My Peace is Non Negotiable

It's easy to run away from or put off tough conversations!  However, those conversations are a gift that can positively impact your life.I recently prepared myself for a tough conversation by activating the things I could control which were:  listening for understanding, speaking my truth and asking for what I needed.  I then surrendered the things I could not control which was the other person's truth and ultimately the outcome of the conversation.I did not receive the news I wanted, but I gained something even more powerful.  I left that meeting with the data I needed to gain clarity and ultimately a peace that surpassed my understanding!  Have the conversation...You Got This!

2020 was a very trying year!  If you're  like me, I tried to act if I were strong and tried to continue as if everything were normal.   After I landed in the hospital, I realized that I'm not strong in this moment and I was tired of pretending.  In this episode I share my story (which may be similar to yours) and provide tips on what you can do immediately to relinquish control, surrender and be OK not being OK.

You are Enough -We will explore five things that keep you from believing that you are enough, stopping you from reaching your definition of success and most importantly disturbing your peace.The five things that have you believing the lie that You Are Not Enough:1.  Mind Games = Watch the story, stop the narrative, and resume "real life."2.  Social Media Facade = Comparing yourself to someone's "perceived life"3. Imposter Syndrome = You belong in the room!4. Stuck in the past = Look back but don't stay!5. Procrastination = Self Deception and Self SabotagePeace and anxiety can not co-exist. Anxiety is present when you feel you aren't enough.  When Angst knocks at your door  I want you to ask it for it's RSVP (which it won't have) .  Anxiety thought it could once again crash your peace party - NOPE - You can now kindly escort it to the exit!You don't have to sit by while life lives you...you have a choice to live your life and reclaim your peace!  You...yes, you - YOU ARE ENOUGH!Remember to subscribe and share!Contact info:marlin@marlinlinwiilams.comInstagram: @marlingwilliams. and @mypeaceisnonnegotiable

Put your seat belt on....Surrender and submission are two very different things!  In this episode we explore the differences through real life experiences.  It's important to know the difference as you decide how you are going to live your best life, how you interact with people and how you allow people to show up in your life! In this episode I share the story of one of my life coach clients (with her permission of course ) and my own story.When I surrender - I breathe easier.  I let go of control, the need to control and the lie that I'm in control.  When I'm in a moment of submission I feel as if I'm giving up who I am for some perceived payback or reward.  Sound familiar?Let's get to it!  Please consider subscribing and sharing with your friends!#mypeaceisnonnegotiableContact:  marlin@marlinwilliams.com       

Welcome to “my peace is non-negotiable.” This is the place for those of you who are sick and tired of merely existing, want to live a full life and are relentless about protecting your peace!  Getting rid of those things that simply don’t serve you.  Are you waiting on someone to approve of you or your choices before you begin living the life you want?  Stop looking - the person you are waiting for is YOU!In this episode we discuss the excuses you might make:  My children are too young, I don't have the money, I was fired from my job, I'm too old , blah, blah, blah- and the list goes on.  No more excuses, no more charging other people with the responsibility for your happiness and fulfilled life.  I'm calling BS! We will also walk through a visualization exercise.  When you can see it – it helps you to get up off your ass, stop listening to others and get it done – whatever it is.You deserve a life fulfilled which equates to peace.  Let's Go!#mypeaceisnonnegotiable Contact Information:marlin@marlinwilliams.com      

This is for ALL the women who believe they "have" to be strong!  Who told you that lie? Who told you that you have to be everything for everybody, that you have all the answers, that it's weak to ask for help?  Alert:  There is no trophy or prize waiting for you for being strong, however a consequence is the toll it takes on your mental, physical and spiritual episode.You show up as Super Woman, Super Wife, Super Mom, Super Daughter, Super Caretaker, Super Soror, Super Friend, Super Entrepreneur and God knows what else…how is that serving you? Girl take that cape off and SIT DOWN.Don’t Miss this lesson by dismissing the experience – it will keep showing up – go ahead and register school is in session.  Tune into this episode!In this episode I share 5-thing you can do TODAY to destroy this strong woman myth.Please subscribe, share and comment!Remember....Your Peace is Non-NegotiableFor speaking/booking inquiries contact:  marlin@marlinwilliams.com#mypeaceisnonnegotiable  

This week we will walk down the path of self-forgiveness and provide some tips to get you there. Welcome back to your podcast where we take the journey to get to the place of non-negotiable peace.  I’m your host Marlin Williams and I’m excited that you’ve decided to We make a mistake and for some reason we are conditioned to punish ourselves over and over again.  For some reason we just can't or won't let it go!  There are people in your life who have treated you horribly, yet we give them the grace of forgiveness - but we won't do the same for ourselves.  For me it was was my unwillingness to forgive myself and hold on to guilt and shame as if were some type of prize.  It was actually a defense mechanism and way to NEVER forget what happened in an effort to keep it from happening again.What's your why and how does it serve you?  Take a listen...you may be surprised what comes up for you.I share seven tips that can help you get to a place of forgiveness:1.  Own it and accept responsibility2.  Feel it - Don't lie to yourself3.  Learn from the mistake4.  Write yourself an apology5.  Be OK being OK (Life does not have to be hard - joy is allowed)6.  Stand in a place of gratitude7.  Seek professional helpYou are important, you are worthy of forgiveness.  This is a journey not a sprint – you will get there….if you want. Until next time – let’s  meet here again next week and we take this journey together.Please remember to subscribe (via your podcast provider), comment and share this podcast!  

What are your rules of engagement for those who want a front row or at least main floor seating in your life?  I know rules of engagement and life don’t seem to match but they have everything in common at least when it comes to your peace.  We set rules of engagement at work and in business, but isn’t your life just as or even more important?  Isn’t it interesting that we will safeguard all things work related but not ourselves, our spirit, and our well being?  When we buy tickets for a concert or a game there are non-negotiable categories: Front Row, Floor Seats, Mezzanine, Balcony, Waitlisted and Sold out!  Those categories also apply for life and who you decide will occupy the designations.In this episode I share the five things I assess to determine who deserves that front row in my life:1.  Those who love me unconditionally.2.  Those who do not judge me on my last act, because it makes them feel better.3.  Those who recognize it's not all about them.4.  The non-needy 5.  The relationships that don't serve mePlease remember to subscribe (via your subscriber of choice) leave comments, and share this podcast with a friend!The music:  Always Believe recorded my "ME" - Marlin Williams. Written by:  Greg Freeman, Randy Scott and Marlin Williams. Produced by Greg Freeman and Randy Scott.  Available on iTunes at https://music.apple.com/us/album/always-believe-single/405270266.

Who Would You Be Without Your Story?Whew...How many times have you punished yourself for decisions you've made in the past?  How many of those things are still shaping the narrative of your life?  Holding on to the stories of the past without using them as a springboard to heal, is self-imposed pain and doesn't serve you.Trust me I should have a doctorate degree in holding on to my story even when it was detrimental to everything.  Often times we sleep walk through life, comfortable with the story, and numb to the pain and destruction.  Experience has taught me that there is another way to live!I share a story during this episode of how experiences of feeling unworthy in my youth, stayed with me during my adult relationships and the work I needed to do to break that false narrative.  For you, your story could be about love, relationships, finances, unachieved goals, and the list goes on!  When your stuff is left unchecked it will show up in your present day real life experience and will be the foundation of your story.There are five tips shared to get you closer to that peace you deserve:1.  Ask the question - "How is this story serving you?"2.  Take a life sabbatical3.  Make a different decision4. Find one friend that will call you out on your B.S.5.  Practice, Revert, and Try againThis is your journey and I'm excited to share it with you.  Your Peace is totally non-negotiable! There's power in the first step, and you are taking it now!Please subscribe, comment and share with friends.  Please join me Instagram @ mypeaceisnonnegotiableYou can also contact me at marlinwilliams.com  

Welcome to My Peace is Non-Negotiable.  This a space for candid conversations and sharing of real-life experiences.  In this introductory episode I share the experience of living a lie...looking SO good on the inside while living a raggedy life!  One day I decided to cut the B.S., owned my stuff, did my work and voted for myself!  I decided that I needed to do my work (which is SO hard.) I realized that my self worth was tied to my net worth and much more.After I got tired of the roller coaster ride, I decided to protect my peace - by any means necessary!Your motivational and inspirational journey to the place of non negotiable peace...starts now!Please subscribe and tell a friend!