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The Art of Charm | High Performance Techniques| Cognitive Development | Relationship Advice | Mastery of Human Dynamics

The Art of Charm | High Performance Techniques| Cognitive Development | Relationship Advice | Mastery of Human Dynamics

Author: AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak (Formerly Jordan Harbinger)

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The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn from the company’s coaches about to how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of Johnny and AJ, the company’s founders.
Johnny and AJ bring their 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world and they share their stories, best practices and themselves on this weekly podcast.
Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners, and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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704: AoC Podcast | The Bad House Guest: Cognitive Distortions
Our perception of reality is dependent on our thoughts.So if our thoughts are infected, then our lives will be too. That’s why on today’s episode of The Art of Charm we are discussing the 10 most common “cognitive distortions”; those irrational and often untrue thoughts that heavily influence our beliefs, decision-making and happiness.Tune in to today’s episode to learn the defense you can implement to avoid your mind’s tricks.The Cheat SheetHow do cognitive distortions wall you off from discomfort?Why does black-and-white thinking leave no room for growth?What is magnification and why does it blind us?When should we realize we’re shining the spotlight too much on ourselves?And much more…Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-podcast-cognitive-distortions-704/Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial!Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here!HELP US SPREAD THE WORD!If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need.Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview
703: AoC Podcast | The Power of Accountability
We all have goals and aspirations, but how many of us take the time to share and vocalize those goals or support our friends as they try to achieve their goals?On today’s episode, we are discussing the importance of accountability. We, at The Art of Charm, often call accountability the “cheat code to self-development.” When you start to integrate others into your personal journey, the social pressure hacks your motivation centers, sending you on the fast track to achieving your goals.The Cheat Sheet:What are the 3 rungs of accountability?How does accountability reinforce ownership of a goal?What are ‘accountabilibuddies’ and how do we choose them?How does tracking your goals foster momentum?Are there good and bad goals to set? What is a S.M.A.R.T. goal?And much more...Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-podcast-the-power-of-accountability-episode-703Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial!Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here!HELP US SPREAD THE WORD!If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need.Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview 
702: AoC Podcast | Brutal Truths Part 2
On last week’s episode, we dove deep into life’s most brutal truths. This week, we are continuing the conversation with Part 2, where we examine more of the complicated truths we run away from. Here is what we cover:The Cheat Sheet:How does emotional reactivity set you up for failure?What is value and how does it relate to time and relationships?Why is the hamster wheel of achievement a flawed model for happiness?What are people’s most common deathbed regrets?How does celebrating the small wins help you achieve the big victories?And so much more....Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-podcast-brutal-truths-part-2-episode-702Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial!Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here!HELP US SPREAD THE WORD!If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need.Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview
701: AoC Podcast | Brutal Truths Part 1
We all want attention, approval, and acceptance. But we can’t expect others to give us that if we don’t approve of ourselves. Most often, the reason we struggle with self-acceptance is because we are running away from the brutal truths of life. In today’s episode of The Art of Charm, we run the other way, towards those these uncomfortable facts, to unpack and examine them. From understanding that nobody actually cares about you to accepting the finality of death, this episode leaves no room for the fearful. Here are some of the questions we explore. The Cheat Sheet: What are the some of the brutal truths of life that we don’t want to think about? How does accepting the finality of death make you feel more free? Why do men run away from their emotions instead of embracing them? How does technology corrupt our ability to enjoy intimacy? How is the term ‘adulting’ just a cover-up for your aversion to responsibility? And so much more… Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-podcast-brutal-truths-part1-701/ Casper is the award-winning mattress w/ 20,000 5-star reviews. Go to casper.com/charm and use "CHARM" at checkout for $50 towards your next mattress.  Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview
701: AoC Podcast | The Power of Improv
Life is improv. There is no script, no directors, no instruction manual for how to be successful. It’s all improv, so to be good at life, you have to be good at improv. Erin, Deonne, and Suzanne are professional improvisers here in Los Angeles and coaches at The Art of Charm. Listen to today’s episode to hear how they approach the art of improvisation, and how we can inject the principles of improv into our day-to-day lives! The Cheat Sheet: What is improvisational comedy and how does it apply to our lives? How does trusting your friends relieve you of pressure? Why is your sense of humor a muscle and not something you’re born with? How do you view mistakes as opportunities instead of beating yourself up? What are the principles behind living in the moment? And so much more… Full show notes at: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/aoc-podcast-the-power-of-improv-701 Casper is the award-winning mattress w/ 20,000 5-star reviews. Go to casper.com/charm and use "CHARM" at checkout for $50 towards your next mattress.  Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview
699: AoC Podcast | Johnny Interviews AJ
Last week we learned all about AoC co-host Johnny Dzubak (@dzubak). This week, we’re turning the spotlight around to hear the life story of AJ. How did he go from science wiz to football player? And then from cancer biologist to Art of Charm co-founder? Tune in to this episode to hear the story behind your co-host’s unique trajectory. The Cheat Sheet: Who is AJ Harbinger? How did navigating difficult family dynamics shape AJ’s emotional fingerprint? What did facing rejection from girls teach AJ about confronting fear? What does a PhD student do when something else is calling? How was The Art of Charm formed? And so much more… Full show notes at  https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/aoc-podcast-johnny-interviews-aj-episode-699 Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter ART OF CHARM in the How You Heard About Us section. HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!
697: AoC Toolbox | High Value Conflict Resolution
There's a fine line between pushy and pushover. In this toolbox episode, we learn 10 ways to maintain resolve and stay high value in personal and professional conflict situations. "Let us never negotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate." -John F. Kennedy The Cheat Sheet: Avoiding conflict only delays its resolution. High value conflict resolution seeks a win/win. Discover the three criteria for effective negotiation. Learn 10 ways to maintain high value in conflict resolution. Know the difference between lens and empathy. And so much more... Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/aoc-toolbox-high-value-conflict-resolution-episode-697/ Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free -- that's over three times as long as the standard trial! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter ART OF CHARM in the How You Heard About Us section. HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!
696: AoC Toolbox | Mental Models and Frameworks
Mental models and frameworks guide the way we make decisions in everyday life -- but what are they, where do we get them, and how can we make sure we're not sticking with outdated defaults? The Cheat Sheet: Mental models are our beliefs about ourselves, the world, and everything in it. Our mental models are made up of past experiences, misunderstandings, incomplete facts, and intuitive perceptions -- as a result, every mental model has shortcomings. Our mental models influence our actions, and our actions influence our mental models. Unhelpful mental models of the world can lead us to making bad decisions and taking ineffective actions; helpful mental models move us forward in life. We need to make sure we're using the right tool for the right job. Even outdated mental models aren't entirely valueless if we know how to adapt their relevant aspects to updated ones. And so much more... Acuity Scheduling is your online assistant, working 24/7 to fill your schedule. The AoC family can go to AcuityScheduling.com/AOC to get 45-days free — that’s over three times as long as the standard trial! With pain-free invoicing, FreshBooks helps entrepreneurs and freelancers save time and avoid a lot of the stress that comes with running a small business. Try a month of unrestricted use for free here (no credit card required)! Enter ART OF CHARM in the How You Heard About Us section. Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/aoc-toolbox-mental-models-and-frameworks-episode-696/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!
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John Mansell

What happened to 701 the power of improv?

Apr 30th
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Jordan Harbinger

John Mansell I appreciate it!

May 1st
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John Mansell

Jordan Harbinger Sure have, big fan. I'd follow you to a podcast on underwater basket weaving

May 1st
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Max 1235711

thank God for this podcast. helps me make the best of even the worst situation

Apr 29th
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Jordan Harbinger

Max 1235711 Do you also listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show?

Apr 29th
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Kat Contreras

man I just feel like for anybody with mental health disabilities or illness this could be the wrong message. perception versus reality of a person's action or mental handicap or physical handicap is you know always different than the person that has to deal with it you can suffer from both you don't have to be one without the other and that's so true in many aspects of life but we're so conditioned to be confined by that diagnosis

Apr 24th
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J WIGHTMAN

OMG WHAT HAS THE PODCAST BECOME!!! Y'all go check out the Jordan Harbinger Show way better

Apr 22nd
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Dylan harmon

since Jordan has not been on the show the content has Been 99% worthless. two episodes of you talking about yourselves. what are you guys after? what is the goal here with the content you are putting out? to make money or to truly improve the world you're in?

Apr 22nd
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Jordan Harbinger

Dylan harmon Hey Dylan, I’m now at The Jordan Harbinger Show if you haven’t caught it yet. :)

Apr 22nd
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Michael Hatling

I work with mentally challenged adults and everything I learn here is helping me become an even cooler guy for my Members to relate to. I mean I am helpless when it comes to teaching them basic curriculum but I am able to connect with these folks on a real level that includes a spectrum of a rock n roll sensibility even if it meanders into subject matter that they may not usually have an opportunity to express themselves about. My confidence provides an environment of trust for them and it seems to be the first time some topics are discussed openly for them. Today we discussed Hygiene...including washing our private parts...not in a pervy way...openly and with humor. Anyway...thanks dudes...im the only male Staff in our class and by being as good of man I know how to be has been the right thing to be right now in my life.

Mar 29th
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Jordan Harbinger

Michael Hatling Thanks Michael. Also The Jordan Harbinger Show? That’s where I am now as I am no longer with The Art of Charm nor do I host this show. Please update your podcast subscriptions! :)

Mar 29th
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Michael Hatling

I work with mentally challenged adul

Mar 29th
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Tahla Ntshakaza

This episode is amazing, thank you so much

Mar 11th
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Jordan Harbinger

Tahla Ntshakaza I've actually left ‪The Art of Charm podcast and no longer host the show. You can now find new episodes at The Jordan Harbinger Show (update your podcast subscriptions!)

Mar 11th
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Rey Mesa

This fool is psycho... "the joy of suffering"... 😂🤣😂

Mar 7th
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Aldo Valadez

Did not like this new AoC at all. unsubscribed and subscribed to the Jordan Harbinger show.

Mar 6th
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Jordan Harbinger

Aldo Valadez Welcome back! :)

Mar 7th
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Josh Beauvais

Go subscribe to the Jordan Harbinger show. Awesome content, the best host around and top notch producer. AoC dropped the ball by letting this split happen.

Feb 26th
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Jordan Harbinger

Josh Beauvais Thanks Josh. Hope to see you at The Jordan Harbinger Show

Feb 26th
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Stef anie

The new hosts really lowered the value of the show. I couldn't be any less interested in what AJ and what's-his-name have to say. Stupid decision to fire Jordan and Jason. Pretty rich that you started with a high value advice episode.

Feb 25th
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Eric Barnhart

Stef anie Hey Stef, I understand your disappointment with the change in programming. Based on your comment, maybe you should try listening to it again, and then listen to part 2 on high value when it comes out.

Feb 28th
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Jordan Harbinger

Stef anie Thanks Stef. Check out The Jordan Harbinger Show!

Feb 26th
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Manlywego

I unsubbed when I found out about the split but these guys were smart enough to bring back a good topic to reel me back in. I’ll be subbed to both now as long as quality stays up. Plus the gravel voice dude is still on this show

Feb 23rd
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Jordan Harbinger

Manlywego Glad you’re listening to The Jordan Harbinger Show

Feb 27th
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Sam Waltner

Time to unsubscribe

Feb 22nd
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Brandon D

If this show continues like AJ said in the newest episode, it think it will work great. I love the toolboxes and AJ and Johnny are great at them

Feb 21st
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Brandon D

Jordan Harbinger I do! I even left a review. Keep up the good work!

Feb 27th
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Jordan Harbinger

Brandon D Do you also listen to The Jordan Harbinger Show?

Feb 27th
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Mic Hilton

It's like when they change your favourite hosts from your morning radio show, it just doesn't feel right. Sorry but you've lost me. I'm going to go check out the Jordan Harbinger Show

Feb 20th
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Jordan Harbinger

Mic Hilton Thanks Mic!

Feb 27th
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Ant Hunter

what happened to fan mail friday?

Feb 20th
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Brandon D

Ant Hunter AOC doesn't do it anymore but the Jordan Harbinger Show does

Feb 20th
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Seth Bunton

Go listen to the Jordan Harbinger show Jordan and everone else was fired from AoC the new show is the same thing and getting better all the time

Feb 19th
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Jordan Harbinger

Seth Bunton Thank you Seth!

Feb 27th
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J WIGHTMAN

Listen to the Jordan Harbinger show is you want More Jordan and his crew aka the people who are this podcast. AOC fired them idk why anyone know?

Feb 19th
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Jordan Harbinger

J WIGHTMAN Thanks J. Welcome to The Jordan Harbinger Show

Feb 27th
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Mic Hilton

+Epic Fail AOC!!!! Getting rid of Jordan, Jason and the crew. We dont know the story of what has happened behind the scenes but they way that AJ and Jonny have handled this is below substandard.

Feb 19th
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