We Chat Divorce Podcast

What really happens behind the scenes at a divorce law firm? In this eye-opening episode of We Chat Divorce, co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with Attorney Kirk Stange, Founding Partner of Stange Law Firm, to uncover the truth about how family law really works—from the attorney’s side of the table. Kirk has guided clients through divorce for more than 20 years, leading a firm with offices across 30 states. He joins Karen and Catherine for a candid conversation about what makes a great divorce attorney, why so many clients lose trust in the legal process, and how preparation and financial clarity can change everything. Together, they discuss: What makes a lawyer truly good at family law Why some attorneys avoid going to trial (and what that means for you) How judges pressure lawyers to settle cases The real story behind billable hours and “winning” in divorce Why financially prepared clients make better decisions If you’ve ever felt frustrated or confused by your attorney—or just want to know how to work smarter with one—this episode will change the way you see the legal side of divorce. 👉 Learn how the MDS Financial Portrait™ gives you the clarity and confidence to protect your future and collaborate effectively with your attorney. mydivorcesolution.com Hosts: Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison & Co-Founder of My Divorce Solution -and- Catherine Shanahan, CDFA®, Divorce Financial Specialist & Co-Founder of My Divorce Solution Guest: Kirk C. Stange, Founding Partner & President, Stange Law Firm 🌐familylawrepresentation.com | stangelawfirm.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you’re over 50 and quietly wondering whether to stay or go, you’re not alone. In this episode of We Chat Divorce: Divorce Explored, My Divorce Solution co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, CDFA®, break down the real truths behind gray divorce—and why so many couples live in a silent divorce long before they ever make a decision. They share personal stories, client experiences, and the financial insights that can help you stop the emotional bleed and start building a plan. Whether you’re thinking about divorce, living in financial fog, or simply craving clarity, this conversation will help you move from confusion to confidence. You’ll learn: What a silent divorce really looks like—and how to recognize if you’re in one The biggest financial mistakes people make in gray divorce Why clarity—not conflict—should guide your next steps How to use the MDS Financial Portrait™ to see your complete financial picture Why Step Zero (getting organized) is the most important part of your divorce journey About We Chat Divorce Hosted by Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, CDFA®, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, We Chat Divorce explores the financial, emotional, and practical sides of divorce so you can move forward with clarity and confidence. Learn more about The MDS Financial Portrait™:https://mydivorcesolution.com/financial-portrait  Join the MDS Community for guidance, resources, and support:https://mydivorcesolution.com/community Listen to more episodes: https://mydivorcesolution.com/podcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🚨 The Hidden Cost of Toxic Love 🚨 Why is it so hard to leave someone who hurts you? And how do trauma bonds show up in divorce — emotionally and financially? In this episode of We Chat Divorce, hosts Catherine Shanahan, CDFA® and Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison, sit down with Dr. Nadine Macaluso — therapist, author of Run Like Hell, and survivor of one of the most infamous toxic marriages in modern history. Dr. Nadine was once married to the real-life “Wolf of Wall Street,” a chapter of her life portrayed in the blockbuster film. Together we explore: 💔 What a trauma bond really is (and why it’s so hard to break) 💰 How toxic love often comes with financial abuse and control 🚩 Red flags to spot early in relationships 🔥 Why leaving can feel like pulling the fire alarm 🌱 How to protect yourself — emotionally and financially — in divorce Dr. Nadine shares her story of survival and transformation, and how she now helps others break free from trauma bonds and reclaim their power. 🔗 Connect with Dr. Nadine: Website: drnadine.com Instagram: @TheRealDrNadine Book: Run Like Hell Resources from My Divorce Solution: Learn about the MDS Financial Portrait™ → https://mydivorcesolution.com/ Join our supportive Community → https://community.mydivorcesolution.com/ ✅ Subscribe for weekly episodes of We Chat Divorce — the #1 podcast for financial divorce preparation and empowerment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Buying a home is one of the biggest financial decisions you’ll ever make — but what happens when that decision collides with divorce? In this episode of We Chat Divorce, co-founders Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan dive into the risks, timing, and financial implications of purchasing real estate during divorce. They share a real client story where a “protective clause” in a sales contract turned out to be anything but protective, highlighting how emotions, timing, and the wrong assumptions can create long-term financial consequences. You’ll learn: Why feeling “protected” isn’t the same as being legally and financially protected The hidden risks of using retirement accounts or insurance loans to fund a property purchase How buying too soon can complicate your divorce settlement and negotiations Why waiting (even when it’s hard) can sometimes be your best financial strategy How the MDS Financial Portrait™ helps you make confident, informed decisions before signing any major contract Whether you’re tempted to buy a new home right now, or just want to understand how real estate fits into the divorce process, this episode offers the clarity you need to move forward wisely. Share them with us — we’d love to hear your story. Know someone navigating these same challenges? Send them this episode. Have questions about real estate decisions during divorce?  Email us WeChat@CK11.net Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Karen and Catherine talk with Tina Keyes, a Florida Supreme Court certified family mediator and divorce coach. Tina shares how her own family experiences led her to create a Kids First mediation model, designed to reduce conflict and keep the focus on families—not legal battles. We cover what pro se mediation really means, how to know if it’s the right fit, and why coming prepared—both financially and emotionally—is the key to success. Key Takeaways What pro se mediation is and who it works best for Why Tina avoids 8-hour “marathon” sessions and instead uses short, focused meetings How to prepare for mediation: from parenting plans to verified financial data The importance of putting kids first throughout the process Why making decisions based on facts, not emotions, leads to better long-term outcomes About Our Guest Tina Keyes is a Florida Supreme Court certified family mediator, certified divorce coach, and co-parenting specialist. She is also certified in trauma-informed practice, special needs divorce, and high-conflict co-parenting. Through her Kids First Mediation framework, Tina helps families reduce stress, save money, and make child-focused decisions. Learn more: floridadivorcemediation.com Kids First program: kidsfirstmediation.com Resources Prepare for mediation with the MDS Financial Portrait™: mydivorcesolution.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful and timely episode, Karen and Catherine discuss what really happens when you’re blindsided by divorce—whether through infidelity, unexpected papers, or emotional betrayal—and why your first step should not be calling a lawyer, but gaining financial clarity. They break down the emotional chaos that can follow the shock of divorce and offer a different approach: one grounded in calm, informed decision-making. Drawing from their personal experiences and years of professional insight, Karen and Catherine explore how the MDS Financial Portrait™ can provide structure and security in the most destabilizing moments. What You’ll Learn: The emotional toll of being blindsided—and how to pause before reacting Why rushing to a lawyer can be financially dangerous without preparation How the MDS Financial Portrait™ gives you clarity on what you own, owe, and deserve Real-life examples of how emotional decisions in divorce can backfire financially Why understanding the scope of professionals like forensic accountants or attorneys is critical How to regain control and create a smart, sustainable path forward—even in crisis If you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, or caught off guard by divorce—this episode is for you. Get the clarity you need to make empowered decisions. Visit mydivorcesolution.com to learn more about how we help you prepare financially for divorce with confidence and peace of mind. Loved this episode? Share it with a friend, subscribe for weekly insights, and leave us a review. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Divorce isn’t just a legal or financial process—it’s an emotional one. In this powerful episode, Karen and Catherine are joined by Virginia Gilbert, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of Transcending High Conflict Divorce, to talk about a topic most people don’t expect to encounter during divorce: grief. Together, they explore: The emotional toll of divorce grief—even if you’re the one initiating it Why grief can leave you feeling financially stuck or frozen The real reason some spouses feel guilt or shame about asking for financial clarity How emotional reactivity can sabotage financial decisions The pressure many women feel to hold on to the family home The myths and realities of “nesting” after divorce How to move from emotional reactivity to radical acceptance—and why it matters Virginia also shares her own story of navigating a high-conflict divorce, how that experience reshaped her career, and why she believes divorce can be a transformative experience—if you're willing to do the inner work. Divorce grief is real—and it’s not linear. Expect to cycle through denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally, acceptance (aka “DABDA”). High-conflict dynamics often carry over from the marriage into the divorce. Learning to disengage emotionally is essential. Financial empowerment starts with overcoming emotional roadblocks and becoming an active participant in your own decision-making. Letting go of control, identity, or even the family home can be one of the hardest—but most liberating—parts of healing. Radical acceptance doesn’t mean indifference. It means understanding what you can’t change and choosing how you’ll respond next. About Our Guest: Virginia is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in California, North Carolina, and Florida via telehealth. She specializes in helping people disengage from high-conflict exes and take their power back. She’s the author of Transcending High Conflict Divorce and leads therapeutic divorce groups for men and women navigating emotional entanglement and reactivity. Learn more: virginiagilbertmft.com At My Divorce Solution, we help clients move from emotional overwhelm to financial clarity. If you're navigating divorce grief, remember: your healing starts with knowing. And your financial empowerment begins with preparation. Explore the MDS Financial Portrait™, our verified divorce preparation tool, at MyDivorceSolution.com Key Takeaways: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re wrapping up Divorce Summer School with real-world examples from the divorce frontlines. In this episode, Karen and Catherine walk through true-to-life financial case studies to show how preparation, clarity, and the right support can completely transform the divorce experience. You’ll hear what went right, what went wrong, and what you can do differently—so you don’t become a cautionary tale. What You’ll Learn: Why “simple” divorces can still go financially off the rails The cost of emotional decision-making (and how to avoid it) Real examples of how the MDS Financial Portrait™ changes outcomes How one couple saved thousands by getting clarity before hiring professionals The questions that could have saved others months—and tens of thousands of dollars Send us your story or question: wechat@ck11.net. We may share lessons from it in a future episode. Get your Financial Portrait™ started at mydivorcesolution.com Join our community for tools, support, and real-life insights Thank you for joining us for Divorce Summer School! Catch up on all 6 episodes and begin your journey to financial clarity and smart decision-making in divorce. Free Resources: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week in Divorce Summer School, we’re breaking down a popular article: “7 Things to Do ASAP When Your Spouse Wants a Divorce” from MSN & Money Talks News—and giving you the MDS-approved version. Karen and Catherine go tip-by-tip to explain what advice holds up, what you should reconsider, and what most people get wrong when panic sets in. If you’re unsure how to respond when divorce is suddenly on the table, this episode will help you shift from reaction to strategy. Why hiring an attorney might not be your first step How to run a credit report (and why your score isn’t enough) What “entitled” really means in divorce—and why mindset matters How to protect your assets without escalating conflict Smart, emotionally aware ways to talk to your kids What financial clarity actually looks like (and why it changes everything) Start your financial assessment at mydivorcesolution.com Next Week on Divorce Summer School: “Real Life, Real Numbers – Unpacking Financial Case Studies in Divorce.” What You’ll Learn:Free Resources: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week in Divorce Summer School, we’re answering one of the most overwhelming questions in the divorce process: Who should I hire? Karen and Catherine break down the roles of attorneys, mediators, CDFAs, coaches, therapists, and more—so you can confidently build the right team for your needs (not someone else’s). You’ll also learn how financial preparation helps every professional on your team do their best work—and saves you from wasting time, money, and emotional energy. If you’re unsure where to start or afraid of making the wrong hire, this episode is your roadmap. The true role of an attorney—and when it’s too soon to hire one Why mediators aren’t financial advisors or decision-makers The essential difference between forensic accountants, CDFAs, and daily money managers How emotional overwhelm leads to costly professional hires Why preparation before professionals is the smartest path forward Start your financial assessment at mydivorcesolution.com Next Week on Divorce Summer School: “Real Life, Real Numbers – Unpacking Financial Case Studies in Divorce.” What You’ll Learn:Free Resources: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week in Divorce Summer School, we’re getting real about one of the most confusing—and expensive—parts of the divorce process: financial discovery. In this eye-opening episode, Karen and Catherine break down how the traditional legal discovery process can drain time, money, and energy—and how My Divorce Solution’s Financial Portrait™ helps you take control before things spiral. If you’ve ever asked, “Doesn’t my attorney already do this?”—this episode is for you. What financial discovery actually means in litigation or mediation Why most attorneys aren’t equipped to provide financial clarity How the MDS Financial Portrait™ saves you time, money, and stress Real case examples of overspending on legal fees vs. proactive prep Why informed clients make the best decisions (and spend less doing it!) Tools Mentioned: MDS Financial Portrait™ mydivorcesolution.com Attorney Prep Guide Document Checklist Divorce Summer School continues next week with Episode 4: “7 Smart Divorce Tips—What We Recommend (and What We Don’t).” What You’ll Learn: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Week 2 of Divorce Summer School, we’re bringing back one of our most talked-about episodes—an honest, eye-opening look at financial abandonment and what to do when you're cut off from money, access, or support during divorce. Karen and Catherine break down what financial abandonment actually looks like—not just from your spouse, but sometimes even from your own legal team. This episode is packed with tips to help you prepare, advocate for yourself, and stop feeling stuck, alone, or powerless when it comes to your finances. Whether you're just starting to think about divorce or already in it, this conversation is your reminder that you have more options—and more power—than you think. What You’ll Learn: What financial abandonment really means (it’s not just about money) How to advocate for yourself when your spouse—or your attorney—fails to Steps to take if your access to credit, cash, or documents is suddenly cut off How to avoid emotionally driven financial decisions Why preparation is your strongest form of protection Email us at wechat@ck11.net or leave a comment. Your question might be featured in a future Divorce Summer School episode. Start Your Free Financial Assessment: Take the first step toward regaining clarity, control, and confidence. https://mydivorcesolution.com/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We’re kicking off Divorce Summer School with one of our most powerful and timely past episodes—now more relevant than ever. This conversation with marriage and relationship exit strategist, Tonya Carter dives deep into the emotional side of divorce: how to stop second-guessing, start trusting yourself, and build the confidence to take control of your financial future. If you're stuck in fear or self-doubt, this episode is your permission slip to take the next step—even if you're not 100% ready. What self-trust really means in the context of divorce Why emotional and financial clarity are deeply connected How to reclaim your voice, your decisions, and your future How to prepare for divorce without fear—even when your spouse controls the finances Real, practical ways to rebuild your identity and financial confidence Where in your divorce journey are you still waiting for permission to act? What would change if you trusted yourself just 10% more? We’d love to hear from you. Email us your thoughts or questions at wechat@ck11.net  Or leave a comment wherever you're tuning in. We’d love to answer your question in a future Divorce Summer School episode! Start Your Financial Assessment Instagram: @IamTonyaCarter Website: www.TonyaCarter.com Podcast: Purposely Thriving Podcast What You’ll Learn:Listener Check-In:Resources:Connect with Tonya Carter: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Paying for college is stressful—add divorce to the mix, and it gets even more complicated. In this episode, Karen sits down with college planning expert Vicki Vollweiler to unpack what divorcing parents need to know about the FAFSA process, financial aid, and protecting both your future and your child’s dreams. Vicki brings her unique expertise at the intersection of personal finance, college planning, and post-divorce parenting to help families avoid costly mistakes and missed opportunities. Whether your child is 3 or 17, this is an essential listen for any parent going through divorce. What You’ll Learn: Why FAFSA rules have changed—and how they impact divorced parents Who should fill out FAFSA—and why it’s not always the custodial parent The financial impact of remarriage on aid eligibility Key differences between FAFSA and CSS Profile How and when to use 529 plans vs. loans Why college planning should start during divorce (not after) What to do if a parent refuses to participate in the aid process Why honors programs can be a hidden financial win How to negotiate for more aid and appeal award letters Key Takeaways: “Don’t put your head in the sand because you don’t want to deal with the money. With planning, families can save tens—and sometimes hundreds—of thousands of dollars.” Start thinking about college costs during your divorce—not after Include financial aid participation clauses in your divorce agreement Appeal and negotiate financial aid packages—you can ask for more Consider honors programs and in-state schools as cost-saving strategies Proactive planning saves the most money (and stress) Resources from Vicki Vollweiler: College Financial Prep – Free 15-minute consultations available Upcoming Book + Workbook for Divorced & Widowed Parents (stay tuned!) Online courses, workshops, and soon: a book club for parents navigating this journey Have Questions? Email us at wechat@ck.11.net or visit mydivorcesolution.com Remember: Knowledge is power—and you are stronger than you think. Like and subscribe to We Chat Divorce so you never miss an episode. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this eye-opening episode of We Chat Divorce, we welcome Kara Chrobak, a Colorado-based family law attorney who brings deep insight into high-net-worth divorce, complex asset division, and marital agreements. Kara recently launched her own practice—Bespoke Law LLC—after over 15 years in big law. What we talk about with Kara: Why mediation sometimes feels more like pressure than resolution—and how to shift that narrative How to approach settlement with a risk tolerance lens rather than fear Why documentation and financial clarity are non-negotiable before negotiating The nuances of gray divorce, including retirement planning, lifetime maintenance, and emotional shifts When and how to consider a postnuptial agreement—and the legal pitfalls to avoid The critical importance of aligned communication between attorneys and financial professionals How MDS clients enter legal conversations more prepared and empowered Kara also shares her thoughtful, compassionate approach to working with clients and why education is the antidote to anxiety in divorce. Whether you're divorcing at 35 or 65, this conversation offers clarity, wisdom, and real-world advice from professionals who believe in empowering you with knowledge. Connect with Kara Chrobak, Esq., Founder, Bespoke Law LLC, Colorado  bespokelawllc.com Next Steps: Take the Free Divorce Financial Assessment Share this episode with someone navigating a high-net-worth or gray divorce Follow us for more empowering conversations Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Should you take the lump sum or stick with monthly support payments? In this episode, Catherine and Karen unpack one of the most misunderstood yet consequential decisions in divorce: alimony buyouts. Together, they demystify how these lump sum payments are calculated, who truly benefits, and what hidden pitfalls can jeopardize your financial future. From passive income projections to payout timing and mortgage qualification hurdles—this deep dive explores the real-world scenarios and tough questions you must ask before signing your agreement. Lump Sum Alimony: Pros & cons for both payer and recipient Tax implications & investment risks Liquidity vs. long-term cash flow Calculating present value & discount rates Passive income assumptions—and why timing matters What if the payer can’t pay all at once? Tranches, step-down payments, and protective clauses Impact on mortgage eligibility The role of life insurance and estate protection Why enforceability & agreement language matter The crucial importance of stress-testing financial plans Listener Challenge: Are you considering a lump sum offer? Screenshot this episode and send it to a friend or family member who might be weighing the same decision. Share the clarity. 📲 Follow us for more financial clarity in divorce. New episodes drop weekly. #WeChatDivorce #DivorcePlanning #AlimonyBuyouts #DivorceStrategy #FinancialClarity #DivorceExplored Key Topics Covered: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another behind-the-scenes episode of Divorce Explored, your unfiltered look at what really happens inside My Divorce Solution. In this episode, Catherine and Karen tackle the five most common — and misunderstood — money questions they hear from individuals considering or starting the divorce process. If you’ve ever wondered: "Can you just take a quick look at our agreement?" "Doesn’t my attorney already do this?" "Will I still need a forensic accountant?" "Isn’t our estate simple?" "Will my attorney work with you?" ...this episode is for you. Our co-founders explain why financial clarity isn’t a luxury — it’s a necessity. Learn how lack of preparation leads to costly mistakes and emotional overwhelm, and why a proactive, data-driven approach saves you thousands while empowering you to make confident legal and financial decisions. "The Quick Look Myth": What sounds fair on paper rarely accounts for taxes, long-term consequences, or unforeseen life events. Legal ≠ Financial: Attorneys are not financial analysts. Without financial clarity, you’re navigating blind. Forensics Isn’t Always the Fix: Most clients don’t need one — they just need to be prepared. Simplicity Is Deceptive: Even “simple” cases often hide six-figure surprises. Collaboration with Attorneys: MDS works with — not against — your legal team, setting the foundation for informed negotiation. The Divorce Financial Portrait™: Your personalized roadmap to financial clarity during divorce. Begin your Free Assessment,Take the first step toward financial empowerment. If this episode opened your eyes or gave you clarity, do us (and future listeners) a favor — leave a quick rating or review. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss a weekly dose of divorce empowerment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering and heartfelt episode, Catherine and Karen sit down with Dr. Tara Egan, founder of Egan Counseling & Consulting, to discuss the emotional and practical realities of co-parenting through divorce—especially in high-conflict situations. With over two decades of experience and her own personal journey through divorce, Dr. Egan shares real-world strategies that prioritize peace, protect children, and reduce costly legal and emotional power struggles. Key Takeaways: Parent Coordination: Dr. Egan explains how a Parent Coordinator acts as a neutral party helping parents follow custody agreements and make day-to-day decisions without returning to court—saving time, money, and stress. Nesting Isn’t Forever: Nesting (kids stay in the home while parents rotate in/out) can be helpful short-term but rarely works long-term. Stability comes from clear routines and emotionally safe environments—not physical space alone. Kids Need One Healthy Parent: Divorce doesn’t "mess up" kids—how parents behave before, during, and after does. Kids thrive with at least one emotionally healthy parent showing up with consistency and compassion. Responding to Financial Blame: When children repeat financial accusations (“Mom took all the money”), avoid defensive responses. Instead, calmly reassure them with facts, warmth, and emotional safety. Set the Tone in Co-Parenting Conversations: Stay out of judgment. Acknowledge that families change and model positive, future-focused communication, even when your co-parent does not. Don’t Expect Your Ex to Suddenly Be Different: Your ex won’t magically become a more emotionally responsive or financially generous person post-divorce. Accepting that helps reduce your stress and disappointment. Resources Mentioned: Dr. Tara Egan's Website: www.egancounseling.com TikTok: @taraegan – Bite-sized advice for navigating co-parenting and high-conflict divorce. Subscribe to We Chat Divorce and explore more insights on financial clarity, parenting support, and emotional empowerment at mydivorcesolution.com/podcast. Listen Now: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering episode of We Chat Divorce, Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew unpack the viral “Let Them” theory popularized by Mel Robbins—and apply it to the high-stress, emotionally charged context of divorce. While “letting them” can sound passive, Catherine and Karen reveal how it’s actually a strategy grounded in smart decision-making and emotional control. Learn how to let go of reactionary behaviors, protect your finances, and focus on what truly matters for your future. Why reacting to your ex’s antics may cost you—emotionally and financially How “Let Them” becomes powerful when paired with financial clarity When to act, when to document, and when to simply pause Tools to track spending, identify emergencies, and stay grounded Why documentation is your best protection—not retaliation How the MDS Financial Portrait™ empowers you to respond with confidence Pause before reacting—use the “24-hour panic rule” Let your ex propose, spend, and posture—while you document Track joint spending, freeze credit lines if needed, and know your cash flow Use what you learn in the process to strengthen your negotiation power Don’t agree to anything—mediation or otherwise—without financial clarity Are you struggling to “let them”? Do you need support in creating financial guardrails during divorce? Leave a comment or question, and we’ll respond in a future episode.  Email us wechat@ck11.net  What You'll Learn:Practical Tips:Join the Conversation: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this insightful episode of We Chat Divorce, we sit down with New York matrimonial law expert Jacqueline Newman to uncover the real story behind cryptocurrency in divorce. From the early days of “Bitcoin parties” to high-stakes cases involving millions in crypto, Jacqueline shares her experience dealing with digital assets during complex marital dissolutions. Whether you're navigating a high-asset divorce or simply concerned your spouse might be hiding crypto, this episode breaks down what you need to know—and what your attorney should be asking for. What You’ll Learn: How digital assets like Bitcoin impact divorce settlements Why cryptocurrency still feels “mysterious” and how to demystify it Common mistakes when dealing with crypto during financial discovery When to consider dividing assets “in kind” instead of assigning a value The real cost of hiring forensic experts to uncover hidden crypto Tips to protect yourself from financial blind spots during divorce Key Takeaways from Jacqueline: Always trace the source: “Every crypto purchase comes from somewhere—start with the bank statements.” Consider dividing in-kind: This strategy helps both parties share in the gains (or losses) of volatile assets. Don’t fear the unknown: Crypto is just another asset—fear fades with financial literacy and the right support. Top 3 Documents to Request if You Suspect Hidden Crypto: Complete bank and brokerage account statements Sworn statements of net worth or financial affidavits All crypto wallet addresses and digital exchange records Learn more about Jacqueline’s work at: BerkBot.com https://nycdivorcelawyer.com/ Learn more at mydivorcesolution.com Subscribe to WeChat Divorce on your favorite podcast platform. Have questions or topic ideas? Email us at wechat@ck11.net  Navigating crypto, complex assets, or financial uncertainty in your divorce? Start with the MDS Financial Portrait™ – your personalized financial plan for divorce clarity.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices