Life Is Love School

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo Have you found that you keep attracting narcissists? Narcissists make awful partners, so why do some people get entangled with narcissists over and over again?  In this video, I cover four reasons why this keeps happening and how to repel them for good.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschool Do you have someone in your life whom you love and care deeply for, but being with them makes you miserable? You can't help but wish you could make them change.  If the answer is yes, today's episode is for you.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschool "My partner puts me down, and I don't know why." Is this your reality? If so, you need to know what's behind your partner's belittling behavior and how to deal with it. In this video, I explain the psychology behind why your partner belittles you and, more importantly, what you need to do to protect yourself. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo Being lucky in love isn’t like being struck by lightning — it’s a lot less random (and painful) than we think. So what's the secret? In this episode, I cover the 5 mindsets that people who are lucky in love all hold so you can use them to supercharge your love life. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo If your attachment style is Anxiously Attached, dating is often far from fun. Waiting for text messages, confirming plans, and not knowing where the relationship is going could all trigger deep-seated fear of abandonment and not being good enough.  Besides being stress-inducing, not knowing how to date well means that you can find yourself yet again in a relationship where your needs are not fulfilled.  But it doesn't have to be like this; dating can be light, fun, and you can find someone to build a healthy, mutually supportive relationship with.  In this episode, I cover 3 crucial mindsets to have if you want to date well as someone who is Anxiously Attached. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo Do you tend to choose partners that don't want as much intimacy as you or the reverse? Are you tired of drama-filled, push-pull relationships? I hear you. Relationships with insecure partners are difficult because of their unpredictability. If you feel like you're always chasing a partner or being chased, you might be caught in the "anxious-avoidant trap." If you want to learn how to break the chase-run cycle to have a more fulfilling relationship with your partner, this episode is for you. I go through how the cycle starts and what you can do to direct the relationship to a healthy path. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo People often ask me what they can do to stop feeling insecure and improve their confidence. But the curious thing is… Self-confidence is more about what you should stop doing than what you need to do. In this episode, I cover 6 things you want to avoid doing if you want to be confident. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo Emotional trauma, whether it's abuse or a painful event, can leave you struggling with difficult emotions, memories, and flashbacks that won't go away.  If you suffered trauma, it is understandable that you wish to feel better as soon as possible? Luckily, some mindsets can help you speed up recovery, and I cover some of the key ones in this episode. Stages of Change Poem: https://simpleandpractical.com/stages-change-poem/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo Because of deep-seated insecurity from their past, Anxiously Attached people often can behave in ways that seem desperate, insecure, demanding, possessive, jealous, or controlling toward their partner.   They want their partner's love and approval more than anything, yet their behavior often pushes people away. In this episode, I cover the most common harmful behaviors that Anxiously Attached people do that hurt their relationships and what you can do instead. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschoo Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental health disorder that affects roughly 1.5% of the population. It impacts the way people think and feel about themselves and those around them. Sufferers often exhibit extreme mood swings, fear of abandonment, self-image issues, and a pattern of unstable relationships. In this episode, I cover 8 common symptoms of BPD. I respond to every comment, so drop a comment; I'm always interested to know what you find most helpful! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Social Media: https://linktr.ee/lifeisloveschool In relationships, do you oscillate between anxious behaviors like clinginess, jealousy, and keeping score and avoidant behaviors such as withdrawing and ghosting?   People with a fearful-avoidant attachment style tend to have either tumultuous relationships filled with ups and downs or very tenuous, distant ones that lack real intimacy or commitment.    If you feel like this might be you, this episode is for you. I  share 3 signs to help you ascertain if you might have the Fearful-Avoidant attachment style and, more importantly, how to move towards Secure. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO The Fearful-Avoidant attachment style is rare; only about 2% of people have this as their predominant attachment style.    This style combines the worst features of the Anxious and Dismissive-Avoidant attachment styles and leads to confusing and contradictory behavior in relationships.  You desperately want love, and yet you are also terrified of intimacy.  In relationships, you flip-flop, run hot and cold, and you never can relax because you never feel safe.   If this is you, this episode is for you. The good news is, just like any other insecure attachment style, you can heal, and you can move towards Secure Attachment. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO The fearful-avoidant attachment style is both the rarest and least understood form of attachment style.  This attachment style is generally born out of trauma and is a combination of the preoccupied and dismissive-avoidant styles of insecure attachment. This episode covers how a fearful-avoidant person sees herself, her worldview, how she shows up in relationships, and why. Depending on viewer interest, I am happy to do follow-up videos on 1) how to heal from this attachment style and 2) how to manage relationships with someone who has this attachment style. If you are interested in either topic, drop a comment on YouTube and let me know your preference (it's okay to choose both!). Comment Here >>> https://www.youtube.com/c/LifeIsLoveSchool/videos As always, if you would like to accelerate your healing journey, joined me in the TRIBE membership group. In TRIBE, you can ask questions specific to your situation and join us on live calls to interact with the community and me.  If you tend to feel stuck, unsure if you're making the right choice, I think you will benefit a lot from TRIBE. You will be supported by not just me, but an entire community of smart, empowered, and compassionate women. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Is there someone in your life that drains your energy every time you spend time with them, but you have trouble letting them go? Maybe it's a family member, a friend you've known for a long time, or an ex.  No matter who they are, part of you resents them for not respecting you, your time, and your space, yet you are not ready to completely cut off contact for a variety of often very good reasons. Many people who cannot go no contact with a toxic person choose low contact instead. Doing low contact well is not easy. In fact, it is often harder than no contact because it requires you to still interface with this toxic person and be mentally strong against their onslaughts, whether it's passive-aggressive behaviors or their attempts to guilt-trip you.  In this episode, I share three key strategies to help you manage low contact like a pro.  This discussion initially came up in our women-only TRIBE membership group. In TRIBE, members bring up issues that trouble them, and we have in-depth discussions to help them think through options, see multiple perspectives, and pick the best path forward. If you tend to feel stuck, unsure if you're making the right choice, I think you will benefit a lot from TRIBE membership. You will be supported by not just me, but an entire community of smart, empowered, and compassionate women.  See you on the inside! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Have you been in a relationship for a while, but it doesn’t seem to be progressing toward marriage?    In this episode, I cover some of the most common reasons people bring up for not marrying you: these reasons are almost always hiding something deeper and what you can do to get to the truth so you can make the right decision for yourself. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO If you've been dating for a while, the topic of whether to move in together will come up. Close to 70% of people cohabitate before marriage, and the number has been rising over the years because people are waiting to marry and rising housing prices.    Some people see living together as a trial for marriage, while others see it as a matter of "why not" when living together confers conveniences and cost savings.    What's interesting is that research shows that divorce rates are higher post the one-year mark for people who cohabitated prior to marriage, and marital quality is lower among those who started living together before engagement or marriage too.    Why is this the case when intuitively, it would seem the opposite should be true?   If you're interested in finding out, check out this episode. I also cover some of the oft-overlooked issues of living together that people forget to consider before calling the moving company. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO If you have the anxious attachment style, there's a high chance that you could misread your partner's behavior as a sign of abandonment. You get into a vicious cycle in which you have fear and anxiety around loss, make attempts to keep that loved one(s) close, but these attempts make the person want to distance from you, and your fear around loss is confirmed. If this describes your relationship dynamic, this episode is for you. You'll learn how to skillfully manage abandonment triggers and communicate your needs, so conflicts become an opportunity to bring your partner closer to you instead of driving them away. Relationships can be challenging if you have insecure attachment styles, but there's no reason to struggle alone! Join me and fellow women inside TRIBE, where we have discussions on love, boundaries, and how to handle tricky relationship issues. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Are you dating someone with low self-esteem? We all know that people who have low self-esteem suffer from feeling unlovable and not good enough, but being in a relationship with someone with low self-worth poses unique challenges as well. Do you know what they are and why? If you're curious to learn more, this video is for you. On this note...if you want 2022 to be the year where you make major breakthroughs in relationships, consider joining us inside TRIBE, our women-only membership program. In TRIBE, you'll not only get my coaching through live zoom calls and digital courses, but you'll also get amazing support through the community of TRIBERS who are also on the growth journey. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO Is there someone you care about that's stuck in a toxic relationship and can't seem to leave?   Maybe they left then went back, and this back and forth happened repeatedly over the years. You're doing your best to be supportive; you're there to listen to their complaints, to affirm their worth, and to validate that, yes, they are not overreacting.   One day, they seemed to finally "get it." The two of you excitedly hatched a plan for them to leave and build a new life.   You are relieved that their nightmare is finally over. But your hope is short-lived. Right before your eyes, in the not-so-distant future, they do a 180 and choose to stay.   They now claim that the relationship isn't as bad as it sounds and that "maybe I should take some blame too." They might even stop talking to you because you know too much. You're left wondering what's going on — why are they so stuck when leaving is the obvious choice? The psychology behind this baffling phenomenon is more complex than it looks. Learning what it is can help you support this person you care about better and, at a minimum, alleviate some of your frustrations towards their behavior when they don't leave.   This episode covers why people get "stuck" in toxic relationships and the key to getting free.   If you know someone feeling stuck, please share the video with them so they know they are not alone in dealing with these feelings. It will also help them understand that they can feel these feelings and still choose to leave when they are ready. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support

TRIBE Women-Only Membership Program: https://bit.ly/Anchor2TRIBE Free Self-Love PDF: https://bit.ly/Anchor22xOTO If you've just left a toxic relationship but are struggling emotionally, you are not alone.  Many survivors of toxic relationships are baffled why they still miss their ex when the relationship brought them so much pain. "What is wrong with me?" is a common refrain, often said with much self-blame. In this episode, I explain why euphoric recall, or the selective remembering of only the good, is a normal and expected part of detaching from a toxic relationship.  I also give you several tips to help you stay calm and strong during this critical period.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/life-is-love-school/support