What the Elle with Elle Kreamer

In this episode, I open up about the struggle of comparison and what it does to our peace. We talk about trusting God’s timing, letting go of envy, and learning to cheer others on while waiting for our own breakthrough. God’s plan for your life doesn’t look like anyone else’s—and that’s the beauty of it. You’re not behind; you’re being prepared.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

I talk about the importance of letting go of what no longer serves us and truly trusting God’s plan for renewal. I’ve learned that surrendering control isn’t easy — especially when what we’re letting go of feels familiar or comfortable. But sometimes, the things we miss most are the very things God is trying to free us from.I share some of my favorite biblical examples, like the Israelites wanting to go back to Egypt and Sarah trying to rush God’s promise through Hagar. These stories remind me that God doesn’t need my shortcuts; He needs my surrender. When we stop trying to replace what He’s trying to renew, that’s when we actually step into His promises.This episode is for anyone who feels stuck between where they were and where God’s taking them — still holding onto Egypt while praying for the Promised Land.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

You know, when I read the story of Rachel and Leah, I can’t help but see myself in it. Leah spent her whole life trying to earn Jacob’s love, thinking that if she performed enough—if she gave him children, if she proved herself—then maybe she would finally be seen. But here’s the thing: she already had blessings. She just couldn’t see them because she was too distracted by her suffering.And don’t we do the same thing? How many times have you and I stared so long at what someone else has that we miss the gift God has already placed in our hands? We say, “They stole my chance at success, at love, at joy”—but really, no one can steal what God has already written for you.Sometimes He allows something to be taken away just so you remember who you are without it. Sometimes He closes a door so you’ll stop prying it open and finally look at the blessing sitting right in front of you. You already have everything you need in Him.So today, I want to challenge you: How can you overcome envy and replace it with kindness? How can you stop performing for love and start resting in the truth that you’re already chosen, already loved, already seen by God?✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

"If the world hates you, remember it hated Him first." John 15:18remember it crucified THE perfect man.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

Fearing the Lord isn’t about being scared of Him—it’s about awe and reverence that lead to wisdom, humility, and peace. In this episode, I break down the difference between healthy fear that draws us closer to God and unhealthy fear that pushes us away. We’ll also look at why living without the fear of God leaves us vulnerable to sin, pride, and cultural pressure.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

If you’ve ever wondered why God seems silent, or if His promises are really for you, this conversation will bring hope, encouragement, and a deeper perspective on faith.If I have God, then who can be against me? ✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle_) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer(https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

Our hearts are restless until they rest in Him. ✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer(https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

This time, do it with Him. ✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

If you’ve ever felt like you were stuck in sin, searching for your worth, or wondering who you really are, I’ve been there. And I want you to know there’s a way out. God didn’t just forgive me—He transformed me. If you’re ready to lay it all down and step into your divine purpose, this is for you.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle (https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷

This summer wasn’t what I pictured, but it was everything God needed it to be. I found His love in the quiet, His strength in my weakness, and His blessings in unexpected places. I’ve learned that the waiting room is not wasted space—He’s developing me, not delaying me. Your plans will never beat His. Trust the journey, surrender the timeline, and cherish every moment He’s gifted you.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

Let’s be real—not knowing drives me crazy. I like answers, plans, control... and God’s like, “Yeah, that’s cute, but trust Me instead.” In this episode, I talk about the uncomfortable but necessary parts of surrendering, why uncertainty has been the biggest teacher in my life lately, and how working 12-hour shifts on the beach weirdly helped my faith grow. If you're in a season of “what the elle is even going on,” this one will meet you right there.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷

Sometimes the most transformative seasons come wrapped in pain, loneliness, and silence. In this raw and honest episode, we dive into a journey of faith that began with isolation and questions—and ended with strength, peace, and a deeper trust in God.If you’ve ever wondered where God is in the middle of your hardest moments, this story is for you.What you’ll hear:The loneliness that revealed deeper purposeWrestling with doubt and questioning GodHow surrendering control brought peaceA testimony of spiritual growth through hardshipLet this be a reminder: God doesn’t waste pain—He uses it to refine us.👇 Share your story in the comments—How has God shown up in your darkest moment✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@whattheactualelle]](https://www.tiktok.com/@whattheactualelle) 📸 Instagram: [@elle_kreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you keep falling into the same patterns—people-pleasing, shame, guilt, or feeling like you’re not enough? I get it. I’ve been there too. In this episode, I’m opening up about the subtle lies the enemy whispers to keep you stuck, disconnected from your true worth, and far from the freedom Jesus already paid for.You were never meant to live in fear of others’ opinions or drown in shame over your past. That’s not from God. The devil’s biggest weapon is convincing you that you’ll never change, that you’re too far gone, or that you have to earn God’s love. But the truth? Jesus never left your side.Together, we’ll talk about how to overcome those lies, how to trust God even when life feels chaotic, and how to find purpose and connection in ways you didn’t expect. You don’t have to do this alone—community matters. Your story isn’t over. Freedom is real. And I’m here to remind you: you’re more loved than you realize, and it’s not too late to start again.Let’s walk this journey together.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

Have you ever noticed how your mind spirals when you’re anxious—how everything feels out of control? I get it. I’ve been there too. But here’s something wild: your brain can’t process anxiety and gratitude at the same time. That’s not just a Pinterest quote—it’s neuroscience. In this episode, we’re diving deep into how gratitude isn’t just a nice idea; it’s a weapon. A spiritual and mental one. And when paired with prayer? It’s powerful.If anxiety has been trying to define you lately, this is your reminder: it doesn’t get to. You’re not your fear, your overthinking, or your “what-ifs.” You’re a child of God, deeply loved, and created with a purpose. We’re talking about real ways to shift your mindset, root yourself in truth, and take back your peace.So whether you're spiraling silently or just tired of carrying the weight of your own thoughts—this episode is for you. Let’s trade panic for peace, and anxiety for gratitude. You are not alone. You are not stuck. You are loved.

Have you ever asked God, “Why would You let me love someone if You knew they’d leave?” Because I did. And maybe you have too.In this episode, my best friend and I sit down and unpack heartbreak, emotional healing, personal growth, and that gut-punch moment when God removes someone you prayed would stay. I open up about how my car battery died the same week he left—literally and spiritually—and how that moment made me realize: God wasn’t just removing him, He was resurrecting me.This is for you if you’ve ever overthought your worth after a breakup, begged for signs, or stayed too long because you believed love had to be earned. We talk through faith, friendship, redirection, and why sometimes losing someone is the beginning of finding yourself again—with God leading the way.You’ll leave this episode with clarity, comfort, and a deeper trust in the process—even when the road goes dark.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

I’m gonna be real with you—if you're stuck on someone who confuses you, this episode is for you. You’re not crazy. You’re not weak. You’re just caught in a cycle that was never meant to keep you.I know what it’s like to crave the person who leaves you overthinking every text, praying for a sign while ignoring all the red flags. I’ve been there—calling it love when it was really emotional addiction. Asking God why it hurts while still holding on to the thing that’s draining me. You say you want peace, but you keep chasing the storm. You call it chemistry, but your spirit calls it chaos. So let’s talk about it—soul ties, spiritual confusion, and the psychological addiction to people who never fully choose us. God is not the author of confusion. And if someone is leaving you anxious, exhausted, and doubting your worth… they’re not your person. They’re your lesson.This episode isn’t just advice—it’s a wake-up call. Let this be the moment you finally choose clarity over confusion.You're not meant to be addicted to what God is trying to remove.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

You said, “God, remove anything not meant for me.”And now you’re wondering why everything and everyone is leaving.This episode is your wake-up call.You didn’t get rejected — you got protected.You didn’t lose them — you lost the delusion of them.If you've ever prayed the removal prayer and suddenly found yourself alone, confused, or grieving what felt like “your person” — this one’s for you. You’ll realize God isn’t punishing you, He’s preparing you. He heard your prayer and started clearing the room.You asked for peace. But peace often starts with loss.You asked for clarity. So He took off the mask you refused to remove.You asked for real love. So He removed what was never real to begin with.This episode will wreck you in the best way. Because sometimes the biggest blessing is what never worked out.If you're in a season of letting go, hit play.Your healing starts here.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

I’ve had moments where I asked God, “Why are You taking so long?”But what I’ve learned is… He wasn’t punishing me—He was preparing me.In this episode, I open up about the waiting season. The one where it feels like everyone’s getting married, moving forward, and you’re just... stuck. But you’re not stuck. You’re being sanctified. God is doing something deep in your spirit right now.If you’ve ever felt like you’re behind or forgotten, I made this for you. I talk about what the Holy Spirit showed me in my lowest moments, and how this “delay” is really development. I share real things I’ve prayed through, cried over, and grown from—and I promise, it’s not just you. You’re not crazy. And you’re not alone.This is a love letter to the girl (or guy) waiting on God.Because what He’s building in you is worth the wait.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

You ever catch yourself thinking “I can fix them”? Like maybe if you just love them a little harder, pour a little more in, they’ll finally become who you know they could be? This episode is your wake-up call. We’re diving into the “fixer” mindset—the idea that you can change someone who isn’t ready or willing to change themselves—and why it’s secretly draining your peace, your confidence, and your time.Whether you’ve been the one trying to save someone from their own chaos, or you’re stuck in a cycle of hoping they’ll finally see your worth—this one’s for you. I’m unpacking how codependency disguises itself as care, why real love doesn’t feel like constant effort, and how to stop tying your value to someone else’s potential.You are not their project. Not their rehab. Not their hero. You deserve a relationship that builds you, not breaks you. So if you're ready to break free from fixer mode and finally choose yourself, press play.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨

Are you in a season of confusion, burnout, or questioning your purpose? This episode dives deep into the spiritual warfare that often surrounds our career decisions, calling, and trust in God. Elle Kreamer vulnerably opens up about navigating uncertainty, the pressure of achievement, and the post-grad identity crisis so many face. As part of the COVID Class of 2020, she reflects on the tension between pursuing a career and answering God’s higher calling over your life.If you've been battling mental health, feeling spiritually stuck, or unsure of what’s next, this is your reminder that God goes before you—even in the silence. You are not behind. You are not forgotten. Sometimes the most powerful move is to pause, pray, and trust.This episode is full of faith-based encouragement, raw self-reflection, and peace for your waiting season. Whether you’re seeking direction or simply feel overwhelmed by life, God is still working. You are loved before you're successful. You are called before you're hired.✨ Stay Connected with Me! ✨ 🌸 TikTok: [@eleanorrosekreamer_](https://www.tiktok.com/@eleanorrosekreamer_) 📸 Instagram: [@eleanorrosekreamer](https://www.instagram.com/elle_kreamer?igsh=bGwxb3BjZjg4OHM0&utm_source=qr) 🎥 YouTube: [Eleanor Rose Kreamer](https://www.youtube.com/@EleanorRoseKreamer) 🌐 Linktree: [All My Links](https://linktr.ee/ellekreamerr) 🎙️ Podcast: [What The Elle](https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/whattheelle) 💖 Let’s grow together, spread love, and dive into all things faith, growth, and purpose! 🌷✨