Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

This is Rori’s ‘take’ on the whole authenticity piece.  Because this, Authenticity, goes into everything around  ‘work’, too, if we're really honest. And if we could talk about this topic from an artistic standpoint, and how it's so radical - Authenticity is the magic that gives us the kind of relationships we want, no matter what walk of life we're in. When we can get down to this very honest, authentic place -- which also involves quite a bit of vulnerability, the doors of love open up for us to make profound connections. Natalina Love is asking Rori about ‘unconventional relationships’ right along with the whole 'existential love crisis'…. Where and what is it? Love and relationships can be quite the puzzle, can't they? It's okay, we've all been there.  No matter how complicated or unique your situation feels, know that you're understood and supported on Rori Raye's Siren Island. Join Rori Raye’s Siren Island Course and Official Community here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/Siren-island-program/

So what happens when you feel disappointment, where do you go from there?  And more specifically, we also want to bring in the feeling of disappointment in business, as well as in love.  An across the board thing is that we’re growing our bandwidth, we're growing our emotional bandwidth, we're growing our mental bandwidth, we're getting bigger in both business and in love - regardless of what kind of work life you have. Maybe it's also your life as a domestic goddess, all the things that make up your life.  We want to invite it all to come into a space of healing and transformation, whatever your Siren dreams are.  To get quick, personal help for your immediate situation right now, and learn the Modern Siren Tools to gracefully transform every bit of your life - join Rori Raye’s Siren Island Course and Official Community here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/Siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

In this podcast, we're talking about "looping": Looping back to the whole thing about our triggers - the things through the whole dating process and developing a solid committed relationship. The idea is to get excited about you...and... ...to notice yourself complaining about the men who are showing up on your dating profiles, on your dating apps, or even in the relationships you're in. This "complaint" part is universal to wherever you're at in the dating and love timeline, and Naomie Thompson is brilliant at helping you solve it so it no longer gets in the way of getting what you want. Naomie Thompson is not only an influencer coach, she's the Director of Rori Raye Coach Training and teaches in The Siren Mastermind. To get real help to Get Everything You Want from your Feminine Energy, experience The WANT Masterclass here: https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/ Love, Rori

When the answer from someone else is "No" - it can stop you in your tracks. Find out what you want, what you need, what kind of Feminine Energy space you need to be in, in order to Inspire a man, and to inspire the world. Here, in this video, I want to bring in the whole Business Siren world as well. The whole marketplace of the world into our Atmosphere, fairly big topics. To get help creating your own Feminine Atmosphere, try The Siren Island Community and get your needs addressed and met: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

I've just been Googling how to choose a life philosophy. Which may sound silly to some people, but it's really been like a come-back-to-the-fundamental-basics for me.  For some people, this is simple. So many of my friends were brought up with a particular religion or spiritual path, or found their way later in life, and so many of my family and friends are atheists and agnostics who don’t feel a need for a spiritual life at all. I'm fascinated by all of that.  And I'd love to do a big panel of people who have varying different life philosophies and different approaches to what life means, what some call “the supernatural” that others call the truth, and how they feel with what they believe that affects their life during rough times. During slow times.  Like I'm waiting for my man to show up.  Like I feel bad. I have ill health.   What do we do in those moments?  If you’d like to join a community where you can voice your feelings about anything, your beliefs as they solidify, change, or feel like they’ve gone missing, and that whatever “anchor” you once had is no longer there - try the Siren Island program.  Learn more about Siren island here:   https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

Everybody is judgmental, and everybody is self-judgmental. It doesn't just disappear because you want to be an upstanding person. We call that basically covering over everything, and stuffing and all the garbage underneath. And we don't want to do that.  We want to bring all the judgment and all the anger and all the crappy feelings that everybody has and attitudes to the surface. It's so natural to fall into a crappy attitude, really, where everything you see is like, yuck.  And then you have to say something, wait a minute, wait a minute.  Why am I doing that?  So  that is the key to it.  Basically, I believe that we are all unconditionally loved by the universe because we're here and alive.  And all you have to do is go, well, I'm alive. I'm here. I'm on this planet. I am unconditionally loved. I'm still here.  If you’d like personal help with whatever’s going on for you, come to Siren Island program, where you’ll have live classes, live coaching, and a Masterclass with me throughout each month:  https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Hope to see you on Siren Island! Love, Rori

We all have masculine and Feminine energies. They just work in different ways. They have different purposes. We have different circuit boards in our brains. So, this is very tricky for all of us right now in this world, because it’s masculine energy that seems to be wrecking the world, right? Power,  a need for control…that’s not feminine energy, that's masculine energy. Old fashioned, crazy-power-seeking, I'm in charge… you've met men like this everywhere. So how do you respect that? How do you appreciate that? And when we see masculine energy out of control  and wanting so much control, and we see Feminine Energy being unallowed, and so caged in. Haven't you felt like you're about to burst when you just couldn't express yourself? Couldn't even cry. Couldn't, didn't feel like you could be you.. And we’ve all felt that way at times. And then, often, we go into “drama”, which is total masculine energy! We do that because we don't know what to do with the Feminine Energy…there doesn’t seem to be an “appropriate” place or circumstance to let ourselves “out”. It's not like we're using our masculine energy for our own good. We're just escaping into it. To help you stop all the “escape” mechanisms we’ve all been taught in order to make other people feel more comfortable with us and our emotions - experience the Feminine Want Masterclass here -  https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/ With The Feminine Want process, you’ll learn how to fully, surprisingly discover what you want at the deepest level, express it in ways you may have never thought were possible, and literally  GET what you truly want. Love, Rori

So if a guy actually opens his mouth and says, I saw a girl at the gym today… He says: “She was really hot.” Is that a good thing? Yes! 99 percent of the time, a man will just keep it, you know, in his head and it might make him move towards you more…You might wonder why he's got, uh,  you know, all of a sudden a sexual interest in you out of nowhere, you know? So do you really want to shut that down?  No.   So that is a big ask for you.  To not shut down a man.  And so if he tells you that - I would just go, “...Wow, I feel really excited that you actually told me and shared that…” If you’re suffering from jealousy and worry about a man you’re dating, try the Feminine WANT masterclass, here, to learn how to communicate and GET what you Want, and not stay stuck in what disappoints you… https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/ Love, Rori

When a man goes unresponsive or he withdraws, it can feel like a very scary experience of, well, how, how do I, how do I engage? How do I bring him back? If I'm not doing do how I don't want to screw this up. That's another way that we all double down on ourselves is. Thinking that we can screw any of this up, when in reality, there are so many ways that men will fall back into our life, and then we're starting from the ground up again. To get help with your immediate situation, join the Siren Island Program and get live classes, coaching and Masterclasses all through every month here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

How can you be in "receiving" Feminine Energy all day, every day 24 /7? In this videocast, you'll learn several of my Modern Siren Tools to help you stay in your Feminine, even when it feels impossible and silly! I begin with talking about tracking your state of being. Your Feminine Energy is a state of being, and then you express that state of being in words. You speak in what I call Feeling Messages, where the words themselves are transformational, for you and everyone else, shockingly so. The feeling messages express your state of being. So see if you can actually feel that! What is, ask yourself, what is my state of being? And don't try to get a definition of it. Just what is my state of being? What am I being? Where am I? What am I feeling? Am I up above my neck? Am I down below deep? Do I feel like I've let my shoulders go? Am I feeling anything or am I feeling a block to the feeling? Just explore where you are...(Learn what to do next, and "why", in the videocast...) To learn how to do this for yourself, every day in your own life, try The Siren Island Program - with live, interactive classes every week, tons of videos and exclusive Rori Raye Materials every month, and a brilliant Community where I film and record my podcast/videocasts live every month!: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

What is "normal attachment" when we're in a new relationship ...and what happens when it starts getting really exciting, but then he backs off a little bit? What's normal? Because in all of these situations, our urgency is getting kicked up. What should we do? What can we do? What should we not do when we start getting an awareness of the, of the urgency that comes, that comes up here. So urgency and what, what can you expect and what can you do? This podcast will give you answers (and - warning - some answers talk about sexual intimacy as well!)... If you'd like to learn more about Rori Raye's Official Community Siren Island, and have access to live classes and a tremendous amount of exclusive Rori Raye materials, go here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ And if you'd like to explore becoming a professional coach with Rori Raye as your mentor, learn more here: https://www.coachrori.com/be-a-rori-raye-relationship-coach/

My special guest Lylian Toscano, along with Natalina Love and I, talk and generate new Tools for you to stand up for yourself in nearly any situation! Self-Esteem comes and goes for many of us, making us feel alternately powerful and afraid (for so many reasons!). In this podcast, we use scenarios you might be experiencing in your relationship or at work, so you can stay in your Feminine Energy, feel your emotions, and use the most powerful, self-affirming, most compelling, honest, straightforward, truthful and magnetic words and body language to literally get you what you want while deepening, cementing, stabilizing, and honoring your relationship with everyone around you. To get private, personal help with your unique situation, so you can channel your natural, righteous anger and rage into the Love that's at the base of everything you want, get my From Anger To Love Masterclass here: https://www.coachrori.com/from-anger-to-love/ Love, Rori

Gratitude is so helpful, so core to feeling good about yourself and your life... ...And it's so easy to fall into what we call the "Disappointment and Complaint Department" of our minds and hearts. Brilliant Coach Katja Majer, Natalina Love and Rori Raye teach the Rori Raye Tool: "Riffing" that will help you dive below all the bad feelings into love - and create a new space for openness, vulnerability and strength that are not only incredibly and undeniably attractive - but make for amazing communication that brings all the "thrills" back to a relationship. To learn more about how all this works, get The Feminine WANT Masterclass video program, where you'll learn a brand new "shortcut" to his heart, and a deep committed relationship: https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/ Love, Rori

Building Chemistry and Romance is all about "Feeling Like You" - ...Meaning: you feel like you're in your body, in your heart, deep in yourself - and not superficially hovering around your head and neck. It's a very distinct feeling - "Dropping Down". It's a feeling of being in your Feminine Energy that allows you to build the Chemistry inside yourself, which then activates the Romance and Chemistry between you and- literally ANYBODY! This is a complex video with Tools and fresh ideas one right after the other! (What I've noticed is that we tend to spend our day "deadening" ourselves, our feelings....and almost deliberately "hiding out" in our heads - so here's a link to the Business Siren Boss Babe Masterclass to help you STAY in your Feminine Energy 100% of the time, even at "work":

When a man is showing up as more nonchalant about something that has you feeling unsafe...what do you do? When you've brought the subject up again and again and again - and that doesn't work, and you're feeling the trust kind of erode in your relationship...perhaps a situation where there's an "ex" from the past involved... Well, not only do I have perspective, I have experience. I was with a guy, in my idiot phase, for two years, who was still so tied to his ex wife...he was happy when she dropped by for any reason (which she did, often, for help with all kinds of things) - or asked him to drop by to fix things... ...she had many boyfriends and serious relationships, but the guy I was dating was there for her a thousand percent. She called, he ran. But he was chill. He never gave off that he ever expected to be with her again, or that, there was anything other than this feeling he had for her as a friend and protector... It's a long story, with lots of Tools, advice and fresh insights for you no matter what your situation - and especially if you're finding yourself "stuck" on a man who isn't really "doing the job" for you. To really shift any kind of "stuckness" in your life - get The Feminine WANT Masterclass, and learn how to quickly use The Feminine WANT Process to start getting everything you want from your Feminine Energy: https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/ Love, Rori

No matter how a man behaves, no matter what he says, we want to have "Emotional Safety" without "shutting ourselves down"... We want to maintain a sense of ourself in real life, real time, and NOT "react - but "respond"- and in a way that both expresses ourself in a satisfying way, and also in a way that respects the man as a person (perhaps as our partner) and allows him to actually HEAR us, instead of shutting down himself. Sounds like a "tall order" - and one we shouldn't have to fill - yet, it's SO amazing when we can feel both fully, authentically, emotionally expressed - and still get heard and responded to with love! If you'd like to be part of my Rori Raye Siren Island Community, filled with brilliant Siren School coaches who are available to coach you, Script you, and help solve your immediate situation whenever you need them, plus tons of exclusive materials, and me, Rori Raye, live in a Mini-Masterclass/Workshop with you every month, go here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

What do men do when there's too much impact coming in? They shut down... Their mental circuit board is nowhere near as responsive as ours. It does not have as big a container as ours. Men are not built for that. They are built for the technical impact of working things through, but as soon as the emotional component comes in, they shut it down. Their circuit board comes down. To experience emotional healing, you have to say your feeling state - which means you have to find your feeling state. Let's start by collecting data on you! Ask yourself: What feels like me? To begin feeling more like you - and how you Want to feel...experience the Feminine WANT Process in the WANT Masterclass, here: https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/

What do you do when all of a sudden things get tense right after he commits? If things are getting a little wobbly because you're so close to commitment - it's nothing like what happens AFTER he commits (and YOU commit)! In this Podcast, Rori Raye, Natalina Love, Sophia Shah and Isabel Darling give you tips, Tools, first-hand stories, and entirely fresh ideas to help you right now to get the commitment you want - and then strengthen your relationship so it stays awesome and amazing forever. To get Feminine Energy Tools for your unique situation, plus personal coaching from brilliant Rori Raye Siren School coaches, and a live, interactive Masterclass with Rori Raye, try the Siren Island program for a month, for only $33, here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

Why ever would we want an "unsteady man"? A man who not only isn't ready for a committed, real relationship, but doesn't even know how to really love you, especially when things aren't "perfect" Who doesn't know how to have a serious conversation, or to even hear you most of the time. Who doesn't seem to be able to take care of hmself - much less you. It sounds so unappealing when we read it like this, but in real life, so many of us find this "little boy" quality to be endearing, and chemically attractive. Then comes the pain... To get real help with your unique situation - no matter what's going on for you - to get back to what you really Want in love, visit blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com and find articles and Guides for your exact situation. Love Rori

If he looks good, sounds good, feels good - does that make him good for YOU, or even a good man in general? And whatever does "good man" even mean? What you want to focus on is how you feel about YOU in his presence. Does he bring peace fun, thrills, trust and good feelings all around? Is he helpful and partnership-oriented when you need to solve a conflict, or make big decisions you can't easily agree on? Does he want what you want -and if he doesn't: is he more than willing to give you what YOU want? The situation is no longer "is he a good provider" - though that may be one of your benchmarks or even deal-breakers. For most of us, the Question is: Does he make me feel happy? At least most of the time? Am I happy to be with hi - permanently? And the answer to that question has changed a lot for so many women who once thought they wanted one thing, and now want another. T get more help discovering and following thorugh with what YOU want in "good man" - and how to recognize him - get personall coached, and tons of exclusive Rori Raye Materials for a full month on the Siren Island program: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/