Blended Imperfectly with Pete And Mena

It’s been a long time, and we know you missed us. Catch up with us on all of our ridiculousness. This episode we talk the Hilaria Baldwin Spanish accent controversy, and you know Mena gets riled up. Then Mena reads a letter from a listener who is disturbed from a message she receives from her boyfriend’s ex girlfriend who describes him as “the bloody devil in disguise.” What advice would you give?*******We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support!Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media pages:Facebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

A letter from a listener asks us, “Should I start looking through her phone?,” after his wife says her ex’s name during sex. Pretty sure, you’re going to be surprised by the advice Pete gives over Mena. Pete asks Mena if she would tell her friend that her friend’s new boo is a slacker. Mena says, you should never let your friends fall into bum-dom. *******We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support!Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media pages:Facebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

Jeez Louise! Mena’s without alcohol this episode... trying out a new diet, and we wonder if she sounds hangry the entire episode. After the couple surmises the shows and movies they’ve been watching, they explore the wonderful world of Karen’s tantruming in places they know they’re supposed to being wearing masks, they ask, “Why?”The couple responds to a letter from a listener, detailing long hairs being found in her tub after she leaves the house for extended periods of time. Is her husband cheating? What should she do? Pete of course, offers up his fool-proof advice. All of that time, and they run out of time for a doozy of a story. ...to be continued on another episode to be posted later on this week! *******We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support!Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.com

It’s said that the number one reason for divorce isn’t infidelity, but finances... It seems as if some people are seeing the tip of the iceberg before they even get married!Pete poses a scenario of a student loan payment as a proposal for marriage, that leads the fiancé to reply with, “Imma still need a ring.” Is she ungrateful? Or reasonable?Mena reads a letter from a listener who recently discovered his fiancé had massive debt, and is ready to call it all off as a result. You already know the discussion is going to get crazy!Check us out and chime in on our Facebook group page:www.Facebook.com/groups/280897689827638 (or just search groups for Blended Imperfectly with Pete and Mena)You can also follow us on our other social media pages:Instagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1Subscribe to our mailing list on our website at: www.BlendedImperfectly.comSubmit questions for us or ask for advice at:BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comAnd be sure to rate, review and subscribe to our podcast on whatever podcasting platform you listen to us on. And as always remember... Before you turn the blender on... Put a lid on that b...!

Funnily enough, we put up a poll in our Facebook Group, asking, “Is it over if your spouse cheats?,” and the day after, the Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith Red Table Talk “Entanglement” scandal broke. So we took some time to answer a listener’s question on whether or not we felt she should divorce her husband after she discovered some Facebook communications for plans to meet up with another woman, (that doesn’t appear to have actually happened), and also discussed the Will and Jada craziness. Why did they feel the need to even address this now, when there’s been rumors for years about their open marriage?Another listener is ready to propose to his girlfriend and wonders if he should disclose that he’s been getting the old rub and tug at the massage parlor for years! Listen in to your favorite podcasting couple, doling out advice to our friends (our listeners).And always remember, before you turn the blender on, put a lid on that b...! *******We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support. Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media pages:Facebook: www.Facebook.com/groups/280897689827638 (or just search groups for Blended Imperfectly with Pete and Mena)Instagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

A listener writes in to ask, “What do you do when a girl’s planned brunch date gets highjacked?” Mena’s got some simple solutions. Another listener wants to know if he should intervene and talk to his on again off again girlfriend’s ex about his disrespect, and Pete and Mena both agree... DON’T TAKE THE BAIT! Pete goes off on yet again, another superficial tangent. Listen in to your favorite podcasting couple, doling out advice to our friends, our listeners. And always remember, before you turn the blender on, put a lid on that b...! *******We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support!Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media pages:Facebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

We are back after a short hiatus. We’ve decided to return to our usual format, because we think it’s important to at least be an escape from the bs going around in the world, and just take a mental and emotional break from it all and provide some humor. A listener writes in to ask a question about her cheapskate ex-husband and expectations of etiquette. Another listener writes in to ask us how he should address a situation in which his ex-wife has started using a former pet name for him, for his new guy, and he finds himself in TROUBLE, after responding to his former pet name. As you can imagine, Pete once again gets riled up, and Mena has to check him on his tough guy advice. *******We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support!Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media pages:Facebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

We stepped out of our regular format to discuss the current events occurring in this country and the protests going on all over the world. As POC, we want to hold anyone who takes a life, regardless of their profession or skin color, accountable for their actions of killing innocent men, women and children.ou can also catch the video on our Facebook page here: https://www.facebook.com/blendedimperfectly/videos/250965522862698/Make sure you subscribe to our Facebook and Instagram pages to get notifications for more live episodes where you can all chime in. Just search BLENDED IMPERFECTLY*****Subscribe to our website: www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media pagesFacebook: www.facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

Pete and Mena start the episode by letting you all know that Pete has to have surgery this week. Of course with any surgery, you have to have a pre-op appointment where he also had to be screened for COVID-19. Talk about DRAMATIC! Even the nurses were doubled over laughing.A listener writes in to ask if she’s being petty for making her husband contact his ex-wife to stop using his last name. And Mena reads a question from a Facebook group, where a man is hesitant to move his girlfriend in with him after she was laid off. *******We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support!Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media pages:Facebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

Let me tell you... Sometimes you gotta tell people to step off! We begin the episode talking about wearing masks, and the new jacked up tan lines people are going to get now that we are heading into summer... Also, we realize that single people out there trying to pick up chicks or dudes are gonna be “mask-fished,” which is the new and even more messed up “catfished.”As usual, we tackle listener’s requests for advice. A listener ran into his father-in-law, and saw him cheating on his wife with an old acquaintance. And a newlywed who consented on allowing her husband’s stepbrother who fell on hard times to move into their home, is crossing way too many lines. In both cases, we think it’s time they tell these people to “Step Off!”************************************************************We’d love to give you advice too, so email us at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comRate, review, share and subscribe to our podcast, and thank you for your continued support!Subscribe to our mailing list on our website for exclusive pre-sale discounts to merchandise:www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us:Facebook - www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram - www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter - www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

In this episode, we bring you the Private Part-Y! Pete has a newfound appreciation for women who wax. And after a weekend of posts for Mother’s Day, Pete poses the question, “Is it okay for ex-spouses to give presents to their ex-spouse, and should the receiver accept the gift?” Mena and Pete discuss NFL’s Earl Thomas and the debacle with his wife finding him, his brother and a bunch of women naked in the same bed at an AirBnB pad... Turns out, what Mena thinks is the wildest part of the story is no big deal to Pete. Private parts and private parties are the running theme of this episode. We appreciate all of your support from all of our listeners, and sharing our craziness with your friends and family. You can submit any questions or ask us for advice at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comAnd Remember... Before you turn the blender on... Put a lid on that bitch!Subscribe to our podcast on our social media platforms:Website: www.BlendedImperfectly.comFacebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

We begin this episode with acknowledging how crappy this time is right now, and how it’s impacted Mena’s mood enough to start a list of what really grinds her gears. Then Pete and Mena go back and forth about the things that really irritates them... from stupid people to sayings that should be permanently retired. Then of course, it’s advice and opinion time when a woman’s future husband proposes to her with the ring he proposed to his ex-fiancée. And another woman asks if she’s ungrateful for having wandering eyes from her husband who seems perfect in every aspect except for a few minor flaws. You already know, the couple has some VERY strong opinions about these questions. Tell us what grinds your gears! Let’s complain together! Submit your questions or asks for advice from the couple by email at BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comSubscribe to our website for pre-sale discounts of merchandise on www.BlendedImperfectly.comFollow us on our social media accounts:Facebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

Quarantining all over the world, and trying to maintain a healthy relationship has got some couples going a little crazy. In this episode, we give advice to a listener whose tongue in cheek comment about her marriage caught the attention of interviewers from major entertainment outlets after writing a comment on a New York Times article about quarantining with your mate.

We are back with new listeners and a review of the first 3 episodes of the new Netflix Series, Too Hot to Handle. (Review ends at 31:15).A listener writes us to ask if she should tell her fiancé about her future father-in-law’s inappropriate pinch, or keep it to herself. Either way, she doesn’t even want to be around the guy. Take a listen as we go through a myriad of scenarios to help this listener resolve this issue. Lastly, we go off on a tangent about face masks and food stamps. How did we even get here? Email Us: BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comFacebook: www.Facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.Instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

#10 - Corona Is Cramping Everyone’s StyleMena gets kicked out of another Facebook Group. Safe to say, these groups are not for her. A listener writes in asking for advice to get her ex out of her house. Another listener asks for Pete to keep it funky on whether or not he should call it quits on his girlfriend who shut him down on quarantining with her. Subscribe to our Website: www.BlendedImperfectly.comEmail Us: BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

We begin the episode with show and series recommendations we are enjoying. Of course, we give props and acknowledgment to all of the people on the front lines of providing services to the masses during this global pandemic. Mena and Pete get into it over Aunt Jemima syrup versus real maple syrup, and then Pete blows up Mena’s spot about her hatred for cheesecake. A listener writes us with a dilemma where he’s stuck in the middle knowing a bro has broken bro code, and his wife wanting him to help salvage her best friend’s reputation. Another listener writes in “asking for a friend,” our opinion on why her friend may have been ghosted. Subscribe to our Website: www.BlendedImperfectly.comEmail Us: BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

On this in-between-y, we talk about how each of us are adjusting to this crisis. It’s been two weeks for Mena, and things are spiraling out of control.We give advice to a listener who asks whether she should have toned down her opinions in her own home, and we briefly discuss couples losing their identity. Lastly, we share advice from Mena’s friend and former boss, Dr. Ramon Solhkhah, who suggests changing the verbiage from social distancing to physical distancing and being socially connected now more than ever.Subscribe to our Website:www.BlendedImperfectly.comEmail Us: BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

We offer up a few park-free solutions to keep the kids busy. Many listeners wrote us to ask this question: What made us want to have a child together? Mena swears there was a conspiracy against her.Two listeners write to Pete and Mena and ask for advice. After a man gets caught cheating twice, he’s still not sure how to end it, and is confused about what to do. A woman has her boyfriend move in after dating long-distance, and it’s not long before -ish gets real! Real messy! Take a listen because you definitely can’t make this stuff up!Subscribe on our Website: www.BlendedImperfectly.comEmail Us: BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

So, of course, we decided to do an extra episode this week, while whole countries are social distancing and in some cases, fully quarantined. We would be remiss if we just ignored this, and continued on with business as usual. We acknowledge the work from home crew, the individuals making sacrifices continuing to work as their roles are essential to running the country, and stand with those in solidarity who have unfortunately lost their jobs because of this. We hope to be a little bit of light, in a dim/dark place right now. We read letters from two listeners this episode, and of course, Pete plays Devil’s Advocate in one scenario, until Mena goes completely off the rails and is fully revved up for the remainder of the episode. By the end, it should be clear that Mena could be a bit of a Mean-y. Come along for another wild ride, and continue to send in those questions!Subscribe on our Website: www.BlendedImperfectly.comEmail Us: BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1

We are here to get the world through this social distancing thing. In this episode, we touch briefly on what we are doing to keep the boredom to a minimum at home by adding twists to board games. We read and give advice from two listeners who ask questions about how to react to a wife sharing pictures on social media from a boudoir photo shoot, and a husband who wants to have his wife watch adult movies with him. As you can imagine, the advice we give goes off the rails. Website: www.BlendedImperfectly.comEmail Us: BlendedImperfectly@gmail.comFacebook: www.facebook.com/BlendedImperfectlyInstagram: www.instagram.com/BlendedImperfectlyTwitter: www.Twitter.com/BlendedImperfe1#BlendedImperfectly #SocialDistancing #SpiceItUp #SpiceItUpInTheBedroom #BoudoirPhotoShoot #GetYourGrooveBack #RelationshipPodcast #Dussé #RelationshipAdvice #Couples #PodcastAndChill