Fight For Together

Ben and Kami talk about what it was like to train for and run the Flying Pig marathon with a seven year old. They discuss the rules, hate, and controversy and share a touching story from the end. Kami also shares why she decided not to run. Marathon Boy Trailer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bwb2MYmXqcw Marathon Boy Documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3Nrfw0jx9k&t=1256s --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami talk about their biggest marriage conflict that has gone on for more than 20 years. They discuss Ben's depression, what a fight looks like, and Kami's secret notecards.   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed  March 14, 2023   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/ fightfortogetherPaypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/KeiL0YANv_w CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (12), Rainier (7) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami discuss Kami's process in finding her voice, the importance of giving someone space when they don't know what they want, and how it changed their sex life.   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  COUPON CODE: FIVEYEARS Date Filmed March 7, 2023  Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/MFPAw514l6E CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (12), Rainier (7) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Good boundaries protect health and long term relationships. Ben and Kami discuss setting boundaries inside their family. Of all the boundaries they've set over the years with communities, friends and other toxic bullshit they feel like this is their masterpiece. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed February 21, 2023  Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/nnVm54-d6SQ  CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (11), Rainier (7) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami discuss the most important things they've learned from their children over 20 years of parenting and the secret for how to transform any frustration into growth and opportunity.   Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogetherPODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogetherFilmed Feb 1,  2022 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and, special guest, Tim Vogt talk about what Tim learned running a multimillion dollar non-profit that targeted people with disabilities. They discuss the problem with typical models of disability that separate the inconvenient and how this relates to parenting problem children. Tim also shares his secrets of how to create inclusion with anyone.    Tim Ferris Interviews Richard Schwartz  https://tim.blog/2021/01/14/richard-schwartz-internal-family-systems/  No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz https://www.amazon.com/dp/1683646681/?ref=idea_lv_dp_ov_d  Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether  MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Filmed Jan 11,  2021 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami answer questions from the audience about how to deal with unmotivated teens, dealing with parenting regret, and how to make kids in large families feel loved equally. We also share the reactions of our friends when we started our riskiest endeavors.    Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  Filmed Jan 4,  2021 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami discuss a fight they got in and how they learned they need to ask specifically and directly for support each other on their artistic endeavors. They discuss how to deal with feelings when your partner ignores you, the benefits of opening up a closed relational system, and how important support can be for creatives.    Coaching from Ben  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST  https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Filmed Dec 28,  2021 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami discuss surviving COVID, Ben communicating in a disrespectful way to Kami, and what their thoughts are on the latest Christianity Today series The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill. Ben proposes three things the podcast does not address and lessons he thinks could be learned from Mars Hill.    Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  Filmed Dec 21,  2021 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami talk about how they went from hating drugs to trying the most illegal kinds and the impact that substances have had on their parenting, perspective, and family life.    LINKS  How to Change your Mind https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735224153?ref=exp_fightfortogether_dp_vv_d   Drug Use for Grown-Ups  https://www.amazon.com/dp/1101981644?ref=exp_fightfortogether_dp_vv_d  Fantastic Fungi Doc https://fantasticfungi.com/watch/   Hamilton's Pharmacopeia  https://www.hulu.com/series/hamiltons-pharmacopeia-ba51f4e6-df48-4278-b75f-38f0d6ae6734   Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether  Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us] https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  Date Filmed November 30,  2021 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami talk about how they transitioned from public school to homeschool to unschool and the learning and financial benefits they have seen. They discuss practical ideas for inspiring your children to become life long learners.  LINKS Convergence Station Denver https://meowwolf.com/visit/denver Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us] https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Date Filmed November 23,  2021 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Kami and Ben talk about Kami's new pronouns and shared the story of the pain of her...uhhhh they's childhood and how they never quite fit in, what the transition has been like and how it leads to better sex.    Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us]  https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/   iTunes https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-real-me/1574796778  Spotify https://open.spotify.com/album/3RdkdjdcFmxUfRs2WOUxa2 More Music on IG @kamicrawford   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Date Filmed November 16,  2021   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Coaching https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  FFT@crawfordlife.com   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben and Kami discuss a conversation with their kids around the fire and how to create a space for kids to process trauma, change our views, and become better for the future. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

Ben interviews Steve. A 6 figure banking executive who quit his job to follow his dreams.    OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed February 14, 2021   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/duU53xRo2KY CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (10), Rainier (5) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

We discuss a controversial bumper sticker, why we chose unschooling, and the dangers of public schools on our children's financial future. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Date Filmed January 26, 2021   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/hqAEZvoJy-s CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  FFT@crawfordlife.com  FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (10), Rainier (4) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Ben and Kami share about their experience learning that their child might have a learning disability, how they prepared and what they plan to do about it.   Date Filmed January 19, 2020   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/FZegrID2hkQ CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Ben and Kami talk about what cancel culture looks like in families, the cost of excluding the most inconvenient voices, and how listening to their kids played into their most difficult and important decision on their 2,000 mile hike.  Cancel culture vs. toleration: The consequences of punishing dissent https://bigthink.com/institute-for-humane-studies/cancel-culture-vs-toleration?rebelltitem=2#rebelltitem2  Date Filmed January 5, 2020   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/SMcf0_NdFI4  CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Ben and Kami discuss how you can prepare for a thru-hike, how to overcome the fear of making mistakes, and how much preparation you need before you embark on your next adventure.   Date Filmed December 29, 2020   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/I56SJzdbNRg CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ https:// instagram.com/fightfortogether/  FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed 12/22/2020   Ben and Kami share about how their book changed completely at draft 9 be sharing the story that was the scariest to tell, how they found their audience and how you can walk away from the people that are holding you back.    Recommendations  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/luOQD4fhuRY CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/FFT@crawfordlife.com   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support

OUR BOOK: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV  MERCH: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  Get an email when our AT book is finished: https://bit.ly/2000Together   Ben and Kami share about why they used to give advice to their kids and why it didn't work. They tell the stories of how they learned to listen and why this is important to maintain a long-term relationship with your kids into adulthood.    Date Filmed May 28, 2020   Recommendations  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  FFT@crawfordlife.com   JOIN THE DISCUSSION ON FACEBOOK:  https://goo.gl/THhxCF   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (17), Seven (15), Memory (13), Filia (9), Rainier (4) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/fightfortogether/support