You Probably Think This Story’s About You

We are hard at work on Season 2. In the meantime, enjoy Crimes of the Heart. We’ll be back with updates and bonus content from Season 1 next week.   ---------- In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with author and unqualified but highly-skilled secret agent Gabrielle Stone about what to do when your husband cheats on you.   Together they talk about potential warning signs, getting back in the dating pool after a breakup or divorce, and how you can turn the worst thing that happened to you into a best-selling book that helps other women struggling along the way!  Follow Rory Uphold on Instagram @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold  Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or on my Instagram & TikTok  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are hard at work on Season 2. In the meantime, enjoy one of my new favorite show’s Family Secrets. We’ll be back with more bonus content from Season 1 next week.   Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd _____ 'I Dug It Up' is the first episode of the most recent season of Family Secrets. Growing up, Whit was extremely close with her mother. But when she becomes pregnant in her twenties, her mother extracts herself entirely; she spends the rest of her life pretending as if Whit simply does not exist. Why? To answer this burning question, Whit must dig and dig and dig.  More about Family Secrets: Family Secrets. We all have them. And while the discovery of family secrets can initially be terrifying or traumatic, often these discoveries have the power to liberate, heal, and even uplift us. Join Dani Shapiro, bestselling author of the memoir Inheritance, and her guests as they explore astonishing family secrets and uncover the extraordinary lessons the truth can teach us. More from Family Secrets: https://danishapiro.com/family-secrets/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode we share the raw interview with Kanon’s coworker, Sarah. Sarah recounts experiences from her initial positive impressions and rapid friendship to discovering his extensive lies about his personal life, work experience, and manipulative behaviors. His actions not only impact personal relationships but also professional lives, leading to investigations, job reassignments, and emotional turmoil. Brit and Sarah shed light on the psychological impact of manipulation and the importance of communal support in healing.  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Executive Producer Brittani Ard Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd ________________________ *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.  This episode may contain mentions and descriptions of addiction, suicide, mental health issues, and drug abuse.   If you are having thoughts of suicide or are in an unsafe situation. Please reach out to the resources below.     Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brittani is diving into your Season 1 questions with experts specializing in dating, scams, deception, and the legal consequences of manipulation. In this episode, Brittani sits down with dating coach Damona Hoffman to explore real issues like recognizing red flags and navigating dating norms. They discuss the effects of trauma on dating and share practical advice for making the most of dating apps. Damona's book, "F the Fairytale," tackles common dating myths and offers a straightforward approach to building meaningful connections. Join the conversation for insights that can help you create your own dating story. Part 2 of this episode available now ad free https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Listen to Damona Hoffman’s podcast, The Dates and Mates Podcast, and check out her book, F the Fairytale. Season 2 of You Probably Think This Story’s About You is about YOU. Share your story with Brittani. Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  ____________________________________  *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.    Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Season five of Nobody Should Believe Me tells the story of Sophie Hartman: a young, white midwestern evangelical missionary who travels to Zambia and comes home with two vulnerable sisters in her care. When she returns to the states, she lands far away from her family in Seattle, WA where she embarks on a medical odyssey with her younger daughter, C, reporting a variety of alarming symptoms: from chronic vomiting, to seizures, to days-long episodes of full-body paralysis.  Eventually, C is diagnosed with a rare neurological disorder called Alternating Hemiplegia of Childhood. Sophie weaves a tale of a child who could “leave us anytime” and uses the child’s illness to fundraise tens of thousands of dollars for special equipment and medical expenses, takes C on a Make-A-Wish trip, posts constantly about her family’s plight on her prolific social media accounts, and even writes a memoir about the story of her journey to adopt her. But is Sophie really the heroic mother of a sick child, or is she the ultimate unreliable narrator? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Andrea Dunlop, creator of "Nobody Should Believe Me," joins Brittani for an intimate studio conversation about the reality behind podcast success and the bumps along the way. Together, they pull back the curtain on their creative processes, share hard-won insights from their journeys, and reveal exclusive details about their upcoming projects. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brittani and Cash, season two guest who shared her personal story of foster care, catch up on the wake Cash’s story has made in her own life. Cash discusses the impact of sharing her narrative, the feedback received from her adopted family, and the importance of framing traumatic experiences in an empowering way. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brittani Ard reconnects with season 2 guests Lou and Eve, who formed an unexpected friendship after discovering they had survived an abusive relationship with the same man. In this candid follow-up conversation, Lou and Eve discuss the public response to their podcast episode, their personal milestones in the healing process, and how their traumatic experiences have shaped their approaches to parenting. Their story offers a powerful testament to resilience and the transformative potential of solidarity. All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We'll be back next week. In the meantime, enjoy this episode of Second Hand Therapy: Love, Vulnerability and Boundaries  It's a deep dive into the complexities of modern relationships today... Louie opens up about his struggles with balancing healthy boundaries and offering genuine love, while reflecting on his partner's perceived lack of effort in their shared home life. He explores the challenges of conflict resolution, emotional growth, and the fear of embracing vulnerable love. Michael shares powerful insights into how his father's influence shaped his current relationships, and how emotional well-being and self-acceptance impact his approach to love. The conversation takes a thought-provoking turn as Louie and Michael debate: Does love need to be earned? Support the pod: http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod http://secondhandtherapypod.com Follow us here:  http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod http://instagram.com/itsloubear http://instagram.com/malonecomedy Contact us: secondhandtherapypod@gmail.com 818-850-2448 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week host Brittani Ard puts producer Sydney Gladu behind the mic to talk through the making of season 2. The two talk about the process of sharing listener stories. You will also hear a sneak peek into what’s next for the show.   All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We'll be back next week with another episode. In the meantime enjoy Season 11 of Dakota Spotlight. ___ Welcome to Season 11 of Dakota Spotlight. This season, we uncover the haunting 1999 murder of a young man in Bismarck, North Dakota—a tragic event that reverberated through the community and left a lasting impact on everyone involved. In Episode 1, we set the stage during a bustling winter weekend in Bismarck, when the city was filled with out-of-town visitors attending the state wrestling tournament. Through vivid storytelling, you’ll ride along as the night unfolds, culminating in a harrowing discovery that ignites a high-stakes investigation. This season features firsthand accounts from detectives, loved ones, and even the convicted killer, as we unravel the complexities of this crime and explore deeper questions about memory, justice, and the enduring ripple effects of violence. Trigger Warning: This episode includes content that may be disturbing, including a 911 call. Please listen with care. Welcome to Homicide at House of Bottles. Check out the full catalog and everything Dakota Spotlight https://dakotaspotlight.com/Get all episodes early, ad-free, and more. Subscribe to Spotlight PLUS https://dakotaspotlight.com/spotlight-plus/ Sign up for the Dakota Spotlight newsletter https://dakotaspotlight.com/newsletter/ Homicide at House of Bottles is a production of Dakota Spotlight and Six Horse Media. This season was written, produced, and sound-edited by James Wolner, who also serves as the host. Research and interview assistance by Mari Zoerb Hansen. Special thanks to Bob Haas, Lloyd Halvorson, and the Bismarck Police Department for their contributions to this season. Email: dakotaspotlight@gmail.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/groups/dakotaspotlight X/Twitter: @dakotaspotlight Instagram: @dakotaspotlight TikTok: @dakotaspotlight Bluesky: @dakotaspotlight.bsky.social YouTube: @dakotaspotlightpodcast4800 Advertise your podcast or brand in Dakota Spotlight episodes: info@sixhorsemedia.com All content in this podcast, including audio, interviews, and soundscapes, is the property of Six Horse Media. Any unauthorized use, reproduction, or rebroadcast of this material without the express written consent of Six Horse Media is strictly prohibited. For permissions or inquiries, please contact info@sixhorsemedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are hard at work on season 3, we'll be back soon with more episodes. For now enjoy this conversation with Michele and Jake from LoveLustFear. ___ Brittani Ard, host of You Probably Think This Story's About You, joins Jake and Michele on lovelustfridays for a raw and thoughtful conversation about trauma, relationships, and the emotional weight of storytelling. She opens up about her transition from a career in architecture to podcasting, and the lessons she's learned along the way. The discussion dives into the complexities of dating in midlife—particularly for strong, independent women—touching on breakups, emotional boundaries, and the process of unintentionally emasculating men. Brit also reflects on how independence can sometimes hinder connection, and why taking small, intentional steps back into the dating world can be so valuable.Please Visit Our Sponsors!Ready to start your own podcast? Descript instantly converts your audio files into text documents—just like editing in Google Docs or Microsoft Word. It's the tool we rely on for Lovelust Fridays to keep everything running smoothly. Click here to try it for free!https://get.descript.com/pepqx4ars509 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We will be back next week with another episode of You Probably Think This Story's About You. In the meantime enjoy this episode of The Secret Room. _____ The Secret Room: “On the Backs of Turtles.” Dustin reveals a childhood secret he kept from his father for thirty years. The story centers on a regrettable and cruel act Dustin committed as a child, which, unbeknownst to his father, had a profound impact on their relationship. Despite the initial harm caused by Dustin's actions, the secret unfolds into a heartwarming tale of reconciliation and the enduring bond between father and son. The story is an exploration of guilt, redemption, and the complexities of familial relationships, culminating in a touching moment that underscores the power of forgiveness and understanding. Host: Ben Hamm Producer: Susie Lark Website: secretroompod.com Episode Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/Ct6lvJMOeFY/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Madison McGhee from Ice Cold Case joins Brittani Ard to talk about something we don't discuss enough: how social media makes grief feel performative and what that pressure does to families dealing with tragedy. Madison gets real about why her dad's murder is still unsolved, the wild misconceptions people have about the case, and the power of public pressure. Madison also catches Brit up on what she's been up to—her tour, Teen Vogue Op-Ed , and her new podcast L.A. Crimes with the L.A. Times. It's an honest conversation about turning your worst moment into something that might help other people, and all the messy stuff that comes with that.   CBS News Article All episodes are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd   Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited   Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Michele Locke, a divorce attorney, and Jake Deptula, an advocate for survivors of toxic relationships and host of the podcast 'LoveLustFear,' join Brittani Ard to talk about love and relationships, red and green flags, effective communication, and how to date wisely at any stage of life. The three also explore the dynamics of dating after traumatic relationships and the resilience of individuals who have endured toxic relationships.   Make sure to check out Michele and Jakes upcoming podcast, LovelLustLaw.   All episodes are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd   Share your story with Brittani.   Production of BDE Unlimited   Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Brit invites Eli Vasquez, a personal development and dating coach, to discuss the patterns of self-sabotage in relationships and how to break free from them. Eli shares his journey from being a self-proclaimed 'reformed fuckboy' to becoming a coach who helps individuals heal their inner child and establish healthy boundaries in love and dating. They delve into the dynamics of seeking validation, the differences between men and women in relationships, and the societal expectations that shape these behaviors. Eli offers practical advice on how to navigate the modern dating landscape, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection, setting boundaries, and holding space for emotional growth. The discussion also touches on generational shifts in emotional openness, the male loneliness epidemic, and the transformative power of facing one's vulnerabilities with compassion. — and follow him on Tiktok and Instagram (@itselivazquez). All episodes are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd   Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This is the story of what happened to J.C. McGhee on July 11, 2002 according to police records — some of which may not be entirely accurate nor adequate. Twenty years later, the search for answers begins. Learn more about your ad choices.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How To Communicate With An Avoidant Attachment Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode of the SelfHype Podcast features Brittani Ard, a resilient architect and storyteller who transformed personal pain into a powerful narrative. Brittani shares her gripping story with Eli, diving into her experience with a manipulative relationship that unraveled a web of deception, leading to her viral podcast season that reached #1 in five countries. Through raw vulnerability, she reflects on her childhood trauma, the longing for love, and the self-reflection that helped her reclaim her worth. Discover how Brittani turned heartbreak into healing, connecting with women across the country to uncover shared stories of resilience. She offers candid insights on spotting red flags, embracing flaws, and navigating the messy world of dating with grace. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about self-acceptance, the courage to be vulnerable, and the power of owning your story. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

"You Probably Think This Story's About You" is an exploration of love, betrayal, and the far-reaching consequences of one man's deceit, told through the eyes of the women whose lives were irrevocably changed by it.  Brittani Ard is on a quest for the truth. She wants to understand how Kanon — the man she once believed to be her soulmate — could have deceived her so deeply. As the devastating revelations unfold, exposing the depths of his lies, Brittani embarks on a journey to uncover the truth. The road to understanding is paved with Brittani’s complex childhood, marked by addiction, sisterhood, and the deep family ties that shaped her. But there’s one question left: who is this story really about?   One thing's for sure – it's not him anymore.  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Executive Producer Brittani Ard  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices