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Welcome to the Kink Kloset! This is a place where those who enter the Kink Kloset get a chance to tell us about there second coming out as a fetish person.These are short episodes where everyone gets asked the same question:"Tell me who you were before you were a fetish person?" I hope you find these stories interesting.Enjoy!
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It's getting real now! Strap yourselves in for the Twenty Third episode of the Kink Kloset!Gracing the Kink Kloset with her presence is the wonderful and wicked Mistress Electra Amore! Electra is a Melbourne based professional dominatrix who has become a world traveller while developing her kinky skills. Originally from Hobart in Tasmania, this shy and introverted girl lead an active life spending her time adventuring the Tasmanian wilderness. In her teens, her family moved back to the Melbourne suburbs to which her life was thrown in a spin. While Melbourne provided Electra with a sense of cultural belong, she encountered a huge social disconnect with her community.  These teenage years acted as a catalyst to help Electra initiate the journey to discover who she was, and embarking on this path helped her break free from her shyness. Electra has flourished in her life when she has been able to express herself without limits. This first started in year 12 where she embraced being an art student and breaking the mould. Beyond school, Electra was off exploring the streets of Melbourne to which she discovered the dance clubs of the 90's. The clubs were a living organism with a pulse, personality and power. Nothing was going stop Electra from the intimacy of the dance floor. This club kid soon funnelled her love of art for a passion for fashion, and would treat every weekend as new opportunity to express her fashions with a captive audience. Luckily for Electra, PVC and latex were becoming mainstream in fashion, which opened up the possibilities for some wickedly kinky outfits. Unsurprising, latex still remains a staple of Mistress Electra Amore, to which she has honed her craft to become a designer and producer of rubber fetishware.Electra's path to dominatrix started in her early 20's with a phone call to the House of Domination. After looking them up in the Yellow Pages, she was persistent with four calls to secure an interview.  Arriving at an inconspicuous house in Melbourne's inner suburbs, she was in awe of the stunning leather Mistress who greet her at the door. After an interview with the head Mistress, Electra embarked on her apprenticeship as a dominatrix. This apprenticeship was another journey of self-discovery while also learning the tantalizing skills of her profession.   It was not always roses and restraints. One unfortunate incident of a session which went too far by having boundaries broken steeled Electra's value for consent and trust. Instead of letting this situation break her, she used it as fuel in her trainings of future apprentices on how to set up consensual sessions. Throughout Electra's exploration in the Kink Kloset, it is clear she has outstanding resilience and is able to grow from her struggles and hurdles. She is able to empathize with her clients who are shy and feeling lost. She is able to implant herself into any situation, city or country, and talk to anyone and effortlessly make friends. She also oozes confidence which has allowed her to teach her craft, host events and be the lifeblood of a party. Electra left the Kink Kloset with three nuggets of wisdom: Honour yourself, Honour your boundaries, and be Open with your heart. I hope you enjoy this special episode of the Kink Kloset. 
I spy two little ducks, it must be the twenty second episode of the Kink Kloset!Bounding their way into the Kink Kloset, is one of my dear friends, Patrick Reid. Patrick is an Adelaide based kinkster who has come in and out of kink during his life. Growing up in the north suburbs of Adelaide, Patrick found it hard to connect with his queer-self because there was little support in his area. When he was in his late teens, he found a support group called a drop-in. It was there he found a very special person, Justin. Justin helped Patrick discover the kinkster inside of him and encouraged him to be comfortable with his kinks. In more recent years, Patrick has become active in the kink community and became Mr Adelaide Leather in 2018.Patrick has flowed in and out of being a kinkster during his adult life. While he was exploring his kinks during his 20's, he parked it when he met his long-term partner. It felt like the right thing to do, yet he couldn't deny he was missing a piece of himself. This changed when we met his Pup, Miles. Together they developed a Pup/Handler dynamic and this helped Patrick re-discover the kink community. Patrick is very proud of the kink community in Adelaide and all the work Adelaide Leather and Fetish has done to grow the kink community. The Gear'd weekend in Adelaide has become a hallmark event for the kink community in Australia and has given space for new kinksters to discover themselves. Patrick is thankful for the very supportive kink community and is excited with how many opportunities there are for kinksters to be themselves these days. 
Welcome to the Twenty-First episode, and start of the Second Season of the Kink Kloset!We are starting off the second season of the Kink Kloset with a very special guest. Please welcome into the Kink Kloset, the ever so lovely Jack Thompson! Jack is a Baltimore based kinkster who was raised in Berkeley, Californa. Growing up, he felt natural to express his kink self through roleplaying a wolf called Fang and wolfing around with his elementary school friends. This developed into an interest for furries, to which he was fortunate enough to discover the furry community during his teenage years. He still remembers how much joy he felt seeing other kinksters parading around the furry convention and feeling like he belonged with them. Naturally, by living in Berkeley and being so close to San Francisco, Jack developed more kinks which lead him to the leather community. Throughout the years, Jack got more involved with the community. Over the last few years he has be involved with the titleholder community, to which he holds the title of Leatherman of Colour 2019 and International Mr Leather 2019. Throughout his kink journey, the community has always been the most important thing for Jack. To him, the kink community is the place where people accept you for who you are because they understand what your going through as a queer kinkster. He has felt this on a personal level because he has leaned on the kink community for strength and support when going through his own struggles. Throughout his time in the kink community, he has felt he has been able to be a conduit between communities and had a part of bringing splintered communities together. Because of this, Jack feels happily accomplished knowing that he has played a part building bridges between communities and bolstering the kink community just like it had strengthened him. 
Episode 24 - Dreck Sau

Episode 24 - Dreck Sau

2021-02-1532:45

We have now had two dozen of these, it is the Twenty Fourth episode of the Kink Kloset!Smoking us out is the oink worthy, Dreck Sau! On this episode we are travelling back to London town to visit Dreck. Dreck was born in the UK, yet split his time growing up between here and Mexico City. He has always seen himself as a fetishist from a young age. Dreck still remembers fondly the moment when he stole a pack of cigarettes from the kitchen table, sneaking away and taking his first drag. That moment awoke feeling inside of him he couldn't deny. Not too long after that, he was gifted leather from his father who owned various leather and punk gear during his biker days. The feeling of leather and seeing how others reacted to it inspired Dreck to see the fashion in fetish. It comes as no surprise that Dreck soon embraced his creative side, infused it with his fetishes, and started to have some great fun exploring what fetish meant to him. Dreck has always been a person who marches to the beat of his own drum. From being a trailer blazer in the online smoking community, to not confirming to conventional dress codes at fetish events, Dreck has always done it his way. Deep down he knows you need to be honest with yourself and what you're feeling. Even after having his online fetish life maliciously revealed to all of his close family and friends, Dreck never stopped embracing his fetish. Looking back on it, he is somewhat thankful because it allowed him to freely express himself. It appears that even through times of adversity, Dreck has managed to stay true to himself and has bounced back with more creativity and a deeper connection with his fetishes. 
Episode 20 - Northy

Episode 20 - Northy

2020-09-2139:12

You can't hide from it, it is the twentieth episode of the Kink Kloset!Making his Kink Kloset debut is none other than my good friend, Northy! Northy is a Sydney based kinkset who was born and raised over in the UK. His fetish journey started when he was in his early 20's when he mustered up the courage to walk into his first leather bar. That night at The Colherne is where Northy was exposed to skinheads, bikers and leathermen, and knew that he had found his people. From then, he started the process of getting his leathers and ventured out to the other leather bars around London, where he grew into the kinkster we know today. These days, you will find Northy at 'The Hide'. He was one of the founding members and has been with The Hide for three years. He takes great pride in being part of a fetish event here in Sydney, which allows for fellow kinksters to start their fetish journey, just like the bars in London helped him. During his youth, Northy knew there was always something different inside of him which he couldn't quite articulate. The lack of representation of leather folx in the media, made it challenging for Northy to connect with his kink side. One viewing of "Relax" by Frankie Goes to Hollywood music video unlocked his kink side. Over the years Northy has grown  fond of the kink community because he has been able to build strong connections with others. Some of his greatest friends he has met in leather bars or during travels to kink events, such as Folsom in Berlin. Northy believes the bonds he has with his fellow kinksters are strong because you all share an unique interest in something which is not commonly seen. He is very glad he has embraced his kink side as it has become an important part of who he is today.
Episode 19 - Babydoll

Episode 19 - Babydoll

2020-08-3029:33

Hot off the press, it is the the Nineteenth episode of the Kink Kloset!Stepping off the catwalk and into the Kink Kloset is none other than Melbourne's very own, Babydoll. Babydoll was born and raised in Melbourne and emerged on the kink community early on in her adult life. At a time when she was feeling lost, Babydoll turned to the kink community to begin a journey on a new path. Her first social kink experience was at a munch where she was surrounded by a diverse range of kinksters. Surprisingly, this situation did not overwhelm Babydoll, instead it inspired her. From then, she connected with other kinksters through events such as Oz Kink Fest, and utilised online platforms like FetLife to explore the community further. As part of her kink journey, Babydoll has founded Demasque Magazine, an alternative lifestyle publication which features great cross sections of the kink community.She is very proud to announce that she is launching her 9th issue which marks two amazing years of Demaque Magazine.Self-expression is a core aspect of kink which many kinksters relate with.For Babydoll, she was in a constant conflict between having the freedom to express herself and overcoming the inhibitions to be the person she knew she was on the inside.Kink gear, specifically latex, gave Babydoll the permission to be herself. Gearing up has allowed her to be creative, be fun and be a down right babe. However, Babydoll is not alone in this, as she can see when others are being true to themselves in their gear and the amazing energy radiating out from them. She hopes that by you listening to her story, that it gives you the confidence to give yourself the permission to be who you are. 
Get your passport stamped because the Kink Kloset is going abroad for it's Eighteenth episode!Taking a big booted step into the Kink Kloset is the ever so lovely, Gael Leung Chong Wo! Gael is a Belgium based kinkster who identifies as a late bloomer to the kink community. When growing up he knew there was a hidden part of him which turned out to be kink. He always thought of himself as "strange" due to being a French speaker with Asian roots in a Flemish neighbourhood, so it was no surprise to him when he developed a curiosity for kink. From his first kink experience 5 years ago, Gael has wasted no time exploring his kinks and discovering the community. Earlier this year, Gael put himself out on the line during Darklands 2020 in Antwerp and competed in their Mister Leather Belgium competition where he was awarded Mister Leather Belgium 2020!Going outside of your comfort zone was never easy for Gael, yet they have always resulted in powerful and special moments of growth for him. Just stepping through the front door of a kink store was a hard thing for Gael, yet once he did, he knew had walked into the right place. Beyond that, Gael unpacks the conflict between feeling like you belong yet also not loosing who you are as an individual and kinkster. His experiences at Pride events where he met such diverse kinksters, sparked a project from him to increase visibility of all kinks and kinksters. #Wearefetish was launched by Gael as an online social media platform for the promotional of all kinks, with a special focus on those kinksters who view themselves as a minority. He is so happy with how well it has been received by the community and hopes it helps others get out of their comfort zone so they can feel confident with their kinky selves.
Strap yourselves in for the Seventeenth episode of the Kink Kloset!Landing into the Kink Kloset is the Sydney's very own, Mike James! Mike tells us that he grew as a very independently, having to find his own path because of the big age difference between him and his siblings. It was this independence which gave him the confidence to explore both himself and the world. This lead Mike to travel and take a very extended gap year globetrotting. Throughout his travels, Mike discovered kink communities by attending kink events where he befriended fellow kinksters and was inspired by their lifestyles. Upon returning home, Mike was full of passion to get involved with the local kink communities. It was this passion which helped drive Mike to take an active role in the kink community, and in 2019, Mike was titled the Australian Leatherman, and has been a visible representative both domestically and internationally.Trust, safety and communication, are all important topics to Mike when it comes to kink. His first experience was a "live in" scene which spanned over a 4 day weekend. We do a deep dive into this scenario to learn how this scene came about, how trust was formed, and how safe Mike felt communicating to his scene partner about what he was experiencing. From this intense experience, Mike reflects on how valuable recommendations are in the kink community, mainly to ensure you're doing your best to play safe. 
Episode 16 - Jason

Episode 16 - Jason

2020-07-2026:13

Shine yourselves because it is the Sixteenth episode of the Kink Kloset!Lubing themselves up next for the Kink Kloset is none other than the lovable rubberman, Jason! Jason was raised in country Western Australia and grew up with a passion for motorcar racing. It was with racing where Jason became a high profile person in his local community. For the longest time, he felt like he was in two worlds, juggling his core being and his public profile. Eventually, Jason moved to Melbourne and came alive in this sex-positive city. Once in the community, he knew that he wanted to channel the same passion he had for motorcar racing, and help make the community thrive. In 2019, Jason was awarded the 2019 Melbourne Rubberman Title and has been an active member of the Australian Kink Community.As kinksteers and queer people, we are always dealing with a sense of belonging and looking for those places which make us feel comfortable and safe. For Jason, it was a struggle to connect to his kinks being in such a remote community. He also found it challenging to be comfortable with his kink self when his mates ridiculed kinksters because it wasn't the status quo. We then discuss on how great it is during these times to be able to connect to so many communities, where Jason reflects on the great success of Melbourne Rubber. 
Put your best foot forward, because it is the fifteenth episode of the Kink Kloset!I would like to welcome the magnificent, Iz Connell, into the Kink Kloset. Iz is a Sydney based kinkster who grew up in country New South Wales. She has been involved in the fetish and kink community here in Sydney ever since she was 18. Iz is a staple of the Sydney community. You can find her at leather socials, see her riding with the Dykes on Bikes and even hitting up the dance floor at Extra Dirty. One of her proudest moments was being the first female to be elected as part of the Harbour City Bears Committee. Now at 27, Iz applies values she learned in the kink community, such as consent and fairness, to her profession so she can make a positive impact in people's lives.In this episode we learn about who Iz is at her core. This is a special moment for us where we get to strip back the layers and learn about someone's person. While learning about Iz's values and how she has dealt with judgemental thoughts, she says something which can resonate with most of us. "It is not the first thought that matters. Instead, it is the second thought which counts." This is a reflection on how to manage judgemental thoughts, because it is the thoughts we have which influence our actions, which count.   
Sharpen your bear claws because it is the Fourteenth episode of the Kink Kloset!The Kink Kloset is getting a furry with our first bear kinkster crossover as we are joined by Adam Cooney! Adam is a Sydney based kinkster who is always a friendly face at bear and kink events here in town. Throughout most of his adult life, Adam has always known he was a kinky person. Through his volunteer work at ACON, he would get glimpses into the kink world. After the end of his long-term relationship, Adam gave himself the permission to full explore his fetish side and get involved with the community.  One such way he has done this, is by representing the Harbour City Bears as Mr Harbour City Bear, 2019! In such a short time, he has come into his own in the community.Confidence through kink gear is a common theme for most kinksters, and this resonates greatly with Adam. Throughout the episode he talks about how kink gear, specifically leather, has given him confidence in many ways. This confidence has come from seeing how his mates proudly wear their gear out in public, then having the courage to do that himself, and finally, leather has been the gateway which has allowed him to explore his other kinks. Adam also talks about how positively he has seen kink/leather bring the bear and kink communities closer together. 
We now have a baker's dozen of episodes - it is the thirteenth episode of the Kink Kloset!Please give a big cheerio to Ralf Rasmussen who joins us in the Kink Kloset. Ralf is a Danish kinkster who is has been living in London for the past 11 years. Growing up in the Danish countryside, Ralf was not exposed to kink until he saw the sight of two bikers at a local market and was mesmerised. It was this situation which initiated Ralf to explore his kinky side. Once he moved to the city, he gained the confidence to explore his kink with the people he met at a fetish club, and he never looked back. It wasn't too long before Ralf got more involved with the leather and kink community. In 2008 he took the title of Mr Leather Denmark, and then went on and became Mr Leather Europe 2008. These days, he is more known for his work with "RealClearFetish!", a Facebook group he started for sober kinksters.For Ralf, leather was a gateway kink which opened him up to explore his other fetishes. However, over the years he started to mix substances and sex together. It was a harsh realisation one day where he noticed he couldn't be sexual without substances. After taking a break from the fetish community, Ralf shares with us his experiences about being sober with kink. From having to retrain your connection with kink, arming yourself with tools to safely enjoy yourself at an event in a bar or club, and building connections with those going through the same situation, all of this has been part of his journey. Ralf has been touched with how much of a positive reception he has received from promoting his "Clear Head, Clear Fetish" message, and hopes to spread it out more in the community. If you are listening to this and wish to find out more about RealClearFetish! you can find them on Facebook and Instagram. I will also have links to articles Ralf has written more about this, on our Facebook page. 
Slide right in for the twelfth episode of the Kink Kloset!Stepping into the Kink Kloset is none other than Melbourne's own Pepper Pop! As a young adult, Pepper left her home town of Launceston in search for her tribe. Arriving in Melbourne, she gave herself the freedom to explore and enjoyed experiencing what the city had to offer. It took a little bit of courage, yet Pepper did eventually stumble into the fetish community and never looked back. Since then, she has become a very public figure within the community. Pepper is well known as one of the faces of Eagle Leather, and in 2019 she helped judged at fetish title competitions in Adelaide, Melbourne and San Francisco!For Pepper, sex has always been a very positive thing in her life. In this episode, we talk about approaching fetish with a sex positive mindset and how important a mentor is when going through your kink journey. Pepper also reflects on her own close dynamic and believes that being your own kinkster has been a key part to the success of her shifting dynamic. 
Stand to attention for the eleventh episode of the Kink Kloset!Please give a warm leathery welcome to the amazing Jody Anderson. Jody joins us in the Kink Kloset all the way from their abode in Adelaide in South Australia! They are a very active member of the Adelaide leather and kink community and the greater Australian leather community. In 2018, Jody was sashed as Ms Adelaide Leather. From being the inaugural titleholder, Jody has used their platform to bolster the community. This has been noticeable in their efforts in increasing the visibility and awareness of gender in the leather and kink community. From Californian Highway Patrol hats in a festive show bag as a child, to being introduced to leather by a lover, we really explore the memorable moments in Jody's kink journey. Throughout these moments, empowerment has always been the uplifting force which has inspired Jody. I hope this episode inspires the kinkster inside of you to be not be afraid of what you're doing and to empower others to do the same.
Episode 10 - Matt BLUF

Episode 10 - Matt BLUF

2020-04-2625:54

It is the big One Zero - it is the tenth episode of the Kink Kloset!Soaring into the Kink Kloset we have Matt BLUF! Matt is a Sydney based leatherman who has been exploring the fetish scene for a very long time. Most people who know Matt know him for his work in the local community here in Sydney. He has been involved with successful projects such as the Sydney Kink Krawl, Sydney Fetish Week, and most recently, The Eagle Sydney. Matt attributes his passion to these projects from his travels as a young kinkster and learning from the kink communities of Europe and the USA. In Matt's experience, the fetish community has been a sub-culture within the gay community. In this episode we discuss on how recently social media has provided a place for the fetish community to come together; and Matt reflects on the positive experience he had providing a space for kinksters during Mardi Gras with the pop-up bar The Eagle Sydney. It is really nice to hear the story of the shy young kinkster who evolved into the confident leatherman who provides spaces for kinksters to be themselves.
Get ready for the ninth episode of the Kink Kloset!Pouncing into the Kink Kloset is none other than the slippery Pup Panther. Panther is another Queensland kinkster who resides in Sydney. Panther spent most of his young adulthood being involved in sports and took his time in discovering his kinkself. Throughout his kink journey, he has since become an active member within the BDSM community, especially with the pup and handler community. Panther has represented the community as the Queensland Leather Puppy 2017, Australian Puppy 2017 was the first non North American to compete at IPAHW in 2018 and was Secondary Head Judge at IPAHW 2019.Throughout his kink journey, Panther has linked his ability to achieve a focused head space in sport to his kinks. This has been very fundamental in developing his pup head space. In this episode we unpack what role a head space has in kink play. We also talk about how he has managed his kink relationships functioning remotely from different states. 
Time to take a big bite into the 8th episode of the Kink Kloset.This time I would like to welcome The Puppy Fifi into the Kink Kloset. Pup Fifi is a lifestyle kinkster who comes into the Kink Kloset full of energy. She joins us from Southbend Indiana, yet has spent a lot of time travelling around the USA. Pup Fifi has been on their kink journey ever since the 80's and it is continuously evolving. On this journey Pup Fifi has dedicated herself to community involvement, from titleholding to service with the Windy City Boys Troupe. The Puppy Fifi is The Great Lakes Puppy 2003 and The International Puppy 2004, to which she was the first female International Puppy. You are all in for a real treat this episode. The Puppy Fifi says she was lost before she became a Fetish Person. However, you will hear about how she found herself once she discovered the leather community. We talk about the experience of being a live in slave, living above a sex club, how important friendships are when you are starting off on your journey and so much more. This is one juicy episode and I hope you all enjoy it.
I hope you're feeling lucky, because it is the seventh episode of the Kink Kloset!This time we have the charming Shane Stevens step into the Kink Kloset. Shane is a Brisbane local yet is originally from a country town in England. He knew he was always a fetish person from a young age, especially when his first kink experience involved watersports in a back alley. Fast forward to 2019 and Shane has overcome his anxieties and hurdles to become the 2019 Queensland Leather Boy. He is an active member of the Brisbane fetish community and has travelled interstate to represent his title.In this episode we talk about what role the internet plays in a fetish person's journey, as for Shane it was always around, not a new edition to his life. We also talk about the process you go through when attending your first kink event and it was great to hear how Shane overcame his obstacles. 
Episode 6 - Bee Beehop

Episode 6 - Bee Beehop

2020-03-0315:47

Turn the volume up to max for the six episode of the Kink Kloset!In this episode we have the Kiwi born, Bee Beehop, taking a big leap into the Kink Kloset. Growing up on a dairy farm, Bee knew she had to work hard to make it out of her hometown. When her flatmate told her of the Hellfire Club in Sydney, she took the opportunity and ran with it. Now, almost 20 years later, Bee is a prominent figure in the local and international kink and fetish communities. Bee has represented Sydney as Ms Sydney Leather for 2015 and 2016, and reflects on her time as a titleholder. We end up catching Bee just before she leaves to go and attend Darklands in Belgium. She is very excited for Darklands as she will be a judge for the Mr Belgium Leatherman 2020 competition, which is a huge deal.In this episode we explore how important events are for fetish community. For Bee, the Hellfire Club was a big eye opener and loved that all bodies were welcomed and celebrated. Beyond that, we discuss play parties and how women usually get ignored in this aspect. Bee provides an interesting perspective on how women were allowed into Darklands and what the result of that has been. I hope you enjoy it.
Episode 5 - Kingskin

Episode 5 - Kingskin

2020-02-0219:25

Welcome to the fifth episode of the Kink Kloset.I would like to welcome Kingskin to step into the Kink Kloset with me. Kingskin is a queer leather woman born and raised here in Sydney. She is an educator, leather maker and big rebel at heart. Jo has been involved in the Sydney Leather and Fetish Community for many decades and has been a prominent figure within the community. In this episode Kingskin unpacks how it was her rebellious nature against her environment which made her feel so at home with kink. She also reveals her first sexual kink partner and how much impact they had on her life. Because of this, we discuss how important it is to have trusting play partners and how this landscape has changed over the years.
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