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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

Author: Trina Leckie

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Honest and logical advice… with a sprinkle of bluntness. Trina helps you navigate the craziness of the modern dating world, stop obsessing over your ex, and finally close the door on half-ass relationships. She also highlights the humor within all of the nonsense.

Grab a copy of Trina's book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon.

For coaching, visit breakupBOOST.com. Instagram & TikTok @breakupBOOST.
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This episode is all about recognizing your worth and how to stop settling for the bare minimum. Kind of like a pep talk, centered around CAKE! Did that make you hungry? Me too! LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
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There's a boat load of topics covered in this round of ASK TRINA... so don't delay... press PLAY and listen to this episode NOW! I'm sure you'll be able to relate to some aspect of at least a handful... Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
I came across a post on threads (which is basically the new x for Instagram) and wanted to address it on here, as I know so many people are in this same type of position… and need a bit of a wake-up call. Lots of important lessons in this. Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST  
Temptation is a son-of-a-gun... isn't it??!! Add that onto dealing with a "no contact" situation... and, well... you've got a challenge on your hands. After listening to this episode, I think you'll be more motivated to ramp up that self-control. (I mean, at least that's what I'm going for... ;) Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
In this episode, I'm talking all about EXCUSES... including breaking down three common excuses people make for their partner’s bad behavior (or whoever they are dating or interested in). These excuses are holding you back from the respect and love you deserve. It’s time to get real, call out the nonsense, and take your power back. Enough already!  Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
If you’ve ever found yourself enduring bad behavior in the name of love, this episode is for you! I break down why "unconditional love" shouldn’t be a free pass for someone to walk all over you... and remind you of the non-negotiables in a relationship. Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
Pep talk time! If you're out there crying over a jerk who mistreated you, cheated on you, lied to you... or sold you a story they never delivered on...  (maybe all of the above)... this pep talk's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
I can't go a day without seeing or hearing the word “avoidant”... and I'm here to do my part in sharing some much needed FRESH perspective. Hopefully it will resonate with you and make you think twice before joining the herd in overusing the term ;) Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
There is so much irony in wanting someone else to change. If you find yourself in a situation where you are super frustrated by the person you're dating, in a relationship with, or even married to... this one's for YOU! Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
SUPER RELATABLE topic today! Lots of gold nuggets to be discovered and tucked away in your back pocket. Let me stop you from diminishing your value and having to look back on this with regret. Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
It's time to drop some truth bombs to prevent you from doing things you shouldn't be doing ... because doing certain things and making certain choices in dating will not lead you to The Promised Land. And THAT is one thing I can promise.   Listen to this episode NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
Your mindset influences how you think, feel, and behave in whatever situation you find yourself in. And speaking of mindset, I have often talked about the importance of going with the flow of life… or in other words... embracing the path of least resistance. This advice stems from observing how people can drive themselves absolutely crazy by clinging onto dead-end, unhealthy relationships. When you’re trying to force situations, you do this out of insecurity and fear. To hear everything I have to say on this topic, listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
Wouldn't you just be tickled pink at the thought of being all wrapped up in someone who can't get over their ex?? So, then why are you doing this to someone else?! It's time for a lil reality check, a lil honesty, and some self-reflection. Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
This is an episode to make women, who have been through this, feel validated... and for the guys listening, it's to give you perspective as to what you don't want to do and why. As soon as I hear a guy say, 'I just want a woman to be my peace," it's like an alarm bell goes off as to how this guy operates. Let me fill you in on why I say that... listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
If your relationship ended and you're in a panic to get things back on track, THIS EPISODE is EXACTLY what you need to hear right now... before you end up doing all the things you shouldn't be doing and would later regret. Cause who likes regret?? No one. And hey, even if you already did some things you regret, that's ok! Let's start fresh NOW!  Listen to this episode. I got your back! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
Breakups suck. There's no denying that. However, going through a breakup doesn't mean you put your life on pause and mope around for years to come. Hell no! You've got things to do. And should we really assume breakups are just a walk in the park for the dumper?? Listen to this episode now! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
I absolutely LOVE working with couples. It's all about forming a really healthy professional relationship that feels like having a solid friend in your corner who is there to support you, who wants the best for you, and who has your back as a UNIT. We all work together as a TEAM. And of course, that includes holding you accountable and calling you out when needed, for the greater good of the relationship. I am confident you will feel a sense of relief and feel genuinely supported if you choose to work with me. And just knowing that you have someone to reach out to who knows all of the ins and outs of your relationship when you hit a wall or have an argument ONGOING, can bring you peace of mind. Let's work together: https://www.breakupboost.com/couples-coaching-online/ Trina Leckie
I love connecting with podcast listeners on "LISTEN IN." If YOU are interested in being a guest, here's how: https://www.breakupboost.com/be-a-guest/  In this episode, I’m thrilled to be joined by Kylie! Kylie went through a breakup about 6 months ago, and although she has done a lot of healing since, she has been dealing with the remnants of it and shares some fears that many of you will find very relatable in terms of moving forward and what the future holds. And oh, what a BRIGHT future she has in front of her. I can see it now in my crystal ball! ;) Listen to this episode now... and check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz  Support the podcast HERE: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/breakupboost   Get More Help: (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost (4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST (5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST
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morfooo

Awareness is the key!

Jan 13th
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morfooo

Unfortunately such tragic stories are becoming a common thing in today's society. If you wish take some time and listen to this podcast which contains lots of educational messages.

Nov 2nd
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morfooo

Anybody needs to listen to this brilliant episode.

Aug 7th
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NT92

Trinaaaaa Honestly absolutely amazing podcasts, I have listened to almost all of them your voice is therapeutic and every topic is mind blowing & inspiring.. Thank you for simply saying your truth 🙌🙌 it has gotten me through my toughest breakup l. I will continue to listen to your pods keep them coming ❤

Mar 29th
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Linda Marie Slattery

I love this podcast, and so glad I found it. Listened to pretty much all the episodes, and even though life and love is great right now, I've had my share of terrible relationships. Each episode gives perspective and helps me figure out where mistakes were made, to hopefully do better this time around. Well done Trina.. Linda 🇮🇪

Jan 13th
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Caroline Desire

Hi, I’m going through a break up, she said that we were going to fast and fell in love to quick but she was more into it than I was, I don’t know if I should give her space for a while so she can realise that what we had was so good, we connected like we known each other for a long, we made each other so happy, what should I do? Caroline

Oct 21st
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anita charles

Thank you so much for this. I've been in an on and off relationship for 3 years. it's caused me anxiety, depression and even suicidal attempts. Listening to this today, I'm in one of those off times in my relationship and I've been finding the courage to let go for good. After this I feel like I've woken up and I'm ready to start letting go. Oh, this is my first episode, I'll be listening more for sure.

Aug 23rd
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Danielle Simmons

I love this podcast..it is getting me through my break up (18yrs) I have listened to all of them... listening to some again..as they're so good. To the point & make complete sense...thank you so much Trina x

May 24th
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Michael Evans

I just started with 91. I am really having a hard time with my break up, I've come to realize a lot of my mistakes. But after listening to this, I felt so much better, very insightful and needed. So much so that when I went back looking for the podcast and couldn't find it for a minute, I was panicking, haha! Where can I leave a review.

Jan 14th
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Ajay Bhaskar

Trina, you are a beautiful person, thank you for existing I've been trying to get over my ex for almost 3 years now but this podcast is the start, I'm a lot better after listening to it thank you thank you thank you!!

Aug 25th
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Anon ymous

right on

Aug 10th
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Julia Quigley

I love this podcast. It is helping me to exit an addictive toxic relationship. Every time I want to contact my ex, I just listened to an old episode. Thank you Trina for your sound wisdom!

Jul 7th
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Maria Machuca

I'm going through this right now. Today is the first night of not going on Snapchat for them. It's been months. I looked up "getting over ex" and found you!

Jun 22nd
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