bed hoppers - swinging in the UK

In this episode we talk to Shiv and Tom - a couple who are relatively new in their journey. They talk about their experiences, how they got started, advice for folks just starting out and what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin. It's a fun little conversation - with something for everyone. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find Shiv and Tom on Swinghub by searching 'Shiv&Tom' Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast! In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your room. Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links Find Ruby and Cole on Swinghub by searching 'RubyandCole' Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/  

In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you!  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/  

In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then? Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Read the article we mention: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/31158998/gran-canaria-nude-beach-swinging-orgies-sex/ Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling exploration of our past, present and future.  Thanks for hopping into our podcast!   Handy links Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  

In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk OMGYES: https://start.omgyes.com/join 

In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a recording from some delightful friends covering their experiences in going Han-Solo.  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  

In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things! Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end for a couple of clips from friends of the show too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about Keri Gold here: https://www.instagram.com/keri_gold_/ Find out about VA here: https://www.instagram.com/vanillaalternativeclub/ Check out the Spicy Match Insta here: https://www.instagram.com/spicymatch_official/ Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you. Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Tickets to our NEON Dreams event are available here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/ Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk 

In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/  Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/ Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you.  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/  Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/ Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures. This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and understanding how your kids might react. Do get in touch if you have any questions - and thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!! Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/  Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi.  Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!! Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/  Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/ Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the conclusion to the sexy story we've been sharing. Miss that one at your peril! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!! Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/  Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too!  Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you! Thanks for hopping into our bed!  Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!! Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Welcome to the bed hopper podcast. Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top it off, there might just be a sexy story written by Mr H.  Thanks for hopping into our bed. Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!! Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  

In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too. Thanks for downloading our podcast! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!  

In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case.  Thanks for hopping into our podcast. Handy links Send Mrs H your phrase at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com  Join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  Check out Wanderlust Swingers here: https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder 

In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date!  Thanks for hopping into our podcast! Handy links Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  You can read about us in USA Today here: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2024/03/07/swinging-emotions-sex-relationships/72675532007/ Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/