This week we're sitting down to discuss the reported dating trends of 2021. We're dissecting the ones that are still going strong, which ones are bullshit, and how dating will forever be changed going forward. Did you know that ghosting has decreased by 27%? Yeah, we were shocked too. Jazmin talks about how she's never had as hard of conversations in dating as she has now and Chanel does a deep dive on why dating seems to be a bit more hardball. The word of the year is transparency and people are becoming more straightforward on what they are looking for. Wanna just get laid? That's cool. Ready to find "the one?" That's cool too. We also talk about: How having different political views is more of a dealbreaker now than we've seen in awhile Your vaccination POV could weed people out Intentional dating is the future Women are owning their power than ever before Sexual curiosity and openness Come fuck around with us and give @wildrawpod a follow on Instagram! @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
This week we welcome Chanel’s friend, Ava, to the party to chat. We do a deep dive in how to find the polarity of feminine and masculine energy when you’re dating or when you’re in a relationship. Chanel talks about her struggles of tapping into her femine energy while Jazmin talks about overcoming her shyness by tapping into her masculine energy. We also talk about: How Ava met her husband, Corey and her solo road trip through Australia How playing games when dating or in a relationship can be self sabotage The power of breathwork and movement and Ava’s morning money dance routine Going to therapy with your partner pre & post marriage The growth in relationships and how to grow with your partner Chanel’s attraction to drive and Jazmin’s attraction to passion and creativity Go check out our girl Ava @avajohanna References: The Intimacy Experts And give us, Cha Cha & Jazzy J, a follow on Instagram: @wildrawpod @chanelsonego - @level.community @jazzcornejo - @femavengetaways
Here we are again, bitches! This week we're talking all about RED FLAGS. Let's be real here and say that red flags in men are like Furby's, that toy that at first we all really wanted but could never find, and once we got it it would randomly start talking to you no matter how much you would ignore it... finally you just had to throw it against the wall. Did that even make sense!? Anyway, Chanel talks about how she can be a moth to a flame when it comes to red flags with a man and Jazmin gets real about the warning sign that should be let off if a man wants nothing to do with their great family. We also talk about: When you and your friend match with the same man on Bumble Chanel is still single and not worried about it All the red flags for him AND her from progressing too quickly, flipping your phone over at the table and using too many filters Also, what are some things people call out as red flags that AREN'T red flags Follow us on Instagram: @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
Cha Cha & Jazzy J sit down with another dynamic duo that also happens to be a girl's best friend! Anisa Munshi & Heather Witt of Beauty Boost Med Spa in Newport Beach, CA hop on the pod to chat about the aesthetics business, knowing what to ask for when it comes to injectables, how much is too much, and the right questions to ask your injector or how to say no. But, in true Wild & Raw fashion, we made sure to get the deets on how they maintain being best friends and working together and if their husbands get in on the action (...come on people, we're talking getting botox! Get your mind out of the gutter). Give us a follow on Instagram and let us know how many units of botox you get! ...Chanel just wants to make sure everyone else is getting as much as she is. Mentions & Resources @womensmarch_sd @plannedparenthood Our Guests: @beautyboostmedspa @anisa.beautyboost @heather.beautyboost Your Hosts: @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo @wildrawpod Our Brands: @femaven.getaways @level.community
Marriage & Babies. Marriage & No Babies. No Marriage & No Babies. Cha Cha & Jazzy J are sitting down to talk about the transitions of life and how not everyone's "next chapter" looks the same. Chanel talks about how she wants to find a man to put a ring on it and knock her up with a bunch of babies while Jazmin dives into how her life will consist of being the rich auntie with a life partner. They both pick apart archaic traditions, the weird shit that happens at weddings that people still do and how bachelorette parties aren't just for brides-to-be. Also talked about... Jazzy J & Cha Cha finally sit down to explain their differences in marriage & baby traditions Jazmin realizes that country music isn’t all bad because it’s filled with hot ass men Chanel works through a few realizations that her story might be different than originally planned when she was a young girl Jazmin gets real about why it’s not ok to ask someone “Why don’t you want to get married or be a mother?” The two hosts explain why girls trips should be a forever thing and not just for bachelorette parties or birthday’s Mentions & Resources @richauntiesupreme @girltimesandiego Give us a follow on Instagram! @wildrawpod@chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
We know them, we hate to admit that we get caught in their trap, and, let’s be honest, they tend to be a really good lay. Yup, we’re talking all about fuckboys. The best part of it? We have an MVP chatting with us so we can better understand the psychology of why fuckboys do what they do. Jazmin’s long-time friend and former roommate, Bobby Adeli, is confessing all his dirty little secrets to us and what to spot in a man to know if he’s actually, in fact, a fuckboy. Saddle up ladies, this is a good one and it’s our first Wild & Raw guest! We’re also getting into: Chanel debates giving a fuck boy a chance Sunday strip clubs are the new church Charming Bobby teaches us his fuckboy ways We learn how Jazmin made a f*boy wait 8 years to seal the deal Jazmin & Chanel are taught the ultimate fuck boy routine including house tours, scary movies and back tickles Check out our guest, Bobby Adeli @bobbyadeli, and follow along for his routine thirst traps! Follow us! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
We’re back at it this week and we’re talking all about men’s profiles on dating apps! PSA GENTLEMAN: We’re talking about how we really feel about your fish photos and what makes you look like a total douche. Plus, how as women, we create a whole persona for a man before we even decide to swipe. On top of that, we’re giving a THOT Girl Summer update and how Chanel is ranking. Jazmin talks about how she didn’t delete her Hinge and how it came back to bite her in the ass...and not in a good way. Also: Thot girl summer is in full effect and Chanel is a strong contender for 2nd place Chanel had a potential whirlwind romance with her childhood neighbor Fake dating app profiles to catch a cheater A few tips for ladies on what to have on your dating app profiles Episode reference: 2. Have You Ever Gotten Whiplash From Sex?
We’re officially getting WILD & RAW! Our very first episode as our own podcast is here and we couldn’t be more excited. We’re talking about everything from Chanel’s mid-day nudes to Jazmin’s morning masturbation in front of her boyfriend. We’re not all sex over here, though, we’re also discussing how we met and eventually became podcast co-hosts. Chanel’s been enjoying the post-pandemic ho phase (which we’ve coined THOT Girl Summer) and Jazmin has been falling more in love with Woodshop. So much more to come on Wild & Raw with new episodes every Wednesday. Saddle Up, Bitches! We also talk about: Chanel’s psycho ex who briefly comes back into the picture How Wild & Raw came to be Get to know Jazmin & Chanel from relationship status to favorite sex toy …and butt play? What you should always keep in your purse Being an entrepreneur means you can masturbate at 2pm ...and more! Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
14: Loneliness comes at many different times, and whether you’re single or in a relationship, you can still feel lonely. Today, we talk about the different times and ways that loneliness creeps into our lives. Some days of the week are worse than others, some times of the day are worse than others. It’s all about how we manage this loneliness to keep us going! **This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
13: Are you the type of girl to go on one date a week, or do you have an entire lineup of dudes taking you to dinner M-F? Chanel is definitely more like the former but either way, dating and dating app fatigue is a real thing and Chanel has been feeling it lately. We also talk about: • Focusing on yourself first • Looks vs personality • Third & fifth wheeling • Spending enough time with yourself • Being too “picky” and what that really means
12: SINGLE LADIES! Take up golf as a hobby, you will absolutely find someone to date, f*** or marry. Today, we give you updates on our personal lives; for Chanel, Casper returns, we bone, and then he ghosts me again. Time to break out the infrared thermometer and track this ghost down...or not. Jazzy J updates us on what it’s like hanging out with her boyfriend, his ex-wife and his ex-wife’s boyfriend. In light of the recent holiday, we also talk about how expectations can totally kill a relationship. We also talk about: • Why Valentine’s day is our favorite holiday, single or not • We play some Would You Rather • Hotel room sex ** This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
11: Jazmin and Chanel welcome their friend Greg to the podcast today. He gets REAL candid and honest with us and we think it’s just what all of us ladies need to hear. Meaning, you need to find someone like GREG. Greg puts pleasing his women in the bedroom first, before his own needs and satisfaction, and what woman wouldn’t want that?? May also mean he’ll open the car door for you, and pull your chair out at dinner. Sounds like chivalry to us! We also talk about: • Round trip ticket relationships • Hooking up with people on vacation • Becoming an ex-pat (and what that even is) • Polyamory versus traditional values • Sex parties and cuckholding • Shower sex **This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
10: Today’s episode is all about finding confidence in the bedroom, whether it’s for a one night stand or with a partner you’ve had for a while. So many areas of our life––mental, emotional, physical––affect how we feel in the bedroom and we touch on it all, including our personal experiences. We also talk about: • A few terms from the “Dick”-tionary • Confidence in the bedroom and with sex • Worrying about how you look during sex • Having sex with a guy who isnt confident • How to introduce toys and porn ** This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
9: It’s a new year and we have our FIRST Just The Sip episode coming at you. Jazzy J is back and we are talking about some WEIRD SH*T today haha. You are in for it. We also catch you up on one of my recent dates with an older guy, which of course segways into the topic of relationships with age gaps. We also talk about: • 20-something men dating teenagers • We revisit the “boomerang” • Chanel watched porn for the first time by herself • Virtual reality sex • Dating guys that your friends have dated or had sex with *The dating magician show Jazmin was talking about is called The Single Wives on Netflix. ** This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
8: Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays bitches!! It’s a Christmas edition of Just The Sip with Jazzy J. Today, we’re talking all about Christmas, going home for the holidays, being single over Christmas, going to your significant other’s family home, how you have sex in their family home discreetly.... You know, all the usual first-world holiday hurdles. We also talk about: • Holiday traditions and traveling • The fucked up concept of Santa Claus • And we recap our amazing recent trip to Mexican wine country! ** This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
7: It’s another “Just The Sip” episode with Jazzy J on the other mic and we’re talking all about friendships. With women. And with men. While dating someone and while not dating someone. What’s appropriate? Who knows but we talk through it all and hopefully you’ll get some answers!! We also talk about: • Our recent vacays to Tulum and Portland (quite the opposite locations lol) • That friend radar you gain as a 30-something woman • When your friends get pregnant • Friends and the level of commitment you have to each other (i.e. the balance between giving and getting) • Recognizing when you’ve outgrown friendships • Male friendships and when they’re appropriate • Leaving the friend zone with a male friend and f*ing them **This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
6: What a show we have for you today. Chanel and Jazmin are talking about some STANKY stuff. Like anal as a wedding gift, and stinky butts during doggie. Ha! To start, Chanel and Jazmin do a little Bachelorette recap for the first time ever (it’s short, promise) and Chanel updates us on how she reconnected with Casper (reference episode 20) after she was a little tipsy and feeling herself. Pour a shot of tequila for this one because 2020 is hard and you need a drunken laugh! We also talk about: • Unlikely hot actors in Peaky Blinders and Outlander • Vibrators and the disappointment when they die • Pheromones and the different natural scents of men Drink of the Week: A straight shot of tequila. Because times are tough and ya just need to get the job done. ** This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
We are back with another Just The Sip episode! Jazzy’s been on a few trips, Chanel has been on a few dates, and we’re here to talk about it all, beginning with Chanel's first “ghosting” experience ever. Ugh. Plus, our thoughts on hair on men in all the nooks and crannies. **Peep the Ranch Water cocktail recipe in the show notes** We also talk about: • “Hearing” from exes through some sort of tech medium and it totally wrecking your world • The boomerang process • Licking balls • Data (yes, science) about the average number of partners for men and women Drink of the Week: Ranch Water • 12-ounce bottle Topo Chico, chilled • 1 ½ ounces blanco tequila, such as Los Sundays • ½ ounce fresh lime juice • Tajin Start by pouring out (or drinking) two ounces of the Topo Chico. Add the tequila then lime juice to the Topo Chico bottle. Run the lime on the rim of the bottle and and sprinkle tajin. *** This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
Today we are talking ALLLLL about cheating. After playing back this episode, we couldn’t help but realize that cheating is literally just like a playbook for football. There are a few different positions, and several ways to “play” the ball. You can be the cheater, the mistress, the friend who knows, or the one being cheated on. Jazmin and I go through our thoughts on these different positions, opinions on hypothetical situations and our own personal experiences being in these positions. Theme of this episode: we empathize with all of you out there in the fucked up game of cheating. This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo
Chanel & Jazmin sit down with little Los Sundays tequila to talk about mixing business with pleasure. Do you swipe right or left when your hot client or coworker pops up? What are the boundaries you should set and should follow when it comes to mixing the two? Not going to lie, we do get a bit more serious about dating guys in the corporate world and comparing your {lack of} benefits to theirs. Chanel also talks about her experience getting her face licked in Cabo, how to attract men when you're traveling by yourself and the whole concept of the “fuck buddy”. This episode is from our previous life on Cha Cha Sips before we jumped ship to make it officially official. Long story short, don’t mind the different intro music or reference to ‘Just The Sip’ (our original name we couldn’t keep) but this sh!t is good and you don’t want to skip it. Follow Us On Instagram! @wildrawpod @chanelsonego @jazzcornejo