This is My Voice

In this episode, I talk about bandwidth, the limit we all have but rarely respect. The way work, creative commitments, relationships, responsibilities, and life itself compete for space. The way plans fall apart, not because we failed, but because reality rearranged itself.This is a reflection on exhaustion, recalibration, and the need to pause when we need it.

Welcome back to This Is My Voice.We’re starting 2026 with a question that doesn’t get asked enough. Why is being “easy” so often mistaken for being kind, respectful, or mature?In this episode, I talk about the fear that hides behind being agreeable, flexible, and endlessly accommodating. This episode is about noticing when ease is coming from fear rather than choice.

As the year winds down, This Is My Voice is stepping back to make space for rest, family, and the quieter moments that matter most once work finally frees us. In this short year-end reflection, I want to say thank you for listening, for sharing, and for sitting with the conversations we had this year. Whether you’re celebrating Christmas, another holiday, or simply the closing of the year, I wish you warmth, rest, and meaningful connection. And as we look ahead, I’m wishing you a peaceful close to this year and a hopeful start to the next. There will be no new episodes airing until 2026, making this a perfect time to revisit past episodes, sometimes they land differently when you listen again. Happy holidays, Merry Christmas to those who celebrate, and a very happy new year in advance.  

We’re bringing back the Find Your Voice Series, and this time, it’s clearer, and far more forthright than it was five years ago. In this episode, we break down the harsh reality most people pleasers never want to say out loud: that people pleasing isn’t kindness, but fear. And underneath that fear is a silent attempt to control how people see you, how they respond to you, and whether they stay. This conversation is about the emotional survival strategy behind being “the nice one,” the exhaustion that comes with constantly managing other people’s comfort, and the quiet manipulation that hides behind self-sacrifice. If you’ve ever found yourself shrinking to avoid conflict, apologizing for existing, or performing calm so no one gets upset with you, this episode opens the door to discussing and overcoming it. The Find Your Voice Series is officially back, and we’re starting at the top.  

Choosing peace sounds admirable… until you start realizing how often that “peace” is really silence, self-erasure, or emotional distancing disguised as maturity. In this episode of This Is My Voice, Lora Tia explores the cost of choosing calm at the expense of authenticity. From swallowing your feelings to shrinking your voice in the name of avoiding conflict, this conversation goes deep into the difference between genuine peace and the version of calm that slowly turns into isolation. If you’ve ever felt yourself drifting away from your own truth because speaking up felt too cumbersome, this episode offers clarity, honesty, and a reminder that peace shouldn’t require you to disappear.

Ever caught yourself saying, “I’m fine” when you know you’re just… stuck? Yeah, this one’s for you. In this episode of This Is My Voice, we’re talking about that quiet trap so many of us fall into; comfortable complacency. The space between “I’m okay with this” and “I stopped trying a while ago.”  We’ll discuss how comfort can disguise itself as contentment, why we stay in situations that no longer challenge us, and what it actually takes to start wanting more again. So, grab your coffee, your self-awareness, and maybe that little voice that’s been whispering “you were meant for more.” It’s time to have an honest conversation about what happens when we stop striving.

When did every disagreement turn into a declaration of war? Somewhere between “I see it differently” and “you’re cancelled,” we lost the art of having actual conversations. In this episode, I’m breaking down why we’ve collectively forgotten how to argue like grown-ups. From algorithm-fuelled outrage to our obsession with being right, we’ll talk about how nuance got replaced by noise, and what it might take to bring curiosity back into the chat. So, grab your coffee and let's go there. Let’s talk about the chaos of comment sections, the death of nuance, and why compassionate discourse deserves a comeback.

This week’s episode is short, simple, and from the heart. This Is My Voice is shifting fully to a bi-weekly schedule. In this mini catch-up, I share why this new rhythm matters, how slowing down actually strengthens creativity, and why rest isn’t the absence of momentum, but what keeps it alive. Take this as your reminder to breathe a little deeper, to take your time, and to let things bloom at their own pace. New episodes every two weeks; same voice, gentler rhythm.

We’ve all been there: scrolling through someone else’s big moment and suddenly feeling like our own lives are behind schedule. Comparison sneaks in quietly, and it steals our joy, and reality. Together, we’ll break down why comparison is so persuasive, how it tricks us into chasing lives we don’t even want, and what it takes to reclaim our own pace.

We like to imagine healing as a straight line; from broken to whole, from pain to peace. But the truth is far less tidy. Healing loops. It gives us good days that feel like progress and hard days that feel like failure. In this episode, I share why backslides don’t erase growth, but are part of its rhythm. Listen in, then join the conversation in the Spotify poll: Do you believe healing can ever be a straight line, or do backslides tell us something important about growth? Read the companion post on silenthings.com.

We’ve all been told to chase work-life balance. It’s supposed to be the secret to feeling whole, rested, and in control. But what if balance isn’t the answer at all? What if chasing it is the very thing leaving us exhausted and guilty? In this episode, I share why I believe balance is a myth, how the pursuit of it fuels burnout, and what we can embrace instead. Listen in, then join the conversation by answering the poll question: Do you believe work-life balance actually exists, or is it a myth we’ve been sold?

You’re not lazy. You’re tired. And no, they are not the same thing. In this episode of This Is My Voice, Lora Tia serves a hot and honest, truth: rest is more than self-care; it’s rebellion. Especially in a world that worships burnout and applauds over-functioning. Listen now and share it with someone who needs to hear it.

Welcome to This Is My Voice, a podcast for the ones who carry too much, and speak too rarely. I am Lora Tia, and this isn’t just another feel-good show. We’re peeling back the layers, one honest conversation at a time. This trailer is your invitation, and reminder that your voice has power, even when it trembles. New episodes drop biweekly. Hit follow. It’s time to take up space!

Who checks in on the person who checks on everyone else? In this heartfelt episode, Lora Tia unpacks the emotional cost of being “the strong one”—the fixer, the listener, the safe space. The one who’s always there for others, even when no one asks how they're really doing. From childhood patterns to cultural expectations, Lora reflects on the invisible weight carried by many. With honesty and compassion, she explores what it means to relax, and to finally say: I’m tired.

We begin our refreshed season with a powerful conversation about how society suppresses the emotional lives of boys. What does it mean to “emasculate” a child, and what are the lifelong consequences of silencing sensitivity in young men? In this deeply reflective episode, Lora Tia unpacks how culture and parenting contribute to a crisis of identity for the modern male child. With compassion and clarity, she offers a different vision where boys are allowed to be whole, soft, expressive, and powerful. If you’re a parent, teacher, or simply someone healing from this dynamic yourself, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

In this comeback episode of This is My Voice, we explore how to find balance in our hectic lives. After a much-needed hiatus, I return with fresh tips on achieving harmony across work, relationships, and self-care. Join me as we discuss strategies for maintaining equilibrium, the importance of setting boundaries, and the role of mindfulness in staying grounded. Whether you’re juggling multiple responsibilities or just trying to find peace amidst the chaos, this episode offers helpful guidance to help you navigate life with grace and poise. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on creating a balanced and fulfilling life.

Ever had one of those, 'I ain't going anywhere. I'm getting this' moments? On this episode, we discuss this pivotal point in our lives. That eureka moment that fuels us to stand our ground in the face of the storm and tighten our grip on the steering wheel. To share your thoughts, questions and opinions, follow me on my socials or visit my blog.

All time does is hurry by, it solves nothing; YOU DO! Join me as we talk about the construct of time and how it fits into everything. To share your thoughts, questions and opinions, follow me on my socials or visit my blog.

We've got a Listener's Question Episode now! One every week or as often as we get questions, we will discuss a listener's question or opinion on the show in a LET'S TALK segment. This is our first one, and I hope you enjoy it!

On this episode, we discuss failure as a crucial part of success. It never was the opposite of success, it is an important part of it. Tune in to hear all about it.