Pooky Ponders – Big Questions with Brilliant People

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore the essential elements of being a supportive and understanding friend to autistic individuals. Join me as I share valuable insights into navigating friendships with autistic people, offering practical tips on communication, patience, and fostering inclusivity. Discover the importance of respecting routines, encouraging shared interests, and advocating for inclusivity in social situations.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into the intricate world of fostering friendship skills in 5-7-year-old boys. Join me on a journey as I explore the significance of structured play activities, social skill teaching, and the buddy system in nurturing positive connections. From engaging role-playing scenarios to promoting emotional awareness, this episode offers practical insights and activities for parents, teachers, and anyone invested in supporting the social development of young minds. Support the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into the complex world of parenting during the teenage years. Whether you're a parent, guardian, or educator, this episode is a treasure trove of practical insights and strategies to help you navigate the emotional rollercoaster that adolescents often experience.  From fostering effective communication to finding the balance between independence and responsibility, setting boundaries, and resolving conflicts, I provide valuable tips for strengthening the parent-teen relationship. Support the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into the world of ADHD, specifically focusing on creating an environment where children with ADHD can thrive in the comfort of their homes. I'll provide you with a toolbox of practical tips, from establishing designated activity zones and implementing routines to employing effective parenting strategies and teaching emotional regulation. We'll also explore how technology can be harnessed wisely to support children with ADHD. Plus, I'll discuss the crucial role of family dynamics in nurturing these young minds.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into the intricate world of selective mutism, a complex anxiety disorder that affects children's ability to speak in specific social settings. I explore what selective mutism is, who it affects, and most importantly, how we can support these children in school.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I take you on a captivating journey into the world of play and its profound influence on child development. Discover how play serves as a potent catalyst, enhancing cognitive development, nurturing emotional regulation, cultivating social skills, promoting physical growth, and enriching language proficiency in our young minds. Join me as I share practical ideas for incorporating play-based learning into work or home, making this episode a must-listen for parents, teachers, and anyone passionate about fostering the holistic development of children and young people.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into the seemingly small yet immensely impactful aspect of classroom dynamics – seating arrangements. Discover how sensitive seating plans can make a monumental difference in a child's engagement, learning experience, and overall classroom success. I share practical insights and thought-provoking examples to highlight the significant role that thoughtful seating can play in unlocking a child's potential and fostering a positive learning environment.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore a range of ideas for building the confidence of anxious children in social situations. CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore the power of crying and how we can learn to embrace the physical and psychological act of crying if we’re someone who is used to locking our feelings and our tears away. Support the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into the world of assertiveness and share a treasure trove of practical tools to help children master this crucial skill. From role-playing activities that bring scenarios to life, to the powerful "I Statements" technique that fosters effective communication, I explore a toolkit designed to enhance kids' assertiveness.  We'll also uncover the significance of body language in assertive interactions and how self-advocacy and conflict resolution skills empower children to stand up for themselves.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into the fascinating world of children's behaviour. Discover why it's crucial to look beyond surface labels and understand the deeper emotions driving their actions. Join me as I explore the profound impact of our responses on a child's sense of safety and self-worth.  By the end of this episode, you'll gain valuable insights into how compassion and curiosity can transform your approach to children's behaviour, making their world a little brighter and safer.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I delve into empowering neurodivergent students with effective homework and study strategies. I guide you through embracing neurodiversity, providing clear instructions, and cultivating supportive learning environments.We also explore empowering self-advocacy, goal setting, task management, and self-regulation skills. Plus, I share tips on recognising students' strengths and nurturing their holistic success.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, we delve into the crucial topic of helping children express their anger constructively. Join me as I explore the importance of recognising anger, providing safe outlets, modelling healthy expression, and nurturing problem-solving skills. Discover valuable insights and practical strategies to support the emotional well-being of the children and young people in your care. CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore how we can help children to make friends that feel good and build a little tribe where they belong.  The ideas work well for adults too.  I hope it’s helpful. CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore simple suggestions to enable us to get active.  Being physically active is well proven to boost mood, but when we most need this boost are the times when it’s hardest to motivate ourselves.  These ideas should help and can be used either for yourself or to support a colleague or child.CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.com•               Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore how we can maintain a positive, loving, supportive relationship with a child who becomes emotionally distant or pushes us away.    CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:•               Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyh•               Newsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmith•               Website: https://www.pookyknightsmith.com•               YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyh•               TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmith•               Twitter: https://twitter.com/pookyh•               Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealth•               LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/•               Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore some simple phrases for taking conversations deeper.  These simple prompts can make a real difference whether you're supporting a child or an adult.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyhTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmithTwitter: https://twitter.com/pookyhFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealthLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyhWebsite: https://www.pookyknightsmith.comNewsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmithSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore whether we should always try to be bold and brave or whether sometimes it's simply okay to say no... CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyhTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmithTwitter: https://twitter.com/pookyhFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealthLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyhWebsite: https://www.pookyknightsmith.comNewsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmithSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore what flow is, how it can help with anxiety, low mood or overwhelm and how we can find our way to flow, or support a child to.  CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyhTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmithTwitter: https://twitter.com/pookyhFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealthLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyhWebsite: https://www.pookyknightsmith.comNewsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmithSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***

In this episode of the Pooky Ponders Podcast, I explore the power of language and how fairly simple changes to the way we talk about children can make a big change to how we think about and subsequently behave towards children. CONNECTYou can find me in the following places:Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/pookyhTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@pookyknightsmithTwitter: https://twitter.com/pookyhFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/PookyKnightsmithMentalHealthLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pooky/Podcast: https://pookyh.buzzsprout.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pookyhYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/pookyhWebsite: https://www.pookyknightsmith.comNewsletter: https://substack.com/profile/94569808-pooky-knightsmithSupport the show***If you’d like to support my work, you can do so by sharing my resources; by joining me on Patreon for £1 a month or by inviting me to speak at your setting or event.***