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Everyone will tell you to move to Florida or Texas to retire tax-free. But the truth? Taxes are more complicated than a “No State Income Tax” billboard. In this first part of a two-part series, we unpack The Great Tax Mirage and reveal why some so-called high-tax states like New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Iowa may leave retirees with more money in their pocket than the sunny paradises they’re fleeing. We dive into Fidelity’s latest study modeling retirees withdrawing $100,000 a year from an IRA and show how effective tax rates—what you actually pay after exemptions and deductions—can dramatically flip conventional wisdom on its head. For example, a couple retiring in Oregon might pay close to 13% in effective taxes, while a move to Iowa could drop that number to 7.5%, potentially growing tens of thousands of dollars over a decade. We also explore the underrated power of marriage in retirement planning. Married couples filing jointly can save around six percentage points on combined federal and state taxes versus singles—enough to add tens of thousands of dollars to a nest egg over ten years. Key takeaways from this episode include: No state income tax doesn’t automatically mean you keep more money. Certain high-tax states offer exemptions and deductions that outperform so-called tax havens. Marriage can be one of the most powerful retirement tax strategies. Your effective tax rate—not the headline rate—determines what you actually keep. Planning where to retire is about life satisfaction as much as taxes. Whether you’re dreaming of beaches, cornfields, or just a comfortable, worry-free retirement, this episode will change the way you think about where your money—and your life—goes next. Part Two drops next week, where we’ll rank the best and worst states for retirees, explore the real impact of marital magic, and dig into other often-overlooked factors that matter more than taxes when choosing where to spend your golden years. If you enjoy the show, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and share it with a friend who’s plotting their retirement escape. It helps more than you know—and makes sure that no one accidentally retires somewhere that quietly nibbles their nest egg.

This is part two of our financial order of operations series. In part one, we covered the non-negotiables—the oxygen mask, debt payoff, insurance, and the foundation of every real financial plan. This week, we get into the gray areas. The places where conventional wisdom isn’t just outdated—it’s expensive. Here’s what we cover: 7️⃣ The Emergency Fund MythYou’ve heard it before: “Keep six months of expenses in cash.” The problem? That advice was built for a world where savings accounts paid double-digit interest. Today, it’s fear-based and mathematically backward. Most people will go years without a true financial emergency, and keeping $20,000 in cash for a maybe costs far more than it saves. Learn how to balance liquidity with growth without putting your future on pause. 8️⃣ The Taxable Brokerage Account AdvantageOnce you’ve maxed your Roth IRA, captured your 401(k) match, and funded your HSA, it’s time to open a taxable brokerage account. This is your flexibility play—your bridge between today and retirement. Access your money anytime, invest in low-cost index funds, and take advantage of long-term capital gains rates that beat most income taxes. 9️⃣ The Right Way to Think About DebtDebt isn’t moral—it’s mathematical. If your rate is above 5%, pay it off first. If it’s below 5%, investing probably wins over time. But if it’s keeping you up at night, pay it off anyway. Personal finance is personal—and peace of mind compounds, too. 🎯 Bonus: The 20-Minute “Tiered Pricing” HackCall your phone, internet, and streaming companies once a year. Tell them you’re considering canceling. Decline their first “special offer,” and watch the discounts appear. It’s the modern coupon—no scissors required—and it can save you $1,000+ a year to redirect into your investments. At the end of the day, this two-part series gives you a complete, math-first roadmap for building wealth that lasts. It works whether you’re starting out or managing seven figures. And if you're interested in learning more about this week's show sponsor, Facet, check out facet.com/tyler today to learn more! 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts.  💌 Join the newsletter for weekly financial clarity (and the occasional heretical take): https://socialcapconnect.substack.com/subscribe

This week we’re tearing apart one of personal finance’s most overused frameworks: the “financial order of operations.” You’ve heard a version of it before—pay this, save that, sacrifice now, maybe retire someday. The problem? Most of those systems were built by people who either (a) never had real financial stress, or (b) have spent too long in the Dave Ramsey cinematic universe. So, I rebuilt the order from scratch. And it actually works in the real world, whether you make $40,000 or $400,000. Here’s what we cover: 1️⃣ Put your own oxygen mask on first.Take care of yourself before your kids. Financial stability isn’t selfish—it’s responsible. 2️⃣ Obliterate credit card debt.The “snowball method” is financial astrology. Attack the highest-interest balance first. 3️⃣ Get insurance.If someone depends on your income, you need term life and long-term disability. No gimmicks. 4️⃣ Max out your Roth IRA.It’s flexible, tax-free, and doubles as a stealth emergency fund. 5️⃣ Grab your 401(k) match.A 50% employer match is the only free lunch on Wall Street. 6️⃣ Max out your HSA (if you can).The triple tax advantage—deductible going in, tax-free growth, tax-free withdrawals—is unbeatable. We’ll go deeper into emergency funds, taxable brokerage accounts, and smart debt strategies in Part 2 next week. And a MASSIVE thank you to this episode's sponsor, Facet. If you are tired of paying more to an advisor simply because you make more, check out facet.com/tyler today to learn more.  👉 PLUS: stick around until the end of the episode for a modern trick that helps you find the money to do all of this in under 20 minutes—without canceling Netflix or giving up your morning coffee. If this episode helps you—or if you simply enjoy hearing someone roast bad financial advice with love—please consider leaving a review on Apple or Spotify or share this with a friend who still believes paying off a $200 credit card before a $20,000 one is “confidence building.” 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts.  📩 Join my newsletter for weekly financial philosophy that treats you like an adult: https://socialcapconnect.substack.com/subscribe

What if you could skip the index fund and build your own? In theory, you can. In practice…well, it’s a bit like building your own refrigerator. You’ll learn a lot, and maybe even get a working model, but you’ll also discover why the factory-made version is so efficient in the first place. In this episode, we dive into the peculiar urge to “DIY” the market, and why the exercise can be incredibly educational—even if you never actually follow through. Along the way, you’ll learn: The 11 Sectors of the Market: From flashy Tech to steady Utilities, every portfolio starts with understanding the cast of characters. How Benchmarks Really Work: Why the S&P 500 is more active (and more tax-efficient) than most people realize. The Temptation of Tilts: When to add seasoning like value or small-cap, and when ego is just disguising speculation. Building Your Own Fund: How to use sector ETFs to replicate the market—and why rebalancing can become a full-time job. Keeping Costs and Ego Down: The S&P’s hidden advantages in cost and tax efficiency, and why humility may be the cheapest asset in your portfolio. The takeaway? You can build your own index fund. You might even enjoy the process. But the real lesson is what it reveals: index funds are masterpieces of design, combining diversification, tax efficiency, and ruthless discipline—all while letting you spend your time on things that matter more than spreadsheets. And if you are interested in learning more about those who support this content and make the show possible, visit facet.com/tyler today! And see why they're the only partner I've brought to you thus far as a resource.  👉 If you found this episode useful (or at least more entertaining than quarterly earnings reports), please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or share it with a friend. It’s the best way to help the show grow—and keeps me from muttering about sector weights to myself in the Vermont woods.

Your 50s are a tax-planning sweet spot—a decade when smart strategies can save you tens or even hundreds of thousands over the course of retirement. In this episode, Part Two of our two-part series, we explore four advanced but practical moves to keep more of your money compounding where it belongs. Here’s what we cover in this episode: The HSA Triple Play: Why this account is the most underrated retirement tool, and how to turn it into a stealth IRA with triple tax benefits. Social Security Timing & Taxes: How your claiming age affects not just your benefit but how much the IRS quietly takes back. Charitable Giving with Donor-Advised Funds: A Costco-sized deduction now, with the ability to give on your terms for years. Plus, how Qualified Charitable Distributions can kill two birds with one IRA. Bracket Shifting by Gifting to Kids: Move money to lower tax brackets within your family—legally—while supporting education, housing, or even a responsible jet ski purchase. Together with Part One (Roth conversions, withdrawal sequencing, and tax-efficient investing), this gives you a full seven-strategy toolkit for your 50s. No gimmicks, no offshore shell games—just thoughtful planning that keeps more money in your pocket and less in Uncle Sam’s. 👉 If this series has been helpful, please leave a review or share it with a friend. It’s the best way to help the show grow—and it keeps me from muttering about Roth conversions to my dogs in the Vermont woods without witnesses.

Taxes in your 50s may not be cocktail party conversation, but they can make or break your retirement plan. In this episode, I kick off a two-part series on the smartest tax moves to make once the kids are (hopefully) off your payroll and you’re staring down retirement. In Part One, we cover four essential strategies: Roth Conversions: Why your 50s and early 60s may be the perfect window to pay taxes on your terms, not Uncle Sam’s. Withdrawal Sequencing: The order in which you raid your taxable, pretax, and Roth accounts can extend your portfolio by years. Tax-Efficient Investing: How to avoid paying tax on “phantom income” by using ETFs, low-turnover funds, and muni bonds. Tax Loss Harvesting: Turning portfolio lemons into lemonade by using losses to offset gains and shrink your tax bill. Think of this episode as a tax tune-up: no jargon—just practical strategies that can save you tens or even hundreds of thousands over your lifetime. And this is only Part One. Next week, we’ll cover the HSA triple play, Social Security timing, and two bonus strategies for the charitably inclined and family-minded. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss Part Two, and if you’re finding these episodes helpful, consider leaving a quick review. It helps more people discover the show — and keeps me from muttering about Roth IRAs to my dogs in the Vermont woods entirely in vain.

Most portfolios don’t implode in one dramatic crash; they leak slowly. A percent here, a hidden fee there, and before you know it, your retirement fund has been funding someone else’s yacht. (Cough, cough...your advisor's...) In this episode, I shine a light on ten common wealth leaks that quietly drain portfolios, plus practical fixes for each one. We’ll cover: How a “tiny” 1% fee can cost you a third of your returns. Why overtrading turns your portfolio into Swiss cheese. The real silent killers: taxes, spreads, and cash drag. Why your own emotions can be more expensive than any advisor. You’ll walk away with a checklist to plug the holes, lower your costs, and keep more of your money compounding where it belongs — in your account, not Wall Street’s. 👉 Think of this episode as financial plumbing: we’re finding the leaks before they flood your future.

Your portfolio’s performance isn’t about finding the next hot stock; it’s about how you slice the pie. In this episode, I break down the real math behind compounding, why losses hurt more than wins help, and three simple allocation models you can actually follow without losing sleep. We’ll cover: Why “average returns” are misleading and compounding is what matters. How diversification really works (hint: it’s not about guessing winners). Three practical allocation strategies for different levels of risk tolerance. The surprising case for the “reverse glide path” in retirement. Whether you’re cautious, balanced, or adventurous, you’ll leave with a framework to match your investments to both your spreadsheet and your stomach. And if you’ve ever wondered whether you should own more stocks, more bonds, or just more Advil to deal with it all once you retire — this episode’s for you.

Guest: Chris Hutchins, host of All the Hacks Episode theme: Building wealth with meaning—how to design a career (and life) you actually want, while optimizing the money side. What we cover: Meaning > money-first: Chris didn’t start out chasing wealth; he chased options. Early jobs in consulting/banking felt misaligned (little meritocracy, lots of “performance”). That tension pushed him toward work that creates—startups, product, and eventually a podcast. From layoff to leverage: A 2008 layoff forced reinvention. He broke into tech by doing unglamorous, high-initiative work, learning in public, and obsessively networking. Key tactic: create value before you’re hired (he built a full market brief to win a BD role). Career as a cash-flow asset: Once he found work he loved, savings were easier because the job itself provided energy, purpose, and upside. That shift—liking the work—reduced the need to “buy happiness” elsewhere. Optimization without overwhelm: All the Hacks exists to find the 80/20 in money, travel, health, and life. You don’t need to become a points guru or biohacker; borrow Chris’s research and apply the simple levers. Counterintuitive insurance take: When he priced plans, the “best” (premium) plan cost ≈$24k/yr more than the “worst,” while the “worst” plan’s out-of-pocket max was less than that difference. With a real emergency fund and a strong stomach, a high-deductible plan can be rational. (Psychology is the hard part.) Prepay for joy: Pre-buying (subscriptions, passes, prepaid trips) can remove friction and guilt, increasing actual use and happiness. Know your enough: People who don’t know what money is for default to “more.” Define the life you want, price it, then fund that—not a moving target. Audience resonance: “Mini-retirements,” negotiation tactics, and insurance optimization were huge hits; even niche episodes can be life-changing for the right listener. Actionable takeaways Design a role you’ll keep doing. Treat your job like part of your portfolio’s fixed-income sleeve: dependable cash flow, lower stress, and compounding skills. Front-load value. Pitch with a one-pager or mini-audit tailored to the company—proof you’ll do the work. Run the insurance math (with your EF). Price premiums vs. out-of-pocket max; let your emergency fund shoulder higher deductibles if the numbers favor it. Prepay strategically. Use prepayment to align behavior with values (fitness classes, transit, annual memberships). Write money rules. E.g., “Invest 20% before lifestyle,” “Use points for intl. biz class only,” “If it saves 10+ hours/yr, buy it.” Lightning-round fun Best <$100: Ultrasonic cleaner (for retainers/aligners)—tiny daily upgrade. Most overrated advice: Social-media tax “hacks” that cross legal lines. Apps he likes: A clean net-worth tracker + Copilot for spending (iOS). Guilty pleasure spend: Big annual fees on premium cards—only if the benefits net out. Find Chris: All the Hacks (weekly deep dives). A great starting point: his “Top 50 Lessons” episode.

Please take a moment to complete this brief survey so I can learn more about YOU and what it is YOU want from this show! I promise, it will take no longer than 97 seconds, and it will help me continue to make the show better for you.  There’s a strange YouTube genre called “What’s in My Bag?” where people pull out chapstick like it’s a state secret. This episode is basically that…except the bag is my financial life. And instead of chapstick, it’s index funds and money markets. Not sexy. Not even the flavored kind. Just the plain, unscented stick you find in your coat pocket three years later — still somehow usable. So, what’s in my financial bag? Today I’m walking you through my actual accounts: Roth IRA, taxable brokerage, SEP IRA, and yes, the glorified piggy bank that is my money market fund. I’ll explain what’s in each, why it’s there, and how I think about these buckets so you can use the same framework as a mirror for your own setup. Along the way, I’ll share how I went from aspiring Peter Lynch to preferring mental bandwidth. Why I sometimes hoard cash like a squirrel on Adderall. And why even the smug “just buy the S&P 500 and chill” crowd (myself included) still falls into the trap of trying to outsmart the market — usually by tilting toward “the next big thing” in the most boring way imaginable. Here’s what we cover: Roth IRA: My tax-free sandbox. 100% growth funds. If there’s ever a place to take swings, it’s here. Taxable brokerage: My liquid nest. Efficient, simple, with a healthy pile of cash-like funds as a psychological shock collar reminding me to actually live life. SEP IRA: My tax-bracket tamer. Boring, tax-deferred, locked away for “future Tyler.” (Poor guy.) The irony of tilts: How even with all this simplicity, I still fall into the trap of trying to beat the market with the market. The goal isn’t just to get rich. The goal is to make your portfolio so boring you forget it exists — because you’re too busy living the life it was supposed to buy you in the first place. Hope you all enjoy the show and it offers you something to think about this week!

Before you hit play: I’ve put a quick listener survey together for listeners. It takes less time than finding your password for your old 401(k), and it helps me shape future episodes around what you actually care about. Please take a moment to fill out this 3 minute listener survey here. This week I’m wading into a swamp I usually avoid like lukewarm gas-station sushi: money and politics. Talking about 401(k) policy across administrations feels like trying to explain cricket at Thanksgiving — half the room politely nods, the other half throws turkey legs. But here’s the thing: retirement policy matters, no matter who you love or hate in Washington. Whether you get to retire at 65 or keep working until 87 shouldn’t depend on which political team you root for. In this episode, I walk through how the Obama administration approached retirement savings (think: auto-IRAs, myRA accounts, the Fiduciary Rule) and how Trump’s team countered with their own changes (think: loosening MEPs, alternative assets in 401(k)s, and rolling back fiduciary standards). We’ll break it down into five big ideas you should care about regardless of politics: Access — Millions of Americans still don’t have a workplace retirement plan. Obama pushed for broader access through auto-IRAs, while Trump’s changes were more incremental. Access matters because participation skyrockets when saving is automatic. Simplicity vs. Shiny Objects — Obama tried to make retirement foolproof with boring products like myRA. Trump went the opposite way, pushing for private equity and alternatives inside 401(k)s. Both miss the middle. Fiduciary Rules — Obama’s Fiduciary Rule aimed to make advisors legally put your interests first. Trump’s team scrapped it. What’s left is a murky marketplace where some advisors are fiduciaries and some aren’t — and most Americans can’t tell the difference. Risk & Alternatives — Alternatives like private equity and real estate can add value — if you know what you’re doing. But without education and guardrails, they’re a chainsaw handed to someone who’s only ever used safety scissors. Education — At the end of the day, policies don’t fix behavior. Education does. Whether you’re handed training wheels (myRA) or a Ducati (alternatives), what matters is whether you know how to use them safely. My goal here isn’t to stump for anyone. I’m not campaigning (I don’t even like campaigning for Girl Scout cookies). This is about helping you understand how policy shifts could impact your money and your future. 📚 At the end of the episode, I also share a book recommendation that completely changed how I think about investing: Richard Ferri’s All About Asset Allocation. If you’ve ever wanted to understand how to slice up your portfolio without losing your sanity, this is the one. 👉 Listen in to learn how retirement policy really affects your wallet — and how to separate political noise from financial signal.

What if the biggest financial surprise in your life isn’t running out of money—but realizing that “having enough” doesn’t feel anything like you thought it would? In this episode, I explore the hidden side of wealth: the regrets, letdowns, and quiet disappointments that often surface after you’ve hit your financial goals. From savers who can’t spend, to retirees who waited too long for joy, to high achievers who retired from something but not to something, we unpack why reaching your number doesn’t always equal fulfillment. You’ll hear stories of real people—clients who built millions but treated their brokerage accounts like haunted attics, retirees who postponed joy until it slipped away, and professionals who reached “the dream” only to ask, “now what?” Along the way, we’ll look at surprising research, like why nearly 60% of retirees withdraw less than their required minimum distribution (not from strategy, but from fear), and why the average healthy retirement window is far shorter than most financial plans assume. This isn’t about blowing your 401(k) on a yacht or regretting you didn’t buy Apple stock in the 90s. It’s about the emotional hangover of achieving your goals and realizing you never practiced enjoying the wealth you worked so hard to build. In this episode, we’ll cover: The Curse of the Responsible Saver: why some people can’t spend even when they can afford to. Deferred Joy: the arrival fallacy that keeps people waiting for happiness until it’s too late. Retired From, Not To: how lack of purpose, not lack of money, creates regret. Emergency Spending Accounts: a counter-intuitive way to practice joy with your money now. Redefining “Enough”: why true wealth is measured in stories, not spreadsheets. If you’ve ever wondered what life looks like after hitting your financial goals, or worried that the “someday” you’re saving for may not look the way you hope, this conversation is for you. Because wealth is more than a balance sheet. It’s about spending money—and time—with intention, before it’s too late. 👉 If this resonates, subscribe to my free weekly newsletter at tylergardner.com for three takeaways from each episode. And if you enjoy the show, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or share this episode with a friend—it means the world to me and helps the show grow.

In case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side that answers the question How Do I Manage My Own Investments? This Week...Your kid thinks money comes from your phone. Or maybe a magical debit card named Mom. Taxes? Rent? The economics of movie popcorn? Foreign concepts. This episode isn’t about turning your child into a trust fund caricature. It’s about giving them the tools, education, and compounding head start so they have choices—whether that’s taking a sabbatical, starting a business, or saying no to a job that requires a lanyard. We cover three powerful accounts that can build real wealth for your kids: Custodial Brokerage Account – Flexible, market-based investing for minors without requiring earned income. Learn how to fund it, why capital gains can be lower for them, and the pros and cons—including the day they legally take control. Custodial Roth IRA – The most misunderstood (and misused) account in personal finance. If your child has legitimate earned income, this is a way to turn summer job money into lifelong tax-free growth. I’ll walk through the IRS rules, documentation, and why the math borders on magical. 529 Plan – A tax-advantaged education savings plan that’s more flexible than you think. We’ll cover state tax deductions, changing beneficiaries, and the new $35,000 rollover option to a Roth IRA. You’ll also hear the traps to avoid (FAFSA penalties, overfunding, and the NFT-buying eighteen-year-old problem), plus how to make sure these tools become teaching moments—not just bank accounts. The goal isn’t to make them rich for the sake of it—it’s to give them freedom, flexibility, and the ability to choose their own path without being shackled to debt or bad jobs. Listen now to learn how to set your kid up for financial independence (and keep them nice about it).

In case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side where we answered the question: When Should I take Social Security? This week on Your Money Guide on the Side, we’re tackling one of the questions I used to get more than any other—right after “Should I buy gold?” and “Is my advisor secretly bad at this?” We’re talking about how to vet your own portfolio. Not how to invest—that’s for another episode. This is about taking the pulse of your current investments and asking: Does this still make sense for my life? You’ll walk away with 7 practical steps to audit your own portfolio, whether you DIY, use an advisor, or have a Frankenstein’s monster of accounts stitched together from every job you’ve ever had. We’ll walk through questions like: Do you understand what you own—or is it the Donkle McFlonkerton Growth Fund? Can you see all your accounts in one place—or are they scattered like mustard packets in your fridge? Are your fees reasonable—or are you quietly tipping a deli worker $18 to assemble your own sandwich? Can you access your money when you actually need it? Is your portfolio accidentally built for a version of you who can stomach rollercoaster markets…but actually can’t? Are you diversified—or just holding Apple stock four different ways under four different fund names? And finally: Is it simple enough to forget about? Because believe it or not, that’s the goal. Not to beat the market, but to build something so clean, boring, and well-designed that it just hums along in the background—freeing up your brain for better things. Like your family. Or your dog. Or binge-watching season three of Is It Cake? without guilt. 🎯 This episode is for you if: You’ve got multiple accounts and no idea what’s inside them. You’re unsure what you’re paying in fees—or if those fees are fair. You want clarity, simplicity, and confidence in your investments, without learning Latin. You suspect your portfolio is more complicated than it needs to be. You want a clear, evergreen checklist to revisit any time your finances feel murky. Quick Favor? If this show has been helpful, I’d be grateful if you’d leave a review on Apple Podcasts or share it with someone who might need a financial tune-up. Every episode is built to be evergreen—so whether you’re listening today or in 2035 while AI dogs are walking themselves, my goal is for it to still make sense, still help, and still cut through the noise. Thanks for being here. Let’s run the sanity check.

In case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side answered the question: How do I Make ChatGPT My New Financial Advisor? How secure is your future benefit and what should you actually do about it? Taylor Sohns is a Certified Financial Planner™ and co-founder of Life Goal Wealth Advisors. Before starting his own firm, Taylor spent over a decade inside some of Wall Street’s biggest investment shops — the ones that build the ETFs, mutual funds, and hedge funds you’ve probably been pitched. Now he works on the other side of the table, helping everyday investors align their portfolios with their real-world goals. 📚 What We Discuss with Taylor Sohns: 🧮 02:30 — “Coming back to the math” — social security basics 📊 05:20 — The cumulative payout — monthly benefit vs. break-even point ❤️ 08:15 — Spousal benefits — why your timing affects more than just you 📉 11:50 — Social security cuts — what to consider beyond just “take it early” 💼 15:55 — Working after you start social security — common myths 📅 18:00 — Who should wait, who shouldn’t — the role of base rates and earning history 🧠 22:20 — Investment management = behavior management — risk, emotion, and real-life planning 🎯 26:15 — How risk tolerance is actually measured — and how firms get it wrong 📺 29:00 — Reactive news and robust markets — longterm vision ⚖️ 33:30 — Passive vs. active investing — ETFs, experience and exposure. 🔀 37:00 — Is there a middle ground? When active management makes sense 💡 What You’ll Walk Away With How to assess your own social security timing with math — not fear What to know about spousal and survivor benefits before you make a move How potential cuts to the system could affect your plan (and what not to panic about) What it really means to “work while claiming” — and who that works for Why risk tolerance isn’t just a form — and how to think about your own appetite for volatility A clearer understanding of the real debate between passive and active investing 🧾 Resources Mentioned Life Goal Wealth Advisors → www.lifegoalinvestments.com Taylor on Instagram → @lifegoalinvestments Social Security calculator → www.ssa.gov/benefits/retirement/estimator.html CFP Board → www.letsmakeaplan.org If you're still game to support the show, leaving a quick review really helps — even one sentence goes a long way! You can also join thousands of other investing-minded folks by subscribing to the newsletter:https://socialcapconnect.substack.com/ Check out episode 26 with Tess Waresmith — a financial educator who shares the costly investing mistakes she made in her 20s, how to vet financial advisors, and why your ignorance is often someone else’s profit.

And in case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side where we answered the question How Much Does a Financial Advisor Actually Cost? What if your smartest financial sidekick never sleeps, never judges, and doesn’t charge 1% AUM? In this episode of Your Money Guide on the Side, Tyler Gardner explores how to use ChatGPT—not as your stock-picking guru, but as your emotionally-stable, algorithmic thought partner. One that can help you think better about money, values, timelines, and fees—without selling you a whole life policy disguised as “peace of mind.” We break it down into five key ways AI can help you think more clearly, not just calculate faster: 🧭 Clarify Your Values Ask ChatGPT: “What do I actually want money to do for me?” Spoiler: “Retire early and drink wine in Italy” is not a core value—it’s a Pinterest board. Let AI help you write a personal money mission statement and filter out everyone else’s goals. 🧠 Understand Your Risk Profile Forget the nonsense quizzes (“If the market drops 20%, do you: A) Buy more, B) Cry in the tub...”). ChatGPT can simulate scenarios, unpack your financial behavior, and help you discover if you’re actually more golden retriever than honey badger when volatility hits. 📆 Map Your Timeline Your life isn’t one big finish line. It’s a winding trail with sabbaticals, pivots, slow travel years, and expensive hobbies you haven’t picked yet. Use AI to draft your financial timeline and test your plan against reality—before your knees give out. 💸 Analyze Your Fees The 1% “small” fee isn’t small when you compound it for 30 years. ChatGPT can help you unpack your advisor agreement or prospectus, run cost projections, and tell you whether you’re paying for advice—or just someone else’s lake house. 📊 Review Your Portfolio Paste in your holdings and let AI review your diversification, concentration, expense ratios, and risk alignment. You may find out your “balanced” portfolio is just three tech stocks in a trench coat. 🔍 Bonus: Ask it to roleplay your 65-year-old self reviewing your current plan. You might learn what your future self wishes you’d done while you still have time to do it. Bottom Line: This isn’t about replacing all humans with robots. It’s about using sharper tools to ask better questions: – What do I value? – What’s my actual risk tolerance? – When do I want money to matter? – What am I really paying? – Is my current strategy aligned with who I want to become? If AI can help you do that without judgment, jargon, or sales tactics—why not use it? So go ahead. Paste your plan. Ask the “dumb” question. And remember: the smartest people in the room aren’t the ones with all the answers—they’re the ones still curious enough to keep asking. If this episode made you laugh, think, or recheck your advisor’s fee schedule—leave a review on Apple Podcasts or send it to a friend still paying 1.75% and calling it “normal.”

And in case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side where we answered the question, What Accounts do I Actually Need? Tess Waresmith is a financial educator, speaker, and investor known for helping people reach financial independence with simple investing. She’s the founder of Wealth With Tess, where she helps women build wealth and confidence through investing. Tess has been featured by CNBC, Business Insider, and Fox 5 NY, and is a self-made millionaire focused on helping others avoid the mistakes that cost her… well let’s not go there. 📚 What We Discuss with Tess Waresmith: 🔍 03:15 — Early mistakes and financial wake-up calls — who should handle your money? 💸 06:40 — Millions lost in fees — how hidden costs quietly eat your future 📈 08:15 — “It’s not that hard” — building confidence by learning the basics 🧠 10:00 — Asset allocation 101 — understanding fiduciary duty and financial jargon 🧾 13:00 — Learned money scripts and access to real financial literacy ⚖️ 15:00 — Avoiding absolutes — why personal finance isn’t one-size-fits-all ⏳ 17:20 — The time investment of investing — and why it’s worth it 🚫 20:00 — Breaking up with your advisor — navigating the money manager minefield 🚩 25:55 — Red flags in your fees — questions to ask and answers to expect 🤫 29:00 — Your ignorance is someone’s profit — staying sharp in a noisy market 🎓 30:30 — $50K of financial education in 4 minutes — a crash course curriculum ⚡ 35:30 — Lightning round! — quickfire investing truths and final thoughts 💡 What You’ll Walk Away With How to spot hidden fees that quietly drain your portfolio The confidence to make financial decisions without outsourcing everything What to ask before trusting someone with your money A basic framework for asset allocation and fiduciary responsibility Why there's no single “right” way to invest Tools for becoming an informed investor, even if you’re starting from scratch 🧾 Resources Tess’s website: www.wealthwithtess.com Financial independence mini-course: www.wealthwithtess.com/fi Follow Tess on Instagram: @wealthwithtess Featured on: CNBC Business Insider Fox 5 NY If you're still game to support the show, leaving a quick review really helps — even one sentence goes a long way. You can also join thousands of other investing-minded folks by subscribing to the newsletter: one practical idea, once a week, zero fluff — www.tylergardner.com/newsletters. Check out episode 23 with Bill Perkins — a hedge fund manager and author of Die With Zero, who explains why the best return on investment might be spending your money now on experiences that

And in case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side where Bill Perkins and I answered the question, How Do I Die With Zero?  In this solo episode, Tyler breaks down the only six financial accounts you’ll ever truly need—and more importantly, how to actually use them. Whether you’re just getting started or managing a more complex portfolio, this is your streamlined, nonsense-free guide to designing a system that works. No more chasing every new fintech app or wondering if you’re missing something. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the alphabet soup of financial tools, Tyler’s here to cut through the noise and give you a clear path forward. These six accounts are enough to build wealth, protect your downside, and create long-term flexibility. And anything beyond them? Likely just extra complexity disguised as “optimization.” What You’ll Learn: Why a regular checking account should be boring—and how to keep it that way How to think about a High-Yield Savings Account (HYSA): the “glovebox” for your cash—not your investment engine The power of a Roth IRA—and how it’s often misunderstood Why a pre-tax IRA or 401(k) still matters, even if retirement feels far away The secret weapon of the wealthy: the HSA (Health Savings Account) and how to use it for more than doctor’s visits How a taxable brokerage account unlocks true flexibility—and why you might want to use it before maxing everything else Plus: A better metaphor than “bucket strategy” Why most emergencies aren’t emergencies at all (and what that means for where your cash lives) The order Tyler recommends for prioritizing contributions When not to use these accounts (because yes, even the Roth IRA can be misused) Whether you're 25 and just opening your first Roth, or 55 and wondering how to consolidate accounts, this episode gives you a timeless roadmap to simplify your finances without oversimplifying your life. As always, Tyler brings the clarity, the nuance, and just enough humor to make talking about tax-advantaged accounts… well, weirdly fun.

And in case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side where we answered the question, How do I beat the stock market?  Is Future Planning Ruining Your Future? What if your financial advisor told you to spend your money now? To give away your inheritance early? To go on more vacations? To prioritize experience over investment? What if they told you the only inflation-protected asset is experience? Bill Perkins is a hedge fund manager, poker player, and author of the bestseller Die With Zero. On this week’s episode, he breaks down why money is just a means — and experience is the end. 📚 What We Discuss with Bill Perkins: 🛤️ 02:40 — Early revelations and going the non-traditional route 💡 05:10 — Borrowing from your poor self to give to your rich self 📆 07:35 — “What experiences belong when?” — and why delayed gratification can go too far 🤔 10:25 — What money can really buy — fulfillment vs. accumulation 🎢 12:22 — Staple experiences worth the cost — collecting memories that stick 🧠 13:35 — Memory dividends — the one return no market crash can erase 👵 15:40 — Retirement planning — running out of money vs. running out of time 🧘 17:50 — Letting go — why overplanning for the future can wreck the present 🕰️ 20:25 — “Life is now, life is urgent” — estate planning and missed chances 🏛️ 23:20 — When should inheritance be inherited? Challenging default thinking 🎯 26:15 — Hindsight and financial regret — is gold-plated better than good enough? 📖 28:20 — Learning from the past to make the most of what’s next 💸 29:20 — What is your time worth? The hidden cost of chasing more income 💡 What You’ll Walk Away With Why deferring joy is often just fear in disguise A new way to think about saving, giving, and legacy How to measure value through memory, not money A framework for spending intentionally at different life stages How to plan for the end of life without missing the middle 🧾 Resources Mentioned Die With Zero by Bill Perkins → https://a.co/d/9KKHOzT Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez → https://yourmoneyoryourlife.com If you're still game to support the show, leaving a quick review really helps — even one sentence goes a long way to help others find the show. You can also join thousands of other investing-minded folks by subscribing to the newsletter: www.tylergardner.com If you enjoyed this, check out episode 22 with Wendy Li — a former endowment CIO who managed billions for New York’s top institutions and shared how institutional investors evaluate risk, choose fund managers, and build resilient portfolios.

And in case you missed it, check out last week's episode of Your Money Guide on the Side where we answered the question, What do Billion Dollar Portfolios Look Like? Let’s be honest: you’re not going to beat the stock market. And that’s not an insult — it’s a liberation. In this episode of Your Money Guide on the Side, Tyler Gardner unpacks one of the most misunderstood goals in investing: trying to “win” against the market. Drawing on decades of investing experience (and more than a few Peloton mistakes), Tyler explains why comparing yourself to the S&P 500 is often irrelevant, how hedge funds and high-frequency traders have rigged the game against retail investors, and most importantly, why even when you do win, you often lose. We explore: The real origin of the “beat the market” mindset — and why it was never about helping you Why the S&P 500 isn’t a fair benchmark for most people Market efficiency theory explained without Greek letters (but with plenty of sarcasm) Behavioral biases that will ruin your returns: overconfidence, recency bias, loss aversion, confirmation bias, and more How even the pros struggle — and why surviving your own brain is the real edge When paying a 1% advisor fee might actually be a bargain Why boring, automated, diversified investing is the best strategy no one wants to hear about Whether you're new to investing or already deep in the weeds of candlestick charts and YouTube stock tips, this episode will reframe what success really looks like. Because real wealth isn’t built by outsmarting others — it’s built by staying in the game.  📬 Subscribe to the newsletter for 3 financial insights every Sunday 📲 Follow Tyler on IG/TikTok: @socialcapofficial 📈 Want to support the show? A quick review or share goes a long way.