Fathers Fire

I had the AMAZING opportunity to go down to El Salvador to be part of the 1st IDA Certified Detailer and Skills Validated training event with Jorge Rivera, Rigo Santana, Christian Ramos Pwee, Manuel Martinez, Steve Thompson, and Little Steve (The Detail Kid). I share some thoughts and observations about being a dad from my experience in El Salvador.

How do you work through betrayal and disappointment? Today I share some thoughts on how to work through being disappointed and let down by others while not becoming hardened in our heart. Thanks for joining me every week! Jody Also check out my books But How Far Must I Go? A journey in faith https://a.co/d/1uqS0Ab  Learn to Dance With the Currents of Life; When You Feel Like You’re Drowning https://a.co/d/h5NZzNu

This week I sit down with Steve Thompson to explore how he balances time between all of his kids. How do you balance the time between all of your kids especially when one is a YouTube sensation and traveling the world? Meeting the emotional needs of children Finding a way to connect one on one with your children Setting your schedule around your family Are you late with your kids? If they don't have a plan will they fail? And have you failed? How do you prepare your kids for success and failure? Driven for success or more relaxed? Which is right? Parenting so that you diminish regret "Smart" vs "Street Smarts" Guest: Steve Thompson Detail Doctors https://www.detaildrs.com/ Hosts:Jody Sedrick

This week I sit down with my friend Joab Flores. We talk about the very real feelings that accompany enforcing consequences on your kids when the don't live up to the family rules. Guest Joab Flores

Today I sit down with my friend Joe Kimball to talk about not seeing the impact of what you do as a dad until later. Was I to hard on my kids? Balancing the line between being hard and abusive Setting the pattern and expectation of eating together as a family Owning your mistakes and becoming the kind of dad you want to be. How did you feel as a kid? Getting to the age where your kids are teaching you lessons Now the kids are moving out what are the conversations like with his wife Guest Joe Kimball Host Jody Sedrick FathersFire === Check out my 1st Book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Feel Like You're Drowning" Order on Amazon https://a.co/d/0q8xo6r 2nd Books "But How Far Must I Go?" A Journey In Faith Scheduled to launch Saturday March 2nd

Yesterday I got a private text message congratulating me and Judie Sedrick for our 35th Wedding Anniversary. This person also commented how he had always felt like his marriage was a burden instead of being founded on friendship and love. I thought I'd share 10 things that have helped Judie and I build our relationship over the past 35 years. I hope these help you and would love to hear what you've found helpful Be in hot pursuit of your wife Little things matter Sarcasm can cut the heart Date night Let it go! It’s not that important Be the protector of her heart in how you speak to her and about her Be present- just because you're there doesn’t mean you’re there Dream, plan, and work together If you are a couple of faith pray together Love fiercely

Last week I had an experience that really got me thinking about how we treat the women in our life. It got me thinking about 3 key things that we need to teach our daughters: 1. You have a voice and deserve to be seen 2. It's ok to be strong, intelligent, beautiful and sexy. (It's not your fault he's a pig) 3. You belong, you are precious, and I love being with you as your dad I'd love to hear your comments! Jody

What do you do when life hits you with unexpected storms?

For the past couple of days I've been troubled by a post that I saw on Facebook that basically said "Carry Your Own Burden". When I think about the fact that 70% of all suicides are men I think there has to be a better way than "Carry Your Own Burden" or "Pull yourself up by the bootstraps". I explore some thoughts about creating an environment were we can support and love each other through our dark moments and be there for each other. I'd love to hear your thoughts Have a blessed day! And be the blessing that someone needs. Cheers Jody Sedrick

This week I sit down with Ryan Griggs to talk about his journey of being a single dad, a girl dad, dating, working through addiction, getting married, and going to be a dad for a second time this summer. What are the key things he's learned along the way? Show highlights: • Being a girl dad of a 13 year old going on 30 • The challenges of being a single dad, dating, and getting married • Being purposeful in your relationships with your kids and your wife • Working through addiction - Being open with your addiction • Working through expectations placed on us • 3 keys things to become a better dad Guest: Ryan Griggs Blue Line

Today I'd thought I'd share an experience I had as an 8/9 year old boy where I didn't get a present for Christmas, or at least that's what I thought. Sometimes the gifts are right in front of us, we just need to look up.

Wil and I got so many amazing interaction, comments, advice and questions in episode 247 "What is the difference going from one kid to two?" where Wil brought up the question "How do I make my wife feel secure?" In this episode we dig deeper into his questions and some of the comments that were made.We'd love to hear your comments and advice. Enjoy this very important conversation Guest: Wil Fosett Hosts: Jody Sedrick

A lot of us men struggle because we are trapped in the swamp of yesterday. We didn't have a father in the home. One of our parents had an addiction problem. ":Parenting" was administered by physical and emotional abuse and a myriad of other reasons that have left you destitute of a positive role model. How do you break the cycle? How do you change the trajectory? We tend to act out of a place of pride, anger, or fear? What triggers us? Do we feel unappreciated?  Do we feel unseen? Do we feel disrespected? Is that rooted in never having a voice as a child? You can’t heal what you never reveal!  Unveil the mask A lot of times we are holding on to ill feelings and the other person doesn’t even know, is oblivious, or doesn’t care. So the animosity you feel is cankering your heart and soul Be the change you want to see

This week I sit down with Wil Fosset to explore the difference in going from one child to two. Can it be that different? How are he and his wife managing the difference? We also explore what it takes to keep your relationship alive and thriving when you are juggling kids and a career. What has your experience been when you added a child to your family? Was it is going or a totally new experience. Guest: Wil Fosset Millenial Mentor Host: Jody Sedrick Fathers Fire

This week I give a shout out to Steve Thompson owner of The Detail Drs in Boise, Idaho. He and his family decided to do 75 hard together. They were doing really well as a family and one of his daughter's missed a day. So what did he do? Rather than let her fail he started over with her. What would you have done? Have a GREAT week! Jody

This week I share some thoughts about taking on the entire weight of the challenges of life on your shoulders and neglecting to include your wife who wants to be part of your life and finding the solution. I also talk about running into a hurricane of problems and trying to control every aspect as well as stirring up the pot in the name of "solving the problem" I'd love to hear your thoughts Cheers Jody

We tend to define our life by a single moment. When in reality it is a series of moments that lead to something tragic or something amazing. A series of moments define our character and who we become. A single moment can ruin a reputation, it can set us on a new trajectory. When we are purposeful in crafting moments we can create a life that is fulfilling and leave a legacy on our children that will last far into their life. What are you doing with the moments you've been given?CheersJody

This week I sit down with Ray Evans and talk about the challenges and fun of being with his wife 24/7 juggling a thriving detailing business, keeping their 10-year relationship fresh, and parenting a 7-year-old daughter. As you guessed it takes work so what is the secret sauce to make it work? Guest Ray Evans Stick To The Details https://www.sticktothedetailsinc.com/ Host Jody Sedrick

Hey gents, It's been three weeks since we last sat down. I have been swamped with business travel and neglected to get some episodes pre-recorded. My apologies. On a positive note, in the past two weeks I've had some amazing opportunities to sit down with men all over the globe to talk about business, family, and personal challenges. In my conversations the reality that many of us are walking with serious personal emotional trauma from our childhood that continues to haunt us even though we've tried to hide it behind the masks we wear. Today I explore the masks we wear to hide our pain with the hope that it will help us come to grips with what we are trying to hide and have the courage to look at them and start the healing process. Thanks for listening Jody Check out my book "Learn To Dance With The Currents of Life - When You Feel like You Are Drowning" https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Dance-Currents-Life-Drowning/dp/B09MC6HNL9/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PO1QMQ9FGLVK&keywords=learn+to+dance+with+the+currents+of+life+when+you+feel+like+drowning&qid=1697414732&sprefix=learn+to+dance+with+the+currents+of+life+when+you+feel+like+drowning%2Caps%2C170&sr=8-1

This week I sit down with my brother Mike Sedrick and we have a very raw and authentic discussion about the before, during, and after challenges and realities of a divorce. Highlights: 0:00 Intro 03:00 How he’s doing after the divorce 06:00 How did you come to terms with you needed to divorce? 10:30 “Until death do us part” 14:00 How did you help the kids work through their own pain and loss? 26:30 What has been helpful for you and the kids looking forward Guest: Mike Sedrick (My brother) Jody Sedrick jody.sedrick@gmail.com  @jodysedrick on YouTube and Instagram