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Dr. Brenda Jefferson Found Her ‘Life After Love’. Music icon, Cher, once posed a question in a hit song, “Do you believe in life after love?” For many women in toxic relationships, the answer is “no, I don’t believe there’s more life to live outside of the current ‘love’ connection I’m involved in.” It’s this unfortunate truth is what keeps many women bound in abusive relationships far past “love’s” expiration date. According to the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission (ERLC), there are four main reasons why women stay in abusive relationships:Victims can struggle to see the severity of the abuse or the danger they are inThe victim lacks family, community, and church supportLeaving is the most dangerous time for a womanLeaving abuse is extremely difficult and costlyYouth leader, author, songwriter, and pastor, Dr. Brenda Jefferson experienced all of the above symptoms in her first marriage, and can boldly say after leaving, “You will love again!”In her most recently released book, “Praise Him While You Wait” Dr. Brenda Jefferson shares key insights on how praise anchors you in turbulent waters, restores your hope, and grants peace in the midst of any storm. This applies to relationships, friendships, businesses, dreams and more! While writing the book, Dr. Jefferson found herself waiting on a big business deal herself.In recent news there has been an increase of mass shootings that involve youth: both as the victim and the aggressor (Robb Elementary shooter, Salvador Ramos was 18yrs old). This unfortunate truth prompted Dr. Brenda Jefferson and her husband, Bishop MB Jefferson to do something to help Tampa’s local youth.They are currently renovating one of Tampa’s landmark churches and converting it to a youth center in order to help keep kids off the street and provide a space for safe recreation called, “Living in Victory Youth Center”. The building, once called Deeper Life Bible Church on 3300 N Nebraska Ave., was built in 1898 - over 100 years old! Now the couple is taking this historic landmark and revitalizing new energy in order to engage and protect Tampa’s youth.At Living In Victory Youth Center Dr. Brenda has already hosted free dance workshops for the community and aims to host music lessons, computer labs for students, mentorship programs, tutoring and more!Aside from the youth club Dr. Brenda also hosts anti-drug campaigns with her husband each year and hosts a weekly Bible Study for girls ages 17-30years old in order to be a resource center for women looking for emotional, spiritual, and/or financial help.In the areas of love and philanthropy has found “life after love” and is encouraging other women that they can too!

Schenika Quattlebaum - Founder/CEO of wildly popular Natalia Me'Gan Hair & Beauty, and recent winner of "She Is Monumental" award. Schenika's life took a huge turn for the worse when he mother unexpectedly died when she was only 16 years old. She began acting out, and it was much later she began having children as a young teenager. As challenges continued to mount, it wasn't long until she found herself in a life threatening domestic violence relationship. Hear how her struggles lead her to the awakening that catapulted into the amazing relationship she is in today, plus a widely successful global hair & beauty company in just 4 years!

Tamarra Lewis Johnson exemplifies what it means to be a superwoman. After becoming pregnant at age 16 and then later narrowly escaping an abusive relationship and with two children in tow. Tamarra fought through bouts of depression, and budding addiction to pain pills, before finding refuge through spirituality. Soon Tamarra was putting her natural entrepreneurial skills to work, and co-founded successful childcare centers.

Brandee Joyner grow up being shamed for her weight and skin color. Brandee was a victim of domestic violence, sexual, emotional and verbal abuse as an adult. Brandee J used her life challenges as a resource for self empowerment. Brandee is now the host of "The Brandee J" show and the Founder and CEO of "Luxe Kurves Magazine", she has transformed her tumultuous past into her present POWER! Her violent past began in her youth when she was mocked by her peers and her father for being overweight. At the age of 10, Brandy's father, who referred to her as "Ms. Piggy," forced her to start dieting because he wanted Brandy to lose weight. Because of her father's verbal and emotional abuse, Brandy developed eating disorders and attempted suicide twice. Finally, at the age of 16, Brandy developed a positive body image and began to love herself as she was.

Tara Lynn Townes suffered from debilitating pain from a disk injury, chronic fatigue, and fibromyalgia for 14 years. The birth of her disabled son became the catalyst for changing the way she was relating to herself and her injuries. She quickly began healing herself, which launched her into an entirely new trajectory in life, one with more purpose, peace, and love. Tara became a certified life coach and developmental therapist. She trains and coaches others to live above their circumstances and to use their breakdown to unleash the giant within and to create what they want on the outside using what they have on the inside. As a result of her disabled son, or as she likes to say "Beautifully Diverse" son, being bullied. Tara has now created an amazing app called "Bullying Buddy" which effectively protects our children in moments of distress. Not only does it record the situations, it immediately calls for help, as well as many other awesome features. Bullying Buddy is being implemented world-wide.

Gina M. Garcia is the 1%. Ninety-nine percent of all children abducted by a stranger are murdered within the first 24 hours. At the tender age of eight, Gina saved herself by jumping out of a moving car half-naked, after being brutally raped, sodomized, and assaulted at knife point, at the Fashion Square Mall in Orlando, Florida on October 12, 1981. Gina was taken by the same person that abducted and murdered Adam Walsh, (son of John Walsh, the host and creator of America’s Most Wanted). After Gina’s innocence was stolen, she experienced decades of self-destructive behavior including dropping out of high school and college.In 2006, Gina was once again victimized when her business was burglarized in an apparent hate crime, thus triggering suppressed memories of that horrific day twenty-five years earlier. She began to feel like she was losing her mind and sought out mental health treatment from the Veterans Administration (VA) Hospital, where she was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). There she learned the necessary tools to not only live with PTSD, but to excavate and heal much of childhood trauma. With Gina’s deep understanding of the journey of healing, from the long-term effects of sexual trauma, she was inspired to write a script with hopes of helping other survivors. During an award ceremony for a film project she had helped produce, Gina bumped into award-winning writer/director Patty Jenkins, whom she admired for her work on ‘Monster.’ She believed Ms. Jenkins was the only one who could direct her story and asked her, but was told “No Gina-- you have to tell your story.” Gina stated she wasn’t a director, but Ms. Jenkins response was “you will be when you are done”. Never in her wildest dreams did Gina imagine that the director of ‘Monster’ would teach her how to be her own ‘Wonder Woman!’ With Patty Jenkins as mentor, Gina wrote, produced and directed her life story in her directorial debut “Untold: This is My Story” which she self-funded, adapted into a book called “Untold: I am the 1%” and launched a charity called the “The Untold Project” where survivors of sexual assault have a safe space to tell their own stories. Gina believes that when it comes to trauma, no story should go UNTOLD!

Debbie is a Body Relationship coach. After struggling for years with an eating disorder, I now help others make peace with their body and food... BodyRelationship.comLearn more about your hosts at LinkTree.com/DannyMcFarland & LinkTree.com/DrSeeLove

Derek Vanderhorst’s incredible transformations after surviving Stage 4 Head & Neck Cancer. Derek is best known for his work on the Academy Award-nominated No Country for Old Men, as well as Hidden Figures, 300 and The Eyes of Tammy Faye. Derek is now pouring his renewed passion and dedication into his own music as a Folk-Americana singer-songwriter. Using his new lease on life to live a more purposeful and peaceful life, one that makes his heart and soul sing louder than ever before. Hear his incredibly inspirational story right now, it may be the very thing you need to hear to give you the courage to take those difficult steps to live into your divine purpose. Also find Derek @ DerekVmusic.comFind out more about your hosts @ LinkTree.com/DannyMcFarland and LinkTree.com/DrSeeLove

Angalia is an award-winning author of the book "IN DEEP" Activist and Violence Interrupter. From the age 9, she became addicted to heroin, roamed the streets of Chicago, thus spiraling into a life of crime including prostitution, drugs, hanging out with gangs not to mention a couple of terms in prison but, the very last time in prison after being transferred to a halfway house she had a word with God and said "God, if you take the taste of heroin out of my mouth, I will do everything in my power to help the youth on the streets as much as I can' and she did. As a Violence Interrupter, she once went on the very same streets in the crime-ridden neighborhoods she once called home..While this is merely one of many layers in Angalia's life, she is the epitome of what 'being the change you need to be in your life' looks like Angalia has also been invited as a guest speaker across the United States including having an audience made up of law enforcement to speak on subject matter including the rising opioid abuse, violence, and the many issues facing troubled youth and adults in today's society. One of her biggest international engagements was in Abu Dhabi with a global audience of senior-level executives whose primary work includes: Human Trafficking/Smuggling, Anti Terrorism, Violence, and Drugs. www.AngaliaBianca.com

Inspired by her own experience and trauma, Singleton reaches girls and women alike to teach the strategies to overcome grief, depression, suicidal thoughts, molestation, sexual assault, injury recovery, and abandonment that has contributed to their self-sabotaging behaviors. Some of the most successful, peaceful, and strongest people—mentally, emotionally and professionally—have actually endured the most struggle and overcome. By falling, failing and rising back up, one learns resilience and determination. By being scorned and betrayed, can one learn to move on and begin again. By feeling sad and depressed, one can appreciate the value in choosing happiness. Singleton is a board-certified health coach, nutritional lifestyle coach, advanced personal trainer, mindset strategist, podcaster, and author. With more than 10 years of experience, she has continued to help busy career women in areas of obesity, chronic illnesses, physical health, injury recovery, trauma, and behavioral change to live a more successful and healthy life. Singleton’s passion for educating, advocating, and helping individuals transcends beyond her own experience and breakthrough formula applied by the most successful of entrepreneurs.

On 9/11/01 NYC Firefighter John Larocchia lost 19 members assigned to his firehouse. John decided that he wanted to remember his brothers lost on 9/11 and continue to be lost due to 9/11 related illnesses. In 2011, John established the LAUGHTER SAVE LIVES FOUNDATION and COMEDY TOUR, with the mission to provide assistance to First Responders trying to overcome financial hardship due to an unforeseen tragedy or illness. More info @ Laughtersaveslives.orgAlso learn more about your hosts @ LinkTree.com/DannyMcFarland and LinkTree.com/DrSeeLove

Dr Jada MD shares her heartfelt struggles as a child, being a mother, and releasing the illusions of unworthiness. Hear how she inwardly discovered her self-worth in the midst of her life falling apart all around her. This enlightening journey has led her onto a path of helping people all over the country release their misbeliefs about unworthiness as well. Dr. Jada Moore-Ruffin is a nationally recognized weight loss specialist, wellness expert, and successful entrepreneur with an award-winning weight loss center called REAL Weight Loss and Wellness. Dr. Jada is also a best selling author. Visit her at Startwithreal.com and IG/FB @DrJadaMD. Or visit your hosts @ LinkTree.com/Danny McFarland and Linktree.com/DrSeeLove

Former Hollywood report was living the fairytale life with the perfect husband and storybook life until things took a major turn for the worst. Hear how overcoming domestic violence and a horrific divorce has led her onto a new path of helping others through their divorces. Ilyssa is The Divorce Reporter, and the only divorce journalist out there. Ilyssa is the creator, and Host of a national radio show called, “The Divorce Hour" that airs every Saturday and Sunday on CRN Digital Talk Radio and other major podcast platforms. Learn more about her @ www.ilyssapanitz.com. You can also learn more about your hosts at Linktree.com/DannyMcFarland & Linktree.com/DrSeeLove

Dr. Brittany Clayborne was in perfect health when she had a heart attack at 26 years old during pregnancy, eventually leading to a heart transplant. But that wasn't the end of her challenges, as she would soon face stage 4 cancer as well. Hear her incredible journey and how it has empowered her to become the confident thriving woman she is today. Learn more about how she is helping others today at www.BrittanySpeaks.com and follow @DrBrittanySpeaks.Hosts websites: www.Linktree.com/DannyMcFarlandwww.Linktree.com/DrSeeLove

Mindi Huebner, Mindset Mastery Coach for successful entrepreneurs, shares an incredibly painful situation while working for her church, that became the catalyst for inner healing, transformation, and self-empowerment. She is a certified NLP Practitioner and a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist. She designs her programs around the concepts from both these areas to equip clients to break free of limiting beliefs, stop self-sabotage, and how to embrace a growth and abundance mindset. Website: MindiHuebner.com Social Media: @MindiHuebner Hosts contact & social media:www.LinkTree.com/DannyMcFarlandwww.LinkTree.com/DrSeeLove

Crystal discusses the challenges she faced when her 2 year ago son was diagnosed with Autism. Crystal journey has led her to becoming a voice and advocate for all children facing Autism, including her website www.zachariahworld.com, which is a tremendous resource for parents of children with Autism. Hosts Links:LinkTree.com/DannyMcFarland @DrSeeLove

Kilayla Pilon, a 24-year-old author from Ontario, Canada, shares her traumatic childhood journey that led to her developing Dissociative Identity Disorder. Despite this, she has written six novels - two of which are currently published, one that was published, and one that is being released in September. Though she still struggles in daily life, she has still completed some of her lifelong dreams. Kilayla hopes that sharing her heartfelt story will help spread awareness of this challenging disorder.

Kenya Tucker, a special needs teacher, faces the painful struggles of caretaking for parents with mental illnesses, creating health boundaries, and acknowledging herself for the incredible effort she put into being the best daughter, wife, mother, and grandmother she could be.

Danny has another massive accident leaving him temporarily paralyzed, and Dr. See Love struggles with the challenges of being a mother and teacher during COVID quarantine.

Kim Stanwood Terranova, author of the new best-selling book, The Technology of Intention: Activating The Power of the Universe Within You! Foreword by Rev. Michael Bernard Beckwith (From the popular documentary "The Secret"). Kim is often is a speaker at Rev. Beckwith’s Agape International Spiritual Center in Los Angeles, she is the Lead Facilitator at the Rythmia Retreat Center in Costa Rica, and she works very closely with some of the top names in Hollywood. Kim also knows what it takes to move through tragedy. In the recent California fires, Kim’s Malibu home was completely destroyed. Kim used the principles she developed to move through this difficult time, and she teaches others how to Rise from the Rubble of their own challenges. This is a non-religious discussion that offers self-help tools to all who are experiencing a life altering tragedy.