THE BETTER MAN|| TRUTH&TRADITION

gentlemen whats going on....this is the better man channelwhere we pursue individual sovereignty....were not afraid togo anywhere, provided it be forward..those choosing to remain in the quicksand of comfort can have their comfortable miserywe choose rather to explore life and its possibilities.,..asking ourselveswhat can i say YES to ....todaywere not afraid to go anywhere.....provided it be FORWARDon a personal level , ive been in placeswhere ive spun my wheels in place for so long that being stuck becomes the normit becomes comfortable and why would i shoot for the stars when the mud is my home....and more importantly how can i escape the gravity of mediocrity when i continue tochain myself to its targetless ambitions.....if you can call pursuing the assembly line of instant gratification an ambition"hey look at me...i spent three hours shopping online at amazon"im sooooo fucking great.....modern times has us foregoing the exploration of greatness, of possibility...of manhood..............in exchange for the newest netflix seriesseriously think about it.....how many of us have scrolled through more bullshitin the past month than our fathers did in their whole life times....and what about THEIR fathers...the idea of going anywhere provided it be forward is lost to this generation...and yeah they'll go anywhere but its path leads right back to where they started...looking for more....and theres not one damn person that doesnt want more....more money....more happinessmore life....the man struggling from paycheck to paycheck dreams of bettering his financesthe broken hearted man, desperately wants a piece of happiness...the old and regretful man fighting for his last breath...wishes for one more daymore is the inevitable thought that latches itself to the soul of every person......in one form or another we want more....and in order to prevent ourselves from LOSING ourselves....that part that makes us uniqueand powerful men...we need to start exploring a new targetoutside of the outdated nonsense the world would have us aim forshooting for the white picket fence, and the 1.5 kids and an unhappy marriage with a mortgageis wasting many a mans ammoif I never aim for my own target...if i never shoot for my life...if I stay stuck in the mudthen how much of a man am iwe were created to explore....to expand and to reach for new and better levels...but the greatest basketball player in the world is useless if their are nobasketball goals on his courtand on the other hand, the worst basketball player has exponentially better odds to makea basket if he has a goal to shoot ati dont want to aim for targets that are not in my interest...like why the hell am i getting upset that i dont have a mansion in Beverly hillsand who the hell taught me to shoot for this shit....a target is the most important thing man can construct....because it will consume mostof his time and energywe see the sheep tiring themselves into heart attacks and disappointment for targetsthat are not of their own makingthey slave themselves to death in hopes of another mans dream...its time we start thinking for ourselves and in finding our own thoughtswe find the ability to build a worthy target....a damn good life worth aiming forwe will go anywhere provided it is forward...that statement is powerful....and deserves a target to matchlove and respect gentlemenaim for something to be proud ofyou will hear from me next episode

gentlemen  whats going on...in a world where we ask what is a womanand were left with people crawdadding into some tolerant snake holeof a woman is whatever you wish it her to be....or him....or they them and they'rei find it not only imperative but dutiful...hell even responsible to lay out thegroundwork for what a man IS..... and should be built uponfirst and foremost a man is fill with testosterone,,,a penis and balls.....and those were not surgically constructed by some nut job doctor.....( pun intended)these utensils of manhood were given by birth.....therefore giveing men access to hisuniversal BIRTHRIGHT....that of masculinitySEE,,, man is not some crawling and spineless afterthought of some post feminists ideologyman is equal to nothing therefore he is man....and there are definitely some inbornand natural qualities that he and he alone can carry...and just because a man is cool as shit and has been admired for his courage, bravery,adventure, physicality, and skilled logic since time immemorialdoesn't mean that everyone can bea man....ie.....balls and penis are the first requirement.......from birth lia...from childhood that boy that plays king of the mountain and dreams of the daringattempts to rescue people from a burning buildingor turns on the imagined sirens and has a high speed chase with the ruthless bank robbersending in a back alley shootoutto the kid climbing to the top of the tree just because he was daredthe path to manhood starts with something even bigger than self...its genesis lies in the heart of seeing the impossible.......... become possiblethat adventurous spirit that spearheads the challenge of life....with the likes of alexander the great....julius caesar.....napoleon...and george washingtoneven to the intellectuals that decided to conquer the intellect of philosophyfrom....marcus aurelius.....seneca...and my favorite nietzsche...man has the literal and figurative balls to go into the unknowns of life.he carries the physical strength to summit the mountainous giants of adversityman is king of the mountain because he has the authority to do sothis king carries the honor and responsibility of a man in power....to lead with dignity and integrity...a man doesn tlord over people with a tyrannical fist....but he is intolerant of weakness and degenerate behaviora man stands for what is right....his code is for the protection andcontinuance of something sacred and beyond himself...that being a strong and progressing life....a legacy.... not built for self alone but forthose that accept the honor of a strong lifeSTRONG....thats the backbone of mans spirit.....physically strong...emotionally strong and intellectually strong....man is a physical specimen .....and to never test or even approach what could be of abody that was born to be a badass machine is a shame....a regret unmatcheda man is made to mold his body into something special, unique and set apartto be that statue of strength that women and children admire and respect...the ability to regulate emotions is mans duty.....man does not allow emotions neitherhappiness, sadness or any in between to steer his ship...man recognizes that emotions are only stars in the sky enabling him to navigate hiscourse to the shores of freedom...if it makes him happy and is conducive to growth and strength then he repeats similar actionsif it makes him angry, bitter and depressed then he chooses not to follow those starsleading to rocky shoresand to push his mental capacity to new heights of understanding he confessesthat there is always more to learna lifetime student of sustainable principles is mans profession....a good man acknowledges he can always become a better man...he is strong, upright and adaptable in every facet oflife....adaptable but not a leaf in the wind.....man is willing to dig new channels of waterbut that channel is filled with the water of the one and only river...that river flowing with the water of mans highest code.....a code that hes not only willing to die for ......but more importantly live for...and there is the linchpin.....man is created to live....life is the ultimate destinyman lives to make his life his own....the hardships, adversities,giants and trolls underthe bridge will ultimately bend their knees to man.....this is his calling...to conquer even what may seem unconquerable....even in deathand defeat.....man leaves behind a spirit of courage that permeates the spiritof those men yet to be bornthose boys that are called to climb the highest tree and dream of the loftiestkingdom....man dares to challenge himself to go a little farther into the darknessyet he carries a torch and an axean axe to chop out a path for those brave enough to followand a fiery torch so that the path becomes filled with light...and that can sum up man.,....man is created to be a light....a flame that guides towards strength and never away from it....and he wields the weapons necessary to initiate the path of strength...a man is balls, backbone and brains....he is never afraid to exhibit what makes him man.....and that is whyin the end.....he is respected and reveredman accepts the responsibility the weak want but are too fearful to possess..love and respect gentlemenyou are a manyou will hear from me next episode

gentlemen whats going on.....the decisions you make today will shape your environmentgood decisions have good consequences and bad decisions have negative consequences.....and there in lies the key to life....consequences...i want you to think about some horrible and maybe irrational decisions you have made in the pastyou dated the whore and got chlamydia....you spent all your money on some get rich quick scheme.....you went to school for a degree in modern dance and are 100 k in debt...and jobless of courseweve all made dumb ass deciions based on the itch we wanted scratched immediately.....and we never paid any thought to the future conseqhences....and how they would come to kick our ass and strip away our hopeagain take a moment and contemplate the effects of some of your ignorant ass choices....we live in an age that has wrapped us in a bubble of bullshit pleasure...we want it now dammit.....now.,....now....now......and so we base all of our choices on how it effects us now...i eat 3 big macs today because it feels good nowi simp over 30 girls on social media cause it feels good nowI spend all my money on useless shit.....you guessed it....because it feels good now.we've been using decisions for instant gratification....instead of weighing the consequencesand the true power of making a choice is to actually get you somewhere......to level the fuck up.but for some reason the modern world is throwing choices around like some drunk girl at a frat partyand thats never gonna end good....trust me....we remain stagnant because we choose to continue making quick and ill thought choices....if a man keeps picking rotten fruit from the same damn tree then what the hell does heexpect when diarrhea toilets his ass continually....and thats where many of us feel trapped....and  stuck on the shitter of life without toilet paperand unable to move forward....and so the key to unlock you from this dumb ass prision of immature decision makingis to slow the fuck down......quit thinking with your dick...both figuratively and literallyand ask yourself is the decision im about to make carried with the intelligence of a 10year old....or does it bear the wisdom of a man that knows where he wants to be in 5 yearspatiently examining the consequences of your decisions carries the wisdom that manya man lack in currents timesMost men are strapped into the matrix and its intoxicatring allure of PORNICOPIA....everybody is selling us this bullshit dream that instant is lasting.....but its not...every damn decision alters your life....from the little to the big....your hidden superpoweris the ability to make a choice and stick with itthe rest of the world is running around making unintentional decisions..choices that have no actual direction except immediate pleasure...and dont get me wronmg a 3 second orgams is fun....but basing my whole life around 3 seconds is very illogicaland improsioning....start being conscious of your choices,,,,and i promise you your life will take a giant leaptowards being a badass manlove and respect gentlemenyour power is the ability to contemplate your decisions.....you will hear form me next episode

gentlemen whats going on...the realest shit...thats the aim...we want to drink from the holy grail of genuine badassto be that guy...that other guys look at and say yeah thats a real mother fucker.and i think authenticity.....as we mature and find our placement in life..........begins seeking us out maybe even more so than we seek it....we all crave to be a part of something and life too desires for us to find our role as well...imagine life itself wanting you to step up and accept your duties...those responsibilitiesdreams and aspirations specific to you....but if your like me many times it seems as if im too late to the party.the door is closed and locked....the windows are caged over and the music isan indecipherable noise....iVE often felt left out or too damn late...as if im JUSSSTTT missing the mark....so fucking close....and they say even a broken clock is right twice a day....and the thing with the modern man ishes just a wound up clock for someone else's timing.theres absolutely nothing genuine or real about being another mans time keeper.and what i mean is that were watching a clock that tells the time for someone elseso no wonder were always late for our OWN success and before we know it the time runs outand life is over....the wrist watch on many a man has him scheduled for a 50 hour work week8 hours of watching tik tok10 hours of chasing some skank on tinder.......and 4 hours of mastabatory pleasure...figuratively or literallyand so the question becomes what time is YOUR time...how much time is alloted for you to get to know you...to strip away the bullshit andfind some authenticity....a damn shadow at least of what could be if you'd start telling your own time...we get so caught up and ensnared in the timing of another mans dreams that we start believing theselies and deceptions to be our own truths....and lies are the enemy of authenticity.....we fuckign stack up all this bullshit in thename of happiness or peace or plain out looking good for the next guy...that we lose time and focus on who the hell we really want to betheres 1,000s of men out there wearing a slaves watch around there neck that has them anchored toa pool of stinking and infested feces...its time to introduce yourself to self.....because when we start believing in who we are....we will never have to buy into a lie again....when im comfortable and confident in my directionwhy would i ever lie to myself again or worse....accept other peoples lies....a man with no belief and backbone in who he is will always be subject to another tellinghim....."well its time to chase after this new shiny object...fuck you....I AM the shiny object and im drinking the holy grail of self belief...love and respect gentlemenyou are the truthand that shit is authenticyou will hear from me next episod

gentlemen whats going on....man what is man we look in the mirror and we automatically paint the picture of whatwere supposed to measure up to....how were supposed to look, how were supposed to actwhat were supposed to be....how many of us have been there....we find ourselves locked intothe eyes of some never ending abyss...as if im going to find my self in that shallow pit of hell the world wallows in...and you know of the bullshit veneer that im talking about...how many matches on tinder did i get.....how much money am i making compared to that guymy house is too fucking small compared to the neighbors.....shit i need bigger bicepsso forth and so forth....and we lose ourselves in the maze of life by demanding and directing ourselves into its lunacyhow fuckign stressful and vicious is that circle of comparison....the constant warfare ....up here....of measuring up to a standard i subjectively care two shits for...on a individual level we know the system is fucked....the narrative sold to men iswarped and malignant....a very terminal cancer of slavery...AT BEST.....we we forego the subjective power of sovereignty for the collective pressure of fitting inseriously...thats many a mans hope.... his prayer tossed in the tumultuous wind....fitting in with the fuckign crowd....but last i checked the recent steps of the crowd are dangerously misleadingand sure as hell not congruent and in line with masculinity. or sustainabilityand thats the headspace i am in right now....what does being a man mean in its most stripped down and authentic core..and i absolutely believe its 100% about strength.....both physically and emotionallyon the physical side the average man is unequivically stronger than the opposite sex.and this biological and intrinsic nature cant be refuted....men are physically strongerand for a man to neglect this is to refuse a part of what makes him man...i should be pushing myself in the physical realm...i should be shaping my body THUS MY LIFEinto something im proud of...not being able to see my dick when pissing is nothing to be proud of and damn sure extinguishesany pride in self.our body truly is a reflection of our will to power over troubling times...if a man cant will himself to get off the couch or put down the pizza....how much power canhe truly have over self....physical strength and power of the body is to man as oxygen is to breathing...and at the core of what makes man and separates him from other animals is his ability and potentialto gather strengthand more of it as life requires....and we all know life demands we be emotionally strong or the train of life's harshness willcontinually cut us down as it tracks across our pathits the straightforward logic and rationale of man that keeps him composed....calm and steadied when the bullets of the enemy are shrapnel across his intentions....so that when the curve balls of life are thrown, we dont shrink away but stand tall and hit for the fenceand for me its the present day comparative narrative that induces a weakening of what should be mansresilient logic.......a reasoning that SHOULD be unbending...but if im continually running circles in my head in some form of emotional dance of anxietyhow fuckign strong of  a mental state can i be in...the term LESS IS MORE is paramount in the space of emotional strength..less comparison....less thinking....even less doingand by doing i dont men resign yourself from action....but cancel the shitthat is a waste of timeyou know the shit you're doing just to meet the status quo...were men so fuck the status quo....BELIEVE ME were tryign to escape the box, notmake it bigger and stronger....So emotional strength largely depends upon a mans maturity....and I truly believe its that simple...do you know whats important and how that importance aligns with your directionbecause an immature man will place the value of temporary over the strength of sustainability...the capacity to hold your thoughts..your reasoning and render them effective is what makes manman.....this super power of logic and directed understanding of emotions begins with owning your headspace...we dont let strangers, fools and debauchery into our actual homes....and so how much more important is itthat we secure our minds...a man is physically strong and takes pride in his body ....his templea man is logically sound and stands guard over every thought allowed in.everybody is running as fast as they can to get right back where they startedemotional iqs are descending into child like confusionand physical strength is seen as unnecessary and toxiclets be the enemy of weakness....love and respect gentlemenyou are a man and strength is your requirementyou will hear from me next episode

gentlemen what's going on....serious question here....does life ignite within you a fiery vigor to stand up with chest out, chin upand a will to enjoy all things....to be that fucking man that says yes to life with a grin on his faceor does the happening of life's hopscotch randomness prompt youto grab a bottle of bourbon and plop into the dark corner of your existence...and we often think...how can i have a fiery vigor..... for a lifethat constantly throws salt onto my fresh wounds...you know the type of wounds...the open lesion from the death of a loved onethe gaping tear in my heart from the skank that ripped it out withno apology...of course notand the deep puncture of a life that seemingly is just not on my fuckign sideand so we've paraded through the dark forest of life's bullshitand thank god we clumsily and hell maybe even luckily stumbled out of its holdand were better for itr....we seriously recognize we have more wisdomwe know some things about some things nowBut are we grateful or are we bitter and pissed....i know some guys that have more wisdom in one experience than i have in all ofmy experiences combinedbut they refuse to utilize that wisdom in an enjoyable mannerthey instead relegate themselves into a bitter and even resentful attitudeand for me the arm chair quaterback....the keyboard ninja.....the comment section nazithey all have some wisdom largely from personal experience i supposed...hell maybe they justread a book,,,,but they use big words and correct punctuation so im a believerbut these guys are not living....or not enjoying life....or i dont presumei mean i'm personally tired of living a life that only sees the flaws....the wrinkles... the errorslike an ex-gf of mine that always pointed out how wrinkled my shirt was....ortold me yes you look nice but that cologne stinks...like bitch you bought me the cologne....so i'm realizing that wisdom offers me the ability to to enjoy lifeit through experiences...that teaches me what's important......its like the old man ina rocking chair....dude is smiling at children playing and birds chirpinghe laughs at his own jokes......and why the hell is he so happy we askbecause the man has came out the other side of life's forrest and knows thatgratitude and joy is a requirement for meaningi could possess all the wisdom in the world but if i never learn the beauty of laughingand joy.........have i really lived......have i really conquered anythingeverybody goes into the forest of knowledge....but many return gloomy and bitterfor me its time to enjoy life with the wisdom that nothing is promisedthe relationship could end, the loved one WILL die, somethings just dont work outand these things no longer make me ANGRY...,,,,instead they make me wise and preparedand IN that i can somehow manage to smile....love and respect gentlemenits okay to smile for no reasonyou will hear from me next episode

gentlemen what's goin on...have you ever looked at the world around youand noticed that people are  about as deep as a single raindrop....one drop....that shits annoying...it just leaves me sticky....leaves me thirstyit leaves me pissed off....GIVE ME MOREbut the new standard and the norm  for most men is to put on some swimmingshorts and go nose dive into that shallow mud pit of average and instant gratificationthink of it like this....i say hey man you wanna go swimming....and you say sure im downand i tell you theres a spot just up the road....its kinda dirty and overcrowdedoverpriced and smells like PISS, but its EASY to get tobut theres this place that very few people know about....water is the bluest blue everjust refreshing..... scenery is just fucking aweesoem ...BBBUUUTTTTits a three hour drive and then a two hour hike to get theredudes gonna most likely choose the pool of piss over the pool of powerand thats where were at....eventually the smell of piss just becomes the new fragranceeverybdoys been wearing it for so long its hard to tell the difference betweenthe SCENT of greatness and the odor of shit...and so i want you to think of yourself as this pool of water...on the surface your life looks like everyone else's....storms are raging, the waters are moving...and you endure the same hardships aseveryone else.,....thats fuckign lifebut men have this depth....this unmovable depth within them....while the SURFACE may be crashing with the waves of chaos....theres this deepness and calmness that is boundlessthis deepness offers you the route to you highest potentialsee the majority of world is up on the surface SURFING with their problemstrying to avoid the sharks and bandaging up their biteswhile you're harnessing something deep within....you kind of develop thisuncanny disposition that realizes the problems of life are actually the wind in your sailsyou ever been in deep water.....it can be unsettling....like the thought that somethingunknown is below you....whaT monster lies beneath the depth of my ocean....and there is  a monster...a mother fucking beast at the core of who we arebut weve been swimming in piss for so long that the only monster were scared of'is freedom itselfand what i mean is that we've grown so accustomed to being average and just getting bythat the greatness at the center of our beinghas mistakenly been mislabeled a monsterwhen in reality...deep within you is the pirate ship setting sail to somethingbeyond the pools of pissto be a below average man sucks....and to swim in the idea ...that all there is are pools of mediocreis a huge injustice to what you could be...i dont give a fuck about societies standards or norms.....lets tear down the walls of mediocre standards and burn up the books of bullshitlets grab our balls spray ourselves with the manly musk of more .....and conquerthe depths of ourselvestheres is an unexplored ocean.....and by god there is a monster waiting to surfacelove and respect gentlemengo find your monsteryou will here from me next ep

gentlemen what's going on....he went to jareds....bah dah bah bump bump i'm loving itthese commercials with the viagra, the insurance and the white picket fencesaim to create a mythical world that allures then enslaves....we've all been sold a deceptive idea,,,hoodwinked into buying ourselves into someform of debtMaybe it comes packaged in the form of a relationship...or you open up your life giftand find that its a suffocating cubicle next to 100 other wheel spinning mice....and for some reason and one that often eludes the unsuspecting man.......we keep opening these gits....like something new is gonna pop out...but inevitably these gifts are the proverbial sweater that great grandmasends through the mail each christmas....or if your like me a fucking globe....yeah one christmas the cousins were getting hats, footballs and nfl jerseyswhile i got the earth spinning on a stick....and so like grandma the world keeps selling us the new standard....they wrap uptheir agenda and sell it to us in the name of keeping up with the jonesthe elite are the producers and the sheep are the consumersnow let me ask you this.....is the innate nature of man called to fall in line and buythe next shiny diamond for the unshining and ungrateful woman....... and work himself to deathfor the will of another mans dreamand the answer is HELL NO....but the word WILL is what i want to expound upon heresee the producers have a WILL/ a desire/ a motive to create something thatlocks you down, and secures your devoted followingthey produce new shiny objects and we've been taught to ignorantlyfollow like a dog chasing his tailHOW EXCITED  we are to be in debt for a new car.....a new home....a new wife...and when in moderation and with considerationand within your means... THESE things can be pursued and are not inherently bad...but a man should always ask himself and with serious contemplation.....why am i chasing thisam i the dog chasing my tail......pursuing something that will always be out of my grasplet me put this in the simplest termsthe world consists of producers and consumersthe producers have power and the consumers are controlledand the nature of man is to create,,,,and ultimately to create HIS life...to produce his existencea life that doesn't follow the new and misleading trends of societyman is to get lost in his dance ,his unending flow.....you know that zone of determination where everything else fadeswhen we lose time in our hobby, our passion....hours go by and we fail to noticebecause we are in the damn man zone....but the world loves to disrupt any free thinking and foot tapping of man to his own songbecause a free man is a hard man to corral and controlthis man does not surrender to the will of any other.....but produces his own willhe burns up the packaged sweaters of modernity and starts gift wrapping the will to createhis own damn life...and what a beautiful fucking package that is to open...because this gift of man...this power...it goes beyond any definitive ruleit never states you have to be married by 30 to be a manit doesn't declare you have to have kids to be a manit never commands you to be less than and surrender your true characterthe gift of mans will power....invites him to be whoever the hell he wants to createand when a man gets lost in his zone,,,his flow,,,thats when his highest hopes are realizedhe stops chasing the dog tail of a meaningless rat race....and begins pursuing the more of lifelets remove ourselves from the graves of broken boens and dreams of slaverylets stop up our ears from the sirens of chasing the new bullshitand start humming our own tunenietzsche said...."yea something invulnerable..unburiable is with me.something that would rend rocks asunder...it is called my WILLyour will power is the fuckign snowball racing down hill...its time we quit pushing someone elses rock uphilland let our power start rolling downwards with a tremendous forcebut here's the linchpin....in order for there to be a resurrectionthere must be a graveif you want the new man of will power to riseyou must first put to death the slave chained to consumerrism and dependencelove and respect gentlemenyou are a creator and produceryou will hear from me next episode

gentlemen what's going on....imaging penny wise from the movieit.... is standing in a dark alley in the middle of a pitch black nightred balloon just floating in the breeze ....and he's got this shit eating grinare you going to keep stepping and be about your business....or are yougoing to foolishly play games with something that will eat your ass aliveRED FLAGS and not only in dating but for life in general are there for a veryspecific reason....they are the banners over a hazardous situation....,a signpost that says////AVOIDand I get it were men,,,our heartbeat sometimes pounds to the tune of danger.our nature is to live on the edge to push the boundaries....to conquer the conquestsbut theres a difference, a huge difference between being courageoulsy dangerousand ignorantly stupid...how many times has thinking with the dick,,,,made fools out of men twisting them into a heap of regretso the idea here is to exchange temporary lust for a lasting returni have no desire to invest my time and resources on anything that's not gonna yield a highreturnmen have spent hours on porn, cheap easy women, EXPENSIVE HARD women,thisthat ahhhblatanly put we have wasted countless fucking hours because we avoided the bigs ass waving red flagShe has three kids under the age of four.....she smokes more weed than she can affordand her JOB........her damn job .......is a social media influencer......"BUT she looks so good in her assless chaps pics that she's sellin to every tom dick and harry simpout thereget a grip man....grab hold of reality and quit seeing things the way you WANT them to beand start recognizing them for what they areand when we start noticing the red flags and the little shades of gray in our livesand those people around us....that's when we can start carving away at the fat and see red flashing flags for what they offerwe truly become that man with a chisel in hand....you don't sculpt a badass life with a 1,000 red flagsinstead you take an unblemished stone and get to work....and here's the deal that many an impatient man will never come to appreciatea good life is not one ready made...its like the sculptor with the stoneone man only sees an ugly rock....he doesn't have the insight or patienceto see what he can make out of the tough exteriorhe's too damn impatient to see what lies within that hunk of marblered flags are alluring, that's why we throw out any rational thought andlet the blood in our penis guide us....but if we could ever start walking through life with a noticing eye...a pause in our step....with a curious examination....thats when red flags become our ally instead of our nemesislife is about decisions....your life is a collection of decisions made or decisions not madeto live courageously dangerous and take needed risks is mans duty...thats how wesurvive and progressbut to ignorantly walk into a landmine that has flashing warning signs over itis not courageous....its not even dangerousITS PLAIN FUCKING stupoidlove and respect gentlementhat penny wise is a scary mother fuckeryou will hear from me next episode

gentlemen what's going on....how many of us are tired ofliving a sucky ass lifewe've walked around this suffocatingeven paralyzing environment of AVERAGE  for too longwe settle for shit that we immediately regret settling for...like why the hell am i accepting this 7th place existence...we settle for the bitchy ass girlfriend because she has a nice assor HAD a nice ass, but 1,000 big macs later and 10,000 hours of complaining well... shes more of an actual ass....than a nice asswe settle for that dead end job that pisses us off EVERY DAMN day....like .......who wants to stroke out over selling insurancewe settle for that lumpy ass mash potato body because hell,,,,everybody else looks like thiswe settle in our belief system because its too damn hard to go against the flowof everybody else's ignorant paradigms...we've got comfortable settling yet secretly crave the ideal body, that ideal woman, that ideal carthat ideal life...you know what the fuck im talking about.....were sitting in the parking lot....nice truck pullsup,,,yeah id like that....we see the woman in those leggings.....DAMN YOU LEGGINGS.....and shes actually niceand normal...we hear about elon musk and his millions and think,,,yep,,,that would be coolbut then we do nothing to get the life that we want.....we drink another gallon of sugarwe spend another 1,000 dollars on metaphorical porn....we say fuck that woman in the leggings...shes probably a feministand so we enslave ourselves in a in the dark pit of regret called settlingand we miss the entry point to something absolutely beautifula life that  has freedom painted all over it.....the freedom to be the badass we all dream of or BY GOD should be dreaming ofi love nietzsche and he has this creed to say YES TO LIFEwhat are we saying yes to????so the idea here is to start saying yes to the hard thingsand yes i fucking said hard......these assholes selling you the easy and quick way are douche bags...nothing great is going to come easy.....so mark them off as gifters selling you magic beansand unsubscribe from them NOWyour entry point.....the red carpet to your grand entrance is CONTINUAL HARD WORK....and there we go,,,probably lost half of you....hard work is not contagious or even promotedso heres my proposition......today,,,, focus on one thing that you want in lifewrite down one difficult task that it will require to achieve your desired positionthen get to fuckign work...knocking that down to size...challenge yourself to put in the work that no one else is doing so that you can get tothe p[lace that everyone else craves to be....raise your bar and watch your life follow.....keep raising that son of a bitch untillife begins to bend to your will....i promise you,,,,that you haven't even tapped into the bottom of your potentialquit being lazy and start working harderlove and respect gentlementhe bar has been set to low,,,time to raise ityou will hear from me next episode

gentlemen whats goign on...what are you proud of...if i came to your door and asked you.....quick tell meeveythign great in your life...you would probably be like most men....um uhhh ummmstammering and stuttering aroound GRASPING for some sliver ofpride....well i have a job, family, gf,,,,um i bought a new car...but are we seriously pleased with these trophies...or do we feel obligatedto thrust them as our highest accomplishmentsmerely because thats the narrative projected as the status quohell,,its what normal people do and its how its been down foreverwho am i to rock the boat....rightbut we see this flood of bullshit continually crashing its degenerate waves into our boatand so were seeing a rise in men beginning to exercise THEIR right to THINK for themselvesi don't want to be proud of following someone else....like how is my trophy for mediocritysomething to hold in esteemlike what decent man runs around with a 7th place trophy in his hand SCREAMINGlook at me im the greatest man alive...but in essence that's what is spreading throughout the present age....there's this fragmented sense of what pride actually meanseveryones limping around on broken ideals of what strength, pride and accomplishment truly represent....Nietzsche said i teach NO to all that makes me weak..that exhausts....i teach YES to all that strengthensthat stores up strength,,,that PRIDE....and i love this...because it makes me ask myselfam i proud of weak things that will leave me exhausted and ultimately defeatedor do i say YES to all that strengthens me and leaves me a better manwe have to ask ourselves are we proud of being caught in the rat race of life, simplykeeping pace with the asshoel to the left of usor are we proud of separating ourselves from the weak and hanging strength on the highestrung of the ladder we daily ascend....i want to climb out of this stinking pile of shit that everybody else calls lifei want to be a man that builds my own life...hell to discover myself along the way\and not just be another cog in someone else's machine...i want to be filled with such an immense pride in something that can never be torn downsomething that cant be duplicatedi want to leave my fucking finger print ON MY life...you see it and you know that yep, that was his.....he owned his lifeyou know that feeling of accomplishment when you've attained something you set out to fulfillits fuckign the greatest feeling ever....it brings a self possessed satisfaction.....that cannot be rivaledwhen you knock on my door and ask me to tell you what im proud of...i want you to have to pull up a rocking chair and a glass of waterbecause mannn were gonna be here a whileI want my answers to be big,precise and beautiful....im proud to be a man dammit,,,,and im a good onelet that be my motivation, let that be the beginning of my pride..to be a man that pursues separating himself from the status quothat is definitely something to take pride inlove and respect gentlemen

gentlemen whats going on.,...in a directionless society i believe its imperativethat we establish a foundation...cause if we have no legs to stand on, how can we ever hit the targetso we need a corner stone with which we can begin slinging some arrows from....and so at the genesis of any man's trajectory lies his core values...dammit tik tok tiara get off the damn polei said CORE not WHORE...for too long now, a mans inner compass, his code, the values he may be rooted in ornot rooted in.... have largely been determined by....the conditioning of others....parents...friends....educational institutions...media etc. etc.but the core and intrinsic nature of man.... in all honesty.....rarely is connected tohis self imposed core values....key word...self imposed...ask yourself,,,and seriously contemplate it...when's the last time you thoughtabout your core beliefs...where did they come from...are they beneficial,,,are they limitingare they a misrepresentation of actual reality...could these beliefs that you hold as your adopted core values....be faulty??and im not asking you to throw out all that you know...but the path  to freedom always requires a QUESTIONING of what it takes to get there...to cling stubbornly to YOUR way of doing things, even though they may be draped in WELL INTENTIONSis a guarantee for disappointment....WHYbecause there is always a more effective and efficient way to do things....so many times in life ive beat my head against a damn wall simply because i was to damnprideful..... to take advice from someone else....ALL because according to my core values and belief system...MY WAY was the way life was supposed towork.......even though shit was obviously not conducive to a successful life...our core values are the driving force behind ALL OF our decisions...every thought and action derives from what we hold to be morally sound or fundAMENTALLYgood for our well being....and if your core value contradicts your essential goals.....well hell manits time to either question your values or your goals...OR even bothfor example, I know people in church that believe its wrong to be rich...so they never pursue moneyor wealth...i know people that place physical health very low on the spectrum of importanceso eating big macs and sitting on the couch doesnt exhaust their conscience.your core values subconsciously and consciously are your highest priorities...these deeply rooted and held beliefs shape your life...so why the hell are we not acquainting ourselves with these values more frequently and with more depthask yourself....WHY THE HELL DO I BELIEVE THIS WAY....AND WHAT IS IT ADDING TO MY LIFE....I CANT  tell you what to hold close to your man beating heart....i'm not going to suggest what foundation to stand on...or what target to shoot atbut i will tell you that you need to form your own belief system in congruence withyour goals....and for god sake i'm not suggesting you rob banks and kidnap ol ladies...BUT just because great grandpa wrongly taught you some misheld belief systemdoesn't mean you still have to carry the burden of faulty thinking....check your values....hell ...punch them in the gut,,,if they can take a punchkeep them at your sidebut if they fall like joe biden climbing some stairs.....well thats a different storylove and respect gentlemen

gentlemen what's going on....i can sum up hamza and every other modern self help guru on the scene.....with one word...its a plural word but nonetheless one word....HANDS...yeah, hands that's going to be the new revolutionary self help bookthese echo chamber shouting men are screaming keep your hands off your dickkeep your hands off video gamesPUT your hands on some self help booksand put your hands on some fucking wieghts...and for the really grifty and grimey ones.........put your hands on the click button and sign up for my copy and pastetutorial class....did i mention it's only $299.99but wait a damn minute what about the guys with no hands...better luck next time i supposedAnd don't mistake me for some bitter hating karen....i commend these men or most of them for stepping to the plateand accepting the arduous path of improvement and freedom and for not beating off.......giving hands to yourself new meaning...but there's only so many NEW YOUK times best selling bullshit books you can read before it starts repeatingand for the common man that connstat drip of water to the forehead is not satisfying.....but quite fucking annoying..those men brave enough to enter the self improvement arena AT FIRST are quenchedby these nuggets of truths.......and drops of waterbecause let's face it...there is truth in quitting the overindulgence of meaningless bullshitaka....gaming...whacking your lettuce...eating fucking 3 pounds of processed food a day....swiping through tinder like that traditional woman you've dreamt up in your head is gonna jump outand say................yep,,i'm a real woman and  i bought into... and spend time on this social media bullshityou just had to dig for me....gentlemen...we've enveloped ourselves in a cloud, and an illusory cloud at that, ....of shallow self helpnonsense...We think listening to some dudes tell us to quit wasting time and keep our hands off the one eyed willie wonderis going to motivate us to some higher and elevated plane of existence...and that's just complete bullshit or self help books would have stopped printing years ago...and i'm a reader.... an avid reader....and i love listening to new and fresh ideas....or even ideasstated in a new contextbut there comes a point when we must recognize that everyone were listening to is spewing the same thing...that's  why i read philosophy and history and listen to philosophers that DISAGREE...and try to vary thecontent i consumethat's why i choose to go beyond the superficial shallowness......of your everyday self help youtube content creator....and the idea is to form this notion of self possessed dependence...to not be reliant and eaglery depending upon the next drop from the guru...but to instead absorb the truth laid out before you by these men....RELEASE the bullshitand start forming your own map....that's your solution to an improved life....depending upon yourself in regards to thetruth you have acquired whether it be from a book or a man or life lessons...id much rather read one book for the rest of my life, or live out one maxim, one truththan to continually be enslaved by the dependency of some man's content....and yes,,,let us be refreshed and revitalized and motivated....most of these men are great at thisbut the question, the hard question....Are you worshiping the man...or the TRUTH that man is speaking to YOUR inner manbecause one will make you that simp that the content creator wants you to beand the other will make you the man that you are supposed to be....worship nothing but the truthand for god sake....keep your hands off you dick....at least while you're watching self help videos..love and respect gentlemen

gentlemen whats going on....how many times have we looked at someone's life andthought to ourselves or even out loud......what a lucky son of a bitch...good fortune has bestowed upon them the mightiest advantages...we see them as this overnight success.....as if they woke up that morningwalked outside and was smacked in the face with wealth, looks, and personalityand truth be told a little bit of ENVY creeps up and spills out from usthat motherfucker....i want to be like him,,,BUT i hate him...annnnd so we construct and manipulate all these fallicious reasonswhy that guy sucks and is probably a fucking loserhes probably a mommas boy, tiny dick, beats his gf,,greedy, tight ass etc. etc.we built this prison of comfort ....and its sole substance  consists OF excusesmore so.... reasons why its okay for us to not have.... achieved the life we secretly or even tik tokopenly want....you've seen the videos desiring a high value life,,,,but only scrolling  through itinstead of doing anything to acquire it...in this flip flop society where being fat is now safe and rational andbeing healthy is oppressive and privilegedlike what the fuck...weve turned the term hard work into a toxic privilege thatonly the tyrannical should aspire to beummmm so hard work is now bad...unfortunately society is leaning towards that exact fallacy...and so the entitled see success as luck, or a class privilege or race privilege..or some other form of excuse ridden bullshit...but many times these or most times these crybaby 7th place trophy having wokistsnever take into account that the harder a person works the luckier they get...let me repeat this so that im clear....the harder i work the luckier i getmeaning....i didn't wake up with a 6 pack....i fuckig ate tuna for 6 months and went to thegym 5 days a week....EVEN when i didn't want toi wasnt handed a buisness....i worked every fucking weekend for 5 years to save money to invest in mysuccess...i wasn't born with life knowledge...i lived,,,i suffered...and so i decided to read and listen everyday to people.....SMARTER than mesuccessful people are not fucking lucky, theyre hard workersworking hard is not a damn disease that will cause your limbs to fall off or your dick to shrinkhard work is the missing ingredient to a soft and entitled generation that is waitingfor overnight tik tok success to fall from the apple tree and hit them in their ignorant ass headbut unlike Newton and gravity....that erroneous way of thinking or perceiving life is not basedon any truth....one unchanging principle to life and success is.... hard work pays off.....and yes a little luckgoes along ways....may we all be blessed with good fortunebecause this is life and many things are outside of our controlbut one thing that is within our grasp and power....is the will to outwork every lazy motherfuckeraround us...and in a world that loves leveling the playing field to a mud pit of mediocrityits actually not that difficult to outmaneuver the masses and produce some form of greatness....so the hell with excuses and prisons of reasons for why that asshoel is luckier than me...i don't have time for envious excuses....because ill get somewhere quicker by stepping towards it instead oftelling 100 reasons why i cantlove and respect gentlemen

gentlemen whats going on....in lieu of the current cliamtelets check the fucking temperature...the temperature of gender rolesdouble standards and the likesbecause i don't know about you but i'm tired of some mindlessmeteorologist telling me what the weather is like....i want to go experience it myselfso i want you to grab your balls with one handan with the other place it over your heart and pledge allegiance to being a man."IM PROUD TO BE A MAN"  ..... is that statement even politically correct anymore,.,,....who gives a shit....so in accordance with testing the water....lets jump into some of the female statements and attitudes of our day....and is there a double standard....she says,,,i wanna guy with muscles and money....and so i say well i wanna womanwith a nice ass and one that performs traditional roles...now which one of us is going to be applauded while the other is dropped intoa boiling pot of cancel culture piss....were enveloped in this nonsensical and pervasive viewpoint where manis stripped of his dutiful authority BUT ASKED to carry on traditional roles...while his female counterpart unloads any traditional weights but picks up the crownof authority....lets paint a picture here....the man presumingly should be the door opening, dinner buying,bread winning, greek god looking, 8 inch eggplant having son of chivalrous saint...."but by all means i don't need all of that because i'm an independent woman""but how tall are you and how much money do you make.....not that any of that mattersof course.....did i mention im independent"... my god we've twisted the ROOT of what it means to be a man into such chaos....pun intended  ROOT,,,,because now you don't even have to have a ROOT to be a manbut so much convoluted nonsense is being bought not only by ignorant and shallow womenbut by men and women at large...its like this...if a lie is told long enough it becomes truthand in a world where a new generation wants it fast and easy...believe me....none of them are going to research shit for themselves.....they just accept itso the world for whatever innumerable reasons has twisted the genders and their roles....powerful rolesat that... into an unidentifiable mess...and our job, your job, and a fun job it is....will be to to disentangle the bullshit from the truth...men are fuckign men....and when they accept that,.....my god they become powerfuland women are fucking women...and goooood gawssshhh they are a sight to behold when they truly adorns themselvesin the power of perfect feminityas i said earlier it is presumed that man should fulfill the role of the typical stereotype of what man is .....but without assuming the patriarchal privilege of manhood....the prevailing thought is ....be a man BUT DONT be a man....what the fuck are we teaching our young boys....can you imagine the confusion echoing through the halls of society today,,,and we wonder why genders are more confused than joe biden during an unscripted interviewyou are a man , and there is this intuitive sense within that knows who you are and what you're to do...for the most part there is a nature, a part of man that loves his physical strength,he has a compassioante drive to connect with the otehr sex,,,to be that door opening protectorand provider...to do good by his and their requirementsfuck its my nature and i love it....but to be berated and looked down upon for embracingmy identity....a man in all my powerful characteristics....well its bullshit.....to sell this nonsense,,,this malevolent idea that men and women are in competitionis the most atrocious idea any fucking feminist or communist or wokist could peddal..EVERi want to see women know that their true equality is not in becoming more masculine but owningthe feminie nature of their self possessed powerand i want to see men applauded for living andfulfilling the role of true masculinityand within these two statements im not paCKAGING up some 1950s black and white episodeof MAN KNOWS FUCKIGN BEST,,,..and woman just needs to shut up and cookif you're a man you can cook and wash laundry too....ive been doing that shit since i was 12and if you're a woman, go start a business and wear a pantsuit that rivals hillary clintonfor all I care...but for god sake....fuck these double standards, and the hell with this competitionif you want a man to open the door for you,,, become a woman that is worthy of that mansattention....and if you want a traditional woman's attention,,,become the man that demandstraditional over the delusional fuckery of todayi love opening doors....hell for women...men...elders,.,,,myself...fuck it doesnt matterand i love being able to pay for my lady friends meal....and my god....there's nothing like throwing out a mouse or stepping on a spiderand seeing the look of satisfaction in my womans eyesi know shes thinking....look at that masculine motherfucker gonow if its a snake shes on her own.... just kidding, ill text her dadas im leaving...but as i do these things ... I want a reciprocal relationship....It feels good to be open and communicate with a woman.for her to praise your strengths in the relationshipand to be able to return her admiration for what you adore in her strengthsbut this constant competition bullshit...."and i'm just as equal as you pious claptrapmust end...i'm not equal to a woman,,,,my god they can do and go through some things i dont thinki'd wish on any man...and that's freaking awesomebut that means there are some amazing things men can do that women never could...these gender strengths,,,,they don't make one better than the other...they actually make them more compatible...but when we provoke competition and rivalry as if its a bloody fight to victorywell...what the hell do we expect....so men...the hell with societies new age standards....lets pledge allegianceto masculinity....and invite anyone wanting to TRULY progress...to come stand under our umbrella of protection.and if they would shut their false feminism voices up for just a minute....women would see they're the ones that actually fastened the masculine umbrella togetherbut when were competing to be the umbrella...it never gets made much less held........and everybody gets soaked in the acidic downpour of gender equality....love and respect gentlemen

whats going on gentlemen....Men we are at war and confidence is our weapon,you can remain a slave to self doubt and poor pitiful me, the world hates meand life is overwhelmingly not fair.....or you can confidently step into freedomand hell thats what were all looking for as men ,anyway..... more confidencewhether we want to admit or not,,, WE want to be possessed by some cockstrong self assurancewho doesn't want to walk in the room and feel like they own that shit...to be james bond before the world went woke and weak...because Confidence kicks ass....it is the impenetrable ability to believe in self, an unshakeable self dependencethat refutes failure and weaknessits that fiery explosive shit that every little boy dreams of being consumed bybut in the modern and entitled soft age...We want the fire without the smokeSo We get fat on idleness..... and our savior, our , facade ....our exchange for self possessed confidence ,is EXCUSES....EXCUSES BECOME OUR GOD....disagree with me??good, I WELCOME, THE EXCUSES men come up with to excuse our excuses....excuses are our fucking enemy, and I adamantly encourage you to cut the head off of ill fitreasons for why you cant achiive something anytime it pops it's head out ofits pit of hell mixed with whinery and bitcheryMany a man has built his life on an island of excuses,and then he wonders why life sucks when the island devours him and drowns out his hopes.....confidence never waits for hope to manifest,.... quite the contrary, confidence is a CREATOR,hell the ultimate creator....it's time to exchange our god of excuses with the God of confidenceand go create a damn good life.......men are not supposed to  look through the holes of a dilapidated roofand wish upon the SLIVER of star light peeping through....they rise above the bullshit and BECOME the star.....and the most important and fundamental principle of confidence is GETTING GOOD AT SOMETHING....(THIS TAKES PRACTICE).....to consistently stoke the fire requires a smoky start,practice, failure, fatigue, repeat and repaet  SMOKE DAMMIT, it fucking stinks sometimes  but fire requires smokejust as men... and GOOD CONFIDENT men require effort. ...and  holy shit, when a man lights himself on fire with effort, patience, passion and determinationpeople will come from miles away to watch the Pureness of that man's light burn....THIS IS CONFIDENCEThis becomes an article of overwhelming self assurance we begin to wear in more and more encountersthe more we begin to consciously practice winning every situation of every momentconfidence cant help but swell up within and burst forth like motherfucking volcanoso you can sit in that pile of shit called excuses and stink of mediocre standardsor you can get your ass up and get good at somethinghell anything...its fucking crazy how confiodence in one area spills over into other facetsand creates a domino effect....so be the first damn domino, stack up some confidence, practice until you get real damn goodand then keep putting in the effortbe aware that life is warfare and confidence is your weapon and practice is the bow that shootsthat shit into existence...love and respect gentlemen,,,go set yourself on fire....

gentlemen what's going on...why do we suck at relationships...and by we ,, i mean the western culture in general.. not you or me specificallybut to be honest ive sucked at relationships as well....because i followed what i THOUGHT arelationship was or is supposed to be....but fuck...who the hell really knowsand It's self-evident that relationships are in quite the predicament,  look at the divorce rates,and the winding navigation of the new age social media scene.... among scores of other life challenges, that will.... always rear their devious head...death, taxes, breakups, break ins breakouts etc. etc... like a pissed off overweight diva when the all you can eat buffet runs out of bacon.shit happens and shit leaves us pissed, confused and complicated  Those .karens. deaths and the likes,are ONLY a start to the difficulties..... a relationship CAN and will encounterman and woman meet, they like each other, they pursue each otherbut man has a past, woman has a past too....man has his belief system and woman has her belief systemmaybe they're heading in the same direction, but man has an idea of how to get thereand woman believes in her ways to arrive at said destination are betterand this presents problems...... but this is life....billions of people all wantingtheir little piece of happiness...but all varying in the actions to get there...and so the engine, the power and force running relationships off the cliff to their deathis...... the instant gratification curse of modernity...oh what a fucking curse it is......"I WANT IT NOW" AND MY WAY IS THE BESTAND SO THE REASON RELATIONSHIPS SUCK IS...We too often have a short term mindset with a temporary behaviors, we cut corners in effort to have it OUR WAY NOW!!.  but The fast way now is the LONG way in the end...we ignore the red flags....such as...she has three kids with three different baby daddies...umm she hasn't worked in 5 years....and it ALWAYS has to be her way.....we overlook these for the temporary pleasure of some fantasy.....we've cooked up in our head of what relationships aresupposed to look like.....but according to who.....the news....the media....the newest song....OR YOU...This lust for intense instant gratification cause these tiny debts to ACCUMULATE until eventually were bankrupt .....we give up a little freedom for this....we give up a piece of OUR direction for thatwe lose a little bit of our sovereignty for a seat at the table of uncomfotable slaveryever felt like the cultural standard of relationships or... ANYTHING for that matter HAS YOU anchored down...So the perfect relationship template in its cookie cutter fashion needs to be...MMM injected with a fresh look ....it needs to fit YOU and your direction,  what do YOU want, are you more traditional,are you seeking money, freedom, love, a partner, fun, adventure, simplicity. Etc etc.and then go to work finding a compatible partner....key word compatible...not perfect..perfect doesnt fucking existbecause WHO THE HELL believes love is going to fall from the heavens and hit you square in the love hole.....without any effort......nothing in life is guaranteed and easy,,,,,and those selling you that shitneed to be slapped and kicked in THEIR love holes....fuck love and all its new age watered down bullshit....modern love is a WEAK depiction of what a relationship is actually supposed to look like...a relationship is specific to those involved....and in an INTIMATE partnership.... it is distinctto those TWO tied together....so we have to remove ourselves from the societal narrative... and begin to blatantly refusethe sign posts of weak ass relationship standards...So here's to brining new ideas to what it means to have a relati9nshipand by new I mean a recoursing to the old and traditional way of excellence and a commitment to a code. to having actual self imposed standardsfuck the white washed two story house with the lame ass white picket fence....thats not your direction , then don't get caught up in fooling yourself into themockery of what a true relationship..... is supposed to be and represent...Instant is the biggest lie sold to us modern men...because its the trial and efforts,,,,its the actual slaying of the dragons that release thetrue power of what lies within a man...EASY doesn't make you a man....kids enjoy an easy life....and we see how pissed off they get when it doesn't go their way..."give me back my damn transformer brandon but its the ability to put in the work, the capacity to see beyond the instant pleasureand the ability to see life's red flags that give men guidanceand relationships are no different.... and so i suggested a recoursing to the old tradition of excellenceand i guess what i mean there is ....to hold yourself to a higher standards....hell to create your standard outsideof the masses crippled and limping principles...what does a relationship look like to you....can you ignore the instant pleasures of lust and what its supposed to beaccording to tik tok and hollywood....so that you can build and construct something that last...its cool to go to walmart and get a ready made desk that i can put together in less than 10 minutes...i get it home and it looks good...colors match the room....whooohhh boy,,im sucha handy man....all put together and no extra piecesbut as soon as i put the pc on it and add a few extra aesthetics...it begins to sway and buckle under the weightits cheap materials and mass assembly line production coulndt hold the weight of realityi would have been better off if i had been patient and waited for the amish made desk that was goingto take a little longer to make....but built with care, standards and experience...we suck at relationships because we want it now,,,and we want it easy....so we ignore the faulty constructionshoping that just maybe, we can be the exception to the old age rule.....cheap and easy falls to shit....

gentlemen whats going on....confidenceis it that super drug,,,,the link to kicking ass, walking on water and dominating life...because its quite apparent the head down mumbling type gets a life that reflects just thata mumbled jumble of leftover scrapswhile on the other hand the the baby kissing life affirming, hand shaking, wheaties eatingvitamin taking big grinned son of gun seems to.....own his life as one that walks in that perfect confidence.....and self possession we all wish we hadhe wears Confidence as a suit of armor...he eats at the big boys table...no scraps for meTHIS man has learned to tailor that suit of confidence to HIS specific talents, needs, goals, and desires.he seems to walk a little taller...and a little more ballsyWe see those people that wear confidence like it's the perfect fit. Like they were born to own life. and i started thinking about this over the weekend as me and my son were figuring out ways tobreak in his new first baseman's glove...these suckers come off the factory line more stiff than a 40 year old virgin at an instagrammodel convention .....on the beach....bikinis....and im not playing.....its like squeezing the hardest vice grip ever....nearly impossible to catch a ballwith my squeeze...much less a ten year olds grip...so im watching youtube videos...praise god...and im throwing the glove in the sshower under hot water...i'm stretchingit,,,im beating it with a mallet,im throwing it against concrete....mixed with thrownprayers of please god just let it work.....i'm folding it in the way he wants it to look and fit to his specific hand...its been bent and folded more than a ten year old dollar billcirculated through 1,000 strip clubs......and just as dirty looking...but with patience,,,effort,,,,lots of effort....repeated effort,,,,with some experiencedguidance from more informed men.....the glove is beginning to have some function and utilityso the glove didn't come shaped to my sons handand Much like my son WANTING the glove to come out ready made for his comfortWe often error in believing confidence SHAPES us,.... when in fact we have to mold confidence in correlation with our strengths....Personal strengths and confidence are hand in hand....there is this intersection where they become effortless flow...that flow we admire in other accomplished menWhether in sports, the workplace, hobbies, women, or conversation...And we shape our strengths by getting in the Mudd and practicing them..... we throwourselves into difficult situations.... and uncomfortable positions so that we begin to mold ourselves...Stretching our capabilities, getting outside of that prison pit of hell and bending our desire to our will...The glove,no matter our want, or wishing, doesn't show up bow wrapped and ready to use to perfection.And WE FAIL ourselves and OUR possibilities when we fall victim to that weak line of thinking.As if we SHOULD just be confident...Confidence is ultimately a reward for you being good at something, and that goodness is a consequence of repetitive shaping...You get good at something after continual effort....life seriously is that simple...Continual preparation prepares you to have more genuine assurance in yourself.The participation trophy culture wants the confidence of the ceo,yet they've never even put in the effort of the janitor...If you're unwilling to clean the toilet you sure as hell don't deserve to shit in it.1,000 hours of practice....1000 attempts at talking to a woman.....1000 hours in the gym...1000 of anything sure as hell gives you more confidencethan the man that is too fearful toget in the mud and start stretching his potential to meet his needs, desire and directiondont be afraid to start practicing life men....lets get out there and start shaping the possibilitieslove and respect....you will hear from me