Today's topic is how to turn your dating misfortune into mojo while finding your inner magnetism. This week's guest is Kimmy Seltzer; she's an image expert, dating strategist, and confidence therapist. Kimmy knows firsthand that you look good when you feel good, and her outside in approach does wonders for your confidence! Kimmy had a turn of events personally that led her to become one of the top LA Dating Coaches, running dating boot camps for men and women, consulting for severalbusinesses, and running the VIP division at one of the largest nationwide matchmaking companies, Elite Matchmaking in Beverly Hills. Kimmy shares her dating strategies, tips around flirting, and how to attractlove through body language, first impressions, and her signature formula, the Charisma Quotient. Los Angles based expert Kimmy Seltzer travels the country helping others discover confidence, charisma, and connection as a speaker at national Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA, and iDate. Kimmy is also the host of the Charisma Quotient podcast and is a regular contributor at the Huffington Post. She’s appeared in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader's Digest, Ask Men, FOX News Magazine Yahoo, and the Washington Examiner, to name a few. Kimmy's also the leading love expert on the live traveling dating show the Great Love Debate and cable TV’s reality dating show The Romance. She's the love coach for the dating app Datefit and hosts the Flirt Academy workshops nationwide.Kerry Brett and Kimmy Seltzer cover a lot of ground and topics include;How to find yourself again after a marriage ends or a long-term relationship.How to look and feel your best so you can find what you want in a partner.Why the outer game is just as important as the inner game in how we feel about ourselves.The value of being “seen”, and the impact that people have when they feel attractive.Why you have to learn how to date, because you can’t be good at something you don’t do.Kimmy found that people could shift in one shopping spree than they could after years of therapy.Kimmy’s red dress moment and why we all need a dating costume.How important confidence is when flirting or making first impressions.How to attract something this time around.The power of makeovers, and how it helps you shift the way you feel about yourself.When you love you, others will love you as well.How important the leading photograph is, as well as secondary images are in your online dating profile.Why your online dating photograph is the first thing that catches a man’s eye. It’s literally the equivalent of a first impression and we all know how important first impressions are, so make yours count.Don’t rush the process, date smarter not harder. Why you should take your time, and reframe your mindset of how to date especially if you’re jumping back into the world of dating after a long-term relationship.Make flirting fun, avoid boring answers, use humor and keep it short and sweet when texting. Too much too soon is never a good thing.You have the power to attract the love you want but you must become what you want to attract.To find out more about Kimmy Seltzer go to her website https://kimmyseltzer.com/. Here is the link to her flirt workshop on February 11th, 2022 https://bl394.isrefer.com/go/flirt2022/KBrett/.Listen to her podcast the Charisma Quotient podcast on all platforms where podcasts are found. Follow on Instagram @kimmyseltzer, or on FaceBook under Kimmy Seltzer.