Wholehearted Loving

A softie and a (former?) compassion-skeptic in conversation about life, love, and the messy business of healing. It's a revolution in relating through nervous system regulation, honest reflection, and soul-level kindness. Join us Sundays at 10am PT for self-connection practices and raw, real, funny stories of personal transformation. Hosted by coach & counsellor Georgianna Lee and spiritual counsellor Stephanie Hunter, who bring body & soul together for a wholehearted approach to life & love.

Shadow Work: What’s Underneath Making Yourself Palatable and Needless | Ep146

Shadow work is a great way to explore what happens when our need to be liked keeps us from being real.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph begin with a literal light-and-shadow practice and move into the deeper truth of emotional shadow work: what we hide to stay safe. Georgianna shares a powerful story about her son saying he wanted to “saw his brother in half” — and how meeting that truth with compassion revealed what all humans need when we’re at our most raw. Steph reflects on her own learned “niceness” and how she used intellectual kindness to cover frustration and fear, creating emotional dissonance and disconnection.Together, they explore how people-pleasing and palatability develop as protective strategies, how they block intimacy, and how self-awareness turns those patterns into power. From relationships to parenting to personal growth, they show what it really means to be fully human — not just polite.Discover how:Niceness can become a mask that hides our needsShadow work reveals the light we’ve hidden to stay safeReal connection grows when we stop performing “fine”"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.LIVE training & practice programs:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

10-12
01:02:29

Fault-Finding: How Critical Energy Blocks Ease and Connection | Ep145

Fault-finding is a typical — and unhelpful — way to bring our critical energy into relationships.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph explore the tension between seeing what’s wrong and allowing what’s right. Georgianna shares the moment she caught herself ready to correct her partner mid-kindness and realized her old habit of “quality control” was blocking closeness. Steph reflects on her childhood training to “help by fixing,” how she swung to the other extreme of never offering input, and what balance feels like now.Together they reveal how nitpicking acts as low-grade fight energy, how compassion turns critique into connection, and how letting people win with you makes relationships feel safe again — for both sides.Discover how:Awareness turns criticism into choice and trustNitpicking reveals unspoken fight energy ready to moveEase and connection grow when you practice seeing what’s working"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.LIVE training & practice programs:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10 am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

10-05
46:05

Boundaries Begin in the Body: How to Name Your Truth Without Apology | Ep144

Boundaries begin in the body — it sounds simple, but when you say it out loud with your whole self, everything changes.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph share a powerful practice for clarity and boundaries. Georgianna tells the story of how she rediscovered her playful “wiggle” — a part of herself she had long shut down to seem proper — and how reclaiming it brought joy and authenticity back into her body. Steph reflects on finding mental peace in dangerous chaos (like speeding through highway traffic) and how she learned safer ways to quiet her mind through embodied focus.Together, they guide you through an easy practice to explore how declarations land differently when spoken out loud, why embodied no’s don’t need fight energy, and how this simple movement can rewire your sense of self-trust and connection.Discover how:Speaking needs and boundaries out loud clarifies them in secondsYour body reveals what’s true more reliably than your thoughtsSimple movement paired with words can shift long-held patterns"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.LIVE training & practice programs:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

09-28
48:31

Your Energy is Contagious: Everyday Encounters That Change Us | Ep143

Your Energy Is Contagious — and most of us underestimate just how much impact we have in everyday moments.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna shares the story of Bella — a grocery store clerk whose genuine warmth became a community-wide treasure, showing how even a 30-second exchange can shift someone’s whole day. Steph reflects on how a simple awareness of “frowny face” energy changed the dynamic in her past relationship, and how noticing what we transmit opens space for intentional choice.Together, they explore the spectrum of energy from “love hubs” to protective blockers, why both are human and valid, and how practices like Metta (loving kindness) let us extend care to others even when we’re alone. They also share how their own patterns — from Steph’s life-of-the-party mask to Georgianna’s childhood role as family mediator — shaped the energies they learned to embody, and how they’ve reclaimed freedom to be real, human, and intentional in what they share now.Discover how:Everyday moments ripple into big emotional impactAwareness of your “default energy” gives you back choiceLoving kindness practices expand your presence beyond the room"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

09-21
27:19

Threshold Moments: A Recipe for Smoother Transitions in Your Everyday | Ep142

The Threshold Moments Recipe is a simple, playful way to move from stress mode to presence mode — in less than a minute.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph share a body-based “recipe” for threshold moments: the times when we move from one swirl of life into another. Georgianna tells stories of running errands, picking up her kids, and walking into a chaotic house — and how skipping her reset always escalated tension. Steph reflects on her need to add sensory ingredients (like squeezing her hands and feeling her feet) to truly land in the moment, and how these micro-practices keep her from spiraling into reactivity.Together, they guide you through a sequence of seat awareness, shoulder rolls, thumping, and a simple acupressure point — and show how to adapt it for your own wiring, your family, or even your kids. This isn’t about performing calm. It’s about creating a pause so you can enter the next space with more steadiness and choice.Discover how:Threshold moments shape the energy you bring into relationshipsA one-minute “recipe” can prevent stress from escalating at homeSimple practices can be playful, adaptable, and even fun to teach others"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

09-14
28:58

My Energy is Not For _____: How to Protect Your Peace Like It's Precious Gold

"My Energy Is Not For ___" isn’t just a catchy phrase — it’s a powerful practice for protecting your peace.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph reflect on Taylor Swift’s viral clip about treating your energy like gold, and how it stirred up deep insights about purpose, boundaries, and choice. Steph shares candid reflections on disappointing others, codependency, and her need to conserve energy for work that truly matters. Georgianna opens up about years spent ruminating after heartbreak — and how she learned to protect the hard-won peace she built through nervous system work and self-compassion.Together, they explore how to identify what your energy is not for, what it is for, and how to bring that awareness into the next five minutes — not just the next decade.Discover how:Naming “my energy is not for…” can clarify boundaries in secondsRumination drains precious energy — and how to shift out of itSmall energy audits help align your daily choices with your deeper purpose"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

09-07
39:22

"And What Else?" – Rewiring the Habit of Fixating on Pain | Ep140

And What Else isn’t just a question — it’s a powerful nervous system tool for shifting how we experience our world.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph share stories of using this simple practice to interrupt old patterns of compounding pain and avoiding discomfort. Georgianna tells the story of a gym session where she asked for deep pressure support to create a nervous system reset. Steph reflects on how numbing and spiraling kept her from actually feeling her feelings, and how “and what else” builds real capacity to sit with what’s hard — without being swallowed by it.Together, they explore how to notice neutral or pleasant sensations alongside the difficult ones, why this practice grows awe for what’s possible, and how to reclaim even a single breath of relief as a victory.Discover how:“And what else” interrupts spirals and creates new optionsPleasant sensations expand your capacity for the hard onesGrowing micro-moments of ease rewires your nervous system for resilience"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

08-31
50:49

Rewiring the "I'm in Trouble" Response | Ep139

The feeling that you're bad, wrong, caught out or in trouble can show up anywhere — even just from a notification popping up on your phone. In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph explore why so many of us feel instantly “in trouble” when we get a message or hear the words we need to talk.They share personal stories of how these shame-laced body memories form — from Georgianna’s childhood in a home where criticism felt like love, to her later reparative experiences that changed her entire response to messages from friends. Steph reflects on how her own patterns of only reaching out when something was wrong created a dynamic she later had to unlearn — and how even her father, in his seventies, still admitted to feeling “like a five-year-old in trouble” when criticized at work.Together, they explore how these reflexes get passed down in families, why noticing “what’s the same and what’s different” is such a powerful tool for nervous system repair, and how practicing contrast (pleasant vs. unpleasant sensations) can slowly rewire us toward safety, neutrality, and even joy.Discover how:Childhood shame patterns wire us to expect troubleReparative experiences can gently change old body memoriesFamily patterns shape what we expect in connectionSimple contrasts can open the door to freedom and choice"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

08-24
32:32

The Attachment Dance: How to Navigate Connection & Separation | Ep138

The Attachment Dance is more than a metaphor — it’s a playful practice that reveals some of the deepest patterns in how we relate.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph share personal stories about mothers, partners, and friendships that highlight the subtle ways we each handle togetherness and separation — from long lingering goodbyes to quick “good day to you, sir” exits. They explore how childhood imprints show up in adult relationships, why hellos and goodbyes matter so much to our nervous systems, and how even the smallest rituals of connection can repair and rewire intimacy.Discover how:A simple movement practice can reveal your attachment patternsAutonomy and closeness can both be honored without blameSmall rituals of hello and goodbye can soothe old wounds and grow connection"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

08-17
29:29

Crunchiness Reset: How to Stop a Bad Mood From Taking Over

In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph explore how to stop a bad day from taking over — starting with the moment you notice yourself getting “crunchy.”Georgianna shares two stories: discovering how a simple Heart 7 acupressure point helped her recover her breath and calm her system on a hot uphill bike ride, and how asking for a hug on a noisy Vancouver sidewalk shifted an entire day from irritable to connected. Steph reflects on her own history of craving anxious caretaking and how learning to receive undramatic presence has changed her relationships.Together, they break down the skills of noticing, naming, and resetting — including how co-regulation works best when you know what’s regulating for you and your people.Discover how:Noticing early “crunchy” signals can keep them from escalatingCo-regulation can deepen connection instead of fueling dramaTiny tools like breath cycles or acupressure can shift your whole day"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:wholeheartedloving.comGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based ToolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph

08-10
43:29

When Anxiety Poses as Urgency: How to Hold Your Discomfort | Ep136

In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph explore how urgency often masks discomfort — and how building the capacity to pause can transform your relationships and self-connection.Georgianna shares a story about resisting the pull to resolve relationship tension in the middle of the night, choosing instead to stay with her own sensations until the moment felt right. Steph reflects on her past patterns of relational urgency, codependency, and drama-fueled timing, and how she’s learning to embrace the pause as a tool for genuine connection.Together, they walk through everyday ways to grow this capacity — from breathing through physical tension, to sitting with emotional discomfort, to choosing intention over impulse when it matters most.Discover how:Urgency often serves anxiety, not connectionSimple body-based practices can build your “pause muscle”Staying with discomfort creates more choice in how you respond"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.comWith love,Georgianna & Steph

08-03
35:43

Same But Different: How Clear Seeing Transforms Relationships | Ep135

In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph offer one of their favorite tools for seeing life and relationships with more clarity: the “same/different” practice.They share personal stories — from Steph’s spiral into self-doubt over a stack of missing business cards, to Georgianna’s longing to be emotionally met in relationships — and walk through how this deceptively simple tool helped them get out of their heads and into the present moment. Whether you’re struggling with internal narratives, relational disappointments, or emotional overreaction, this episode helps you pause and look again.Discover how:Same/different helps you spot progress you’d otherwise missThis practice reveals new information in old emotional patternsSeeing clearly invites more generosity, curiosity, and choice"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:⁠http://bit.ly/4eF86re⁠Get our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:⁠https://bit.ly/40Vnz3b⁠Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram ⁠@wholeheartedloving⁠. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at ⁠wholeheartedloving.com⁠With love,Georgianna & Steph

07-27
52:47

Finding the Sweet Spots in Life & Love: A Body-Based Self-Connection Practice | Ep134

00:00 — Intro00:41 — Finding your sweet spot: today’s body connection practice03:27 — Familiar vs. good: how posture reveals hidden patterns05:23 — Steph’s story: chop-chop culture and the pressure to lean in07:30 — Georgianna’s story: people-pleasing posture and leaning forward to mediate08:23 — Playing with over- and under-functioning dynamics in relationships10:48 — Posture as a tool to disrupt old survival strategies13:52 — How leaning back changed Steph’s conversation energy15:29 — Closing practice: one hand, two hands, or no hands on your bodyIn this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph guide you through a playful, body-based practice for discovering your inner “sweet spot” — both physically and emotionally.Through real-life stories of people-pleasing, over-functioning, and survival habits, they unpack how even the simplest posture shifts can reveal old wiring — and offer an invitation to soften, reset, and reconnect. Whether you tend to collapse backward or lean too far forward, this episode offers gentle tools to reclaim your center.Discover how:Small posture shifts can reveal hidden emotional patternsHabit isn’t the same as genuine easeEmbodied awareness can bring more clarity to your relationships"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.comWith love,Georgianna & Steph

07-20
17:03

Using Your Loved Ones as Catalysts for Inner Work & Self-Discovery | Ep133

00:00 — Intro01:20 — Spiky balls & rubber bands: today’s body connection practice04:30 — Sensory tools that keep you present without overwhelm07:30 — From numbing to feeling: finding what actually helps09:50 — Steph’s story of reactivity and preparing for charged conversations13:50 — Parenting through sensory behaviors with curiosity instead of shame16:30 — What’s your current inner work — and who helps you practice it?18:30 — Taking advantage of easy relationships to grow new skills23:00 — Receiving someone’s gentle presence — and not pushing it away26:00 — Practicing preference-setting in low-stakes relationships30:00 — Challenging assumptions about who can hold your truth35:00 — Projecting vs. reality: who actually wants to support you38:00 — Letting people inspire possibility and identity48:00 — Showing up in your identity can liberate others, too51:45 — Subtle spine play: today’s closing embodiment practiceIn this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph explore how to use the people around you as gentle catalysts for your inner work.Steph shares how she learned to prepare for difficult conversations by practicing honesty with people who feel emotionally safe — and how, even in easeful relationships, reactivity can still show up. Georgianna tells stories of parenting her son through sensory regulation, processing cultural identity, and letting her friends model what’s possible — from professional change to playful expression.Together, they reflect on how curiosity and presence help turn everyday relationships into spaces for experimentation, skill-building, and healing.Discover how:Practicing skills in safe relationships builds confidence for harder onesSensory tools like spiky balls or rubber bands can help you stay regulatedReal-life people offer more opportunities than you think for embodied growth"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.comWith love,Georgianna & Steph

07-13
54:16

Inspiration vs. Comparison: How to Find Yourself Through Curiosity About Others | Ep132

00:00 — Intro00:41 — Silly arms & pigeons: today’s body connection practice04:30 — Letting movement interrupt the mental spiral07:00 — How someone else’s self-care revealed a hidden need09:00 — Why some people panic when asked “what do you need?”12:00 — Copycatting as survival vs. self-discovery15:00 — Georgianna’s parenting overwhelm & how she found her way19:00 — “Shopping” for traits in group work — trying on new ways of being22:00 — Procrastination, perfectionism & putting the plate in the kitchen25:30 — Steph’s story of learning that ideas don’t always mean action28:00 — How we learn each other and build more spacious friendships30:00 — Consciousness in a mountain: creative closing embodimentIn this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph explore how we discover more of ourselves by observing others — not to perform or conform, but to get curious.Steph tells the story of a simple jaw massage on a group call that became a catalyst for someone else’s self-awareness; Georgianna opens up about the early overwhelm of parenting and how "trying on" traits from others helped her build a way of being that actually worked for her; together, they reflect on their own friendship and the many micro-habits they’ve picked up from each other — from putting dishes away to softening into self-expression.With play, story, and body-based insight, they share how imitation can become a tool of self-discovery — especially when done with gentleness, choice, and a sense of humor.Discover how:Copycatting can be healing — when it’s done with curiosityTrying things on can help you figure out what’s actually yoursFriendships become richer when we stop comparing and start co-regulating"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.comWith love,Georgianna & Steph

07-06
30:27

Triggerfest: How Your Past Has Loaded You for Reactivity in the Present | Ep131

00:00 — Body-based arrival practice: noticing the signals your body is sending04:30 — Recognizing reactivity: when your body’s already loaded09:10 — The “trigger” isn’t always what you think13:45 — Steph’s story: when an innocent question lights a fuse17:50 — Georgianna on preparing for rupture that hasn’t happened22:40 — What’s yours, what’s theirs: how to tell the difference27:20 — Physical cues of old pain showing up in the now31:05 — Regulating before reacting: what to do instead of spiraling36:50 — Real-life tools for relational repair and nervous system care42:00 — Why awareness matters more than perfection45:20 — Closing practice: softening the activation loopIn this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph unpack the real nature of triggers — and how owning what we bring into a moment can shift everything.Steph shares a story about catching herself mid-spiral during a conversation with a friend, while Georgianna opens up about a subtle moment in a therapy session that helped her realize how often her body was bracing for impact before anyone even said a word. Together, they explore how unspoken tension, unfinished emotion, and even the way we sit in a chair can shape the outcomes of our conversations.Drawing inspiration from Dr. Gabor Maté’s “loaded weapon” analogy, they break down the difference between blame and embodied ownership — and why nervous system awareness is the path to more honest, healing interactions.Discover how:- To separate what’s yours from what’s theirs in conflict- Triggers can be invitations, not accusations- Real body-based awareness changes how you show up"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.comWith love,Georgianna & Steph

06-29
38:49

From Unspoken to Unstuck: The Power of Narrating Your Story | Ep130

In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph explore one of the most transformative (and surprisingly simple) tools in relational healing: saying things out loud.They share personal stories of how naming the truth — even clumsily, even late — creates clarity, soothes conflict, and deepens connection. From stories of oversharing to boundary-finding and parenting with presence, they walk through how narrating your inner world can change how you relate to everything around you (and how everything around you relates back).Discover how:Naming your feelings helps you feel less aloneNarrating your day helps you build better boundariesTo express your truth without blaming or performing"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.comWith love,Georgianna & Steph

06-22
01:01:27

Under Pressure: When Hustle Is a Trauma Response | Ep129

In this honest and laughter-filled episode, Georgianna and Steph explore how we get conditioned into busy, pressured ways of being — and how hard it can be to even notice that something feels bad when it’s all we’ve ever known.Georgianna shares the story of how Chinese school on Sundays when she was a kid left her feeling like there was always something else to do — a feeling she later replicated in adulthood through jam-packed days, over-functioning, and last-minute scrambling. Steph offers her own version: how she misinterpreted ease as laziness until realizing her minimalist approach had real wisdom.Together, they unpack why contrast is essential for rewiring your body’s expectations — and how simple body-based tools can quietly shift what you believe is possible. If you’ve ever wondered why slowing down feels wrong, or why you can't seem to bring more peace to your daily flow, this conversation will hit home.- Learn how pressure becomes your body’s default — and how to shift it- Discover how to find a new, better-feeling baseline through contrast and simple practice- Replace shame-based motivation with compassionate incentives that move you to act from internal motivation instead of outside pressure."Like finding gold." - Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." - Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.comWith love,Georgianna & Steph

06-15
51:13

Saying Yes Until It Hurts: The Cost of Being Too Accommodating | Ep128

In this episode, Georgianna and Steph unpack the subtle but costly ways we say yes when we shouldn’t — and how it erodes our capacity, clarity, and connection. From Georgianna’s moment of losing it on her family over a small request, to Steph’s story of the “final yes” that sent her spiraling, they get honest about the slippery slope of over-giving.They share what it takes to reclaim your inner “no,” how to recognize resentment as a signal of self-abandonment, and why staying honest about your true limits is an act of love — not just for others, but for yourself. This episode is full of personal stories, gentle humor, and deeply practical tools to help you build boundaries that feel both kind and clear.✨ Learn how to notice when your yesses come at your own expense✨ Practice saying no without guilt or explanation✨ Build a relationship of trust where your yes actually means yes"Like finding gold." - Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." - Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3bEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.com.

06-08
44:22

Unlearning Self-Abuse & Stepping Into Kindness | Ep127

In this raw and relatable episode, Georgianna and Steph open up about the inner critic’s grip and the journey toward self-kindness. Together, they explore how we can recognize, unlearn, and transform the unkind ways we talk to ourselves — especially when mistakes happen, emotions rise, or anxiety kicks in.From simple body-based practices to deep self-reflection, they share tools for noticing the “mean voice,” shifting your inner narrative, and creating a more compassionate inner world. This conversation is rich with relatable personal stories and practical steps to help you meet yourself with more kindness every day.✨ Learn how to catch the unkind voice and shift to a kinder tone✨ Try small, embodied tweaks to interrupt the spiral of self-criticism✨ Discover new ways to relate to yourself with compassion"Like finding gold." - Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." - Sanjeev B.Join our monthly membership for LIVE calls & practice:http://bit.ly/4eF86reGet our Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit:https://bit.ly/40Vnz3b*****************************Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.Learn more about us and how you can practice with us LIVE at wholeheartedloving.com.

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