Convos With Chloe: Faith, Healing, Dating, Relationships, Breakups, Divorce, Self-Worth, Miscarriage

Anytime we have something that occurs in our lives that causes pain, it can take some time to truly heal and move forward from the event. Whether it's a divorce, job loss, losing a home, or sadly even a child; it's a process. Sometimes, even in the midst of processing the hurt in a healthy way, you can find yourself literally feeling the pain in your heart as if it happened that same day. I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" I am able to relate to you on these feelings and give you healing, hope, encouragement and guidance in this topic so you can continue  having a beautiful life on earth and eternal life in heaven. Podcast Highlights: My Story Express to God How You Feel Don't Try to Fill the Voids See the Past for What It Truly Is Don't Ruminate or Revisit the Pain Don't Try to Restore Yourself Too Soon Always Have Hope & Never Give Up  Helpful Related Links :  The Break-Up: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive & Move Forward : https://chloemgooden.com/my-books/  When It Feels Like God Isn't There: https://anchor.fm/convoswithchloe/episodes/When-It-Feels-Like-God-Isnt-There-e4f7c6  Songs of Encouragement Mentioned: The Blessing with Kari Jobe & Cody Carnes | Live From Elevation Ballantyne | Elevation Worship : https://youtu.be/Zp6aygmvzM4  Psalm 23 (I Am Not Alone) [Live at Linger Conference] People & Songs ft Josh Sherman: https://youtu.be/8OlMGnPUAdw --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Having moments of loneliness a bit more often towards the holiday season? Recently became single from a break-up or divorce and feeling empty in your home alone? Have you found yourself hating the feeling and trying to fill the void as quickly as possible? Even if that means doing something you know isn't good for you in the long run? Yeah; me too. Feeling loneliness is normal and definitely something I know many of us can relate to as single women. I hope in today's "Convos with Chloe" I'm able to connect with you on these feelings, show you how to process them, how to deal, as well as show you God's perspective. For more help in this holiday season and dealing with loneliness, check out the blog "Surviving the Holidays after a Recent Break-up or Divorce" at www.chloemgooden.com.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Been praying for years for them to change? Frustrated with going through the same issues in your relationship/marriage? Finding yourself making excuses for their behavior? Tired? Frustrated? Questioning God? Yeah. I've felt all those things before and I know the toll it carries on your heart and spirit. I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" I'm able to help navigate you through this tough season of waiting on someone to change and bring you hope, healing, and encouragement. For more resources visit www.chloemgooden.com - "Leading women to healing, hope, strength, and fulfillment through Christ to help you experience a fulfilling life on earth and a beautiful life in Heaven."  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Yes. We are going to talk about masturbation. I know these topics are so taboo; but that is the issue. Many of us struggle with these issues and I brought in two special guest to talk about loneliness, pornography, and masturbation and sexual temptations. I hope our conversation sheds light on these topics, but also gives you a fun and open space to have an honest conversation on "Convos with Chloe" and yourself. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources. Check out "Not Tonight: My Worth Is Far Above Rubies" and "Single, Celibate, and Dating" for more help on sexual temptation, singlehood, celibacy, dating, and more! Go to www.chloemgooden.com/my-books --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Can't figure out why you keep thinking about him? Frustrated that you keep finding yourself going back to an ex no matter how hard you try to move on? Yeah; me too. Soul ties are real, strong, but not impossible to break. I hope in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" I'm able to give you some quick tips on how to break a soul tie and finally move on. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources and to subscribe and never miss a new post from Chloe! NEW BOOK COMING JANUARY 2021! Visit chloemgooden.com/my-books for more information and special pre-order pricing! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

I hate not knowing what will happen next in my life. Don't you? I am a major planner and enjoy the security of knowing where I'm going, how I will get there and when! Haha. I am sure if we all could have a crystal ball and see our future; we would possibly take that chance to do so. Why do we feel the need to know what will happen in our future? Why must we know everything will go as we have planned? Why do we feel the need to be prepared at all times for any future possible circumstances? I hope in this "Convos with Chloe", I not only show you why you feel this way but how to have peace with your unknown future. Visit https://www.chloemgooden.com/ for more resources, books and videos!  Maslows Hiearchy of Needs Citation: https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Ugh! That frustrating sentence that we all hate to hear from a guy we love and adore. I've been there. You've given your all to this guy, and when it's time for that next step, he utters the words, "I'm not ready for a relationship/commitment." Where did this come from? We've been dating and seem to be on the same page, but you don't want a relationship? It's tough. I know. I'm hoping in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" I give you some insight from guys on what they mean when they say they aren't ready, as well as what to do when they say it. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources and more!  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Geesh! Will you ever meet the guy you've been praying for? I remember the feeling. Felt like it took forever to meet my husband and I remember all the frustrations before I met him. Dating one guy after another. One hope to another being crushed. What can you do to deal with these frustrations? How can you be patient in this season without going crazy? In this Segment of "Convos with Chloe" I hope to give you some advice, encouragement and hope in your waiting season. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources, books and more!  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Why are you dating? Do you know the type of husband you desire? Do you have an idea of the type of family life you want? Do you have a plan? Whether it's dating, or any aspect in our lives, we should have a plan and also be mindful of our actions. If we don't have a purpose; we will just end up with anyone and anything. If your actions don't line up with you desires; then your goal will not be attained. What's your plan? I hope on this "Convos with Chloe", with special guest Anthony D. Sparks, you are able to gain insight on "How to Date Deliberately" and attain the relationship and marriage you desire. Visit  https://www.chloemgooden.com/  for more resources! For more information of our guesinhibitedt, visit here:  https://www.anthonydsparks.com/   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

How many times have you gone back to an ex that you know isn't good for you? What about that guy you had 2-3 dates with but you had a good feeling he wasn't a good person? Or, maybe that guy that treated you like dirt? Whoever he may be, I think we all have fell victim to going back to guys that we know aren't good for us. I hope in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" you learn why you go back, the dangers of going back as well as remedies to not repeat the same behaviors. Don't forget, "Ask Chloe" segment after the podcast as I answer questions from listeners like YOU! Additional Resources:  https://www.chloemgooden.com/rubies-healing-letting-go/ Additional Resources:  https://www.chloemgooden.com/one-on-one-mentorship/   --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Have you ever felt like God wasn't with you in your life? Maybe you are going through a rough time and have prayed to God multiple times; but no answer. You've asked God to help you and  change the situation; but nothing has changed. Where is He? Why hasn't He answered you? I hope in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" you are able to receive understanding, encouragement and guidance, and realize; He never left.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother since childhood. I played house, fed my fake baby doll and cooked meals in my easy bake oven with pride and enthusiasm. I loved it. I couldn't wait for the day to become a Mrs. and mother. However, somewhere along my life, this desire turned into an obsession and my actions portrayed desperation. How did this happen? How did such a natural and innocent desire turn into idolization? How can you know if your desire has actually turned into desperation? I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" you not only see the dangers of being desperate for marriage but why you feel this way and how to have a healthy balance in your desire for marriage. To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Never experienced a long-term relationship? Or, maybe it seems no matter who you date the same things keeps happening. Break-up after break-up.  Disappointment after another. Eventually you have to take a step back and question, "What is really going on?! Will I always be single?!” I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" you are able to step back and evaluate your past and present dating/relationships and get some insight on "Why Your Relationships Seem To Never Work Out".   To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

How many times have you met a guy and assumed he had a love and vigor for God simply because he went to church? Or how many times have you been fooled because he quoted scriptures and seemed to be the Godly man you've been waiting for, but eventually, his true colors came out and you realized he was definitely not sent by God? On this "Convos with Chloe" myself and special guest, Dana Bryant, are going to speak with you about what to look out for to ensure he truly has a relationship with God and/or on a journey of seeking God.  For more resources : Chloe M. Gooden, www.chloemgooden.com & Special Guest Dana Bryant , www.liftedwoman.blog.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Ever wondered if the guy you are dating is the right one for you? Yeah, me too. I always questioned whether or not if I was making the right choice and constantly found myself asking others, or researching, what would make the right fit for me. I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" you gain insight on what to look out for when choosing a potential mate and how to know if he is the right one for you.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Single, Dating & Waiting. Some of you are frustrated in this season and some of you are enjoying. Those who are frustrated may constantly be wondering, “When will God send me my mate?” “Will I ever be a wife?” “I’ve been waiting for years and still single, why?” “I’ve been hurt so many times, when is God going to send me a good guy?” I remember so many thoughts, and hopeful dreams, playing in my mind during my single season. If I could go back to my single self and have a conversation, there are so many things I would say as well as advise. What would they be? Listen in on “Convos with Chloe” and find out.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

The New Year is coming up! For some; that brings excitement, while others; possibly disappointment. The New Year usually brings on the idea of new beginnings for many, but, somehow, we end up at the end of the year in the same place we were the year before. What New Years Resolution did you set that didn't happen? What desire did you speak into your year that didn't come into fruition? Why does this happen? What do you need to do differently for next year and how do you reflect on the previous one? Check in on "Convos with Chloe" and find out.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

What have you been asking God for? What desires are you waiting to be fulfilled? A new job? Healing? Or maybe a spouse? I think we all are asking and waiting on God for something and sometimes wonder, “Why am I still waiting?” Check in on “Convos with Chloe” and find out Why You Are Still Waiting on Your Desires.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

Our Country. Our Relationships. Our Lives. Our Jobs. There are so many Vows, Promises, and Oaths we’ve pledged our lives to and it seems we do this on a pretty regular basis. Some of these vows are really important. But, there is one vow that was the most important dedication you’ve ever made in your life. Many times, we forget the true meaning of the words we speak and what we’ve dedicated our lives to forever; Our vow to Christ. Have you? Check in on “Convos with Chloe” and see if you’ve forgotten.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support

You’ve cried. You’ve prayed. You’ve hurt. But, you’re still there. Going in circles over the same issues, excuses and pain time and time again. Yet, you still love them and keep going back. Why? Catch up with Chloe on “Why You Can’t Seem to Let Him Go” and let’s find out why you won’t leave this Harmful and Unloving relationship. If you are struggling to let go, I suggest my book, "The Break-up: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive & Move Forward" - www.chloemgooden.com/my-books --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/convoswithchloe/support