We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Are you constantly chasing the next achievement, but still feel like it's never enough? Do you know deep down that "high-achieving" hustle is actually wearing you out? I’m kicking off the New Year, and I'm ready for more! But not more doing—more being. In this first episode of 2026, I'm peeling back the layers on how we, as high-achieving women, often confuse our drive with a deep-seated trauma response. That perfectionism? It's a mask. That performance-based identity? It's a stronghold, and we are dismantling it today!  I’m sharing my personal journey and the truth I had to face: "High achieving is often a trauma response."  This year, we are Trading Trauma Response for Trust! It's time to surrender control, trust God.  Key Takeaways: Why high achievement can be a coping mechanism. The power in surrendering control and choosing trust. Practical ways to align your ambition with your faith. The antidote to the "perfectionism prism." Let's stop performing and start living on purpose! Share your biggest takeaway—or even your 'more' journey—and tag me @biancajuarezofficial, so I can cheer you on and witness the fire God is setting in your life!  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Song Happily Hidden by Pat Barrett https://open.spotify.com/track/1KSbEDEuafGfz2fuioe5uK?si=b005de5b22584080 ⋇ Bianca’s book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering FIFTY PERCENT OFF and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life!! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW ⋇ Visit biancajuarezofficial.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/  ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/PtWcDejHlf0 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered what truly drives your decisions and actions? What if understanding your core values could unlock a more fulfilling life? In today’s final episode of the Personal Growth Series, we delve into the transformative power of core values and how they can guide you towards purpose and self-discovery.  DeAnza Jarrett and I explore the journey of identifying, applying, and reevaluating your core values for personal growth and stronger relationships. Core values are the fundamental beliefs that shape who we are and how we live. Understanding your core values is crucial, not just for personal fulfillment, but also for building strong relationships and achieving professional success. Don’t forget: Understanding your core values is a lifelong journey of self-discovery Living in alignment with your values leads to greater authenticity and fulfillment Core values impact all areas of your life, from personal relationships to professional success Regularly re-evaluating your values is essential for growth and adaptation Your values can serve as a powerful compass for decision-making Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group. What are YOUR core values? Take some time this week to reflect on what truly matters to you. Share your insights by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Takeaways Core values are essential for guiding decisions and actions. Identifying core values can lead to greater self-awareness. Core values inform priorities, not the other way around. Having a clear vision for the future is crucial for personal growth. Core values can help establish necessary boundaries in relationships. It's important to honor and respect each other's core values. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: [email protected], Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ YouTube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you running on empty? Like you're giving so much but have nothing left for yourself? What if there was a way to truly refuel and find balance in life? Join my friend DeAnza Jarrett and I for Day 2 of the Personal Growth series as we discuss the essential concept of replenishment – what it is, why it matters, and how to make it a regular part of your life. What I want is for you to walk away understanding the vital concept of replenishment and its profound impact on our overall well-being. Guess what friend… replenishment is not a luxury, it is a necessity for thriving.  This episode is jam packed with actionable steps and practical handles to help you: Understand the replenishment cycle and its relevance to different life stages Identify and prioritize replenishment activities across all areas of well-being (physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual) Acquire Biblical insights on the importance of rest, restoration, and balance Gain strategies for integrating replenishment into daily routines and overcoming common obstacles Recognize the difference between superficial self-care and deep, meaningful replenishment Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group. Join the conversation! Share your own replenishment strategies and experiences by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial. What are your go-to activities for recharging your mind, body, and spirit? Love, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Free Harvard Courses https://pll.harvard.edu/catalog/free?page=5  Takeaways Identify where you're at before trying to fix it. Replenishment is not just about self-care; it's about refueling all areas of life. Disciplines are different from replenishment; both are necessary. Replenishment can take on different cadences: daily, weekly, quarterly, and annually. Integrate replenishment into your life, even in busy stages. Invite others into your replenishment activities when possible. Make replenishment a priority to avoid burnout. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7EE2jkNEz4NYAuBLViNnEf  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: [email protected], Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ YouTube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're wandering aimlessly, unsure of your next step? Feeling stuck in neutral, with no idea how to shift gears? Do you get that sense of being on a path, but not knowing where it leads? I invite you to tune in to this 3-day series on Personal Growth to help you navigate life's pivots and gain clarity through life planning.  I am joined by my friend DeAnza Jarrett from the Paterson Group to discuss the challenges faced during pivotal moments in life. Our conversation emphasizes the powerful concepts of personal restoration, rediscovering your identity, and the transformative potential of structured life planning. We explore how pivotal life moments can often leave us feeling lost and adrift, and how the right framework can provide the clarity and direction we crave.  One powerful tool that DeAnza shares with us is the Four Helpful Lists: What is Right What is Wrong What is Confused What is Missing Follow this link: http://www.patersongroup.com/bianca to get access to all of the FREE resources provided by the Paterson Group.  We hope this episode empowers you to take control of your journey and create a life filled with purpose and intention. What pivotal moment in your life has shaped who you are today? Share your thoughts by tagging me on social media @biancajuarezofficial.  Don’t forget to subscribe to We’re Going There podcast on your favorite platform for more insightful conversations on personal growth and development! Love you friends! B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest DeAnza Jarrett, Vice President, The Paterson Group https://www.patersongroup.com/bianca  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/paterson-center/ Takeaways You don't have to navigate life's challenges alone. Restoration requires intentional planning and support. Understanding your identity is crucial during pivot points. Perspective is essential before making any plans. The four helpful lists can clarify your current situation. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7EE2jkNEz4NYAuBLViNnEf  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: [email protected], Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like your leadership journey was more about enduring pain than achieving success? In this sneak peek of a leadership development session held at Revere Church, I explore the challenges and pain often associated with leadership. It emphasizes that pain can be a catalyst for growth and the importance of developing healthy coping mechanisms. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like David, the session highlights finding strength in faith and building a supportive community. My focus is to encourage everyone to embrace their leadership journey, acknowledging pain, and seeking growth through faith and connection with others. Some key topics include: The role of community during crises Pursuing purpose amidst pain Addressing personal pain The value of trust Balancing discipleship with individual beliefs The impact of presence Finding God's guidance during difficult times can bring peace and help overcome the fear of pain and of having to prove yourself to others. Carefully consider the cost of discipleship, but also know that the rewards of faithfulness are always worth the challenges.  Share your challenges and also your victories by tagging me @biancajuarezofficial. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Leadership Pain: The Classroom for Growth by Samuel Chand https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Pain-Classroom-Samuel-Chand/dp/0718031598  Leading Through Pain | Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast Quote Your vision must push you past your pain. Takeaways Leading through pain is possible and necessary. You are qualified to lead if you show up. Pain is an integral part of growth and leadership. Sacrifice is essential for effective leadership. Your threshold of pain determines your growth potential. Strengthening oneself in the Lord is crucial during tough times. Coping mechanisms can be healthy or unhealthy; identify yours. Building a supportive community is vital for leadership. Vision must be strong enough to push through pain. Change occurs when desire outweighs fear.   The people of God are essential during crises. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here https://convoyofhope.org/bianca/  ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC  ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/gdq  ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! We’re Going There is sponsored by HomeChef - For a limited time, HomeChef is offering my listeners 18 Free Meals PLUS Free Dessert for Life and of course, Free Shipping on your first box! Go to HomeChef.com/GOINGTHERE.  Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef We're Going There is sponsored by BetterHelp - Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off your first month. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-going-there-with-bianca-juarez-olthoff/id1529509063?uo=4  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RpqUTDQWWKDHt1yLQlMKW  ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/resources  ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. https://www.biancaolthoff.com/  ⋇ WGT email: [email protected] ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: [email protected], Spotify: “R.A.D.” ⋇ Youtube: https://youtu.be/RL0c1i1ZHwM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices