With Poly Anna

On today’s episode, Marla Renee Stewart (s3xuality educator and founder of Velvet Lips) and I talk about dating while depressed, what causes the spark to fade in a relationship, what gets New Relationship Energy down, and her event coming up the weekend of September 5 in Atlanta, Georgia , S3x Down South! Suggested Links: @VelvetLipsSxEd (Facebook Twitter Instagram) @sexdownsouthatl | IG: @sdscon (Sex Down South Conference) velvetlipssexed.com  sexdownsouth.com https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cesar_Chavez  https://www.ancient.eu/Colosseum/ (scroll down to the section on games and shows) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We celebrate episode 50 with Andre Shatki in a conversation about talking dirty, code switching, SESTA/FOSTA, and Mariska Hargitay. Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in Baltimore, MD. Andre frequently lectures, coaches and advises on the intersecting issues of sexual health, politics and pleasure, race, trauma, gender diversity, sex worker rights, non-monogamy, and queerness.  Suggested Links: Twitter: @andreshakti  Facebook & Fetlife: "Andre Shakti"  ms.andre.shakti@gmail.com  IAmPoly.net Slixa.com patreon.com/IAmPolyamorous http://tinahorn.net/ Suggested Hashtags:  #AndreShakti  #ProfessionalSlut  #SexyEd  #PolyamoryPundit  #YesAStripper --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

Need a little more Dirty Lola in your life? Here's your first taste. Join me for today's conversation with the brilliant edutainer, Dirty Lola of S3x Ed A G Go. Suggested Links: @Dirtylola (IG & Twitter)  http://sexedagogo.com/  *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

Kitty Chambliss joins me for a real and raw conversation about coming out of depression as she mastered pole fitness, her personal journey in ethical non-monogamy as an ex-cheater, and her outreach/education/authorship tackling jealousy.  Suggested Links: lovingwithoutboundaries.com lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/36358124-jealousy-survival-guide Suggested Hashtags: #lovingwithoutboundaries #kittychambliss #polytalkbykitty *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

Ruby Johnson (Black Sex Geek/Poly Dallas Millennium) and I discuss racial and social dynamics in s3x minority groups and her experiences in outreach and counseling.  Suggested Links:  www.blacksexgeek.net  www.polydallasmillennium.com  rubyjohnsonlcsw@gmail.com http://www.afrosexology.com/ https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m00048nd (play back from yesterday's BBC Radio show) https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/profiles/6rcJPc7yvWCc909G2M022W/mobeen-azhar https://badgirlsbible.com/ https://www.instagram.com/spiritual.slut.1111/ http://ncsfreedom.org/ Suggested Hashtags: #blacksexgeek  #PDM2018 #nuthinbutluv💋 *Theme Music: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We take a trip to Toyland in our conversation with Hunter Riley of Self Serve Toys. Curious about what lubricant is best and what toys are on-trend? How to play like a P0rnstar? These questions and more are answered on today's show.  Suggested Links: https://www.instagram.com/huntergathererriley/ https://www.selfservetoys.com/ https://www.selfservetoys.com/classes/classes-online/ https://vimeo.com/selfservetoys http://abqkis.com/ outaboutsex.com @HunterGathererRiley on FB & Instagram  SFW twitter: @hunteroriley  NSFW twitter: @hornyhuntressmv http://sexedagogo.com/ https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/39070119-the-consent-guidebook https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sexual_response_cycle https://www.blushnovelties.com/ https://www.instagram.com/theohchallenge/ Suggested Hashtags: #albuquerque #professionalpervert #sexshoponline *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

Today's conversation features Susan Wright of the National Coalition for S3xual Freedom (NCSF). We discuss what NCSF has done so far to fight for s3xual freedom and privacy rights, and what there is still left to do.  Suggested Links: www.ncsfreedom.org  www.facebook.com/ncsfreedom  https://twitter.com/NCSF https://www.psychiatry.org/psychiatrists/practice/dsm https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_v._Texas https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2010-22931-007 https://www.apnews.com/ec7bca54931544f7b71651406566206b https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jay_Wiseman https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Prayer Suggested Hashtags: #NCSF  #ConsentCounts  #MeToo *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

Today we feature a conversation with Koe Creation, the second generation s3x educator for the 21st Century! This weekend their premier book, and memoir titled This Heart Holds Many; My Life as the Non-Binary Millennial Child of a Polyamorous Family was published through Thorntree Press. Today we will discuss their life and the process of crafting their story. Suggested Links:  http://Koecreation.com  https://www.amazon.com/This-Heart-Holds-Many-Polyamorous/dp/1944934723 https://uwm.edu/lgbtrc/support/gender-pronouns/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Modern_Paganism https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42789727-this-heart-holds-many Guest Social Media: @Koecreate Guest Email: KoeCreation@gmail.com *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

Join a conversation with Baron Saber, a single male (bull) in the Lifestyle (swinging culture). We had a great chat about Lifestyle etiquette, s3xual hazing, and how to get started if you are newly considering it.  Suggested Links: sdc.com (Use Code 32468 for a 20-day free trial to expand your s3xual network as a member of SDC) https://twitter.com/baronsaber https://www.lifestylelounge.com/ https://www.sls.com/ https://www.safsocial.com/ https://mywildlifestyle.com/ https://www.kasidie.com/ https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0050032/ *Theme Song: "Somthin for Ya" by Mnage Quad  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

I met with the co-creators/co-producers of Southwest Love Fest (SWLF) coming up later this month in Tucson, Arizona. We discuss what to expect at SWLF, the local poly community there, and how Kate Kincaid and Sara Bachman-Williams began living a polyamorous lifestyle.   Suggested Links:   southwestlovefest.com  facebook.com/SWLoveFest https://twitter.com/swlovefest  https://www.instagram.com/southwestlovefest/  amazon.com/Stranger-Strange-Land-Robert-Heinlein swlovefest.com/speakers2019  tucsoncounselingassociates.com  Suggested Hashtags: #SWLF  #SWLF2019  #southwestlovefest  #ethicalnonmonogamy  #polyamory  *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss the Pure Love Promise (Jason Evert), why abstinence is bad s3x education, and which God is real (Judging God v God of Love). This message was shoved down my throat growing up and I want to talk about where this oppressive approach to human sexuality originates.  https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4169390/ https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db44.htm https://nursing.usc.edu/blog/americas-sex-education/ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/parents/tips-talking https://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/rhythm-method.aspx https://y98.radio.com/blogs/jen-myers/mr-rogers-quotes-are-perfect-parenting --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss experiencing the 7 types of love, poly trolls, body shaming, victim blaming, and self love.  Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Suggested Link: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hide-and-seek/201606/these-are-the-7-types-love Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss breath play solo and with a partner as a special Valentines Day Treat!  Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Suggested Links:  http://dominantguide.com/176/take-your-breath-away-basics-of-breath-play/ https://shesaid.com/6-things-need-know-erotic-asphyxiation/ https://immediatesafety.org/erotic-auto-erotic-asphyxiation-dos-and-donts/ https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0001016/ Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss dealing with haters and the poly dating blues.  Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss meeting Martin Garrix, custody issues for those in sex subcultures, and an email from a listener inclined to ethical monogamy but stuck within the pressures of expectation, my trip to Utah, and more exciting updates. Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss some exciting erogenous zones for men and the freaky word of the day.  Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Suggested Links: https://theecosexuals.ucsc.edu/ecosex/ https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/sex-and-love/8-new-ways-touch-your-guy-during-sex Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss dating issues for veteran poly people dating online, why I say I'm cis-gendered, how long I've been dating in poly, listener comments on the last show, and updates from past after chats.  Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Suggested Links: https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-does-it-mean-to-be-cisgender-3132607 https://sexbecause.com/ Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss Gillette's recent ad and why Toxic Masculinity is everyone's problem. Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Suggested Links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwI2U27UlGU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVauMOZfYLU Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss my most memorable swinging experience, insights on Tuesday's episode from you, children with polyamorous parents, and the risks of being out.  Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Suggested Links: https://www.amazon.com/Shibari-Advanced-Antibacterial-Cleaner-Bottle/dp/B0163AM170 https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/womens-health/in-depth/kegel-exercises/art-20045283 https://www.adameve.com/search.aspx?st=kegel https://www.healthline.com/health/g-spot-in-women#8 http://helloflo.com/everything-you-need-to-know-about-the-a-spot-and-why-youll-be-thanking-us-later/ http://helloflo.com/the-4-erogenous-zones-that-arent-the-g-spot/ https://kimanami.com/things-i-lift-with-my-vagina/ Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

We discuss vaginal health, maintenance, and erogenous zones (the OAK PUG spots). Become a patron and be in the inner circle: patreon.com/withpolyanna For all things Poly Anna all the time: withpolyanna.com Suggested Links: https://www.findnicknames.com/nicknames-for-vagina/ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/4976-vulvar-care https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6835938/amp https://youngwomenshealth.org/2013/08/22/removing-pubic-hair/ https://www.verywellhealth.com/best-condoms-4169709 https://www.google.com/amp/amp.timeinc.net/health/sexual-health/probiotics-vaginal-health https://www.cdc.gov/std/prevention/screeningreccs.htm https://www.healthline.com/health/g-spot-in-women#8 http://helloflo.com/everything-you-need-to-know-about-the-a-spot-and-why-youll-be-thanking-us-later/ http://helloflo.com/the-4-erogenous-zones-that-arent-the-g-spot/ https://kimanami.com/things-i-lift-with-my-vagina/ https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7681902/?ref_=nv_sr_1 Would you like to schedule a coaching session with Poly Anna? Email withpolyanna@gmail.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support