Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole

This Summer, Don’t Let Screens Raise Your KidsWhat if the “golden idol” in your home glows… and fits in your child’s hand?This week on Needed Conversations, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole unpack one of the most urgent topics facing families today: how to reclaim your kids from screen time and reset your home around God’s presence this summer.With school out and devices calling louder than ever, most parents feel stuck between survival mode and spiritual neglect. But this episode offers something different—a practical reset plan rooted in Scripture, presence, and peace.💡 In this powerful episode:– What the golden calf in Exodus reveals about modern distraction– Why your kids need your face more than FaceTime– The surprising science behind overstimulation (and how to reverse it)– Screen swaps: Easy ways to replace digital chaos with soulful connection– How to reframe this summer as a season of spiritual renewal, not just survival👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or mentor—your influence matters.Your kids are watching. And what they see in you becomes what they pursue.✨ Make this a Summer of Presence, not just entertainment.Sign the Presence Pledge and join families who are choosing to rebuild altars, not idols.Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations00:03 The Importance of Spiritual Renewal00:20 Modeling Behavior for Children01:34 The Presence Pledge Explained02:33 Incorporating Kids into The Presence Pledge03:52 Challenges and Strategies for Parents10:41 Biblical Lessons on Presence17:36 Practical Tips for Reducing Screen Time27:30 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals #screentime #kidsscreentime Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

In this week’s powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole tackle one of the most sensitive issues many couples face: setting healthy boundaries with extended family.Whether it’s in-laws overstepping, family drama leaking into your marriage, or blurred lines of emotional dependency, learning how to protect the spiritual atmosphere of your home is critical. With biblical examples and personal stories, Ryan and Viktoriya walk you through:✅ Why "leave and cleave" still matters✅ How to honor your parents without giving them unlimited access✅ Creating a united front with your spouse✅ What to do when family members don’t accept your boundaries✅ How to protect your marriage from emotional outsourcing✅ And how acceptance, not just confrontation, can bring peacePlus, they explore biblical case studies like Abraham & Hagar, Moses & Jethro, and even Jesus’ own family tensions to show how God uses boundaries to build healthy legacy.Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge00:00 Introduction to Healthy Boundaries00:45 Navigating Boundaries with Extended Family03:19 The Presence Pledge and Social Media Fast04:29 When Family Crosses the Line08:43 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries20:55 Biblical Examples of Boundaries28:05 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoalsFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.

On today’s episode of Needed Conversations, we dive deep into how worship can recalibrate your heart, your home, and your marriage.Too often, we allow distractions, busyness, and even our own pain to shift our focus. But Scripture reminds us that we become what we behold. If your eyes are constantly fixed on problems, comparison, or negativity, your spirit will grow weary — and your marriage will suffer.Worship shifts our gaze back to what’s true, restoring intimacy with God and softening our hearts toward our spouse.Today, we unpack:Why worship is more than a song — it’s a posture of lifeHow gratitude changes the atmosphere of your marriageHow true intimacy starts with vulnerability before GodWhy presence — with God and your spouse — is the foundation for lasting connectionWe also share practical ways you can invite worship into your daily rhythms and reconnect through stillness, gratitude, and spiritual intimacy.Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledgeThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations00:03 The Power of Gratitude and Worship01:33 Welcome and Setting the Scene02:01 The Presence Pledge and Worship02:28 Understanding Worship in Marriage04:24 Personal Reflections on Worship17:16 Worship's Impact on Family and Marriage26:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement31:54 Closing Remarks and AnnouncementsSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now… is rest?In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole unpack a revolutionary truth: you were never meant to live from hustle to exhaustion, from pressure to burnout. You were designed to work from rest—not for it. Before Adam received his assignment, God introduced him to the rhythm of rest. His very first full day was the Sabbath. In this episode, the Coles explore how our obsession with productivity has disrupted our marriages, diminished intimacy, and distanced us from God’s voice. They call couples back to a slower, more sacred pace—a Kingdom rhythm where rest becomes our posture, not our reward. If you’ve been chasing success but feel emptier than ever, this conversation is your reset.Join the Presence Pledge—a digital detox and rhythm reset for your marriage—and begin reclaiming the most important hours of your day. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledgeThen, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Opinions on Success00:25 Embracing Kingdom Culture Over Hustle Culture00:53 Understanding Purpose and Presence01:16 The Principle of Rest Before Responsibility02:28 Welcome Back: The Presence Pledge Series02:35 Setting Margins and Boundaries in Marriage03:42 The Digital Detox: The Presence Pledge Explained07:59 Reclaiming Energy and Overcoming Digital Addiction10:11 The Importance of Fasting and Health11:24 The Power of Community and Connection15:44 Building Margins for Work and Rest16:09 The Biblical Foundation of Rest and Work21:05 The Deception of Striving for Success24:32 The Sabbath Lifestyle: Rest as a Daily Experience25:44 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

What does your social media algorithm say about the state of your soul—and the health of your marriage?In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya take you deep into the quiet war being waged right in your pocket. It's not just about screens—it's about desires, distractions, and the subtle erosion of intimacy.You’ll explore:How your algorithm is discipling your desiresThe spiritual dangers of ambient noise and digital fatigueWhy stillness is where God speaks—and connection thrivesA powerful couples' challenge: swap phones and examine your explore feedsThe biblical roots of temptation and how sin begins with distorted desireThe connection between what you feed your soul and what flows from your heartHow to curate your feed and your environment to protect what matters mostSign the pledge today at ⁠https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge⁠Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals00:00 Introduction to the Presence Pledge00:06 The Digital Dilemma in Marriages01:56 Understanding the Presence Pledge Challenge04:31 The Impact of Digital Overload05:59 Defining Algorithms and Their Influence10:43 Guarding Your Heart and Mind15:38 Practical Steps for Digital Detox19:08 Spiritual Insights and Final Thoughts30:17 Join the Presence PledgeSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

It's time to reset. Your marriage needs your presence—not constant distractions.Welcome to a brand new 8+ week series on Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole — The Presence Pledge. In this first episode, we're laying the foundation for a relationship reset that prioritizes connection, restores rhythm, and realigns your heart with God and your spouse.In Episode 1: The Power of Presence, we’ll explore:What the Bible says about presence in the Garden (Genesis 3:8)How daily rhythms affect emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacyWhy two sacred windows—morning and evening—matter more than you thinkWhat neuroscience says about breaking habits and building lasting connectionsJoin the challenge by signing The Presence Pledge:No phones 2 hours before bed and 2 hours after wakingKeep devices 5 feet away from your bedCreate intentional check-in moments with God and your spouseGive yourself permission to restart with grace when you fall offSign the pledge today at ⁠https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge⁠Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too.You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time.#PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals00:00 Introduction to The Presence Pledge00:42 Setting the Foundation for the Series01:11 The Importance of Presence in Marriage02:51 Details of The Presence Pledge05:02 Challenges and Solutions for Digital Detox13:00 Scientific and Biblical Foundations18:35 Practical Tips for Implementing the Pledge27:19 Encouragement and Final ThoughtsSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

Can intimacy grow again after betrayal, distance, or seasons of silence? In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how intimacy in marriage—emotional, spiritual, and physical—is not just a moment, but something that must be cultivated like a garden.Drawing from the rich imagery of the Song of Solomon and personal stories, they invite couples to rethink intimacy as more than sex. It's about trust, pursuit, and the daily tending of your marriage soil. Whether your garden is blooming or buried under weeds, this episode will help you find hope, healing, and a fresh start.Learn how:Intimacy begins with emotional connection and intentionalitySeasons of marriage (like winter and spring) impact closenessBetrayal doesn’t have to be the end of your storyThe roles of cultivation (husband) and nurturing (wife) work together to create lasting loveGod uses the garden metaphor from Genesis to the Resurrection to show how relationships grow through care and time00:00 Introduction: Upcoming Episode Highlights00:03 Understanding True Intimacy00:29 A Testimony of Faith and Marriage01:22 Gardening as a Metaphor for Marriage02:32 Series Overview: When Love Gets Tough02:50 Building Back Intimacy After Betrayal03:19 Personal Stories and Reflections04:58 The Evolution of Love and Intimacy07:04 The Role of Trust and Understanding10:33 Rebuilding After Betrayal19:58 Gardening and Marriage: A Deeper Connection22:23 Maintaining Your Garden: Vigilance and Care23:19 Life's Unpredictability and Faith25:31 The Role of Men and Women in Marriage26:33 Lessons from the Song of Solomon27:40 Balancing Passion and Intentionality30:48 The Importance of Planning and Mission in Marriage33:44 Seeking Help and Community Support39:17 Concluding Thoughts and EncouragementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #HowToFightFair #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #healthycommunication 👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries #intimacy #intimacyadvice Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, we discuss one of the most difficult topics couples face—betrayal—and how to rebuild trust after it's been broken. Whether you're dealing with infidelity, financial mistrust, addiction, or emotional affairs, this episode offers hope and practical tools to help you navigate the road to restoration.We unpack the crucial difference between disclosure and discovery, and why voluntary confession is a key factor in a couple’s ability to reconcile after betrayal. You'll learn why healthy boundaries aren't punishment but safeguards that protect your marriage, and how both partners must engage in personal healing to truly rebuild.Is healing possible after betrayal?Yes! Research shows that 60-75% of couples recover when they seek help, set clear boundaries, and commit to doing the hard work.In this episode, we discuss: Why couples often wait too long to ask for help The difference between disclosure vs. discoverySetting boundaries & not viewing them as punishmentHow past trauma and rejection can impact your response to betrayalPractical steps for rebuilding trust and restoring intimacyEncouragement for both the betrayed and the betrayerYou're not alone—whether you're currently facing betrayal or walking alongside someone who is, this episode is filled with truth, tools, and hope to guide you forward.00:00 Introduction: Boundaries, Betrayal, and Trust00:26 Disclosure vs. Discovery in Infidelity01:11 Setting Boundaries and Overcommunication01:36 Real Repentance and Personal Reflection02:33 Series Recap: When Love Gets Tough03:37 The Importance of Early Counseling05:02 Rebuilding Trust: Individual and Couple's Work06:29 The Role of Pastors and Professional Help08:31 Different Forms of Betrayal11:00 Disclosure as a Sign of Willingness to Change20:17 Forgiveness vs. Trust Restoration21:35 Understanding Boundaries in Marriage22:41 Personal Boundaries and Safeguards25:36 Accountability Measures30:11 The Role of Forgiveness and Healing32:09 Impact of Past Relationships39:25 Encouragement and Hope for Couples41:14 Conclusion and Upcoming TopicsSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #HowToFightFair #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #healthycommunication 👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

Sometimes apologies feel empty—either because they’re not genuine or because the pain runs too deep to move on. But in marriage, forgiveness isn’t optional. So how do you heal, rebuild trust, and truly reconcile after hurt? In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole, we’re diving deep into:Why "I'm sorry" doesn’t always fix things & what a real apology looks likeThe difference between forgiveness & trust (they are NOT the same!)What Jesus really meant by forgiving 70x7—and why that doesn’t mean being a doormatWhat "love always trusts" actually means (hint: it’s not blind trust!)How unforgiveness poisons your heart & why forgiveness is more for YOU than themThe path to true reconciliation (and what to do when trust is broken) Forgiveness frees you, but trust is rebuilt over time. In this episode, we’ll help you navigate the journey of letting go of resentment, setting healthy boundaries, and rebuilding what was broken.Key Scriptures:Matthew 6:14-15 – If you don’t forgive, your Father won’t forgive youMatthew 18:21-22 – What Jesus meant by forgiving 70x71 Corinthians 13:5-7 – Love keeps no record of wrongs & always trustsJames 5:16 – Confess your sins to one another and be healed00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:28 The Meaning of True Forgiveness01:39 Series Recap and Personal Reflections03:01 Understanding Apologies in Relationships03:42 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned10:50 The Importance of Genuine Apologies22:32 Forgiveness and Its Spiritual Significance28:31 Reconciliation and Moving Forward35:57 Conclusion and Next Week's PreviewSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever

Part 1 from the new series "When Love Gets Tough."Do you and your spouse struggle with conflict? Do your arguments leave you feeling more distant instead of closer? In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most important marriage skills—fighting fair. Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it determines whether it strengthens or weakens your relationship.We’ll cover:- The 4 toxic fight patterns that destroy marriages (from Dr. John Gottman’s research)- 5 biblical principles for handling conflict with love, wisdom, and patience- Practical steps to resolve arguments without resentment- How to repair damage after a disagreement and grow closer as a couple- Scripture-based wisdom on communication, forgiveness, and conflictKey Scriptures:James 1:19 | Ephesians 4:26 | Proverbs 15:1 | Colossians 3:13Takeaway: Fighting isn’t the problem—it’s how you fight that makes or breaks your marriage. Let’s learn how to argue in a way that builds trust, connection, and love.00:00 Introduction: Fighting in Marriage00:16 The Inevitability of Conflict00:22 Internal Dialogues and Their Impact00:45 Predictors of Divorce01:34 Series Introduction: When Love Gets Tough01:55 Communication Struggles in Marriage02:24 How to Fight Fair03:09 Weekend Recap and Personal Stories04:57 Healthy Conflict Resolution10:00 Four Destructive Fight Patterns18:41 Five Rules for Healthy Conflict23:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement30:48 Upcoming Episodes and New PodcastSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever

In this episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how to enlarge your capacity for the next stage in life and marriage. They discuss the importance of exposure to new experiences and the power of building effective networks and relationships. Highlighting the significance of taking personal responsibility and aligning with God's purpose, they emphasize strategies for couples to navigate transitions and elevate their spiritual and relational growth. This episode also touches on the detrimental impact of toxic relationships and the benefits of seeking mentors and wise counsel, all within the context of their 'Built to Last' series.00:00 Introduction: Enlarging Your Capacity00:11 The Power of Relationships and Networks01:11 Personal Responsibility in Growth01:36 Welcome Back: Needed Conversations02:23 Series Overview: Built to Last03:03 Marriage and Shifts in Life04:15 Developing New Rules for a New Season05:47 Choosing the Right Relationships05:56 Mutually Beneficial Relationships06:30 The Importance of Mentorship08:15 Eliminating Negative Influences09:09 Exposure to New Environments10:06 Scriptural Basis for Capacity Building12:25 Pain or Precision: Making Decisions13:09 Prophetic Insight: Building Phase13:45 Practical Steps to Exposure19:04 Thinking Like a King29:53 Conclusion: Needed ConversationsSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #personalgrowth #marriagegrowth #marriagelife #marriageadvice #christianmarriagecounseling #christianmarriageadvice #christianmarriagetips Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

🚨 Are you operating with old strategies in a new season? 🚨If you don’t learn the protocols of your next level before you get there, the very thing meant to bless you could become the thing that crushes you. Many marriages struggle not because of a lack of love, but because of a failure to adapt to the new challenges, responsibilities, and blessings that come with growth.In this episode of Needed Conversations, we (Ryan & Viktoriya Cole) are talking about New Rules for a New Season in Marriage—how to recognize when it’s time to shift, redefine what “winning” looks like in your marriage, and upgrade your strategy so you can fully step into what God has for you.🔥 Consider the season of your marriage that you're in—what worked before may not work now, and that’s okay! But if you don’t recognize the shift, resist change, or fail to prepare for what’s ahead, you’ll find yourself frustrated, disconnected, and stuck.💬 Drop a comment below and let us know: What’s one area in your marriage that needs a new strategy for this season?00:00 Introduction: Embracing Change00:47 Biblical Insights on Change01:38 Welcome to Needed Conversations02:00 New Rules for a New Season03:36 Practical Steps for Marriage and Personal Growth10:30 Personal Testimonies and Experiences24:19 Reevaluating Roles and Responsibilities29:36 Final Thoughts and Encouragement33:03 Upcoming Podcast AnnouncementSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #personalgrowth #marriagegrowth #marriagelife #marriageadvice #christianmarriagecounseling #christianmarriageadvice #christianmarriagetips Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

In this episode of Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment within a marriage and how to navigate differing levels of discipline and commitment between spouses. They share personal stories, strategies for supporting your spouse, and emphasize accepting rather than trying to control your spouse. The episode also touches on how to set realistic expectations, the power of prayer, and the significance of seeking wise counsel. As part of their 'Built to Last' series, they aim to help couples find strength in individual commitment while working collaboratively towards shared goals.00:00 Introduction: The Illusion of Control in Marriage01:07 Personal Commitment: The Key to a Successful Marriage01:57 Real-Life Challenges: When I Lost 100lbs05:02 Strategies for Supporting Your Spouse06:16 The Role of Mediation and Counseling14:20 Balancing Responsibilities and Offering Support20:23 Encouragement and Prayer: Tools for a Stronger Marriage28:12 Final Thoughts: Building a Lasting Marriage29:51 Conclusion and AnnouncementsFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever

Built To Last Part 1 | Needed Conversations In this first episode of season 7 of Needed Conversations, hosts Ryan and Viktoriya Cole discuss the importance of personal commitment and alignment with God's purpose as a foundation for a healthy marriage. They emphasize the necessity of creating intentional moments of silence, practicing self-discipline, and leading by example in your spiritual and emotional growth. The episode also outlines the significance of knowing your identity in Christ and the impact that maintaining your personal commitments has on your marriage. 00:00 Introduction: Aligning with God's Purpose 00:52 Welcome to Season Seven 01:35 New Format and Upcoming Content 03:44 The Power of Personal Commitment 04:56 Jesus as a Model of Commitment 06:02 Self-Discipline vs. Self-Care 15:57 Creating Healthy Rhythms 25:39 Avoiding Self-Sabotage 28:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can also check out all our marriage resources. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever

In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of the 'Summer Shorts' series, we discuss the essential need for boundaries in marriage to foster healthy communication. We break down different types of boundaries such as personal space, communication, emotional, financial, and sexual boundaries, emphasizing their importance and offering practical advice on how to implement them. Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can join us in our closed "intentional marriage group." This includes monthly group webinars, weekly devotionals, priority text responses, and more. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ #NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #communicationinmarriage #passiveaggressive

In this episode of 'Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole,' part of our 'Summer Shorts' series, we dive deep into the nuances of nonverbal communication in marriages. We explore why spouses might say they're fine when they're not and discuss the impact of passive-aggressive behavior. We offer insights on understanding body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice to improve relationship dynamics. Additionally, we highlight the importance of aligning actions with words and doing the inner work necessary for genuine transformation. The episode also includes details about the upcoming Forevermore Getaway for couples on August 30th and 31st, aimed at providing a transformative and luxurious experience to strengthen marriages. Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can join us in our closed "intentional marriage group." This includes monthly group webinars, weekly devotionals, priority text responses, and more. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ #NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #communicationinmarriage #passiveaggressive

In this episode of the 'Needed Conversations' podcast, we talk about conflict resolution and communication for married couples. We review the foundational aspects of healthy communication—active listening, empathy, clarity, and prayer. Then the episode focuses on dealing with conflict by confronting the barriers of shame and condemnation through grace, mercy, and vulnerability. Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can join us in our closed "intentional marriage group." This includes monthly group webinars, weekly devotionals, priority text responses, and more. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ #NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #communicationinmarriage

In this episode of 'Needed Conversations' we kickstart our summer series, 'Summer Shorts.' In this episode 'Essential Communication Tips for Couples,' we're giving you practical advice to help improve communication between you and your spouse. We share insights about active listening, empathy, and clarity, emphasizing the importance of prayer in strengthening these skills. This episode also highlights our upcoming book release and the Forevermore Marriage Getaway happening on August 30-31 in Greenville, South Carolina. Don't miss out on these bite-sized but impactful lessons to enhance your communication skills in marriage! Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can join us in our closed "intentional marriage group." This includes monthly group webinars, weekly devotionals, priority text responses, and more. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ #NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #communicationinmarriage

In today's episode, we discuss the impacts of our mental health and behaviors on our children. We explore how our actions, more than our words, shape their future. We share personal stories about how our recent move has affected our kids, revealing the anxieties they face and how we're helping them adjust. We also discuss the challenges of parenting in a society that often pushes for material success over emotional and spiritual well-being. You have the power the break generational curses off the bloodline through the finished work of Jesus. We pray this episode is an encouragement to you!Register now for the Forevermore Marriage Getaway at https://forevermoregetaway.com/ Get a scripture projector for your child's room as mentioned in the podcast here: https://glorilight.com/products/glorilight-starter-pack?sca_ref=5598770.AACgJ3oUjj Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can join us in our closed "intentional marriage group." This includes monthly group webinars, weekly devotionals, priority text responses, and more. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ #NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #mentalhealth #marriageandmentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #marriageadvice #marriagegoals #marriagewisdom #christianmarriage

Today's episode of Needed Conversations takes a heartfelt look at the subtle ways fear infiltrates our lives and relationships, particularly in marriage. We delve into how fears, often stemming from childhood experiences, shape our interactions and responses in adult life. Fear isn't always dramatic; it doesn't have to be the boogeyman or a sinister figure with red horns. More often, it's the quiet anxiety over rejection, the fear of not being enough, or the dread of failure that lurks in our day-to-day lives. We also explore the biblical perspective on fear, emphasizing how scripture and our relationship with Christ can help us address and overcome these deep-seated fears. Join us as we unpack how these fears can lead to self-fulfilling prophecies within our marriages, creating barriers to love and understanding. Through personal stories and biblical insights, we discuss how identifying and confronting these fears with the help of our spouses and God's word can transform our lives and relationships. Get a scripture projector for your child's room as mentioned in the podcast here: https://glorilight.com/products/glorilight-starter-pack?sca_ref=5598770.AACgJ3oUjj Looking Ahead: Hit the subscribe button to stay updated with our latest conversations, filled with insights to enhance your marriage. If this ministry has been a blessing to you, partner with us now at http://moremostforever.com where you can join us in our closed "intentional marriage group." This includes monthly group webinars, weekly devotionals, priority text responses, and more. Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ #NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #mentalhealth #marriageandmentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #marriageadvice #marriagegoals #marriagewisdom #christianmarriage