Tings and Things

If Not Now, Then When?" is a powerful question that can push us to examine our choices, ambitions, and the barriers we face. It encourages us to consider whether we're truly living life to the fullest.  Remember, life is short, and it's up to us to make the most of it. Let’s get into it 

First dates are always a mix of fun and nervous energy. The anticipation, the awkwardness, the slowly building attraction. Let's get into it..

We are huge advocates of mental health here on this podcast. Therapy is something we have both explored in our personal lives and it has been so beneficial to our growth and development. Today we are going to unpack therapy, and potential reasons for who you should consider it.

The people you surround yourself with can have a big impact on your life. From friends and family to co-workers and acquaintances, the people you spend time with can influence your mindset, behavior, and ultimately your success. We dive into the concept of changing your circle, how to identify toxic relationships and the benefits of surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people. Remember, the people you surround yourself with can have a big impact on your life, so it's important to be intentional about who you choose to spend your time with.

The awkwardness of dating in the digital age. With the rise of dating apps and social media, finding love or even just a casual fling has become easier and more complicated than ever before. It's made it easier to meet people, but harder to form real connections. With so many options available, people often treat each other like commodities rather than human beings. here's also the issue of people presenting themselves in a certain way on dating apps or social media, which may not be entirely accurate. This can lead to disappointment and even deception in real-life encounters.

Being a sponge is so important, the ability to soak up and learn information is such an underrated skill? How do get your sponge game going, let us help you.

Your dreams have no limits, you are the creator of your dreams, big or small. When this is understood, you are able to design a way to favour you plan and accomplish your end goal. Whether it's a career path, a creative pursuit, or a personal goal, we all have dreams that we hold close to our hearts. But what happens when those dreams clash with societal expectations or our own self-doubt?

We all know that life can be unpredictable and chaotic at times, but how can we navigate these situations and still achieve our goals? Sometimes it’s so important to embrace the BS and double down in the midst of the nonsense 

 Today, we're going to talk about a serious topic that many young adults face: loneliness and isolation. With the ongoing pandemic and social distancing measures, it's become even more challenging to connect with others. But don't worry, we've got you covered. Today, we'll be discussing some helpful ways to cope with loneliness and isolation. 

The truth is, as I’m sure you know, the older we get, the more our bodies change. But sometimes we forget that this also means we need to adjust our self-care habits. We’ve spoken about it before *insert episode* but life is a linear journey and we have been learning more about ourselves and we decided to come back to this.

Today we're diving headfirst into the world of guilty pleasures. Prepare for a laughter-filled exploration of those secret indulgences that bring us joy, even if they raise a few eyebrows. Remember, life is too short to be ashamed of the things that bring us joy. Embrace your quirks and celebrate your guilty pleasures.

ishė is an artist...a special musical soul. He hails from Zimbabwe where his journey began and his heart permanently resides, no matter how far he may go. His unique voice and innate gifts propelled him to hone his craft from a young age. This process entailed a deep and intense practice of songwriting, music production, and most importantly performing. The stage is the platform on which he shines the brightest and where he is able to truly exude the gifts he has been blessed with by his creator and source of life.He is passionate about positioning the African continent as the epicenter of entertainment as he believes the continent's abundance of rich culture, talent, and captivating histories are the answer to the entertainment industry’s prayers. Now, as a rising entertainer, songwriter, and producer, ishė invites listeners to his universe – a place where each song is a vibrant story waiting to be shared. Rooted in his African heritage but not confined to it, ishė's music echoes his unique journey and the depth of his artistic soul, while also reflecting his passion and dedication to his vision. Keep up with all his exploits here https://bio.to/ishe 

There is a wise urban philosopher named “Simba Tsumba” who once said People should know their weight class.” Be prepared for some elite level banter here, your boys are about to be in prime form.

 Social media keeps us connected, but there's a different quality to interactions now. We've gone from neighborhood gatherings to WhatsApp groups. It's convenient, but we miss the face-to-face catch-ups.

Can your ex come back? Let's talk about it 

Digital nomadism has gained significant popularity among young adults in recent years. The ability to work remotely while exploring different parts of the world sounds like a dream come true. However, it also comes with its own set of joys and challenges.

“People see better than they hear” is one of our favorite sayings here at Tings and Things. What does this mean though? Sometimes instead of waiting for a lovely soliloquy, just watch how an individual behaves and that’s your answer. We'll be discussing how people's actions and behavior can provide insight into their true intentions and beliefs. Buckle up.

Oh we are about to dive head first into the concept of playing small and explore the ways in which young adults can inadvertently hold themselves back from achieving their full potential. From imposter syndrome to fear of failure, we examine the various reasons why individuals may choose to play small and offer strategies to help overcome these limitations. Are you going to choose to keep playing small or come over here and play with the big dawgs?

Most of all, remember that in every moment of our lives, it’s the journey that counts. We learn from the things we do and the people we meet, not just the ones we love or those who love us back. We learn from every encounter we have. We hope this inspires you to reflect on the lessons you've learned from the people in your life and how they've shaped you into the person you are today. Remember, every person you meet has something to teach you, so keep an open mind and embrace the lessons that come your way.

We're diving deep into the murky waters of being ghosted by a friend or romantic partner. We'll explore the intricacies of this modern-day phenomenon and discuss how to cope with the aftermath. Each ghosting experience is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. We hope that by exploring these questions, we can shed some light on this often perplexing and painful phenomenon, and offer solace to those who have experienced it.