death to self.

Death to self is a podcast navigating Christianity in your 20s. Every week, we dive into what culture says versus what the Word says regarding various topics. Our main focus is to build our identity in Christ and being in the world and not of it. Buckle up with your host, @k.pearlliee as we take over the Kingdom! Let’s connect on Instagram @deathtoselfpodcast! SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel death to self by Pearl

when you lowkey miss the world

You know death to self is supposed to be a safe space, right? So let’s be honest — have you ever found yourself missing the world? Missing your old ways and wishing you had the “freedom” to do whatever you wanted like you did before Christ? Because I have. In this episode, we’re talking about the struggle of keeping up with your convictions when you low-key miss the world — why that happens and how to deal with it. Let’s get real 💚✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37Aπ=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

10-06
29:32

how long will you be a baby Christian?

How long will you be a baby Christian?Hebrews 5:12-14 talks about believers still needing milk when they should be eating solid food. Many of us stay spiritually immature because we hold onto the world, ignore God’s voice, and keep pleasing our flesh over our spirit. Let’s talk about what it really means to grow in Christ and move from baby steps to deeper faith.Timelapse 0:00 – Introduction4:51 – What does it mean to be a baby Christian?5:40 – Things that keep you spiritually immature9:40 – What does spiritual maturity look like?11:40 – How to grow out of being a baby Christian✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

07-21
23:42

financial worries, rejection, before Christ era, and trusting God as a Father

Hiiii DTS FAMMMM!!!!!! 🥹Just a quick note – there’s a little editing glitch in the first 3 minutes 😭 I was editing on my PC for the first time and somehow missed it, so thank you for your grace! 🙏🏽✨ Still hope the episode blesses you. 💚I’ve missed you so much!Today’s episode is a life update on how this year has been so far (spoiler alert: not so great 🥲). I also met my younger self for coffee and reflected on where I was before Christ. ☕✨✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37Aπ=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv⏱️ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome + little life update6:00 – Reintroducing Death to Self7:06 – Introducing myself (kinda)9:13 – What God has been teaching me this year12:38 – dealing with Financial worry15:32 – God is the best DAD18:46 – I met my younger self for coffee

07-14
28:51

what’s holding you back?

Fear…the one thing that stops us from living in our calling…the fear of what will people say, failure, the past repeating Itself, is it God who really told me that? Let’s talk all about it on today’s episode! ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

02-17
22:56

consistency over results!!

Many of us have been called by God to do incredible things for His kingdom—write the book, start the podcast, launch the website, or build the YouTube channel. We begin with excitement, but when the results don’t match our expectations, we struggle with inconsistency. In this episode, we dive into the importance of obedience over outcomes, staying faithful even when growth feels slow, and trusting God’s timing in the process. Let’s talk about it!✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

02-10
31:02

exposing the lies of the devil

“Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.”‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭5‬:‭8‬ ‭In this episode, I share a personal story about a strategy the devil used to steal my joy. We also dive into the connection between accomplishments and pride, and uncover more tactics the enemy uses to draw us away from God.✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

02-03
28:41

friendship & sisterhood ( girl chat 3)

Today’s episode marks the finale of our 3-part Christian Girl Chat series, where we dive deep into all things female friendship, sisterhood, and navigating friendship drama.Check out their instagramsGift —https://www.instagram.com/meg.duuh.lin?igsh=Znd4M3I5bGtsMmFjAmanda—https://www.instagram.com/amanda.vanqa?igsh=MWlzbDl4NnNlZ3hwdQ==Divine—https://www.instagram.com/thats_sodivine?igsh=MW5lMHd4aHZjaWpvcg==Adonay—https://www.instagram.com/adonay_noir?igsh=MWdiZ2hibDE4aXVhMg==✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

01-27
26:26

relationships, purity and singleness (girl chat 2)

In today’s episode, my sisters and I dive deep into navigating relationships as Christian women in our 20s. We discuss everything from purity and sexuality to finding contentment in singleness and embracing what God is teaching us about marriage and romantic relationships.Check out their instagramsGift —https://www.instagram.com/meg.duuh.lin?igsh=Znd4M3I5bGtsMmFjAmanda—https://www.instagram.com/amanda.vanqa?igsh=MWlzbDl4NnNlZ3hwdQ==Divine—https://www.instagram.com/thats_sodivine?igsh=MW5lMHd4aHZjaWpvcg==Adonay—https://www.instagram.com/adonay_noir?igsh=MWdiZ2hibDE4aXVhMg==✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

01-20
54:17

womanhood, body image, & modesty (girl chat)

Today’s episode is part 1 of a 3-part Christian girl chat series. My friends and I dive into what it means to navigate Christianity as women in our 20s. We explore our perspectives on womanhood, insecurities, the Proverbs 31 woman, modesty, and the lessons God is teaching us as His daughters.✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

01-06
46:39

a step by step guide to growing closer to God in 2025

Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

12-30
31:47

where do we draw the line with chatGPT?

ChatGPT, the smartest, most brilliant AI tool there is at the moment. You can have conversations with it, go on calls with it, some people use it for school, work, personal development… others might have taken it a littttlee tooo farrr, telling chatGPT your problems, seeking guidance from chatGPT, going to chat GPT before GOD. How far is too far with ChatGPT, let’s talk about it✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

12-23
21:10

GOD wants to use your insecurities for His glory

A lot of times our insecurities stop us from letting God use us meanwhile God as great as He is, wants to use us regardless of our insecurities…let’s talk about it on this week’s podcast episode ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

12-09
31:12

are you living your 20s to the fullest?

There’s a lot of pressure from society on how to live your 20s, what you must do, what you must achieve and so on…in this episode we talk about the 4 things that matter the most according God’s word!✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

12-02
23:02

the desire to be married

In this episode we talk about the desire to be married as a Christian in your 20s, singleness, dating with purpose, marriage and more! Sermons I recommend watching on singleness, relationships, and marriageBuild to last by Pastor Robert Maduhttps://youtu.be/2XS0USKsMfo?si=TjKcj1WxzHooRTDqMarriage series by Pastor Stephanie Ikehttps://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjFKP_xkron8aDvoZE09-aidQAKcITzGk&si=uRAFdTDUba9Q4F3YSingle, not alone by Pastor Mike Toddhttps://youtu.be/ViuAblc-M0g?si=p9Bhz5-jzuatADKy✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

11-25
31:05

stop throwing yourself pity parties!!

Self pity—bragging to yourself about how bad you have it in life “nothing goes right for me, nobody loves me or cares for me, everyone has a better life than I do” and yes it is a sin, let’s talk about it✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

11-18
33:36

Are you a soul winner?

“Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.”‭‭Matthew‬ ‭28‬:‭19‬ ‭—the one thing we know we have to do, yet most of us ignore, In this week’s episode we discuss challenges with talking about Jesus, how to overcome them and all things evangelism and winning souls for the Kingdom✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

11-11
35:36

when the honeymoon stage is over

Helloooooo DTS Fam!Welcome to season 4 of your favourite podcast!!;) Today’s episode is a life update, we catch up on what happened when I was gone, church camp, birthday, friendship, 2 years with Jesus and igniting your fire for God when you don’t feel like it✨Watch the Episode on YouTube here✨ http://www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37Aπ=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

11-04
30:40

The married perspective 2|why we should wait till marriage

Part 2 of the married perspective! And on this episode we talk about dealing with just in a relationship, why we should wait for marriage, and the importance of being equally yoke!Podcast description ✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨Subscribe to the Podcast YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37Aπ=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

08-12
40:32

from LGBTQ to JESUS

In this episode, Naledi shared her testimony on being set free from homosexuality and lesbianism and finding her identity and femininity in Christ Check out her podcast—https://open.spotify.com/show/0iQNQnryenL8Xa25lEzvJF?si=WPtqcm7jSqCL-RpSTcINhQ And connect with her on Instagram—https://www.instagram.com/naledimojaje?igsh=MWd4MnAxYTkzdzVueA== ✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨ https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr ✨Subscribe to the Podcast YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨ https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37Aπ=e-N_m0vvPIQR66 ✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨ https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

07-29
53:10

why am I here?—Purpose

In this episode we talk all things purpose, finding your identity, and calling ✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨ https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr ✨Subscribe to the Podcast YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨ https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37Aπ=e-N_m0vvPIQR66 ✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨ https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv. Sermon I recommend watching on purpose-https://www.youtube.com/live/eijx5XkN8E0?si=guIMJN3oO44RDiYz

07-22
45:53

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