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Victoria Sinis worked at an OnlyFans management company where it was her job to recruit and manage content creators.
She lasted a mere 5 weeks once she saw behind the scenes and became disgusted by the realities of the industry.
Now Vic is on a mission to educate and protect young women.
Learn more about Victoria’s mission here.
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We’re so excited for you to dive into this one!
Grab your favourite warm drink, settle in, and join us for a 25-minute mindset boost to kickstart your New Year.
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Enjoy the episode! Nick and Zoe
This isn’t just a story about a proposal — it’s about why we chose each other, how we knew it was right, and what we believe makes a relationship truly work.In this intimate episode, we answer your biggest questions about love, commitment and what it actually takes to build a healthy partnership. You can check out our very classy Withings Scanwatch Nova Brilliant Edition here: https://bit.ly/Nick-Brilliant#engagement #relationship #proposal
Is it possible to keep the spark alive long-term? So many couples struggle with intimacy fading over time - but why does it happen, and what can we do about it? In this episode, we break it down.
In this episode of becomng, we’re diving into the toxic dating games that keep people stuck in frustrating, confusing situationships.From waiting hours to text back to ghosting, fake future plans, and playing the numbers game, we’re calling it all out. 🚩
I sit down with Dr. Will Bulsiewicz, a renowned gut health expert, to dive deep into the fascinating world of diet, mental health, and our microbiome. Dr. Bulsiewicz shares his expertise on how our gut impacts everything from anxiety to overall well-being, and we explore the latest research on how to improve your gut health for a healthier mind and body.
Over the next 10 days, I'll be sending out a free email series sharing the exact formula I use to regulate, live in flow and manifest my goals. Sign-up below (it's completely free):https://becomng.kit.com/flow
Zoë and Nick (mostly Nick) seriously question their commitment to a 30-day no alcohol, sugar, gluten, dairy or anything fun cleanse. Although, has Nick already cracked?
We also talk about our new ebook becomng Magnetic and the Art of a Good Breakup.
You can find the ebook here: www.becomng.com/ebook
Zoe and Nick kick off this episode from the Gold Coast, reflecting on their biggest lessons from 2024 and sharing their New Year’s resolutions for 2025. They dive into their personal growth, tackle listener questions about relationships and life, and even reveal their thoughts on baby names and future plans. From handling conflict to balancing hobbies and quality time, it’s an insightful and fun way to wrap up the year and look ahead!
Navigating the world of modern dating and relationships can be tricky, especially when red flags come into play.
Are they deal breakers or simply quirks you can work through?
In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest questions around dating red flags, relationship boundaries, toxic traits, and when to compromise versus when to walk away.
We cover:
• Manipulation in intimacy and emotional control.
• Financial red flags like stingy habits or controlling money dynamics.
• Trust issues, including social media behavior and boundary violations.
• Subtle signs of toxic relationships, such as love bombing, low emotional intelligence, or controlling tendencies.
We also share listener stories, unpack the spectrum of red flags, and even laugh about some of the trivial ones (dirty bed sheets, anyone?)
Whether you’re navigating a new relationship or reevaluating an existing one, this episode provides actionable advice to help you build healthier connections and avoid heartbreak.
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Welcome back to Becomng! In today’s episode, Zoë and I dive deep into love languages—the secret cheat code to building intimacy and strengthening your relationship, emotionally and physically. 💕
We’re covering:
👉 What love languages are and why they matter
👉 Practical ways to apply them to improve connection with your partner
👉 How understanding love languages can reignite the spark 🔥
We’re also answering your amazing Instagram poll questions, like:
💬 How can I use love languages in foreplay?
🛠️ What if my partner doesn’t understand their own love language?
❤️ Can love languages change over time?
Whether you’re feeling disconnected or want to level up your relationship, this episode is packed with actionable tips, personal stories, and real talk to help you express love in ways that truly resonate.
🎙 Plus, Zoë joins me as the new co-host! Expect more deep-dive episodes every week, focusing on relationships, self-improvement, and navigating modern love.
Key Topics:
1️⃣ What are love languages?
2️⃣ Why they’re a game-changer for intimacy
3️⃣ Real-life examples for each love language
4️⃣ How love languages can evolve in different stages of life
Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes and let us know in the comments which love language resonates with you the most!
👉 Follow us on Instagram @nick.slater @Zoemarkell for Q&A polls and updates!
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I drag Zoë' onto the Pod to talk relationships.
In this episode, we answer a bunch of amazing questions we received on Instagram stories, including:
- How did we meet?
- What are our attachment styles?
- What's our erotic blueprint?
- How we keep the spark alive?
And lots more. Enjoy!
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Jeremy Lipkowitz overcame porn addiction and now helps thousands of men, all around the world, escape the grip of porn addiction.
In this episode:
- The normalisation of porn in society
- How it has conditioned our beliefs around intimacy
- How it can create an emotional divide between partners
- How it affects men and women's performance in the bedroom
- The rise of OnlyFans
- Is porn cheating
- And how our life changes when we quit
For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.
Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.
I’m so excited for you to listen to this one, Jeremy is a fantastic communicator and as you’ll hear, his advice around quitting isn’t just applicable to porn addiction, but also applies to any vice or addiction you might be grappling with.
Chloe Mascord is an Intimacy Coach and host of the Honey Ed podcast, where she shares short episodes PACKED with value on sex and intimacy.
Today we receive a free session with Chloe as she kindly coaches us through some of the most common issues she works through with her clients:
- How to boost libiddo and reclaim your sexual power
- How to approach sensitive conversations with your partner
- What to do if your partner doesn’t want sex
- The value in organising a ‘sex date’
- The specific tool we can use to heighten our senses in the bedroom
- Navigating changes after having children
This episode is sponsored by Eight Sleep
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Welcome to the Love Shack!
In this episode, Nick Slater sits down with Thomas Malucelli (his second time on the show) to talk: dating and relationships. As a walking example of someone who has “done the work”, Thomas provides THE BLUEPRINT on EXACTLY what you can do as a single person to beat loneliness, raise your vibration and attract your soul-mate.
Ben Harvey experienced a spinal cord injury while playing rugby in high school and became a c4 incomplete quadriplegic. Now Ben uses his lived experience to dispel myths surrounding disability and helps improve disability representation in society.As you’ll hear in this interview, the way Ben responded to his life-changing injuries was nothing short of profound. He has an incredibly resilient mindset which has inspired me my whole lifeIt was such a pleasure having Ben on and catching up with an old friend. I can’t wait for you to listen to this one and be inspired by Ben’s story.
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Today we're joined by ex-nightclub owner, promoter, booze mogul and interesting human Danny Grant.
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How often are you breathing through your nose?
As you’re about to learn, nasal breathing, can have a profound impact on your wellbeing.
Dean Gladstone, an OG Bondi Rescue Lifeguard , has devoted his life to breath.
Besides working as a lifegaurd, Dean’s purpose is to help people manage stress. His workshop, Power of the Breath, has reached tens of thousands of people globally and you can download his app, of the same name, free of charge here:
https://apps.apple.com/au/app/power-of-the-breath/id1587665426
in today’s conversation, Dean discusses the link between nasal breathing and deep sleep and why taping your mouth during sleep can lead to an increase in energy and vitality.
We talk about breathwork in sport and the NRL team Dean’s been working with lately
He also provides pratical tools to help youWe unwind at night and have deeper sleep.
So grab a tea, coffee, sit back and enjoy becomng Dean Gladstone.