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We Talk Back
We Talk Back
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Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ are helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men! "We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femininity to its ultimate greatness. We Talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics.
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In this episode of We Talk Back AJ & TamBam discuss the urgent need for support for communities in crisis, particularly in Jamaica. Also joining the episode is Michael Johnson, CEO of the Boys and Girls Club of Dane County, who shares his inspiring journey from adversity to leadership. The conversation covers the importance of community support, financial literacy, and the mindset needed for effective leadership. Michael emphasizes the role of empathy in leadership and the significance of building connections within the community. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage and support their local communities. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
AJ Holliday and Tam Bam dive into an eclectic mix of topics—from their weekend escapades to the growing influence of blockchain technology and artificial intelligence in modern society. They unpack Gucci Mane and Keyshia Ka’oir’s recent interview, exploring the emotional depth and mental health challenges that often accompany celebrity relationships. The conversation also takes a reflective turn as they discuss Nicki Minaj’s controversial remarks, examining the power of public influence in today’s digital landscape. To close, the hosts share eerie and captivating ghost stories, blending historical accounts with personal experiences that explore the unseen energies shaping our world. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into an honest and hilarious conversation about self-care, discipline, and the complexities of modern relationships. They share personal weekend stories, offer candid takes on hygiene and confidence, and critique the unrealistic standards of the modeling industry. The discussion expands into topics like emotional health, body image, and the ups and downs of dating in the digital age — including their experiences with dating apps. With humor and vulnerability, AJ and Tam highlight the importance of communication, self-worth, and self-awareness in relationships, closing with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories,” where they reflect on love, growth, and lessons learned the hard way. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by the ladies of Good Moms, Bad Choices - Erica for a candid and entertaining conversation. They kick things off by recapping their low-key weekends and sand Milah haring hilarious stories from their time in New York and Miami. The discussion shifts to the realities of apartment hunting, highlighting the struggles of finding the perfect place to call home. The hosts then tackle trending internet news, including Cam Newton’s controversial remarks about women’s sexual histories, sparking a broader dialogue on judgment, respect, and double standards in modern dating. The episode wraps with their signature “Dumb Bitch Stories” segment, where everyone reflects on personal lessons learned from love, relationships, and self-growth—with honesty, humor, and sisterhood at the core. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @goodmoms_badchoices @watcherica @milah_mappSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam share their weekend highlights before diving into trending celebrity news, including Diddy’s sentencing and Porsha Williams’ new relationship. The conversation takes a candid turn as they explore the complexities of intimacy and sexual satisfaction, questioning whether women still fake orgasms in 2025. With humor and honesty, the hosts discuss the differences in sexual expectations between men and women, emphasizing the importance of communication, vulnerability, and mutual pleasure in healthy relationsh Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam reflect on their uneventful weekends, their shared love of scary movies, and the recent passing of Assata Shakur, a pivotal figure in Black history. They critique the controversy surrounding a poorly received Tina Turner statue and highlight Young Thug’s surprise community service concert. The conversation dives deep into personal fears—ranging from homelessness and illness to struggles with self-image and parenthood—while examining how authenticity and self-acceptance play critical roles in today’s social media-driven world. AJ and Tam also discuss the nuance of dating, the importance of financial independence, and the courage to ask for help. The episode ultimately encourages listeners to confront their fears head-on as a pathway to personal growth, stronger relationships, and emotional freedom. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam get candid about their personal dating experiences before diving into the buzz around Cardi B’s new album and its impact on the music industry. They also unpack the ongoing debates about freedom of speech, spotlighting the controversy surrounding David Anthony Burke. They also embracing the fall season, from wellness practices and seasonal rituals to cozy home décor ideas. The episode concludes with a guided meditation designed to welcome autumn with clarity and intention. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
AJ Holiday and Tam Bam open up about personal grief and ongoing health challenges. The conversation explores the weight of political violence, systemic racism, and the pressures of Black excellence in today’s society. They also reflect on generational differences in work ethic, highlighting how cultural expectations around productivity often clash with the need for self-care and they also emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, prioritizing mental health, and redefining success on their own terms. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! This week, AJ and Tam Bam kick things off by sharing their weekend highlights, including AJ diving into a new reality series her friend is producing. In the S.I.N.S of the week, they break down the latest drama from The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Then, they take a nostalgic trip back to the ‘90s with a review of A Thin Line Between Love and Hate, unpacking the film’s portrayal of toxic relationships and the traits that fueled the chaos. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam celebrate the fifth anniversary of the Black Effect Podcast Network while diving into an honest conversation about love, dating, and self-discovery. They reflect on recent concert experiences and family visits, then shift into the realities of modern relationships—unpacking societal expectations, trust, and the challenges of commitment. The hosts explore the difference between loneliness and solitude, the power of communication, and the importance of choosing the right partner. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam unpack a mix of cultural and personal themes, weaving their weekend reflections into a deeper conversation about relationships, loyalty, and shifting values. They explore the public perception of marriage in light of Offset’s recent controversial comments, while also examining the concept of snitching within hip hop culture and the fading relevance of street credibility in today’s society. They highlight the importance of family, accountability, and moving away from destructive cycles toward building healthier, more positive community values. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into an engaging discussion on relationships, dating, and the societal pressures tied to beauty standards. They explore the emotional connections that sustain healthy relationships, the costs and commitments of self-care, and the fine line between self-love and self-sabotage. The conversation expands into consumer culture, financial awareness, and the ways social media continues to shape self-image. Blending humor, personal anecdotes, and listener stories, the hosts offer thoughtful reflections on how modern pressures influence love, identity, and self-worth. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this lively episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam share weekend updates before diving into cultural commentary on media figures like Amanda Seales and the intricacies of celebrity relationships, including Georgia Rain’s campaign for David Banner. The conversation spans judicial missteps in the courtroom, body image in the film industry, and the rituals of cuffing season. With humor and honesty, the duo unpacks the biological, cultural, and emotional layers of seasonal dating, from holiday pressures and winter blues to trial relationships and Valentine’s Day expectations. They also highlight the importance of companionship, self-awareness, and playfulness in navigating modern relationships. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into celebrity headlines, the influence of Black women on Black men, and the layered complexities of identity within the LGBTQ community. Special guest Philip Miller opens up about his experiences as a Black gay man, offering perspective on societal challenges, coming out, and navigating public perception. The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance, authenticity, and embracing one’s truth despite external pressures. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with special guest Chantelle Chevon for a powerful conversation on self-discovery. They explore the intersections of spirituality and sexuality, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the role of community in healing. The discussion highlights the importance of intuition, self-love, and accountability in love and intimacy, while unpacking cultural beliefs around growth, connection, and spiritual alignment. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @_asecretgarden_See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by guest Vanity Wear for a wide-ranging conversation that blends real talk with professional insight. They unpack the nuance of declining fertility rates, the 'Tea' app controversy, and the nuanced realities of modern dating. Vanity shares her experiences as a Black woman in tech, shedding light on burnout, code-switching, and the value of staying authentic in corporate spaces. They also explore the blurred lines between therapy and life coaching, how self-worth extends beyond job titles, and the subtle ways financial control shows up in relationships. With humor and depth, this episode offers a roadmap for navigating both career and connection with intention. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @adore_coachvanitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ and TamBam reflect on recent travels and the value of rest amid the pressures of American life. The conversation moves from the joys and risks of vacation to a heartfelt tribute to the late Malcolm-Jamal Warner. They explore modern masculinity, highlighting how environmental and emotional stressors affect men’s health and behavior. The hosts emphasize the importance of vulnerability, accountability, and emotional intelligence in both friendships and romantic relationships. Through candid dialogue, they advocate for therapy, intentional communication, and the power of expressing love as tools for healing and connection. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the meaning of the "soft life" for Black women, exploring how it intersects with cultural narratives, gender roles, and personal well-being. They examine the origins of the trend, the weight of the “strong Black woman” archetype, and how social media has reshaped perceptions of ease, luxury, and femininity. The conversation also dives into relationship dynamics, the economics of independence, and the importance of self-care and mental health. Throughout, the hosts emphasize that softness isn’t defined by material comfort—but by a mindset rooted in peace, boundaries, and intentional living. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into everything from their weekend recaps to the messy realities of modern relationships. They unpack Diddy’s latest legal troubles and the ripple effects of abuse and scamming within the community. The conversation takes an unfiltered turn into the idea of “dixcipline”—the practice of sexual discipline—and why it matters. Exploring the push and pull between masculinity and femininity, the hosts reflect on the state of the Black community and the power of self-awareness. With their signature humor and honesty, they wrap up with a reminder to stay mindful, stay disciplined, and make choices that align with self-respect. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this week's episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the latest SINS—from David Banner’s viral take on cheating and accountability to Cardi B’s album announcement and Offset’s unexpected celebrity crush on Sabrina Carpenter. Later, they’re joined by Emmy-nominated journalist Simone Boyce for an insightful conversation on authenticity, representation, and resilience in media. Simone reflects on her journey as a biracial journalist, the challenges of freelance reporting, and the evolving influence of social media and AI in shaping public narratives. With humor and honesty, the discussion explores what it takes to navigate the industry with integrity—ending with a rapid-fire round that puts a modern spin on the state of journalism today. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @simoneboyceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.





The baby lol that’s who is taking
so entertaining & I love you're in the QC!