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What They Never Told Us

What They Never Told Us
Author: Russell IV & Brandi
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Each week Russell IV and Brandi tackle conversations about love, marriage, divorce, family and everything in between. The two reunited high school sweethearts discuss personal stories, differing opinions, and all the things they wish they knew before saying "I do" the first time around. Join these two every week as they have tons of fun unpacking - What They Never Told Us!
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Send us a text Intimacy dwindling? Lacking spontaneity? This episode is for you! In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss how they maintain their spark and connection outside the bedroom. They dive into what it means for them to "stay curious", how seeing each other thrive in business/ministry fuels their spark, and how frequency does not necessarily reflect quality and so much more. Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our new...
Send us a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers. The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertoldus...
Send us a text In this episode, we bring back a fan favorite: Ask R&B! We're answering your real relationship questions - from FaceTime etiquette and "bro code" to fizzling romance and the decision to stay or go. Whether you're single, married, in a situationship, or somewhere in between - this one's for you. No sugarcoating. Just real talk, real laughs, and honest advice from two people who've seen the highs, the lows, and all the mess in the middle. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro + Netflix et...
Send us a text In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we're sharing the most personal parts of our journey - from first love to second chances, and the hard conversations in between. We open with a real, vulnerable moment: Russell wants another baby, but Brandi isn't open to trying again. Her painful history with miscarriages and the emotional toll that come with pregnancy loss makes trying again a hard no! We also walk through our full love story - how we met in middle school, fell in...
Send us a text Dating after divorce is already complicated - now add baby mamas (and daddies), blended families, and red flags you wish you would've caught the first time around. In this episode of What They Never Told Us, we're talking all things post-divorce dating and we got the gang with us! - How do you deal with someone who has kids and a co-parenting situation? - Red flags when dating and how to deal with them if they come up in your relationship - Which red flags are we ignoring...
Send us a text In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss the ups and downs of dating while divorced. They delve into the challenges and the benefits, and how their experiences shaped their current relationship. Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertoldu...
Send us a text In this week's episode, Russell and Brandi discuss a topic that has weaved it's way into almost every episode this season...Cheating! This is one you don't wan to miss. And did we mention, there might be a confession in here too! Check us out! Don't forget to join us live on Facebook on Thursday at 8:30pm EST upport the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com...
Send us a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers. The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertoldus...
Send us a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers. The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertoldus...
Send us a text In this deeply candid episode of 'What They Never Told Us,' we dive into the nuanced world of apologies and forgiveness. Join us as we unpack our own experiences around saying 'I'm sorry,' exploring different apology languages, and the essential role of forgiveness in relationships. Whether it's dealing with day-to-day marital conflicts, navigating co-parenting hurdles, or healing from past traumas, this episode is a heartfelt discussion on the importance of accountability and...
Send us a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers. The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertoldus...
Send us a text In this episode of The What They Never Told Us Podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi discuss the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and marriages. They share personal stories and insights about the challenges they face in maintaining boundaries with friends and family, as well as with each other. From respecting personal space to navigating emotional triggers, the hosts provide a candid look at the complexities of establishing healthy limits. They also touch on the i...
Send us a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers. The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertoldus...
Send us a text An episode unlike any other we've ever done! We take a trip back to the 90's and the 2000's and discuss how music (specifically R&B music) shaped the way we do relationships. For this episode, we explore the toxic side of relationships through music! You don't wanna miss this one! Check out our playlist inspired.by the episode here https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/blame-it-on-r-b/pl.u-11zB9EVU2G8m7j Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprou...
Send us a text In this episode of the 'What They Never Told Us' podcast, hosts Russell and Brandi celebrate their third wedding anniversary and reflect on their journey. They discuss the evolution of their relationship, the challenges they've faced, and how they've shared their lives publicly through the podcast. The conversation delves into the importance of addressing relationship issues, the need for space and understanding between partners, and the role of prayer and God's will in maintai...
Send us a text If you've ever struggled with keeping the spark alive, balancing expectations vs reality, or just want an honest conversation about love, sex, and connection -- this one's for you! In this candid episode of the 'What They Never Told Us Podcast,' hosts Brandi and Russell IV delve into the complexities of intimacy and communication within relationships. They candidly discuss their own experiences, reflecting on past marriages and the lessons learned about sexual intimacy, unmet e...
Send us a text Join Russell and Brandi and they kick it LIVE with their viewers. The live episodes are their chance to advance the conversation beyond the episode and it is always a time to be had!! On this episode they discuss: - Keeping the intimacy at the forefront of your relationship - Modeling what healthy relationships look like for your children Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated pla...
Send us a text In this episode, Russell and Brandi discuss their return to their podcast after a lengthy break, sharing the challenges they've faced and growth they've experienced both personally and in their marriage. They delve into the difficulty of maintaining intimacy while children are home, particularly in a blended family situation. The conversation touches on the importance of keeping the spark alive. and how to navigate being "busted" by the kids. They candidly explore personal expe...
Send us a text Listen in as we kick it with our Facebook, Instagram and YouTube fam. We recap the episode, take questions, and resolve some issues, all on FB and YouTube LIVE! Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast ht...
Send us a text In this episode, we bring back our Vow Series and discuss the vows "to have and to hold" and what that really means! Support the show! Only $3/month! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1844371/supporters/new Check out our newly curated playlist on Apple Music. https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/wtntu-soundtrack/pl.u-9N9LvALuXDxY4o Facebook https://www.facebook.com/whattheynevertolduspodcast https://www.facebook.com/russelldavisiv ...