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Author: Mike Frazier, MD

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Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
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A long time ago, a mentor of mine had me make a list of all the qualities I wanted in a wife.I listed things like beautiful, honest, intelligent, connected to God, a hard worker, great with kids, and an expert cook.He complimented my list, and I thought my job was to go find this girl.But, he told me that if I wanted a girl like that, I had to be a guy like that.When it comes to anything you want your wife to be… You can only expect her to be as good as you.So, if you want her to be completely honest with you… you’ll need to be completely honest with her.Honesty is the price of an intimate marriage. Telling the truth even and especially when it’s hard. That’s what lets you be known in the marriage and creates the deep connection and passion that you desire. With some bumps first. But that conflict is what creates real connection.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
If you’re suspicious that your wife may be involved with another man…Or if she’s been unfaithful in the past…The temptation to spy on her can be VERY high.There are pros and cons to spying, and we’ll cover them in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
If your wife turns away from your hugs and kisses…But doesn’t have an issue giving hugs to friends, family and your kids…It can be VERY frustrating.But, there’s a reason for it.You are probably trying to TAKE a hug from her…Instead of GIVING a hug.Learn more in today’s episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
It used to bum me out that my wife would hug and kiss my kids…But not me.They were getting more affection than I was!And my wife would tell me that she just “wasn’t very touchy…”Which I saw with my own eyes just wasn’t true.Learn why this is happening…And what to do about it…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
If you’re at the beach and a wave is coming, you have 3 options.Option 1 - Run away. If you choose this, you will get smashed.This is like trying to avoid emotions.Option 2 - Stand there. If you choose this, you will get smashed. This is like freezing in your emotions or trying to ignore them (or push them away with things like food, pornography, etc.)Option 3 - Jump into the wave.While counterintuitive, this option lets you avoid injury. It allows you to feel a gentle up and down movement that passes quickly.Learn how to “jump into the wave of emotion” in this episode.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
No matter what, your marriage WILL have ups and downs.You’ll have moments of great connection… then disconnection.Your wife will be happy… then unhappy.How do you handle these ups and downs now?Many men try to fix the downs and make them go away as fast as possible.But, this often just makes the downs last longer and creates more damage.Learn what to do instead…To enjoy the good times and make the bad times opportunities for more intimacy…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.You’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
Step 1 - Seen. Notice your own emotions. Name them. Feel them.Step 2 - Safe. Remind yourself that you’re OK and in a safe placeStep 3 - Soothe. Deal with your emotions appropriately. Think in terms of body, mind, heart and spirit.Body - exercise, stretching, yoga, etcMind - Music, books, scripturesHeart - Connection with othersSpirit - Prayer, meditation, booksFollowing these 3 steps, you WILL create more security in your relationship with yourself, your wife, your kids and others.Learn more specific skills… and practice them with coaching… in Strong Men Strong Marriages.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
This is, I believe, one of my most important episodes so far.We all have the desire to feel seen, safe and soothed in our emotions.Unfortunately, many of us did not get that… or did not get it consistently… from our parents or caregivers.I used to ignore this idea a lot, thinking our upbringing didn’t really matter.But, as I’ve done some of this work on my own, I’ve seen that our childhood has a MASSIVE impact on how we relate to our wife and our children.Learn YOUR attachment style (secure, avoidant, ambivalent or disorganized)...And how to create SECURE attachments with yourself and others…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
Today I have the privilege of talking with Monica Tanner, host of the Secrets Of Happily Ever After Podcast.We discuss insights on how to “woo your wife.”What are the things you can do today (and tonight) to make your wife feel “those feelings” again.This episode includes some extra special tips and phrases on how to do just that.Watch on YouTube here.You can find Monica at monicatanner.com http://monicatanner.comDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
Do you feel like your marriage is stagnant?Are you walking on eggshells, avoiding asking for what you want, because you’re afraid your wife might not like it or agree?Are you good teammates in parenting and household management, but lack sexual, mental and emotional intimacy?Then there’s a good chance there’s not enough conflict in your marriage.Just like your body needs stress to become stronger…Your marriage needs conflict to become stronger and more intimate.Learn how to have conflicts in an effective way…That builds more passion and intimacy…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
I’ve had some important insights lately that I have not been the father that I want to be, and feedback from my oldest son that I’m not the type of father he would want to be around once he leaves the house.While hard to hear, it was very important to me and now I’m making changes that will help me be that father.Today I talk with Don Manning from Crazy Cool Family, who has made it his mission to help us“Experience a family where kids love JESUS, love YOU, love EACH OTHER and have a God-inspired PURPOSE in life! That’s the Crazy Cool Family way!”I’m going through his FREE course now, which you can have access to here.https://www.crazycoolfamily.com/Don has also offered for you to be able to reach out to him at his email, Don@CrazyCoolFamily.com.Enjoy this interview on today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/ChcMXTkIvlkDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
When your wife says “I need space…”It’s frightening and often confusing.But, understanding WHY she needs space… And what she needs space FROM…Can help you become the man that she wants to come CLOSER to…Instead of GET AWAY from.Learn WHY she’s asking for space…And what to do to make her become ATTRACTED to you again…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/s-4Nve4PZ6cDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
When you feel yourself going on that “low road” and acting in ways you won’t be proud of…Stop and take a breath.Remind yourself that you’re OK.Start acting how you want to act if you can.If you can’t remove yourself from the situation until you can.Mentally rehearse this so you’re ready to go in the moment.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
This week was a powerful week for me. My son told me directly that he didn’t really feel comfortable talking to me because he was worried I would respond with anger.This was a turning point for me. This moment combined with reading Parenting From The Inside Out by Daniel Siegel https://amzn.to/3KAr8CP helped me see that I was repeating some old patterns from my childhood that I wasn’t aware of.Learn how to find some of your old patterns… and change them… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we'll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves… while living true to Christian principles.
You would think your wife would respect how hard you try to make her happy.That approach MIGHT make her LIKE you…But it WILL NOT lead to her RESPECTING you…Or being ATTRACTED to you.Learn how to earn her respect in today’s episode.It’s probably not what you think.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/6pSGR01K4pYDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires, respects and loves.
I talk to a lot of men who are great leaders at work.Business owners. Professionals. Military leaders and sports professionals.They are great leaders at church. Men’s group leaders, youth group leaders, even leaders of marriage ministries.BUT, they DO NOT feel like leaders with their wife.They walk on eggshells trying to make her happy.Their wives say they want them to lead more…But when they try, they get criticized.It can feel trapped and hopeless.But, there’s a reason for you being able to lead everywhere… except with your wife.Learn what it is… and what to do about it… in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. https://youtu.be/Hle-Eh38qdQDr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires as a real leader in the home.
There are 3 simple steps to become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 1 - Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting.If you don’t do this, you’ll continue to push your wife away.And if you don’t get a guide to help you, you won’t be able to identify them. Or at least not all of them and not at a deep level.Step 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patternsThis is what will help you become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 3 - Repeat the new patterns until you are attractive on defaultWithout this, you WILL go back to your negative, unattractive patterns. Especially under stress.Like when your wife brings up your past mistakes or says “no” to sex.When you do all 3 of these steps, you WILL become the man your wife passionately desires.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps to guide you through these 3 steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!
You’re trying to do the right things.You’re trying to make your wife happy.Cooking, cleaning, doing the 5 love languages.But, your wife isn’t turned on by any of it.She doesn’t even appreciate it, while people outside the marriage seem to.The question now is…Do you want to continue to try to create intimacy on your own?Or do you want to follow The Hero’s Journey to become the man your wife passionately desires?Learn how in today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then we’’ll get back to you with your best next steps. We’d love to guide you to becoming the man your wife passionately desires.
There are 3 simple steps to become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 1 - Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns of thinking, feeling and acting.If you don’t do this, you’ll continue to push your wife away.And if you don’t get a guide to help you, you won’t be able to identify them. Or at least not all of them and not at a deep level.Step 2 - Replace them with positive, attractive patternsThis is what will help you become the man your wife passionately desires.Step 3 - Repeat the new patterns until you are attractive on defaultWithout this, you WILL go back to your negative, unattractive patterns. Especially under stress.Like when your wife brings up your past mistakes or says “no” to sex.When you do all 3 of these steps, you WILL become the man your wife passionately desires.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps to guide you through these 3 steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!
Is it possible to be “too nice” to your wife?YES!If you’re not willing to disagree with your wife…Express yourself…Speak up when you feel things aren’t fair…Then you are living in the “happy wife, happy life” mindset.Which creates a sort of happy wife who “loves you but is not in love with you…”A roommate, unbalanced, and walking on eggshells feeling in the marriage…And an emotionally and sexually frustrated husband.It’s time to represent yourself in your marriage.You’re just as important as your wife.Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy for your family to follow… starting TODAY…CLICK HERE to apply to join my Strong Men Strong Marriages program.http://mikefraziermd.com/work-with-meYou’ll fill out an application, then I’ll get back to you with your best next steps. I’m looking forward to hearing from you!
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