Bare Marriage

Links to things mentioned:Join our Patreon and support our research, plus hear me working through future posts and wondering what I should do next! https://patreon.com/baremarriageOur summary of all the issues in this podcast, plus a downloadable one sheet! https://baremarriage.com/2023/09/review-of-the-problems-with-for-women-only-by-shaunti-feldhahn-with-download/Our post that does a deep dive in the problematic survey questions that Shaunti Feldhahn asks:https://baremarriage.com/2021/01/fixed-it-for-you-we-fix-a-survey-question-so-it-doesnt-enable-date-rape/Find Meghan Tschanz’s podcast series on For Women Only: Part 1; Part 2; Part 3; Part 4https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bonus-episode-for-women-only-part-1/id1438368947?i=1000625676862https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-2/id1438368947?i=1000626549865https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-3/id1438368947?i=1000627185380https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-women-only-part-4/id1438368947?i=1000628046603Follow Meghan on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/meghantschanz/Devi Abraham’s podcast Where Do We Go From Here, including my latest episode with her!https://wheredowegopod.com/https://open.spotify.com/episode/18eiTmiHvMimq3Oog80lq1Follow Devi on Instagram!  https://www.instagram.com/devi_writes/, and the Where Do We Go From Here on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wheredowegopod/We take apart the “love and respect survey question at the end of this podcast: https://baremarriage.com/2020/12/unconditional-respect-in-marriage-is-wrong-podcast/Our book The Great Sex Rescue! It’s on MAJOR SALE in paperback on Amazon right now! https://amzn.to/3LT6wXlOur podcast with Meghan Tschanz about her book Woman Rising https://baremarriage.com/2021/05/beliefs-affect-sex-trafficking/

Links to things mentioned:Join our Patreon and support our research for as little as $5 a month! https://patreon.com/baremarriageOur op ed with Baptist News that goes over the points in this podcast: https://baptistnews.com/article/do-complementarian-men-do-better-a-response-to-nancy-pearcey/Our initial article responding to Josh Howerton's claim that conservative evangelicals have the best sex and marriages https://baptistnews.com/article/do-conservative-evangelicals-enjoy-better-sex-and-marriage-a-response-to-josh-howerton/ Our podcast going over these same points (for those who would rather listen!):https://baremarriage.com/2022/04/podcast-do-christians-have-better-sex-lives-a-response-to-josh-howerton/Leonardo Cruz' critique of how Nancy Pearcey handled history scholars https://leo-cruz.medium.com/nancy-pearcey-pt1-44f98c2a3602Our book The Great Sex Rescue, based on our survey of 20,000 women https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/The IFS report that showed that conservative highly religious men were far more likely to perpetrate intimate partner violence (p. 36):https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/reports/worldfamilymap-2019-051819.pdf The book The Scandal of the Evangelical Mindhttps://amzn.to/3r7BIe9Check out our Biblical Manhood merch!https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/biblical-manhood/

Links to things mentioned:Get a FREE copy of Rebecca's new book, Untwisting the Scriptures #5 when it launches September 11! Just sign up for her FREE ebook now and you'll be notified on September 11! https://sendfox.com/heresthejoyJoin our Patreon for as little as $5 a month! Get exclusive access to our Facebook group, merch, and more perks! https://patreon.com/baremarriageSign up for our FREE webinar with Wendy Snyder from Fresh Start Family! Disciplining with Compassion, Connection, and Firm Kindness: https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/baremarriage/My article that Rebecca Davis quotes in her book: https://baremarriage.com/2020/07/submission-debi-pearl-created-to-be-his-helpmeet-abuseSee Rebecca Davis' whole Untwisting Scriptures series: https://amzn.to/45B0HFA

Links to things mentioned:Sign up for our FREE webinar with Wendy from Fresh Start Family: September 14 at 1 pm EST (recording will be available): https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/baremarriage/Check out last year's podcasts with Wendy: Part 1 and Part 2https://baremarriage.com/2022/05/podcast-how-to-misuse-statistics-for-dummies/https://baremarriage.com/2022/05/podcast-connection-not-punishment-a-better-way-to-parent-feat-wendy-snyder/Find Wendy on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/freshstartwendy/Join our AMAZING Patreon group--we're launching our book study in our Patreon community this month as a test run! https://patreon.com/baremarriageCheck out our Limited Edition Merch--it goes away the end of August! https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Join for as little as $5 a month and support our research while getting access to our awesome Facebook group!https://patreon.com/baremarriageOur Limited Edition Merch--it's only available until the end of the month! Check out these great beach towels:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/And don't forget our Biblical Womanhood merch that's available year-round:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/be-a-biblical-woman-collection/The Instagram Reel on Ken vs. Allan: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvNIHFxN86G/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==The Atlantic: The real reason South Korean women aren't having babies: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/03/south-korea-fertility-rate-misogyny-feminism/673435/The New York Times: Women in South Korea are on Strike Against Being Baby-Making Machines https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/27/opinion/south-korea-fertility-rate-feminism.htmlCarolyn Custis James' book Malestrom https://amzn.to/47HWqShInformation on the Bechdel Test: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bechdel_test

Links to things mentioned:Our patreon! Join our exclusive, behind-the-scenes group and get extra access to Sheila, Rebecca, and Joanna for only $5 a month!Our amazing Insulated Travel Mugs, that keep water super cold, and keep things hot, too! We've got them in a variety of designs, including Prayer and Tent Pegs, our She Deserves Better slogans, and our Biblical Womanhood MerchN.T. Wright's book How God Became King, and Rachel Held Evans' book Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible AgainThe article from Desiring God that tells women to gaslight themselvesOur podcast on how Emerson Eggerichs misuses Scripture, and our post outlining the main ways in detail

Links to things mentioned:Join our Patreon and join our LIVE Brio magazine pajama party! https://patreon.com/baremarriage Get our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit, to explain our findings to your friends: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product/great-sex-rescue-toolkit/ See our She Should Know merch, based on She Deserves Better: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/she-should-know-collection/ Check out our Limited Edition beach towels: https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/limited-edition/

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our amazing behind-the-scenes Facebook group, and more.Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit–help for you as you talk about healthy teachings to your friends and church

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our amazing behind-the-scenes Facebook group, and more.Our Great Sex Rescue Toolkit--help for you as you talk about healthy teachings to your friends and church https://baremarriage.com/toolkit/Keith's Danvers Statement posts--Start here.Emerson Eggerichs warns against wives following into sin (watch the first few video clips and see his emotional response)Our Power of a Praying Wife podcast and downloadThe Gospel Coalition's Instagram Reel about men being passiveOur podcasts with Philip Payne: Part 1 and Part 2Check out Marg Mowczko's amazing websiteWhy having the husband make the final decision can be a harmful shortcut

Links to things mentioned:Join our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get exclusive access to our Facebook group--and even free merch!A Synopsis of all the problems in Power of a Praying Wife--with an optional downloadGretchen Baskerville at the Life-Saving Divorce, and her book The Life-Saving Divorce. Follow her on Facebook and YouTube.Gretchen's articles with info on the effect of divorce on kids; the ACE study; and more.Sarah McDugal from Wilderness to Wild. Follow her on Facebook and Instagram and YouTube, or join her support groups.Sarah's free online course to recognize red flags of abuse, plus a slew of resources to help identify abuse. Sarah's article on how God honors free will: Happily (N)ever After, and Does God Say You Can't Divorce for Abuse?Keith's series on the issues with the Danvers Statement

Links to things mentioned:Sign up for our FREE webinar on June 21!https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_odcOvC0uTzugaA7JvnUe1wOur book The Great Sex Rescue!Join our Patreon and support our work for as little as $5 a month. Plus gain access to our exclusive Facebook group, exclusive merch, and more!Our research methods for The Great Sex Rescue, with FAQs, and a Twitter thread analying our methods by someone we don't even know!Article from The Journal for Sex Research on the motivations for sex and the effects of obligation sexArticle on the emotional work done by women during sex--The Other Third Shift? Women's Emotion Work in their Sexual Relationships

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Get free merch, access to our Facebook group, discounts on courses, and more! Todd Korpi's book Your Daughters Shall Prophesy: Amplifying the Voice and Place of Christian Women (https://amzn.to/3MWkPtH)Follow Todd on Twitter and InstagramOur new "She Should Know" merch based on empowering sayings from our book, She Deserves Better

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon community! It's super fun, and it helps fund our research! Join us for as little as $5 a month.Our book The Great Sex Rescue, plus our two books that look into the sexual response cycle in detail: The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex. Emerson Eggerichs: His podcast where the clips were taken from, plus the podcast where we analyzed his advice to the woman crying the shower; the post where we went into this in detail; and the podcast featuring the woman who wrote in to Eggerichs. Dr. Laura Robinson's critiques of Beautiful Union. Here's Part 6 with links to everything (so go here, but then start at post 1 that is linked at the top and work your way through). In this podcast we focused on parts 3 and 4. My original Twitter thread about the visceral reaction that women have to sex advice. An article earlier this week about how pastors aren't necessarily the experts; lots of links to other well thought out critiques of Beautiful Union by Joshua Butler. 

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Join us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to exclusive content while also supporting our research.Nijay's new book Tell Her Story Our podcast looking at how Emerson Eggerichs mishandles Scripture, featuring Nijay GuptaThe audio version of She Deserves Better is now available! https://amzn.to/43tbmkpOur new She Deserves Better merch!Amazon Prime's new series Shiny Happy People (coming June 2)

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and join our exclusive Facebook group, plus help support our research!Our new book She Deserves Better--the audio has now launched!Our one-sheet download of the problems with Every Young Man's BattleOur podcast with Zachary Wagner, his new book Non-Toxic Masculinity, and his TwitterAndrew Bauman's book The Sexually Healthy Man and his FacebookOur Whole Story puberty course to tell your kids about sex & puberty!

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our unfiltered podcasts and more. Your donations help support our next big survey coming this summer!Our new book She Deserves BetterBeth Allison Barr's book The Making of Biblical Womanhood, plus follow Beth on TwitterOur books that are awesome for couples about to get married--The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more!Our new book She Deserves Better!Aimee Byrd's book Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, and her new book The Sexual ReformationAimee Byrd's story of the bullying she went through in her denomination, and some more recent thoughts on the aftermath. Take the submission quiz yourself! It starts on p. 30 of this download, but you can also find the "bellies are intoxicating" on p. 24. The modesty podcast where we talked about the "bellies are intoxicating" statement. Our Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books  you're concerned about

Links to things mentioned:Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more!Our new book She Deserves Better!Zachary Wagner's book Non-Toxic Masculinity, plus find Zachary on TwitterOur Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books  you're concerned aboutThe Instagram Reel from thatdarnchat

Links to things mentioned:Our new book She Deserves Better:https://baremarriage.com/she-deserves-better/Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon!https://patreon.com/baremarriageThe Instagram Reel from 247 Marriage:https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnetOgDhM1S/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_linkThe podcast where we discussed "Girls Talk Too Much":https://baremarriage.com/2023/03/do-women-talk-more-than-men-podcast/The podcast where we were talking about how boys had to be superheroes:https://baremarriage.com/2023/04/podcast-on-nice-guy-syndrome-and-boundaries/If you're going to pull something out of your butt, it's probably crap merch:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/out-your-butt/Anti-Rape Raccoon Merch:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/rabid-racoon/Other Merch:https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/

THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCASTOur new book She Deserves BetterSupport us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon!Article on the problem with “Nice Guy” behavior when it’s rooted in entitlementOur episode of Theology in the Raw with Preston Sprinkle (the interesting parts are from 30 minutes on)