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Cam and Elle explore how we can communicate in relationships to make both parties feel seen, loved, and supported.This one is filled with actionable advice: we do 4 role-play examples AND a live body scan that you can leverage at any moment to connect with your body (24:06).We discuss what to say when triggered, how to self-regulate before having a hard conversation, how to get in tune with your emotions via a Body Scan, how to approach men and women in a way that brings you closer… and so much more. ❤️Thank you for listening! Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation on the show. 👀  Connect with us:✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher ✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan ✨ Connect with Elle: https://stan.store/ellebeecher ✨ Connect with Cam: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning Who are these people? 👀Cameron Hogan is a mindset mentor and intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men (upcoming retreat here), plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning.Elle Beecher is a relationship coach who helps ambitious women find love and socially anxious people step into confidence. Elle writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (118 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (55 so far), speaks at fun conferences, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks.CHAPTERS: 00:00 Welcome Back & Healthy Communication Basics03:22 Self-Regulate Before A Hard Conversation08:11 What to Say When Triggered11:08 Process Your Emotions First to Create Emotional Safety13:42 The Pendulum Swing of Men Sharing Emotions16:24 Example #1: Men Feeling Anger Healthily21:54 What Are You Feeling?23:18 Live Body Scan with Elle28:25 Example #2: Women Feeling Anger Healthily31:49 Understanding When Men Feel Vulnerable34:29 Example #3: How to Confront Your Man39:52 Hold Hands in Conflict41:07 Have Hard Conversations After You See A Pattern45:32 Emotional Safety for Men46:48 Example #4: Your Man Acts Out of Character51:12 Bring Up One Issue At A Time54:06 Don’t Pile On To Their Judgment54:56 Cam Confronts Elle Live… STAY TUNED!

Cam and Elle keep the spice going… we’re back for more HOT TAKES! 👀Reminder: Listen to Part 1 first to get the full scoop!These takes are brought to you by coaching dozens of people, hosting over 150 events for meaningful conversations, and going down multiple rabbit holes/books/research studies to understand what the heck was going on in our own relationships. We discuss how toxic people can’t get near you if you’re connected to your body, the case for self-regulating and not sharing all your feelings, how a man’s commitment timeline looks different, teaching a man to be romantic (with examples), how men can feel anger without driving women away... and so much more. ❤️Thank you for listening! We’d love to hear what resonated with you.  ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher ✨ Elle Beecher’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cameron Hogan’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan ✨ Connect with Elle: https://www.ellebeecher.com/ ✨ Connect with Cam: https://www.thecameronhogan.com/ ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace your “feel good” feminine energy: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning CHAPTERS: 00:00 Welcome Back & How To Connect To Your Body07:53 A Man’s Commitment Timeline Looks Different11:55 Women Make A Fairytale Out Of Everything13:17 You Can Teach A Man Romance (With Examples)20:29 Toxic People Can’t Find You If You’re Connected To Your Body25:39 Men Don’t Like Eyelash Extensions27:17 You Attract What You Lead With32:17 What Men Look For33:47 Don’t Share All Your Feelings38:17 Example Of When Cam Got Angry At Elle42:17 How Men Feel Anger & Other Feelings48:17 Society Wants Men Suppressed50:57 Outro & Quick Story To Reach Out To Us

We asked someone at The Board Walks: "What does self-love mean to you?" His answer? Volunteering. Helping others. Doing for everyone but himself. And it hit us. most people think self-love is selfish. Or they think it's bubble baths and face masks. But what it actually is? Boundaries. Self-love is making rest a priority. It's turning off work mode at a certain time. It's saying no to things that drain you, even if it disappoints people you care about. It's alone time to recharge so you can actually show up for the world. We live in a culture that glorifies breaking your back to create a table for others to eat off of. But here's the truth: you can't give from an empty cup. And when people serve others while avoiding themselves, they're often running from something, their own dreams, their potential, the uncomfortable work of sitting with themselves. In this episode, we break down what self-love actually looks like in practice. We talk about the relaxation crisis, why discipline is self-love, how to send your body gratitude, the importance of pausing between tasks, and why being in your head all day is destroying your nervous system. ✨ Thank you for listening!Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Elle Beecher’s social media ✨ Cam Hogan’s social mediaExplore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

This is the story Cam has been holding close for two years. The day before we met: February 18, 2024, he was at mile 8 of the Austin Marathon, completely empty. No energy left. Undertrained. Ready to quit. And in that moment, he prayed for the first time in his life. What happened next defies logic: his tank refilled with a different kind of energy, he finished the race pointing at strangers saying "thank you God, I love you," and that night, sobbing in a tiny bathtub with his knees to his chin, he fully surrendered.He asked for everything he was ready for. His purpose. His family. His wife. Less than 24 hours later, an intuitive voice told him to go to the sauna. He walked into the meditation room. And there Elle was, writing on her phone in a pink sweatshirt. We're recording this on our two-year anniversary, at the exact time we met. This episode is about divine timing, emptying the vessel, fork-in-the-road moments, and what happens when you fully surrender to something bigger than yourself. Thank you for listening! ✨Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Elle Beecher’s social media ✨ Cam Hogan’s social mediaExplore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

The no contact trend is everywhere. People are cutting off family members, ghosting old friends, and walking away from relationships that used to be non-negotiable. Why? Because we've reached a point in human evolution where you don't need your family to survive. For the first time ever, people have the freedom to consciously choose who gets access to their energy.In this episode, we talk about “Obligation Town” – the place where most people live their entire lives doing things they don't want to do just because they "should." We share why obligation breeds resentment, what unconditional love actually means, and the flashlight analogy that changed how we think about boundaries. If you've ever felt guilty for setting boundaries with family, this conversation will give you permission to choose yourself.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What happens when you're doing everything "right" but still feel like you're not doing enough? Cam shares his journey with enoughness: a feeling that's plagued him since childhood. Despite accomplishing incredible things, he'd end every day feeling like he fell short. This pattern didn't just affect his self-worth; it affected his relationships. People he loved couldn't function around his energy. Good people ghosted him. And he didn't understand why until recently. In this vulnerable episode, we explore the high achiever trap, why urgency and impatience push people away, the difference between the two, and how to finally break the cycle. Whether you're the Fortune 100 CEO or working 9-5 in corporate, if you feel like what you're doing isn't enough, this conversation will resonate. Healing is possible. Enoughness is available. And you're worthy right now. 🤍Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

We sit down in our signature big shirts to talk about something that looks odd from the outside: our life. We don't travel. We don't take vacations. We work from morning to midnight some days. And we love it. Why? Because we've stepped into our purpose. This episode is for anyone who's multi-passionate, tired of being told to "pick one thing," or wondering what it actually means to live in your purpose. We share why we rebranded Listen Before Love to Whimsy World at the height of the pod’s success, how to know when your energy is waning, and why discovering your purpose happens through action, not thought. If you're on the verge of stepping into something bigger, this conversation will give you permission to experiment, pivot, and build the giant pool instead of the tiny red solo cup.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

After crying on the pod a few weeks ago, something switched. This past month became the most productive of our lives.Elle unblocked a 2.5-year creative backlog, got completely off social media, started a weekly newsletter for The Board Walks, created the onboarding experience for hosts, and built an entire content ecosystem. Cam started his weekly newsletter after years of half-assing his creations, automated nutrition and multiple areas of the business, started a rigorous “dunk” program, and found a daily flow for peak embodiment and creativity. We share the pattern of emotional dips leading to creative breakthroughs, the "prolific cranking season" that changed everything, and why 2026 feels like the Phoenix rising from the ashes. This is about devotion to the present moment, structured art, simplifying ruthlessly, and finally letting go of over-complication.If it doesn't feel incredibly simple, it's not in its final form yet. This episode is about seasonal rhythms, emotional maturity, and trusting that every dip leads to a rise.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Elle Beecher’s social media ✨ Cam Hogan’s social mediaExplore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

I sat down to record and realized I didn't want to. I was on my period, low energy, but pushing myself to keep our weekly streak alive. Cam stopped me and said: "You don't need to do anything ever again." What unfolded was a raw conversation about the core wound I've been carrying my entire life: sacrificing my natural rhythm to meet others' needs. We didn’t plan to share this episode, which is why there are moments where we speak so quietly that the mic doesn’t pick it up, but we decided that someone out there may benefit from this conversation.We explore the difference between being in your rhythm versus sacrificing it for productivity, masculine and feminine energy polarity (especially with entrepreneurial couples), and how resting might actually be the highest contribution you can make. This is for anyone who's been conditioned to believe their worth comes from constant productivity.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

We stepped down from hosting daily calls, weekly communities, and monthly events… all at once. It felt abrupt from the outside, but inside we were learning something crucial: life isn't meant to be expansion all the time. Just like nature has seasons, we do too. This episode is about honoring contraction, what happened when we took two weeks offline, and how brand new paths appear when you stop avoiding what needs to be felt. Elle cries about losing her creative magic on Twitter. Cam realizes he's lacking structure.Together, we solve our blocks live on camera. 🤍Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What if weight loss didn't require restriction, punishment, or hating yourself? After gaining 30 pounds together and loving our bodies more than ever, we're testing a radical approach: releasing weight from joy, not force. We share our DEXA scan results, the moment it took an hour for Elle to say the number on the scale out loud, and how discovering “set point weight” changed everything. This conversation covers Orange Theory burnout, eating ice cream daily, nervous system regulation, and why transparency about weight is the most liberating thing we've ever done. If you've ever struggled with the scale controlling your life, this one's for you.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What if most relationship problems aren't about compatibility… they're about space? Not physical space, but the mental and emotional bandwidth each person has to notice the nuances of life and love.This conversation dives deep into why men often operate in binary mode (good/bad, on/off, working/broken) while women are juggling a dozen different variables at once. Cam shares the provider mindset that keeps men focused on survival-level needs, even when everything "seems fine." Elle explains why indirect communication, thinking you're being clear when you're actually speaking in code, leads to the surprise divorces men never see coming.We break down the house-fire metaphor (there's smoke... one room is burning... half the house is on fire... and he still didn't move), explore the Love is Blind example that perfectly captures this dynamic, and talk about how to actually bridge the gap without resentment on either side.This is real talk about partnership, presence, and what it actually takes to meet each other where you are.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

Ever notice how much energy you spend just trying to look "acceptable"? Elle opens up about recording herself walking around her room to check her back fat, waking up early every day to “put on her face," and the invisible prison most women live in without even realizing it.In this raw conversation, Elle and Cam unpack the 128-point inspection women put themselves through daily, why the beauty standard is a game no one can win, and what happened when Elle started going to McDonald's without makeup on.If you've ever felt trapped by your own reflection, dimmed by the need to look "acceptable," or like you're fooling everyone with your appearance, this conversation might feel like an exhale.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

 "If you wouldn't let them through your front door, they're not getting in the community."In the final part of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, we completely redefine what friendship means in 2025, and why the old rules are making everyone miserable.Elle and Cam break down why feeling obligated to respond to every text, show up to every event, or maintain weekly check-ins is actually preventing real connection. They share why the best friendships operate on spontaneity and flow rather than rigid expectations.What we explore: • Why "I haven't posted since 2011" people don't understand the attention differential • The evolution of friendship from obligation-based to flow-based connection • Why real friends can disappear for 6 months and pick up where they left off • How we're building a community where healthy attachment is the default • The passive-aggressive friendship texts that signal unhealthy attachment ("Did you fall off the Earth?") • Why you don't owe anyone your time, energy, or immediate response • How redefining "friend" makes room for actual depth and presenceThis isn't about being a bad friend. It's about building friendships that don't drain you, where you show up because you genuinely want to, not because you're obligated to.If you've ever felt exhausted by friendship expectations, guilty for not texting back, or suffocated by people who need constant validation... this conversation will set you free.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

Have you ever left a conversation feeling completely drained... even though the other person thought it was amazing?Or walked into a room full of people and felt utterly alone?In Part 2 of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, Elle and Cam unpack why that happens, and what we're building to solve it.We dive deep into the energetic differential (why you end up coaching people without realizing it), the consciousness gap (why most relationships feel misaligned), and the philosophy behind The Board: a curated community for people who are tired of settling for surface-level connections.What we explore: • Why the person with more space always ends up giving in conversations • The "full cup" vs "empty cup" dynamic and how it affects all your relationships • Why over-inclusivity has made most communities mediocre (and how ruthless curation creates magic) • The consciousness differential: why conversations always center around the least free person • How we're building The Board for high-consciousness, high-competence people ready to rise together • Why feeling lonely in a crowd is actually a sign you're ready for the next level • The real reason you can't answer DMs (it's not what you think)This is about finding your frequency. Your people. Your home.If you've ever felt like you're walking through a dark hallway waiting to find the light, or if you're tired of being the one who always holds space while no one pours into you... this one's for you.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

In episode 3 of Hot Seat, Akaash explores his lifelong struggle with authority figures, and discovers his higher self has become the latest one he's rebelling against.Growing up with a commanding mother who dictated every decision and an absent father who prioritized career over family, Akaash learned early that complying meant survival. He never knew he could choose. Teachers, coaches, even white males in general, he felt himself shrink around anyone he perceived as having power over him. For years, alcohol was the only thing that let him feel "normal" around people.Fast forward to today: Akaash has transformed nearly every area of his life. He left toxic relationships, quit his corporate career, moved cities, built a spiritual practice. But there's still one domain where he feels paralyzed, approaching women when his heart tells him to. And in this conversation, the pattern becomes crystal clear.His higher self is giving him directions (intuitive hits to talk to someone), and he's treating those nudges like orders from an authority figure he doesn't want to obey. The same rebellion that protected him as a child is now the thing keeping him from his deepest desires. Cam breaks down how the final 5% of reclaiming your power isn't about healing wounds from external authority, it's about trusting yourself enough to follow your own inner knowing without resistance.This episode goes deep into compliance vs. choice, masculine devotion, leading with compassion, and why the same wound that made you empathetic might be the thing blocking you from stepping fully into your power.Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Elle Beecher’s social media✨ Cam Hogan’s social media✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What happens when you try to force something that isn't ready yet?In Part 1 of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, Cam "cooks" on Elle about the block that's been keeping her from creating the final piece of our biggest project yet: The Board, a premium community for renaissance people who crave meaningful conversations and everyday magic.Everything is ready. The systems are built. The team is waiting. Dozens of people are signing up. But Elle can't seem to complete the one crucial piece that only she can create. And despite knowing logically that this will make her life easier, something in her body won't let her move forward.This isn't about procrastination. It's about what happens when your nervous system perceives the next level as a threat, even when your mind knows it's aligned.What we explore: • Why emotional readiness matters more than logical deadlines • The baby/pregnancy metaphor for creative projects (you can't force labor) • How past experiences of being "at capacity" create invisible blocks • Why "it's all downhill from here" is the best possible thing (momentum, not decline) • The difference between force and flow in creation • How the energy you create from gets imprinted into what you buildCam breaks down why Elle's been hesitant despite this being everything she's ever wanted, and what it means to build a business from pure alignment instead of deadlines and pressure.If you've ever felt stuck waiting for the "right time" or struggled to force yourself to do something you know is aligned, this conversation will give you permission to trust your own timing.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 - Introduction & Setup0:53 - The Download: "It's All Downhill From Here"10:37 - The Board: What We're Building27:52 - Cam's Surrender & Waiting28:31 - Elle Asks: What Has This Taught You?36:47 - Balancing Creative & Logical41:59 - The Pregnancy Metaphor57:23 - What Cam's Most Excited About

In episode 2 of Hot Seat, our guest Akaash Prasad gets vulnerable about the one area of his life where he still feels completely stuck: approaching women.After years of self-improvement, meditation, and massive life changes, Akaash has transformed everything – except this. He's left toxic relationships, quit his corporate job, moved cities, and found his power in nearly every domain. But when it comes to talking to someone he's attracted to? Total paralysis.What makes this conversation different is that Akaash isn't avoiding it out of fear of rejection. He can literally feel his future partner's energy – recognizes shards of her in people he meets. The universe keeps sending him signs. So why can't he move? We explore the gap between logical knowing and emotional readiness, why "just getting reps" isn't always the answer, and how sometimes the resistance isn't about the action itself, it's about what comes after.By the end, Akaash walks away with permission to trust what he already knows.Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch on Youtube✨ Elle Beecher’s social media✨ Cam Hogan’s social media✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

After a year of hosting Listen Before Love, we realized we'd put ourselves in a box. We were only talking about dating and relationships when 70% of our conversations were about everything else: consciousness, community building, business, Human Design, truth-seeking on a wide range of topics, and just being human on this floating rock.That’s why we’re thrilled to share: Listen Before Love is evolving into Whimsy World, a playground for curiosity, deep conversations, and exploring what lights us up.We're breaking all the rules we created for ourselves, consolidating our scattered energy into one giant container, and finally unleashing the 70% that didn’t quite “fit” into Listen Before Love.In this conversation, we dive into: what led to this evolution, the lesson of half-heartedness, and why we're choosing to follow our excitement and record all the REAL conversations we’re having offline.If you've ever felt stuck in a container you created, struggling with too many projects, or wondering when to pivot… this conversation is your permission slip.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome to Whimsy World: Our New Era Begins1:45 Why We Felt Blocked Talking Only About Relationships4:14 The Pile of Conversations That Didn't Fit the Box7:12 The Lesson of Half-Heartedness and Pivoting8:20 Breaking All the Rules We Created for Ourselves11:50 Elle: The Next Generation's Oprah, Fully Unleashed13:54 Sharing from the Present Moment, Not Past Tense15:54 The Energy Equation: One Mile vs One Inch18:56 16,000 People at the Walks Without Marketing21:13 Following Sparks Within One Giant Container23:18 What Series Are We Most Excited About?27:14 Human Design as a Living Experiment31:36 Creating Tools for Our Younger Selves37:42 Hot Seat: A New Model for Public Coaching42:19 Hot Seat Topics: From Twitter Triggers to Approaching Women44:44 Why Authenticity is Magnetic (The Akaash Wife Theory)50:47 The Quality of People Who Listen to This Show54:32 Cam's Superpower: Radical Honesty Without People-Pleasing1:01:38 It's Gonna Feel Whimsical1:06:58 Gratitude for the Listen Before Love Chapter

Welcome to Hot Seat – a new series where we invite friends, community members, and internet strangers to have honest conversations about what they’re dealing with right now.In this episode, Cam and our first series regular Akaash Prasad explore the gap between knowing how you “should” respond versus how you actually feel.Akaash posted something heartfelt on Twitter. Five minutes later, someone logically dismantled it. What followed was a spiral through anger, shame, and self-judgment that led to this honest conversation about seeking validation online. By the end, Akaash goes from "I want to deactivate everything" to "I feel like I'm gonna float away." Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨Watch on Youtube✨Elle Beecher’s social media✨Cam Hogan’s social media✨Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.