With Love & Butter

Hi my lovies, and welcome back to a special episode of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on self-love and romance and all the food and drinks that get us through it. If you’re listening to this, you’ve already seen the title of this video so I’ll get right to it! I’m engaged. Screams internally. B and I have been engaged for almost 3 months now and I’ve been just over the moon about it! So in this episode, I want to take you all to the moment in time of the proposal, how we prepared to enter this season, all of the deets about our custom ring from Wove, and some of the things we’re looking forward to in this next season of our journey to marriage. And Femi, who you’ve come to know and love as B, will be joining us at the end of today’s episode. To learn more about our gorgeous custom ring, check out Wove, our exclusive custom jeweler. https://wovemade.com/shop/engagement-rings

Welcome BACK to Season 2 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on self-love and romance and the food & drinks that get us through it. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: 16 Carriages - an Apple Cider Mezcal Margarita  Today's Recipe: Soy Tomato Braised Pot Roast with Melting Onions & Brown Sugared Carrots Today's Wine Pairing: Chenin Blanc Today's Song Pairing: Imperfections by Baddaman Cerk  The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to a SURPRISE EPISODE of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about my final days in my Charlotte “bachelorette pad”, preparing for a move to Atlanta with my partner B, and how it feels to be starting not so from scratch this time around.  You can support my NEW cookbook Early Enough at courtneefutch.gumroad.com The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater.  This is Episode 13, our last of the season, before I take a brief hiatus and resume the podcast in the summer. And today we were GOING to be talking about my new outlook on dating as I went  into my third year of singleness. What I wanted. How I planned to get it. And how it was going, three months in.  BUT baby! Life has been lifing is the most funny way possible, and baby. I am in a relationship now. So instead, we’ll talk about how an unexpected someone has made me live my entire life more romantically and creatively. A letter I wrote to myself at the top of January. And how returning home to Atlanta changed my life. It’s a lot to get into.  Subscribe to the With Love & Butter newsletter at courtneefutch.substack.com All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.substack.com⁠ Today's Cocktail: Mezcal Bourbon Ginger Sour  Today's Recipe: Crab & Roasted Corn Carbonara with Brown Butter Lime Breadcrumbs  Today's Wine Pairing: Citrusy Sicilian White Wine like Etna Bianco Today's Song Pairing: Blü Moon by THEY.  The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music.  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. Happy New Year! Today we’re talking about my 2021 AND 2022 Dating Recap + answering 12 questions you all had about my 2022 dating experiences! All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Bitter Apricot Mezcal Sour The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. Today we’re talking about miscommunication, rejection and peeling back the layers of my anxious attachment style. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Pomegranate Rose Paper Plane Today's Recipe: Lemon & Brown Butter Hummus Chicken Shawarma Bowl Today's Wine Pairing: Sparkling Brut Rose Today's Song Pairing: Lemon Pepper Wet by Tempest The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. I’m Courtnee Futch, your host…baker, chef, mixologist, cookbook author, culinary producer and former serial monogamist gone roster-dater. Today we’re talking grief, romantic, platonic, and the self. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Mango Sorbet ‘Naked and Famous’ Today's Recipe: Smoky BBQ & Orange Shrimp and Grits over Buttermilk Gouda Grits Today's Wine Pairing: Pinot Gris Today's Song Pairing: A.N.O by ELHAE The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 9 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking love bombing and why I’m so susceptible to it, my own time as a love bomber, dating men several years older than me, and then ultimately the choice to remain strangers. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Passionfruit Campari Tiki Cocktail Today's Recipe: Pan Seared Cod with Crispy Spiced Potatoes in a Red Coconut Curry Sauce Today's Wine Pairing: Gewurztraminer Today's Song Pairing: Right on Time (ft. Lonr) by B.K. Habermehl The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 8 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re switching things up. If you’re following me on TIkTok, we’ve likely interacted a lot and you’ve seen that I get asked hundreds of questions about dating, entrepreneurship adventures, my corporate career, food, friendships etc. And I wanted to address some of the most frequently asked and share with y’all the lessons that I’ve learned in my 28 years on the planet. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Earl Grey Lavender Bee’s Knees Today's Recipe: Coffee & Brown Sugar BBQ Short Ribs over Buttermilk Cheddar Grits Today's Wine Pairing: Pinot Noir Today's Song Pairing: ISLY by Kenyon Dixon The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 7 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it.  Today we’re FINALLY diving into the year of Courting Courtnee. Starting with my very first days as a newly single woman navigating Hinge, a kiss so bad it bruised my lip for two days, a different man who we’ll call Detroit and spinning the block with him after 2 years and dating people who actually LIKE you. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Watermelon Negroni with Salt & Black Pepper Today's Recipe: Chicken Saltimbocca with Juicy Peaches, Basil and Mozzarella Today's Wine Pairing: Moscato d’Asti Today's Song Pairing: Kiss U Right Now by Duckwrth The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 6 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about my dating situation with a man that Tiktok came to know as The Favorite, how he broke my heart, how I broke my own heart and what feelings are coming up for me now. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Sparkling Vanilla Bean Paper Plane Today's Recipe: Brick Pressed Chicken with Chermoula Sauce & Roasted Asparagus Today's Wine Pairing: Vermentino Today's Song Pairing: Potential by Amber Simone The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 5 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about my Close Friends on Instagram and the huge role they played in the #CourtingCourtnee journey, how they held digital and IRL space for me to process and the romance of having a platonic community. To re-engage with dating and love, OUT LOUD... it's been freeing. The hashtag #CourtingCourtnee is me defining my ideas of romantic love... but in community. And I am so thankful to the Close Friends. The experience has been humbling and bittersweet. We laughed together so much more than cried. We shared hard truths and so many opinions. I feel ready to walk into love, softly this time. To choose it. And it is because of them that I feel empowered to do so. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Strawberry Basil Gin Champagne cocktail with Black Pepper Today's Recipe: Burrata & Basil Breakfast Pizza Today's Wine Pairing: Dry Prosecco Today's Song Pairing: Paper Thin by Lianne La Havas The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 4 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about my last long term lover, the insane way things ended, and how I took charge of my own healing when it was clear no one would help me. In 2018, I met the man I thought I’d love for the rest of my life. Then, not even 6 months into our relationship, I felt the weight of performance on my shoulders, a need to be a soft resting place always, and I wasn’t being watered in the ways that I so clearly needed. And I thought I’d be rewarded for my patience and understanding with loyalty and desire. Instead I got tears and lemon pepper lamentations. Let’s talk about everything that happened after, and how I’m feeling now! All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Pink Peppercorn & Fuji Apple Bee’s Knees Today's Recipe: Miso Ginger Lemon Pepper Wings Today's Wine Pairing: Chardonnay Today's Song Pairing: Body by Summer Walker The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 3 of  With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about the intimacy of handwriting and how much it informs my romantic decisions. My parents set a tone for vocal, verbal, tangible love. Something you can cling to. Something you can keep tucked away like treasure. Likely because, all around my childhood home were post it notes, and printed notes and notes on napkins. I went on to share this love action with every lover until my last boyfriend, who met it with refusal. I was reintroduced to this part of my love language this year and it had me walking on sunshine. We talk about having your loving hierarchy of needs met and more. All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Roasted Lemon, Bayleaf & Blackberry Bourbon Sour Today's Recipe: Baby’s First Surf & Turf: Brown sugar-rubbed ribeye with spicy butter lobster. Served over asparagus and goat cheese risotto. Today's Wine Pairing: Sauvignon Blanc Today's Song Pairing: Lines by The Hics The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/courtnee-futch/support

Welcome to Episode 2 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it. Today we’re talking about the dating phenomenon of “simping” and why I love it so much. I have come to think of myself as a wholesome hoochie. I curate so much of my life with a heavy sensual touch. It’s in my playlists, in my cooking, in my home spaces, color choices, outfits, the florals that are always in my home. Friends who have been to my home can speak to this. So naturally, even before there was the public journey of #CourtingCourtnee was the impulse known as being #CaredforbyCourtnee. I’m an OG Lover Girl. This is my story *cue Law & Order SVU theme song*.  All cocktail, meal and wine pairings can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast Today's Cocktail: Raspberry Rosewater & Honey Margarita Today's Recipe: Cardamom Orange Brown Sugar Banana Bread with Dark Chocolate, Pistachios & Flaky Sea Salt Today's Wine Pairing: Chardonnay Today's Song Pairing: PINK + YELLOW by Kallitechnis The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD

Welcome to Episode 1 of With Love & Butter, a chef’s podcast on dating & relationships and the food & drinks that get us through it.  I decided to start this podcast for two reasons. 1. Food is love, and I’ve been a participant in thousands of loving moments, both romantic or platonic, by way of my baking or cooking. and 2. I was able to prioritize self-discovery in my dating life, and always always always, food and drinks served as the backdrop. I want to share my re-imaginings of those menu items and make them my own. Many recipes will also be entirely of my own imagination as part of my chef/ lover girl journey. All cocktail, meal and wine pairing can be found with the full recipes on courtneefutch.com/podcast  The accompanying "All is Paired" playlist can also be found on Spotify and Apple Music. Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4rNDcdzryJQAxZuFOsV4i7 Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/all-is-paired/pl.u-e98lG89F9zz4lD