has had profound experiences with the Holy Spirit since she was a young girl. She shares some of her stories and we discuss: The impact of the Holy Spirit in our lives  The blessings that come from living in relationship with Holy Spirit  Nurturing a relationship and seeking a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit brings empowerment, renewed strength and inspiration. What blessings have you discovered from living in an ongoing relationship with the Holy Spirit? Share your insights by tagging Alex @alexseeley and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Alex Seeley Book: The Opposite Life: Unlocking The Mysteries of God’s Upside Down Kingdom Quote I'm on mission to bring Jesus to a generation. And the most beautiful thing is, when they see that God sees them, it opens their heart and disarms them. And that's really what the Holy Spirit does. Takeaways Encountering the Holy Spirit brings a tangible and transformative presence into one's life. Living in relationship with the Holy Spirit brings blessings of peace, freedom, and fearlessness. Asking for a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit empowers believers for ministry and service. The Holy Spirit enables believers to be used by God to bring healing, prophecy, and love to others. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value!  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you have a “game plan for crisis”? Is your goal to finish well in life? Just as athletes prepare for unexpected challenges, we should also anticipate the potential for crisis in our lives and be ready with strategies. Rest and rehabilitation are two strategies that Jesus used to intentionally take time for rest and healing. This serves as a reminder that rest is not a sign of weakness but a necessary part of our well-being. I shared a framework with my church team that has helped me build a plan to navigate adversity. It is the acronym CHIME which stands for Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. This intentional approach helps us face challenges head-on. Friend, I  invite you to reflect on your own lives, consider your responses to crises, and intentionally build resilience. Let me know how your plan for pain is coming along by tagging me @biancaolthoff  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Assignment Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. Quote If you don't turn your pain into purpose or meaning, it will be a stumbling block that you can't get over. Takeaways Having a game plan for crisis is essential for finishing well in life. It is important to be prepared for potential crises such as loss, death, unemployment, divorce, illness, and more. Rest and rehabilitation are both necessary for our well-being and growth. Knowing when to rest and when to seek rehabilitation is crucial for maintaining our physical, emotional, and spiritual health. Jesus' example shows the importance of taking time for rest and solitude, as well as seeking God's presence and guidance. Take care of yourself and don't rely on others to fix or heal you. Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. Know who you are and find purpose in your pain. Rely on the empowerment of the Holy Spirit. Create a plan for your pain to have handles for healing. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices