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Bi-monthly interview podcast hosted by former corporate New Yorker turned citizen of the world with a voracious appetite for personal development. Chris Oh speaks with inspirational entrepreneurs, creatives and thought leaders from around the world on how we can all crush our fears and optimize our lifestyle to live our most fulfilling lives, and always on our own terms. New episodes drop on Mondays. Learn more at psyoungerself.com.

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Are unmet expectations leaving you frustrated? Do you find yourself clinging to the idea that people or circumstances should be a certain way? In this first episode of 2025, host Chris Oh unpacks how deeply ingrained expectations are often confused as personal standards, leading to a cycle of disappointment and frustration.This episode is part of a new P.S. Younger Self monthly series, Living By Your Standards. In part 1 of this series, host Chris reveals the 5 key signs you might be prioriti...
What happens when the need for self-expression clashes with deeply rooted cultural traditions? In this profoundly personal episode, host Chris Oh shares her journey of growing up Korean American, navigating familial and cultural expectations, and finding peace in accepting that prioritizing a relationship with her mother means letting go of the hope for full understanding—but grounding herself in the love and acceptance her mother expresses in her own way.Chris reflects on a recent trip to Ko...
Struggling to hold yourself accountable and uphold your high standards? In this episode, we dive into the essential role of accountability in setting and upholding your personal standards. Without accountability, it's nearly impossible to stay aligned with your core values and principles.Join Host Chris Oh as we explore practical steps on how to be accountable to yourself, from self-reflection and ego management to understanding the powerful impact of intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivation. Disco...
Did you know that there are over 180 documented cognitive biases that can subtly influence our decision-making?In this episode, host Chris Oh delves into five common cognitive biases—confirmation bias, anchoring effect, halo effect, availability heuristic, and WYSIATI (What You See Is All There Is)—drawing insights from Daniel Kahneman's best-selling book, Thinking, Fast and Slow. She explores how these biases shape our thinking and decisions, often without us even realizing it, and shares pe...
As social beings, we are fundamentally wired to connect. The quality of our lives depends on the relationships we create and foster. Yet, in a world that's growing more divided and ego-driven, where attention often outweighs genuine connections, how can we forge deep, meaningful bonds? What does that truly mean, and how does it look in various relationship dynamics—from friendships to romantic and even professional relationships?In episode #108, our guest Simon Stawski, a Lisbon-based creator...
Did you know that 90% of our communication is non-verbal? It's not just about what you say, but how you say it that can completely change how the receiver perceives and interprets your message. This episode underscores the importance of communicating your standards primarily through mastering key non-verbal communication nuances. Discover how your actions, presence, and even your energy can convey your standards without uttering a single word. Host Chris Oh explores how you show up in various...
Forget what you thought you knew about emotions—they're not predetermined reactions triggered by external stimuli, nor are they universal and imprinted in us. Instead, they're constructed by your brain, drawing from sensory input, cultural influences, and past experiences.This episode draws on the groundbreaking research and findings of Lisa Feldman Barrett, a venerated neuroscientist, psychologist, and the author of 'How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain.' Host Chris Oh sh...
Have you ever felt something was off in a conversation, leaving you questioning the sincerity of the other person? Or perhaps, you felt like someone was subtly orchestrating your decisions without you knowing it! These moments often signal the subtle presence of manipulation at play. The thing is, manipulation can be subtle, and know what? We all at one point or another will use manipulation tactics in our communication because our guest says it´s a form of power wielding. Our guest...
Do you believe self-confidence is a fixed trait? Host Chris Oh challenges this notion, revealing how anyone can cultivate greater self-confidence. In fact, building self confidence is largely what psychologists call volitional, which means it´s by your own choice. Chris shares her own journey from painfully shy early beginnings to embodying unshakeable confidence today, illustrating that transformation is attainable for everyone. Discover the essential components of building self-co...
Life’s journey is not without its storms; sometimes it's just a light sprinkle, other times it's a full-blown downpour. Amidst the ebb and flow of happiness, sadness, and uncertainty, one timeless philosophy stands as a beacon of resilience.In this episode, host Chris Oh shares how Stoicism, particularly the profound concept of Amor Fati, has been instrumental in navigating one of the most challenging and stressful experiences of her life. Amor Fati, the Stoic idea of embracing one's fate, be...
Are you exercising against your unique female physiology? With a mere 6% of exercise research centering on women, this episode aims to empower women with knowledge that challenges generic fitness advice. Our guest, Denise Yeats, a personal trainer, menopause training specialist, Ironman Certified Coach, and endurance athlete, is committed to guiding women in resetting, recharging, and reclaiming their vitality at any life stage. Denise draws upon her expertise in managin...
What if the pursuit of happiness isn't about the zeros in our bank accounts, but the why behind our financial choices? In this episode, "Understanding the Why Behind Our Financial Decisions," our guest Eric Roberge, CFP® and the CEO of Beyond Your Hammock, helps us explore the connection between our financial decisions and their influence on our lives. In this episode, we explore the strategies and mindsets for optimal financial decision-making, discovering how understanding our "...
In a milestone 100th episode of P.S. Younger Self, host Chris Oh unfolds a powerful lesson on forgiveness she recently experienced.Chris shares her personal revelation, illuminating a surprising, fresh perspective on forgiveness that reshapes its traditional understanding and role in reconciliation. This episode will challenge you to perceive forgiveness as a truly liberating force—a proactive choice to let go and extend compassion first.Discover how this shift in mindset can enable us to lea...
Can you truly let go of expectations? And, why should you?Our perception of reality is intricately woven with our expectations and past experiences. However, transcending these expectations and embracing the present can unlock the full spectrum of life's rich tapestry.Join host Chris Oh, as she passionately delves into why letting go of expectations is the liberating path to escape the clutches of disappointment and frustration. And, discover the profound concept of the "Expectations Gap...
In this latest episode of P.S. Younger Self, husband and wife team, Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill share powerful insights on how they have discovered what makes couples disconnect, and therefore connect to forge deeper, healthier, long-lasting relationships. They share their discovery through their own journey of a 40 year marriage (30 of which they say was painful) and through Dr. Glenn´s professional, groundbreaking research and studies on human emotions and connection. They share th...
In the latest episode of P.S. Younger Self, Chris Oh´s dear friend, Saria Gebeily, returned to the show for another deeply engaging and intimate conversation about what “healing” means. They discussed how they have personally defined "healing" and identified when they were “healing,” as well as revealed pivotal moments that signaled their own progress and growth.Discover why these intimate conversations between Chris Oh and her friend Saria Gebeliy are always so enlightening, as Saria i...
Gaslighting seems to be thrown around for a lot of different negative behaviors, i.e., lying, insulting, guilt tripping, and much more. But what is gaslighting really? Discover the truth behind gaslighting and its intricate connection to emotional abuse in our latest episode with licensed psychologist, Dr. Emily Mayfield of Mindset Therapy, PLLC. Dr. Emily helps us unravel the distinction between gaslighting and other deceptive behaviors, and sheds light on the manipulative intent of gas...
Setting standards is an important aspect of our personal growth because they act as a measure of our own accountability and reflect our personal values. Yet many people confuse the two. They are not the same and not to be used interchangeably because our standards dictate the quality of life we create, while expectations lead to feelings of disappointment and frustration. In this episode, you'll learn the clear difference between setting standards vs. expectations in all areas of your life. A...
Today, 10MM working mothers in the U.S. alone are suffering from burnout, and in silence. In 2019, the World Health Organization officially included burnout as an occupational syndrome and an estimated that 1 in 3 people are affected by work-related stress, making it a significant health concern. What is going on?Burnout is a pervasive issue affecting more people today than ever before due to a combination of factors such as intense work culture, our "always-on" digital connectivity, uncertai...
I grew up as a painfully shy child. My mother had to make friends for me in grade school, and she even got me my prom date, no joke. Throughout my 20s and 30s, I climbed the corporate ladder, chasing status, more zeros and trying to make my parents proud. Fast forward to my early forties, I have never been more at peace and fulfilled in my life. But that came with a lot of self discovery, self work and lessons along the way, including the most important --- learning to fall in love with ...
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