Doing Relationships Right

SHOULD YOU STAY OR SHOULD YOU GO? Is divorce truly the right next step for your relationship? Doing Relationships Right podcast is BACK with all new guest episodes! Who better to start this season than my dear friend and colleague, Certified Divorce & Relationship Decision Coach-- Cindy Stibbard! @divorceredefined I related to this topic so much; when I wrote my second book, Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married, I got so much push-back from the divorce community questioning my stance on divorce. Was I pro-divorce or pro-marriage? Truth is- I am PRO-HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP no matter what that looks like, which is why I am such a HUGE fan of Cindy Stibbard's and what she has created for those struggling to make the RIGHT decision. Leaving your marriage is never easy, especially when kids are involved. Is ending your marriage RIGHT for you? And if it is, how can you do it confidently and with the wisdom you'll need to get through it? Cindy is a ROCKSTAR and has built tools and workshops guaranteed to make whichever path you choose easier; knowledge is power, and a plan is necessary. Listen to this episode, head over to jenniferhurvitz.com, and subscribe so you don't miss her What's Happenin' Hurvitz monthly newsletter!  Listen to Doing Relationships Right as we unpack this and much more.  Where to Find Cindy: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceredefined/ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/divorceredefined TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divorceredefined   Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Jennifer is excited to be back from her hiatus to begin her SIXTH season of Doing Relationships Right with a Just Jen episode--it's The Truth Hurvitz, baby!  Listen to this quick Just Jen Solo episode as Jennifer details what she's been up to since she took her winter break and headed West for the Winter. After dating long distance from LA to Charlotte for over six months, Jen and her boo decided to "play house" and move into (MELT) a shared space out in California, for a few months.  Interested in how that's going? Hint: dating long distance is NOTHING like melting your lives together under the same roof. ;)  Listen to this episode, head over to jenniferhurvitz.com, and subscribe, so you don't miss her What's Happenin' Hurvitz monthly newsletter!  Listen now to Doing Relationships Right Just Jen as we unpack this and much more.  Get a copy of my NEW BOOK! Midlife Priceless: A Dating Coach's Guide to *Finally* Doing Relationships Right HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/

Are you single and ready to mingle? Ever been on dating apps? Curious to know how we get matched with people? Do you want to know how dating apps work from the backend?  Learn about all that and more from the coach himself, Coach T Anthony, as he shares how he pushes his clients to maneuver in this chaotic world of online dating and into success. He also shares his advice from real client interaction and his personal experiences. Coach T Anthony is a dating consultant committed to getting results for his clients. He has spent the last 15 years helping others get the dating life they have always wanted and deserve. As a previous student who also needed help with his dating life, Coach T Anthony knows exactly what you are going through and can relate on a very human level. He is the author of the book "The Art of Online Seduction" and has published several articles on dating, including being featured on Michael Fiore's, Digital Romance Inc. Coach T Anthony has a background in behavioral science with an emphasis on (BAI) behavior analysis interviewing. The Coach holds two certificates from the two most prestigious interview and interrogation schools in the country. John E. Reid & Associates and Wicklander-Zulawski. The Coach has been hailed the "Ray Donovan" of dating coaches due to his no-nonsense approach to getting results for his clients. They say everyone has the dating life that they deserve. Coach T. Anthony believes everyone deserves better, and he can definitely help you change that relationship status from Netflix, Oreos, and Sweatpants to “I am taken.”   Reach out to him at: Website: https://coachtanthony.mystrikingly.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/thedatecoach/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/coachTanthony   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.     Show notes: [2:56] More about T Anthony [4:30] Doing online dating right [9:04] You have to have the right first impression [11:27] One great photo is better than five shitty ones [13:09] Why some people don’t want a photoshoot [16:40] His blueprint and the algorithm of online dating [18:40] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [21:12] A tip for Tinder [23:05] And another for Hinge [26:47] Reporting people on dating apps [29:19] How long should you talk (video chat or text) to someone before going on a date? [32:50] On clients who text coaches [36:16] Outro

Yup- you guessed it! 😉 It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤 And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!  And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!  Happy Listening and DATING! 💕       Experience discreet shipping for all your sexual wellness needs. Get it from https://www.promescent.com/   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:30] Dear married couples, you don’t know what it’s like to go through a divorce [5:43] Dating is different after divorce—just listen and be there for your divorce friend [8:50] The things you’re saying or the advice you’re giving, they’re truly not helpful [9:15] The following are so hurtful, please think twice before saying this

Ethical non-monogamy… what exactly is it? How does it work? Is it possible to stay in such an arrangement for a long time?    In this episode, I have invited my good friend, Podcaster and Host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast to talk about ENM or ethical non-monogamy, how it works, and how you can figure out if this is something for you.   Since her divorce, Sadie Marie recognizes more than ever the value of being fierce in determination, desire, and, most of all, self-love. She’s also learned to put her focus on being relentless and resilient in pursuing happiness for herself and her family. With this podcast, she welcomes the opportunity to share her insights and ideas as well and learn from her listeners and guests.    You can reach Sadie at: Web: https://www.divorcedandhappy.net/ IG: www.instagram.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy Podcast- Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sadies-divorced-and-happy/id1546035678?uo=4 FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/sadiesdivorcedandhappy   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!      Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!       Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright     You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/     Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.     Show notes: [2:11] More about Sadie Marie and sex positivity [7:51] How her podcast came about [9:29] What is ethical non-monogamy [12:12] The difference between ENM and polyamory [14:19] What happens when you decide to go back to monogamy [14:30] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [17:36] Doing coaching on ENM [20:41] On investing in herself more [23:24] How to start practicing ENM and let people know [28:04] All about Divorced and Happy Podcast [29:33] Sadie’s nugget of insight

Yup- you guessed it! 😉 It's a JUST JEN FRIDAY today on Doing Relationships Right podcast! 💕🎙🎧🖤 And by the end of this 10-minute micro-episode, you'll be ready to go! Relationship advice, dating tips…And so much more!  And don't forget to share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!  Happy Listening and DATING! 💕             Experience discreet shipping for all your sexual wellness needs. Get it from https://www.promescent.com/   Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [1:25] What makes a woman sexy? [1:55] The amount of makeup on her face [2:47] Her drive, motivation, and grit [3:59] She loves the skin she’s in [5:14] She doesn’t take herself seriously [5:57] Build a healthy, romantic relationship with your partner and keep your bond strong. Check out promescent.com for all your sexual wellness needs! [7:19] She can carry a conversation, is street smart, and book smart [8:27] She owns the room [12:48] Outro

Are you or someone you know going through a divorce? Or just got divorced, perhaps?   Not sure whether to do co-parenting or parallel parenting?   How about the struggle to keep boundaries between you and your ex?   If you relate to any one of the above, this episode is for you! I’ve invited Divorce Coach Ashley Wood to discuss the many essential points of life after or during a divorce, whether it’s about the kids or when a new partner comes along.   Ashley became a Certified Divorce Coach to be able to help others who find themselves where she was. Through supportive guidance and coaching, she provides you with the structure and resources you need to take back control, ensure your children’s safety and well-being, and move through the divorce process in a more efficient, healthier, and less expensive way.   She has made it her mission to help you reach the other side of your divorce a stronger, more confident, and authentic version of yourself. Find more about Ashley at: Website: https://www.ashleywooddivorcecoach.com/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/theconsciouscoparent IG: https://instagram.com/wix YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2JrcerifCghVfKZtHudkMg Split. The After Ever After Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/split-the-after-ever-after-podcast/id1539553779   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [0:00] Intro [3:42] Who is Ashley Wood? [4:43] Co-parenting with confidence [6:23] What is the difference between co-parenting and parallel parenting? [9:52] Conflict on parenting [12:27] On setting boundaries [21:37] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [22:43] How to approach when the other party does not keep boundaries [29:18] When the kids meet the new partner and how to handle their reaction [39:08] Ashley’s Total Divorce Care program [40:28] Split. The After Ever After Podcast [41:53] Outro

Do you think it's "cute" to play hard to get when you're dating?  Some dating and relationship coaches think it's the way to get a guy....by playing games and acting "coy" or uninterested.  Well, not THIS coach!  I think it's one of the biggest mistakes you can make when you're dating and even later on when you're into a relationship.  Playing games is NEVER a good idea.  This episode is all about transparency and honesty, being upfront, and asking for what you want in a relationship.  I hope you find it helpful and valuable in your dating endeavors...I'd love to hear your thoughts! Join my Doing Relationships Right Private FB group, where we discuss each podcast and share personal stories.  xo j    Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [1:34] Do I have to share my feelings on a date? [3:38] Be honest [4:34] You can't scare away the right person [5:33] Date until it doesn't work anymore

Ok, grab those AirPods, y'all this episode is COMIN' IN HOT! 🔥  Can I get thrown out of here for or this? 😉  If I'm being honest; this conversation even made ME blush, so you know it's got to be yummy!  Let's talk about ALL things SEX & INTIMACY!  Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, which operates Promescent, a leading sexual wellness company that offers Delay Spray, Vitaflux, Arousal Gel, and other sex-enhancing products. Everything You Need to Be Better in Bed. Jeff knows what's up, people (and how to keep it up!) And he doesn't hold back one bit!  But most importantly, we discuss overcoming intimacy anxiety and getting comfortable with those "awkward moments" in the bedroom. One of my favorite topics. Healthy sex life is so vital for a happy marriage!  Find the link to promescent.com below and check out all the products we spoke about on the podcast!  PROMESCENT PRODUCTS FOR MEN AND WOMEN    Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [1:53] What does Promescent do? [5:55] Old wives’ tale [8:29] Intimacy is a couple’s issue [10:34] Communication is key [12:08] The male ego [13:36] The orgasm gap [16:24] Their website and advisory board [19:38] What to do with the male embarrassment factor of using Promescent [20:23] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [27:47] How long does a bottle last? [29:12] Is it safe to use for everyone? [32:20] The North Carolina hospitality [37:05] Where to get their products

Can you tell if your man is into you?  What are the signs? Do you know what to look out for, or do you trust your gut? Because we all know lots of men have a difficult time using those WORDS! So, it may be more tricky to know how they are truly feeling!  No worries- I got ya!  This Just Jen episode will lay it all out bullshit-free, y'all! Let me know if you agree by hopping on over to my private FB group and joining in on the conversations we have each week post-podcast!  Links to all my fun stuff are below!  xo Jen Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [1:25] The backstory [2:06] He will be open and honest about his feelings [2:27] He will show up and be consistent as possible in your life [2:42] He will be open to learning and growing as a couple [2:53] He won’t leave no matter how hard you try to push him away [5:48] Anxious avoidant attachment [7:45] It’s important to share feelings [8:32] Dig deep and reflect

Are you SICK OF ONLINE DATING?  Finding dating apps frustrating and confusing?  Well, I'm thrilled to bring you this episode with the co-creators of The Meetery- Bayleigh Frickey and Stephanie Hilton! Two New Orleans women are changing the dating app world with The Meetery, the app designed to help busy adults fit dating in their fast-paced lives.  I'm sure you're thinking ‘another one?!?’ But wait...there's more. What started out as an inside joke about how awful dating apps are led friends Bayleigh Frickey and Stephanie Hilton to design an app that aims to help users make real love connections by replacing awkward online chatting with a 15-minute face-to-face ‘first impression’ dates. Meetery’s proprietary calendar allows users to schedule dates and meet their matches in person thus eliminating the need for meaningless banter through chatting, and even has an in-app timer to keep everyone on track. Built-in safety features include photo verification and meeting places that are restricted to public locations only. During a morning coffee chat regarding Bayleigh’s latest dates and how frustrated she was with dating apps, Frickey and Hilton drew from those frustrations, realized other people were disappointed as well, and knew they could do it better thus The Meetery was born. Thank you, ladies, for sharing this awesome app with us- and for talking about all things DATING, today on Doing Relationships Right!  Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find JENNIFER HURVITZ: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:07] How did The Meetery come to be and who are its creators? [6:15] Why should people use the app? [8:22] The app’s demographics [11:11] How long do people wait until they meet their date in person? [12:30] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [13:31] How is the app safety-wise? [16:40] When will the app be launched? [18:44] How difficult was it to build the app?

Are you "happy" in your relationship?  What does a "happy marriage" even look like?  It's always been so interesting how we define a "happy couple" when it comes to marriage or a relationship. Is what we see from the outside really what's going on at home? Does it look as perfect as they portray it on social media?  Today I delve into the things that make a REALLY happy couple- happy! And I think you'll be surprised to know...they do fight! They argue and have bad days. But it's HOW they resolve conflict that sets them apart from the "not-so-happy" relationships.  So, listen to today's Just Jen episode of Doing Relationships Right and see if you agree with my assessment of Happy Couples' Things.    Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [2:24] They argue [4:40] They focus on each other’s strengths, not weaknesses [3:27] They choose each other [6:48] They are not afraid to learn to fix their relationship

Do you think your spouse is cheating?  Are you online dating and think you've found the "one" but now they seem a bit "shady"?  Ever hear of "Romance Scams" and women being taken advantage of on dating apps?  Well, this episode of Doing Relationships Right is answering all of the above and MORE! My guest is Jan Barefoot, the owner of Barefoot Investigations- A private Investigator.  Jan Barefoot established the Barefoot Professional Investigations legacy 35 years ago. A Charlotte native, Jan combined the experience she gained with family law titans James, McElroy & Diehl, P.A. along with her King’s Business College degree to found Charlotte’s premier private detective agency. Jan’s team of licensed investigators has achieved the reputation as one of the most ethical investigative firms in the Southeast. Relentless attention to detail and ability to tackle some of the toughest cases have earned Jan the respect and admiration of the top law firms, corporations, and thousands of individuals in the Southeast. Like Jan, her husband Brian is also a highly regarded business owner. Brian founded Delta |v| Forensic Engineering 17 years ago and focuses solely on accident reconstruction work. Both of their daughters graduated from Providence Day School and currently attend the Florida Institute of Technology in Melbourne, Florida, and Ithaca College in Ithaca, New York. As a two-time breast cancer survivor, Jan has been actively involved in the Susan G. Komen Charlotte Race for the Cure for 20 years, is a member of the Women’s Impact Fund, and has attended Forest Hill Church for 22 years. BAREFOOT PRIVATE INVESTIGATIONS CLICK HERE Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [1:45] Let's learn more about Jan, who she is, and what she does  [3:53] How to become a Private Investigator? [5:53] On dating safely — how to [8:56] The limitations of Google's background check services, and some easy things you can check on your own [12:25] Background checks need more digging and why it's a common request [15:56] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [17:07] The red flags for married couples [20:13] Jan's background check rates and services [22:42] Be extra careful, especially when you're very vulnerable [26:04] Final nugget of wisdom [28:01] One good reason why others don't want to give their last name [29:32] Reporting people on dating apps: is it necessary?

Happy birthday to me, and happy fall to you!!!   Today is another Just Jen episode, so it’s going to be a quick one, but it’s about my favorite season, ever!!! Fall is also a perfect time to date, particularly for a first date. I like to be warm, comfy, and bundled up on a first date — not in a swimsuit, but that’s just me.   Here’s a list of all the fabulous fall things you can do for dating in the fall. Let me know on my private FB group which activity you end up doing or want to do.   xo j   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen's book, "Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach's Guide to Staying Married" here.   Show notes: [4:07] Go to a cider mill or apple orchard [5:15] Pick out Halloween costumes, then go to a haunted house [6:10] Make fall treats: caramel apples, pies, and more [6:46] Go on a hike [7:25] B for D and a movie marathon [8:16] How about corn mazes? Not my favorite...

Are you a Britney Spears fan?  Should Britney be able to get a prenup just like everyone else?  Will SHE BE FREE?  Wow. Britney Spears  #freebritney fans have so many questions, and it's been over a decade of heartache for this superstar. Watching her 13-year battle for her personal life as she fought a conservatorship that gave her father complete control over her life and money has been deplorable.  In today's episode, I have TV Legal Analyst & Celebrity Attorney Christopher C. Melcher here to dig deep into ALL of Britney's trials and tribulations. With his Twitter Feed and YouTube Channel, #theLaw, Christopher makes understanding "all things Britney" easier for those of us that might not fully grasp the complex concepts of the judicial system. Christopher is an expert at taking the complicated legal issues, breaking them down, and unpacking them for the general public...so we can follow it all.  Business owners, celebrities, and trust beneficiaries across California turn to Christopher Melcher for assistance protecting their most valuable assets in high-stakes divorces. With deep experience in complex family law litigation and premarital agreements, he provides tactical representation in the most challenging family law disputes. Christopher understands the need to keep sensitive family matters private, having represented noteworthy clients in California's most significant divorce cases. Clients include A-list celebrities, executives, and tech company founders. He is frequently hired by other family lawyers as a consultant, expert, or co-counsel on significant divorce cases in California. His passion is helping others, and he loves the law. His father was a trial lawyer, and he learned not only how to be a lawyer from him but what it means to be a lawyer. Find Christopher C. Melcher here:  Website twitter LinkedIn YOUTUBE LINK     Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/ Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.   Show notes: [1:43] Who is Christopher Melcher? [3:20] How he got into the #FreeBritney movement, and what is it? [11:58] How did THIS happen to Britney Spears? [16:57] Britney’s 13-year struggle [22:19] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [23:21] What can Britney do about it, and why did she wait so long to come forward? [26:23] Public access to case proceedings [30:10] Christopher’s YouTube channel [35:22] Where was her mom in all this? [39:46] What might happen on September 29th?  

Yes, I'm a bestselling author, and I love podcasting, too!  But being a Relationship Expert & Dating Coach is truly what brings me the MOST joy!  Why?  Well, because seeing people happy & helping their relationships develop and thrive is my JAM!  But WHY do I think you need me? Take a listen and find out! And then when I have you convinced and ready to date- book a FREE clarity call and we can DO DATING RIGHT! 😉  Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.   Show notes: [1:46] Dating coach vs. Matchmaker [3:52 ] You struggle in your dating process [7:51] You want help writing your profile [9:50] You need a little self-esteem boost [12:23] Doing Dating Right — 5-video dating course  

One of MY favorite people in the WORLD!  Dr. Peter Lynn joins me today all the way from Isreal...which is why I'm saying he's one of my most faves in the world, y'all!  If you've been a regular listener around here, then you might recognize Dr. Lynn's voice! As one of the best Marriage Counselors, I have had him on the show before- and trust me, he will be back again! With practical skills and tools to help relationships flourish and grow, Dr. Lynn is fantastic at what he does.  So, get a pen (or listen closely); this is an episode filled with nuggets of Important information you won't want to forget!  Since its inception, Dr. Peter Lynn has served as Dean of Students at the David Robinson Institute for Jewish Heritage. PETER LECTURES AT TOURO COLLEGE IN JERUSALEM, an MA in Applied Positive Psychology (MAPP) from the University of Pennsylvania and a PsyD in Human and Organizational Psychology. He is also the Founder and Director of Greatness Within Seminars, where he helps empower individuals and organizations through the application of Positive Psychology. An accomplished athlete and Ironman finisher, Peter was captain of the U.S. World Duathlon Team. Peter lives in Jerusalem with his family.   Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions, at https://nextleveluniverse.com/ Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.   Show notes: [2:47] Marriages are built; they do not just happen [5:58] Work on your marriage, but it's different if it's an abusive relationship [6:38] When is the perfect time to do coaching? [10:05] What do you do if your partner doesn't want to do the work? [13:13] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [15:40] The weekend program Dr. Peter is offering  [19:58] The fundamentals to communication [25:32] Where to find Dr. Peter?

I've done my fair share of online dating, my friends.  Ok, let's be honest...if you've read my blog, The Truth Hurvitz, you know I've dated MORE THAN my fair share! Ha.  So, I've taken my past (horrific) experiences and research...to create a program to help you Do Dating Right! This episode is a micro-version that will touch on one aspect of dating- How to be SAFE on those Dating Apps!  Hope you find it helpful and if you need more coaching you know I'm literally a phone call away.  xo j  Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/ Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.   Show notes: [2:15] Dating apps 101 [3:16] BIG RED flags [7:20] Things you need to do or assess before meeting them in person [10:55] An exit strategy [12:27] Join us for the 2021 Mrs2Me SUMMIT on October 22-24, 2021. Grab your ticket here: https://mydivorcesolution.com/mrs2me-summit-2021/    

This one wasn't easy, not going to lie. Ever asked your kid a bunch of questions you didn't really want the answers to? Ya, well, try that on a podcast with over 150K people listening. Ha.  But boy did he surprise me.  Zac was incredibly mature; self-aware and empathetic, he spoke with such conviction. I had a difficult time composing myself at times during the interview. Zac amazed me...so brave. So smart. This is an important discussion that no parent should miss--even if you're not divorced. Kids say the darndest things when you ask them to be honest. When you give them the space to be authentic and when they feel secure.   I've never been more proud of my kid.  Please share this episode with anyone you know going through, thinking about, or on the other side of a divorce. It's an important and necessary conversation to hear. xo j Get my FREE NON-negotiables collab with my sponsor SOBERLINK by clicking HERE!  Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/ Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.   Show notes: [3:42] Remembering how his parents told him about the divorce and how he felt about it [7:25] What Jennifer thinks she did wrong [9:22] The nesting experience [12:22] Check out this great parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr) [13:26] What Zac thinks about his parent's friendship [16:15] Would Zac choose for his parents to stay married and unhappy, or divorced but happy [21:26] What does Zac think about parents staying together until the kids go to college [24:45] Outro

    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!   Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7ilFqf18-z-H_e7JFIrjbQ/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doingrelationshipsright You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/ Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.   Show notes: [2:36] A reminder from Dad [4:05] Honesty [4:49] Chivalry [5:54] Caring [6:32] Understanding [6:56] Genuine [7:29] Sense of humor [8:20] Paternal instinct [9:20] Dependable [10:49] Equality [11:40] This one’s for you, Jim! [13:36] Outro