What’s My Superpower?

WMS 9 - Listening? Is that really a SuperPower?You were born with a superpower to make a contribution 😲The problem is that most of us do not have a clue what our Superpower is and how to find it 🤔👀If you have ever felt, however fleetingly, that you are meant for more than just this, more than what you are now, more than something so undefinable  then you, my friend, are like me and so many others.You know there is something you have to do 🧐You know there is more ✅You know you have something to give 💚But what is that missing thing?I can tell you what it is…We are looking for your SuperPower! 💥🚀Your SuperPower is the piece in the jigsaw that will complete the picture and using your Superpower means you can contribute to the worldYour SuperPower is where you feel worthy, you feel happy, you feel joyous, you feel fulfilled......you feel SUPER! 😍Hey there, everyone. Welcome to the what's my super power podcast with me, your host and part-time superhero, Nigel T Best. Okay. Sometimes you can feel like you're talking to nobody and it may well be that this podcast is listened to by nobody, but. My further and passionate hope is that at least one person will hear it.[00:00:22] And one person will reveal their super power to themselves, to the world because we need superheroes at a time like this.[00:01:01] All right. Welcome to the show, everybody. If this is the first time I've listening. Hello, welcome. Thank you. You are a bouncer. Be revealed as a superhero, and you're probably thinking who is this crazy guy? And the weird thing is, uh, the last thing I probably am is he's crazy. But that's probably the craziest thing about it because nobody is not crazy in this world.[00:01:26] We're all a little bit mad, but we all have hidden within us a super power. I absolutely 100% believe it. And I, my job here on the podcast is to help you, as he stands up, pulls open his hoodie to reveal. There you go. That was good for the YouTube. Maybe not for the podcast, but a t-shirt with a big ass for superhero on it.[00:01:55] Because look around us, look around us at the moment. What have we had? We've had the crazy time of the U S election and the uncertainty and how people there. Uh, revealing their super power and also perhaps their super villainy. Um, but also a lot of people standing around saying, Hey, look, we need help. We need help in this country, in the world, around the world, there are people crying out saying we need help.[00:02:21] We need help. And who steps up in the movies when people are crying out for help? You got it. It's superheroes, my friends. Hey, it's superheroes. So looking for people with super powers, people to stand up and say, Hey, I am gonna make a difference. Now in some of the other podcasts episodes, have a listen back.[00:02:45] You'll find out that I'm not talking about laser beam eyes or being Bulletproof or the ability to fly or any of those super superpowers. No, no, no, no. Now we're talking about real superpowers and this is the super power that has the ability to transform somebody's life. Some thing that is within you, that you can bring out and share that can make a difference.[00:03:11] To this world and a difference to the people in the world for the better, for the good of everybody. This is how you contribute. And if you've ever sort of woken up or you've been sat there and you just daydream for a moment and we all do it, how you all sort of sit there and when we're comfortable and relaxed and your mind drifts off, and you just let your mind wander and you sort of, every soften, you might just have that feeling of.[00:03:40] Work, what is it that I'm meant to do? What is it that I'm here to do? Because it feels like there should be something more than this. And if you've ever had that feeling, if you sort of doubt yourself and you think, God, do you know, what am I, am I just taking up space? That would be better used by somebody else?[00:04:00] Or, you know, should I just get out of here, you know, is, is my life a waste you need to sort of just. Pause a second and go, no, no life is ever a waste. It just so happens that you haven't revealed your super power yet. And when you reveal your super power, my friend, you are absolutely in the right place at the right time.[00:04:28] Because we need you. And it's those moments where we just relax and I know all this, all the people that talk about yoga, meditation and the mindfulness and the mindset, and they say, sometimes you just got to just relax, just relax, let your mind wander, let your mind sort of ideas. Come in, go out, just observe these ideas.[00:04:49] And if you're ever getting those doubtful ones, if you're ever getting the ones. Well, you hear there's a voice inside your head and we've all got that voice. And that voice at this very moment in time is saying for goodness sake, nudge, don't tell people they've got a voice in their head, but I am. I'm saying, I'm saying, thank you very much.[00:05:06] Yeah. Voice in my head. Thanks for that. But I'm going to say it anyway. We've got a voice in our head and in those quiet moments, sometimes that voice can get a bit shouty. That voice can get a bit dominant. That voice can take over that voice can kind of give you instructions. That voice can give you opinions of you.[00:05:23] That aren't true in any way, shape or form. And we've got to think to ourselves in those moments, you know, when people meditate and they do the yoga and they just let their mind open up and they try and quiet and not voice, I'd say don't, you know, don't worry about that voice being loud or whatever, just acknowledge that that voice is there in your head.[00:05:45] And I've got a really good friend, a couple of friends and they call it the script. So the script is screaming cause it's, it's reading from a script. Um, but this voice in your head is telling you, you know, good, you know, Goodyear, a waste of space. Oh, that always happens to you. You're totally useless. You can't do that.[00:06:05] You know, nobody wants to hear your superpower. You don't have a superpower though. It's so ridiculous. You're you're just a normal person. In fact, you're useless. You're not even a normal person. You're, subnormal, you're abnormal. Um, there's nothing that you could contribute to someone just kind of nod and just go, yeah, thanks for that voice in my head.[00:06:26] Thanks for that. But do you know what? You can go do one because I think half got something. I just need to work out what it is before I reveal it to myself, to my friends, to my family, to the world, because who knows. Who has the greatest superpower until they actually reveal it. Nobody knows. Do they. And the problem that we face at the moment is look, there are so many people out there in the world at the moment they need help.[00:06:57] And I'm just recording this before I disappear off. Uh, I'd like to say, uh, I put my Cape on and fly as I go give some help, but now I don't, I get in the car, I'm going to drive, but, um, I'm going to help someone out who's he's in a, he's in a tight spot at the moment and they just need some help. And I always like to think that, um, you know, a super power can be as simple hours, if you are able to.[00:07:27] Then you should, and it could be something as easy as out, so I'm able to give some help. So I think therefore I should, and some people might go well that isn't, that's a pretty crappy superpower. So we'll, hold on. Hold on. A superpower is to the person who receives that help. It could be exactly that we may dismiss it as being something and nothing and other people may turn a nose or petite and they may look down there, look down their nose at you, uh, and just go, that's no superpower, but hold on, hold on.[00:08:08] The person who receives your assistance, your support, your help, your care, your whatever it is. Your time, your love, your energy, whatever it is. Does that person think that you're in that situation? A superhero damn right. The tail. Yeah. Hey, and here's the best thing about the whole thing when people say, well, why would you do that for nothing?[00:08:34] What what's in it for you? So I'll tell you what, if you have ever helped someone and we all have. If you have ever helped someone, the feeling you get from doing something good and helping someone, I think that's, I think that's amazing. I think that is absolutely amazing. And that is to many. I'm going to get to come back to this to many it's seen as not a super power, but to a few.[00:09:04] It is definitely seen as a superpower. Now, why is that important? Because. Whose opinion to we take into account when we decide whether we're going to do anything, whether we decide whether we're good at something, whether we, when we decide whether we're going to help or anything like that, we often take the opinion of the majority or the big, what we think is the majority.[00:09:28] We take the opinion of what we think, you know, The world is going to say the world everyone's watching what you do with the whole world. I mean, first of all, if that's not happening, the whole world doesn't watch anyone, but we mentally, the voice in our head says, do you know what you, Bob, and again, in your car going down there and helping us know superpower, that's not really helping, is it?[00:09:51] And a lot of people say you're an idiot. You know what? You're wasting your time doing that for, you're not really helping. Are you. And this is what stopping as revealing our superpower. We believe what the voice in our head says about the weight of opinion, what everyone else is thinking all the whole, you know, all these people are thinking, Oh, you're, you're an idiot.[00:10:13] You know, you're not really helping you not doing this. You're not doing that. You know that that's not super bad and all the rest of them, we take the opinion and we go, okay, okay. We shrink back. We shrink back from. Being the super hot revealing that superpower being t

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All that crap has happened that day. Suddenly briefly for that moment completely forgotten. It doesn't matter because that person suddenly goes, Hey, there is someone in the world who appreciates me, gets me. Who's grateful for me. And that is a wonderful feeling. And that gift of giving that to somebody is a super power.My friends.No sometimes when you're just driving along and a thought or something, some idea comes into your head. That's what happened to me yesterday. And that's where this episode comes from, recorded in my car. So please excuse the audio quality at times. But I just had to say it because it came over me like a wave and I had to record it.I had to get this message out there that everyone has a super power. And here's one I can give to you right now. Right now you can use it today. So have a listen. And let me know how you get on with it. I think it's just a wonderful superpower and I'd urge you all to use it today. That is to actually say to someone to mean it, give them a big panky because in this life, all people want is to be recognized as having helped or being a good person or being a great friend or a wonderful.Family members, son, father, mother, adults, or whatever it takes. Just say it. Now, the very fact that you give that, and you say that in my mind makes you soup era. Cause nobody says it, I'm guilty of it. I say it. but what you find when you give a message like that, Do you see the reaction on someone?The reaction on someone is incredible. they are absolutely bowled over touched, uplifted, inspired, motivated, grateful, thankful, all those words. That's what happened. And when you see that in someone else, do you know what that gift you just gave them? Are those feelings. They come straight back to you because you see the joy is brought up person.And when you do it, Something like that. When you give someone thing like that, I think it comes straight by, it's almost like a boomerang gift. Come straight back to you and makes you feel better when you see how that makes someone else feel that comes right back to you. And that my friend is a superpower.So if you say what's my super power , I don't have one, but I'm telling you right now, you can do that today. Maybe do it in a, in a letter. Hang dry. Alexa, when was the last time you hand wrote a letter hundre elated to someone it could be for years ago and you could write to them and say, do you know what I'm thinking back to when you gave me that talk or you did this, or you helped me out with a situation.And I just want to say, I really appreciate it. And I appreciate it now more than I ever realized. And it dawned on me how much it, it helped me. And I just wanted to write to you and say, thank you that. Is a super power because the effect on that person, you don't know, they could have been having this kitty is dying.However, they could have been in the depths of dispatch. They could, you know, everything could have gone wrong. They woke up in the morning and they spill their coffee. They then stop that toast. They left the house, the car broke down. It had a flat tire when they got to where they were going, the meeting was canceled and they did, and they had to leave the kids and they couldn't go to the kid's thing.And there was, you know, a kid's thing where they had to pick them up and they were late and they couldn't do it. And, and, and then they went to a sales meeting and the person said, nevermind, but we're not buying anything more. In fact, nevermind buy more. We're not going to buy anything else again, and we're canceling their account, you know, and then you get back and your boss says, you know, you've had a terrible time.and we've noticed that. And so we're actually going to have to let you go, you know, and you can you imagine if you were that person and you get home and it's just been absolutely totally terrible from morning, right through tonight. And. They get there and there's some posts and they open the post.And it's a letter from you saying thank you. Do you know what crap nurses happened that day is suddenly briefly for that moment? Completely forgotten. It doesn't matter because that person suddenly goes, Hey, there is someone. In the world who appreciates me, who gets me, who is grateful for me. And that is a wonderful feeling.And that gift of giving that to somebody is a superpower. My friends, it is a superpower. So if you're ever say what's my super power, I don't know. I don't have one. There's one that you can, I'll give you that one right now. I'll give you that. I'm going to grunt you a superpower. I hereby give you a superpower.And that superpower is the ability to say something wonderful to somebody totally out of the blue, unexpected. They didn't realize they haven't thought of it like that. The help they gave you the name, maybe we didn't think two things of it, but the difference it made to you was, was transformational. It was transformative.It was incredibly powerful for you. And you just want to acknowledge that and say, Hey, you know what, that's helped me more than I ever realized. And it's about time, I think too. So there's just a little, thank you. Note a little letter. To say, thank you for that. And that my friends, you, you, you've got the power to do that.You've got the ability to do that right now. So what's my super power. My super power is I give one of these and I know some people call them random acts of kindness. I think I call them delayed acts of gratitude. So Daggett is called a dag. Have you have you dag view, have you. Done a dag  delayed act of gratitude.Get out there and do today and see what effect it has. And who knows if we do enough time and spread this around the world, I wonder how long it will be before you receive one. You get one that says, Hey, do you know what. That little tip that top tip that you gave me about. When I doubted that I had any superpowers at all, when I thought I was pretty worthless, when I thought that, you know, there was no way I would ever have a superpower when I thought that there was nothing there, that little notes, if that came through my letterbox, that told me, Hey, thank you.You made a difference. That not only made my day ate my week. It made my year. It made me just. Think, Hey, there is a point to all this. There is something good. There are people out there I do make a difference. And who knows that person may then go on and do it multiple times. You might go out and do it multiple times.You might spread, spread it even further. You might give a delayed act of gratitude somewhere else, someone, you know, totally unexpected and all these things. Could you imagine if we start spreading this around the world and we all say, Hey, Hey, Hey, we've all got this power. We've all got this power. And it is a super power because the effect on someone, my definition of a superpower is it doesn't matter what it means to you is the effect on someone else.And if the effect on someone else is incredible, is that transformative transformational effect on someone, then dance is not just a power. It's a super power folks. And that is what you can do today. So stop this podcast right now. Get your pen and paper out, have a thing who could it be, could be an email.It could be a text. It could be a recorded message. It could be a video message who knows it could be on the phone. It could be who knows if you're allowed to do it face to face, whatever it takes, however it takes to do it. It could be a teacher from 40 years ago, you know, that's still around to say, Hey, do you know about some of the things you taught me?I never realized how important they were and I realized why you taught them to me. Thank you. Just get out there and do it, do it today. Transform somebody. Yay. Somebody weak, somebody here make them feel uplifted, inspired. You'll feel better. They'll feel better home. I word that my friends is a super power till next time.Be SUPER! 

Ladies and gentlemen in today's show, I am coming for you.[00:00:37] Welcome. Welcome. Welcome to the what's my super power podcast. And today this is your host Nigel. So you best, and I am coming for you. If you are thinking, what are you talking about an age? How do you mean you come in for me? I am coming for you because you have a super power and. I want to reveal it because look at us, look around the world at the moment.[00:01:00] What do you see? You see, you see macroeconomic failure. You see the pandemic, you see Corona, you see negativity all around the world. And we all know someone who's been affected. Someone who is feeling down, someone who is going through tough times at the moment. And that is why I am coming for you. The state of the world is crying out, crying out for people with super powers.[00:01:31] Now I, um, a part time superhero. Um, can you, I don't know, I'm going to show on the podcast here. I'll stand up. Show him a tissue.[00:01:44] Okay. So if you're listening on the podcast, it's got true hero and there's a picture of Superman on it because. We've all got that moment where we want to read the shirts off and reveal your superhero outfit. Why? Because the world needs you. Why? Because your friends need you. Why? Because people strangers need you.[00:02:05] Why is that? Because everybody needs somebody. There's a song in there somewhere, but we do, we need to share. And the biggest problem that we face at the moment is that we have a world full of superheroes, but those superheroes. Doubt themselves. They doubt themselves and they underplay what their super power is.[00:02:29] Now in previous episodes, we said, look a super power. It doesn't mean that you can fly faster than a speeding bullet or. Going to space or be able to stretch into infinite shapes or run as fast as a speeding train or anything like that. No, your super power is the ability to contribute to the world and contribute to the world in a way, which is personal to you, which is you speaking your voice.[00:02:57] It is you, your emotions, your heart laying out to the world because the world needs you. We all need you. And for a long time, you may well have been thinking to yourself. There's got to be something more. I've got to be worried, something more to this world. Uh, I've got to be able to do something for this world.[00:03:22] Do you feel that there's something missing, you know, piece in the jigsaw is just missing from the complete picture? Well, my friends dance is your super power and the podcast, the pure aim of the podcast is for you too. Be able to have the strength and the ability to reach down the back of the sofa and find that missing piece of the jigsaw.[00:03:44] Find out what your superpower is and let the world enjoy your super power. The state of the world. I don't know about you, but watching TV and watching the news is not good for you. It's not good for you. Um, it really fills you with negativity, you know, is fake news. Is it real news? What's happening?[00:04:06] People doubting things that are happening right in front of their eyes. People have with conspiracy theories, people with all sorts of theories, negative negativity here, we've got policemen, shooting people. We've got people shooting policemen. Caught the world seemingly in absolute turmoil. And it's at times like this one, it's a movie that up steps the superhero, and that's why I'm coming for you because you could well be the superhero the world needs and the world doesn't mean all 7 billion people.[00:04:41] I want you to imagine this. Imagine you. We're just next to a pond. It was quite a big pond. And you notice on the ground that there are some stones and you pick one up. It's a beautiful, shiny, smooth, great to touch pebble. And if you were to just look into the middle of the pond and throw that pebble in.[00:05:08] And you could see arc through the sky and as it began to come down, you realize it was going to land right in the middle of that pond. And when it did made a splash and as the splash subsides, you see the ripples and you see the ripples moving out. To the edge of the pond everywhere. All the edges are touched by that ripple.[00:05:33] And that ripple has an effect on the edge of the pond. Well, if you could imagine your superpower is the pebble and you are the ability to throw that into the pond and the pond or the people around you. And the ability for that pebble to make an effect, to have a rip pull effects on everyone, around you.[00:05:55] That could be quite profound, but even if you can't say, use your superpower to contribute to and affect 10 million people at once, maybe your audience isn't that big. Maybe it's just one person, one person you help. But that person passes on your superpower to the next person. And that person has a reach of 10 million.[00:06:23] You may think you've only affected one person, but the ripples have gone beyond that one person and maybe hit the 10 million out there, or maybe it's a hundred. And then of those a hundred, maybe they get 10 more people. And each of them gets 10 more people and the numbers scale up. So this is how you can contribute.[00:06:44] This is how you can use your superpower. And this is why I am coming for you. You cannot, huh? You'll super power folks. No more. No more, you've got to use it. We need to look at the world at the moment. You know, we've got people living in fear in fear in the 21st century, we've got people, absolute fear, fear of climate change, fear of brutality, fear of war, fear of hunger, fear of thirst.[00:07:18] We've got to do things about this. What's your super power. How can you help that? How can you help those situations? This is why I'm coming for you. If you've got the solution to plastic waste, if you've got the solution to energy needs, if you've got the solution to clean water, if you've got the solution to food distribution, without destroying the planet to create more food, if you've got the ability to come up with an idea that might just.[00:07:44] Work in your small pond, but because it does that in your small pond, someone takes the idea and puts it into a larger pond and a larger pond. That is the ripple effect manifesting itself in the world. And that's why I'm coming for you. Because somewhere in there you have that super power, that ability to help those people who are living in fear, nobody should live in fear.[00:08:12] Nobody and I'm going to have, as I just ponder that and just the awfulness of somebody living in fear. I'm just going to just pause for a moment and just have a quick drink.[00:08:32] What did you think? Living in fear? Not good. Isn't it? I don't know if you managed to reflect on that and thinking, right. Okay. If there's someone I can help, if there's someone that's hungry, look at markets, Rushford a football, a young guy, you know, he's taken it upon his shoulders. He's trying to make his way as a footballer.[00:08:48] Okay. Some people may say, Oh, football is, they have it easy. Kevin. He clearly didn't as a kid and he is got to where he is. He's revealed the super power and he's super power. Isn't football. He's super power is his voice. His super power is the ability for him to say, Hey. I've got a platform and I've got to use our platform and I'm going to raise it on an issue.[00:09:12] What's the best thing you can talk about. Your super power is something, you know, and that's why I'm coming for you because you know, something that the rest of the world may not, and, you know, you can empathize sympathize or just convey how that feels for people. And you have the ability and. I'd say you have the whole obligation to help Marcus Rashford.[00:09:38] Wow. He is doing it for kids who, who was struggling in food poverty in the 21st century. And we've got places where kids can't get enough food. They do not get a decent meal and he is standing up and he's saying, Hey. Not good enough. I've been through it. I've been through it with, you know, I saw him the other day.[00:09:57] He was talking about it, mom and his mom had to make difficult choices and it was difficult choices of food on the table or paying other bills. What do you do when you've got kids? You look at those kids and you think I've got to look after those kids and you do everything you can. Difficult situations, people living in fear.[00:10:13] That's why I am coming for you today because I need you to realize you have something and that super power could be one hour a week to volunteer one hour a week to go out and do something and make a difference. It could be that you are, are amazing on social media and you could be passing on messages.[00:10:39] You could be taking issues and bringing them to the forefront for people. You could be sharing that with people and saying, Hey, we need to do it. Now. You've got to remember, you got to remember your positive impact. He's going to be hit on all sides all times from every direction, all the time by negativity.[00:11:01] There's going to be people say, what's it got to do with you. You should keep your mouth shut. You should stop doing this. You should get rid of that. But what is it like? It's like bullets on Superman. Let them bounce off. Let them, you know, just sticky chest out and go. No, no, no, no, no, no. You can fire all those negativity bullets at me and they are not going to make a difference.[00:11:24] Because I know my superpower will repel that negativity I'm going positive. I am pulling this in and holding it tight and making it strong because I have got to give it out there. That's why I'm coming for you today. That's why I'm coming for you. You've got something. Is it an hour, an hour, a week? Is it an idea?[00:11:47] Is it a way of changing what we do at the moment? Is it a way of perceiving something? Is it a way of whatever it is? Look around you. Look at the examples. Look at the inspiration, this inspirational people out there all the time. Do we see them o

WMS World Mental Health Day and 800,000 deaths - WHAT?!I was shocked and never were SuperHeroes needed more than now.WMS 6 World Mental Health Day and 800,000 suicides a yearToday is a very important day . The first one of these it's so important because it is world mental health day. And, you know, with my podcast, what's my super power. I wanted to come today, on the world, mental health day and just try and kind of like a better sense of this crazy thing, because.[00:00:22] Everybody needs to reveal their super power at some point. And today it's as good a day as any to get your super power out, dust it off. If you didn't know you had one it's time to discover it is time to get out there because the world needs us. The will need superheroes. I'm a part time superhero. But if you're thinking, what on earth is he doing?[00:00:43] Because this is going out on, what else? the business profit clubs. So I'm involved in that. it's a business helping people. my what's my superpower YouTube channel and hopefully Facebook, being true. If it works, I've got a YouTube notification. somebody about concrete counter tops, don't know where that's come from.[00:01:01]but there we go. my site, Nigel T best and the best business show as well, because obviously with the name, like best, you've got to make sure you live up to your name. Haven't you? Absolutely. So, should we get going?[00:01:45] All right. So this morning, I didn't know. It was world mental health day to day. I didn't know it, but I've just been watching the breakfast news. And if you are a fan of a VICIS music, you will know that suddenly turn off years ago, he passed away and his father class class burgling. So Timberg link was a Veatch's real name.[00:02:06] His father class was on there talking about what, you know, in the age of coronavirus and the age of pandemics suicide is definitely right up there with it. You know, there's 800,000 people, eight years. Yeah, I think that's it. I think that it's not for me. I'm getting outta here for whatever reason. That figure alone just staggered me.[00:02:33] And it just made me think, you know, we, we need super powers more than ever. I'd like to class myself as a part time, stupid hero. Sometimes, the voice inside my head says, don't be so ridiculous and it puts me down and it, it makes me shut up and it makes me think, you know, what are you doing? so, you have to fight that in a demon, don't you, but what I think.[00:02:59] We all have in this life is a choice. We all have a choice, but I was just, before we get onto how you get it about choosing, I was just thinking, this is, this is absolutely staggering, 800,000 people. I mean, the world has gone into virtual law and we have lost a million people through that, but each and every year, we're losing very similar numbers for.[00:03:26] You know, I don't know many reasons, there will be many, many, many reasons. And with that sort of number, that means that an awful lot of people have been affected by this, not just the people who decided that that's what they want to do, but everyone else is left behind. It is it's crazy folks. Hey, we got to do something about this.[00:03:47] Don't we, we have to do something about this and listening to him, talk on the interview about it. You know, it's, it's incredible. And those reasons, you know, the question is always, do you know why, you know, looking back, can you see signs? And I don't think he kind of said, you know, I don't think we ever ever know why what's going on in here for a lot of people.[00:04:12] We just, sometimes don't even you, people you live with, you know, for so long, you know, do you really know what's going on in their head? Do you know what. Sometimes I'm not even sure what goes on in my head. All I know is that I have got voices in my head that tell me on occasion, you're not good enough, you know, worth anything, you know, what's the point.[00:04:40] And then I've got another voice in that that says. Do you know what today's going to be an amazing day, an amazing day, and you're going to help people out and you're going to somehow do something that ripple effect, you know, where you get a pebble and you drop, you drop a stone in a pond and the ripples go out.[00:04:57] And those ripples of greatness, you know, and help and support and love go out and ripple out across the pond. And I'm thinking they're the days that I want. One of the things I help, you know, and it was told to me, By a guy called an IO. I say, name wrong, Alan Clemens, Glen hands, Glen hands, South African guy.[00:05:19] And he just, he gave a talk that just, it was just a local tour. There's only about 30 of us there and he just talked through it and he said, one of the first things you should do in a morning, you start off in the right way. So this morning I did it as I've done pretty much. Yeah. Every morning ever since I heard him talk about that, which is probably about four or five years ago.[00:05:38] And I wake up. And I say either in my head or out loud, say it out loud. If you're the first one away, can you Marriott or whatever, you know, for a fact of the person alongside you still asleep, they're going to go, Oh, will you shut up? So sometimes it just goes on in my head, but I stay to myself. Good morning.[00:05:59] Good morning. Good morning. Today is, you know, Do you know, when you put yourself on the spot or do I say, I say, good morning. Good morning. Good morning today,[00:06:15] Tina, I've had a mental block. Today is a beautiful day. No good morning. Well, you can tell this life. Good morning. Nice.[00:06:32] I'll come back to it, but when do you get into a habit? And if you're in a certain situation, you remember it like that. And if you put yourself in a different situation, your mind goes blank. All right. At this point, People are going to be thinking all right, best day. I think you are losing it matey, and you need to get a checkup from the neck up yet, maybe.[00:06:54] Hey B. And that voice of ad is saying what a clown you've even put this on film on film. You've even put this up. Yeah. The fact that you can't remember. Oh, I love my life. And today is my favorite day. I am truly blessed. There you go. Good morning. Good morning. I love my life. And today's my favorite day. I am true.[00:07:16] Blessed. Now, what does that do? Well, I'll tell you what, when you say that to yourself, you start the day. Today's my favorite day. You know, you already think, you know, you're lucky. You're very fortunate. You're grateful for everything. You go to the bathroom, you turn on and you've got hot water. You can have a shower, you can have a drink or clean water.[00:07:36] There's so much to be grateful about. What do I start the day? But. You know, that's, that's how I started my day. And you think to yourself, that is obviously not how an awful lot of people start their day, but on the what's my superpower. Is that just me sharing that, just start with a positive statement.[00:07:57] My, that make someone's, you know, could that be a pebble in a pond that helps other people? I hope so because Alan said it. To the group, you know, when he was giving this talk and it wasn't quite what he said, but I took it and I kind of adapted it and wrote my own, or I came a little bit of my own. and that has made a difference.[00:08:17] It has made a difference. I'll tell you how it manifests itself as making a difference. I get out of bed, you know, quicker, you know, but it goes the diva and I'm out now sometimes if I've played five or so football the night before. my legs feel like they're now made of timber, you know, a couple of bits of forbear to wood.[00:08:38]I don't get out. It's great. But you know, you say you pull out the DV, you're out. You're up and you're yeah. Come on. Today's my favorite day. There's no, you know, everything's going my way and it's just that I choose to say it. Cause how many people when they wake up, get on a Oh no, no, no, no. It's morning again.[00:09:02] I've got to get up on, I've got all these problems to face and I've got this and I've got that and no, no, no. Look at it. Look at it. This is terrible leaks in the roof. I've got no water. I've got no electricity. How am I going to pay the bills? Okay. I'm very lucky that at the moment I have a roof, I can pay my bills, but how many of us are in the same position where we have a roof over our heads?[00:09:27] We got food in the fridge. We've got running water. We can pay the bills. But we still get up thinking, Oh wow, that's it. I'm not looking forward. Not looking forward to today. How can you not look forward to a day? Because that day holds a wealth of possibilities, a chance to just improve a bit, a chance to help someone else, a chance to reveal your super power to the world, a chance to get out there and make a difference.[00:09:56] Folks. We have a way. We can start the day in a positive frame of mind or a negative frame of mind. I say to you on this particular episode of, of, of going live, what's my super patch. Choose, choose to make a difference to your day by starting off in a really positive way. Yeah. All right. The first thing.[00:10:21] So I'm listening to the interview from the beaches, dad. And he's talking about it and that it's, it must be the age old question, you know, did you recognize any signs in your son that said that he was going to take such a drastic step commit suicide? And his father kind of said no. And I guess you just never know why people feel they have to take that step and the reasons that they do that.[00:10:50] Can we ever know? No, I don't think we can. and a lot of people when they, I think when they do studies on this and they, and they ask friends, families loved ones. Did you expect this? Did you expect it to happen? The answer comes back. No. And it's only sometimes, on reflection when people find out more about it, that you spot signs retrospectively that you think maybe it was that, but ho

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