In this episode of Whiskey and Ry, host Ryan engages in a deep conversation with philosopher and author Peter Rollins about masculinity. They explore Peter's personal experiences growing up in Belfast, the impact of his childhood on his understanding of masculinity, and the societal pressures surrounding male identity. The discussion delves into themes of death, mental health, and the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, ultimately questioning the limitations of labeling masculinity as an identity. This conversation delves into the complexities of masculinity and femininity, exploring how societal expectations shape male identity and desire. The speakers discuss the challenges men face in modern society, including the need for positive role models, the impact of despair and isolation, and the importance of male friendships. They emphasize the necessity of risk-taking and emotional engagement in overcoming feelings of worthlessness and despair, ultimately advocating for a deeper understanding of male experiences and the need for connection. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of dating, relationships, and desire in contemporary society, particularly in the context of Los Angeles. They explore how societal changes have affected dating dynamics, the evolving grammar of relationships, and the role of desire in human experience. The discussion also touches on masculinity, the importance of sacrifice, and the need for rituals in navigating life's challenges. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the intricate interplay between desire, identity, and the human condition. ----more---- Peter Rollins on Patreon Support this show financially!
Grab your tissues because this one is another lovefest! In this extra special episode, I get to interview one of the men who helped shape my view of healthy masculinity, my cousin, Jeremy Sampson. Jeremy spent 18 years working in Television and made the difficult, but necessary, choice to change careers and be more available for his kids. Hear all about this and more in one of my all-time favorite episodes. ----more---- Support Our Guest! Jeremy Sampson - Instagram One Pro Sports Management - Instagram Amalia Villarreal - Instagram ----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
5 years ago, I was driving for Uber having conversations with perfect strangers about the journey into manhood. In this episode, I got to re-live that indescribable experience and I am so happy I get to bring you all along with me! Joining me for this episode is the amazingly talented, Matt Munn. We talk about Matt's journey into manhood as well as his solo music project, Unity Jar. We even discuss the possibility of a future collaboration on a music project. How fun that would be! Thank you for tuning into this episode and make sure to follow Matt on social media and be sure to stream his new EP, "Evaporate" under the name Unity Jar on all streaming platforms. ----more---- Support Our Guest! Unity Jar - Instagram Unity Jar - Spotify Unity Jar - Apple Music Unity Jar - YouTube ----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
Have you ever wondered what two men who love and admire one another sound like when they have a conversation? If you have, then this is the conversation you have been waiting for! Javier is a world-class educator and a top-notch human. We talked about his work with an organization he started called the Human Values Collective. We hear the in-depth insights into their work and also why Javier has earned the nickname, "Self Care Javier." Make sure to check out his work and follow him on social media! ----more---- Support Our Guest! Javier Payano - Instagram The Human Values Collective - Instagram The Human Values Collective - Website The Human Values Collective - YouTube Channel ----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
Apple Music, Apple Records, Apple...Sauce? David and I discuss two of the three in this episode. I'll let you pick which ones they are! David is such an incredible musician and I am so thankful he came on the show to promote his new single, "Shelby." And believe it or not, he isn't the last musician of the season! I am so grateful to connect with so many amazing guests and David is one of a kind! Did you know he is also a dog sitter? The guy can do it all... Make sure to check out his new single and his entire catalog of music on Apple Music. NOT on Spotify. (j/k you can listen there but David works for Apple Music so naturally they get all his love!) ----more---- Support our Guest! David Brookings - Instagram David Brookings - Apple Music David Brookings - Spotify David Brookings and the Average Lookings - Apple Music David Brookings and the Average Lookings - Spotify David Brookings - Website ----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
In this special bonus episode, I introduce you to my coaching business, HeroDad Coaching!----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
What a treat it was to interview the amazingly talented, Aaron Kellim. I am fortunate enough to call Aaron my friend and throughout this episode, I found myself mesmerized by his humility and kindness. We chat all about his new music and share a great conversation between two good friends. I hope you enjoyed our chat. Make sure to check out Aaron's work and stream his music on all major streaming platforms. ----more---- Support our Guest! Aaron Kellim - Instagram Be Kind Clothing Brand Aaron Kellim - Spotify Aaron Kellim - Apple Music ----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
You might be wondering why there was such a long break between this season and the last. Good news, I get into all of that in this episode and also share more about what you can expect from the show this season. Thanks so much for listening!----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
We heard from Christy in Episode 1. Then we heard from Alex in Episode 2. Now we get them both for Episode 3! AND! This is a Whiskey & Ry first as we have never had two guests before. This conversation was such a DELIGHT! I finally got to ask them how they told my nieces about this process and the girls even came on the show to say a quick, "Hi!" This was such a fun experience for me, I feel like I got to know two people I love and admire very much and that is such a gift! I hope you enjoy this episode! Thank you so much for tuning into this latest season.----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
We are back with Episode 2 of the new season of W&R. We are so happy to welcome on to the show, Alex Acevedo! Alex is my brother-in-law, and the husband to my sister, Christy, who we heard from in the last episode. In this captivating episode, Alex shares his perspective, as we joked about on the show, about him being the "low man" on the totem pole. But his endless love and support for Christy is apparent throughout the entire conversation. I am so thankful to Alex for coming on and sharing his part of the story! We have one more installment of this series coming soon! Stay tuned for the 3-Part Series finale and also for more episodes in the upcoming season. ----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
We are back! After an unplanned (unexpected) break, we are back with all new episodes! In our first episode, we get the special privilege of hearing from someone I have known my whole life. Someone who knows me better than most people I know. It's my sister, Christy! About 4 years ago, she and her husband, Alex, and their two girls had their lives changed most magically. It all started when my sister answered a Facebook post from a friend from High School. This would be the beginning of her journey as a surrogate for her friend. In this episode, Christy shares her story and all that went into her making this selfless and life-changing decision. As her big bro, I am so proud of her and how she showed such a radical act of love. And I can't wait for you to hear from the woman herself! Please enjoy this extra special episode with one of my all-time favorite humans.----more---- Support the Show; Patreon Whiskey & Ry Instagram Coaching Website - HeroDad Coaching
In this episode, I interview Matthew Raabsmith, a pastor and a life coach who works with men and addiction. Matthew shares his personal story with sexual addiction and how he has learned to overcome the shame he carried so long because of it. We also talk about the benefits of community and how it is important to bring close friends and family alongside you while you are on the road to recovery. Thanks for sharing your time with us, Matthew! ----more---- Show Notes: Matthew's website; Link *Parenting Hotline; Link *Connect with a Therapist!; Link *I don't get any money from referrals, just wanting to pass along help if you need it! ----more---- The Regulars: 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Patreon: Link 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
Sorry for the extended wait! Life happens, but we are back on track. I hope you have been enjoying our "(What is) Love?" series on the Patreon page. The last installment comes out tomorrow! In the ep, I talk about a great new book by Justin Baldoni called Man Enough; Undefining my Masculinity. While I haven't read the book yet, I am so stoked for Justin to have put this out into the world. More men should be having this conversation and the fact he was so bold as to write about it and then publish it, my hat's off to you! Thanks for sharing your story. I share about a great book I am reading called, Hooked: How to create habit-forming products. Do you want the inside scoop to a new product I am building? Send me an e-mail and let's chat! To wrap up I talk about the crazy story of WeWork and their 47 billion dollar evaluation, which I found out about after watching a sweet documentary on Hulu. Check it out and send me a DM and let me know what you think! Make sure to check in with the show notes and give a little love to our regulars and check out our Patreon series!----more---- Show Notes: "Man Enough"; Link to buy the book "Man Enough" Instagram; Link WeWork Doc; Trailer *Parenting Hotline; Link *Connect with a Therapist!; Link *I don't get any money from referrals, just wanting to pass along help if you need it! ----more---- The Regulars: 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Patreon: Link 'Whiskey & Ry Club' Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
Grab a seat (and maybe a few tissues) and join me and my good friend, Nick Warnes, as we hear about his family's journey with fertility and deciding to enter into In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). Nick shares with us how he and his wife, Whitney, came to the decision together, and what it was like to endure the highs and lows of getting good news followed by the heartbreak of getting the worst news any parents can get. But the story doesn't end there for the Warnes! They have a beautiful son, Lee, and are both finding happiness with the blessings they have today. But do they want to give the process another go? You will have to tune in and find out! Thanks Nick for coming on and sharing your story!----more---- Show Notes: Nick's Links; Instagram Book Information on IVF; Link Link Parenting Hotline; Link Connect with a Therapist!; Link ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
Buckle up you fuckin' wankers we are in for a wild fucking ride talking all things "swears" with Barry Taylor! I first met Barry as a young kid in Seminary, bright-eyed and full of hope. Barry opened my eyes wider and gave me more hope than I could have ever expected one person to give me in a lifetime and I am forever grateful to him for it. Barry and I talk about swearing as a universal expression, how swear words like, "pu$$y" have been reclaimed in songs like "W.A.P." by Cardi B. (ft Megan Thee Stallion.) And here is a little secrete for you...everyone swears! Even your grandma. Don't be a wanker and listen to this episode twice! Do it! ----more----Show Notes: Barry's Links; Book Instagram H&Co Website ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! My gift to you is an incredible convo about "love" with Maria French! Maria is the co-founder of H&Co. who recently got married and moved to the middle of England. Talk about LOVE! We hear from Maria about her experience dating after a divorce, taking a risk on loving again, and how love is a shared experience we all are meant to enjoy. What fun it was to have Maria on to chat about this topic! Make sure to check out her work in the show notes and send her some love!----more---- Show Notes: Maria's Links; Website, Patreon, H&Co, Instagram ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
Cue the music! Grab the Aqua Net and let's JAM! "Ooooo Heaven is a place on Earth!!!" Big time "THANK YOU" to Kevin Garcia for coming by to have an amazing chat about "heaven." So much was shared about our past and individual upbringings in Church. And I also learned what a "hell house" is and...wow...just wow. SO HAPPY you survived that shit, Kevin! We are all better humans because of it. Make sure to follow his work and support him on Patreon, if you are able. Can't wait to have Kevina back again and next time...karaoke? ----more---- Show Notes: Kevin's Website; Link Kevin's Book; Link Kevin's Insta; Link Support Kevin's Work!; Patreon ----more---- The Regulars: Ryan's Patreon: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan's Links: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
Back again is my good friend Michael Kinsman! Michael joins us to talk about his new organization, Uncommon Voices Collective, and their mission to bring together compelling stories from folks in Los Angeles, and beyond! Check-in with them in the show notes below and if you have yet to subscribe to our show, make sure you do! ----more---- The Show Notes: Uncommon Voices Collective; Link Michael Kinsman; Instagram Wine Pastor ----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
In this special episode, Ryan talks about one of the things he is most proud of creating in 2020, a song for his son, Reece! Get an inside look at “Ten Tiny Toes” and hear the song before it is fully recorded in the studio. "This song was written about the night our son was born and it is very, very special to me. I think any parent can appreciate the details and how vivid the memory of this special event can be. Thanks for listening!” - Ryan ----more---- The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram
You all are so patient with me, just like Mike! I have been waiting to release this episode in the right contect and decided to say “F*uck it!” and give it to you now. Enjoy this interview with one of my biggest influences and someone I greatly look up to as a figure of a “healthy” guy. Pick up his new book NOW and if ya like, sign up for our mailing list via the Proxemia link below! ----more---- Show Notes: "You’re a Miracle!" "Cozy Robots" "Finding God in the Waves” The Regulars: Patron: Link Whiskey & Ry: Instagram Twitter Ryan Charles Brown: Instagram Twitter The Deep West: Instagram