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In the final installment of this 3 part series, I sit down with Marcel and Alicia to get the low down on how they repaired their marriage and learned more about themselves in the process.  Forgiveness after infidelity may not work for every relationship, but for this couple,  it brought them closer together. Out of respect for his marriage, Marcel is no longer on social media, but you can follow Alicia on Instagram: @alicia_maria83You can also find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: wakeupyourpassion.comEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 
In part 2 of our unexpected 3 part series, Marcel shares his perspective on how love and loyalty drifted to infidelity and regret.  Marcel candidly describes the contributing factors that led him to cheat, as well as the drastic yet necessary measures he took to keep his marriage together (and thriving). In part 3, I sit down with Marcel and Alicia to get the real deal of how they repaired their marriage and if their love is still going strong today. I hope you stay tuned for  part 3!Out of respect for his marriage, Marcel is no longer on social media. You can contact Alicia on Instagram: @alicia_maria83You can also find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: flow.page/wakeupelsieEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 
I strongly believe, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger," and the same can be said for my beautiful guest Alicia.  She is a mom of 3 teenagers, overcame infidelity after 18 years of marriage, and is a breast cancer survivor.  In part 1 of this unexpected 3 part series, Alicia shares her journey of falling in love, motherhood, cancer, and forgiveness after infidelity. In part 2, we'll hear her husband's side of the story. And in part 3, I'll sit down with the both of them and get the real deal of how they kept their marriage together. Their story is beyond powerful! I hope you tune in to all 3 parts! You can contact Alicia...On Instagram: @alicia_maria83You can also find me...On Instagram, Clubhouse, Tiktok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: flow.page/wakeupelsieEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 
In this episode I talk with Tamisha, a podcaster, singer/songwriter, spiritual coach,  entrepreneur, and Vibe Queen! Tamisha shares her story of separation, self-discovery, spiritual awakening.  I was incredibly honored to have Tamisha share her story for the first time on my podcast.   If you're on a spiritual journey, or if you're feeling lost after after infidelity and separation, this is a great episode for you!You can contact Tamisha...On Instagram: @vibequeenmusic and @vibetalkawakenHer Website:  www.vibequeenmusic.comOr Her Coaching Page: www.bit.ly/MAPconsultationYou can also find me...On Instagram, Clubhouse, Tiktok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: flow.page/wakeupelsieEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 
In this episode I talk with Katharine, a blogger, social media influencer, and married mom of two.  Katharine shares how she discovered her husband's infidelity shortly  after the birth of their first child, and two days after their 1 year wedding anniversary.  Katharine's story of family obligation, transparency,  post-partum depression, and acceptance is truly inspiring. I hope you take a moment to listen to her story. You can follow Katharine's  journey...On Instagram/Clubhouse/all Social Media: @thebearessBlog: thebearess.comYou can also find me...On Instagram/Clubhouse/ TikTok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comMusic Produced by Deshawn Sinclair
Last week I was blessed with the opportunity to share my story of love, betrayal, forgiveness, and growth on Full Circle Radio with Ms. Wanda. She is such an amazing human and friend, and she's passionate about lifting women up through her podcast and radio show. Download episodes of Ms. Wanda's Full Circle Radio wherever you listen to podcasts, or check out Full Circle Radio LIVE every Saturday on 97.5fm (Sacramento).  You can also follow Ms. Wanda on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/full_circle97.5/You can also find me...On Instagram, Clubhouse, and TikTok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.com
In this episode I talk with Tracy, a married mom of four.  Tracy shares her story of emotional betrayal after 15 years with her husband. Tracy sheds light on the multiple layers of betrayal and forgiveness. Cheating is not black and white, and what you choose to do after cheating is completely up to you.   Tracy's story of marriage, trust, and healing is truly powerful. I hope you're inspired by her honest perspective!   You can follow Tracy's  journey...On Instagram: @infidelityandhealingYou can also find me...On Instagram, Clubhouse, and TikTok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comMusic Produced by Deshawn Sinclair
In this episode I talk with Elizabeth, a single mom from Little Rock, Arkansas.  Elizabeth explains how her experiences with infidelity drove her to work on herself, put her needs and wants first, and strengthen her ability to talk candidly about her failed relationships.  Elizabeth's story is one of love, betrayal, confusion, and reinvention. I hope you're inspired by her honest perspective!   You can follow Elizabeth's  journey...On Instagram: @lizzy_beeeYou can also find me...On Instagram, Clubhouse, and TikTok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comMusic Produced by Deshawn Sinclair
It's been a year since Joe cheated.  Here's an update of my life since we last talked.  New job...new perspective...new opportunities! Let's Connect and Collaborate...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wakeupelsie/Clubhouse: Elsie Bobo @wakeupelsieCoaching: https://www.wakeupyourpassion.com/Music Produced By: Deshawn Sinclair
It's just you and I today! I want to invite you to see things a little differently. To guard your heart, open your mind, and welcome a new way of thinking. What if we defined cheating differently? Not normalizing it, not excusing it, just changing our interpretation of it. What if we stopped blaming ourselves and refused to take cheating personally?  What if we changed the language? Instead of saying THEY cheated on ME...switching it to THEY cheated on THEMSELVES.We're not changing the act of cheating. We're not trying to make it better or worse. We're simply giving ourselves power in the interpretation. By taking away our personal attachment to the act, we're able to look at the situation more objectively. Cheating has MORE to do with THEM and LESS to do with YOU!You can find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"On Clubhouse: @elsieboboOr my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR
In this episode I talk with my dear friend Sedalia.  She is a mother of 6, a fitness lover, and a survivor of a brain aneurysm! After Joe and I broke up, Sedalia was the first person to share her story of infidelity and forgiveness with me. She was a listening ear whenever I needed to vent, she offered me advice with no judgement or criticism, and she answered so many of my random questions. Before I heard Sedalia's story, I thought a strong woman would leave her husband (no questions asked) if he ever cheated. I thought it was weak to stay. She showed me the power of forgiveness and second chances only if the person who cheated was willing to own their actions and change their ways. Sedalia is a force to be reckoned with! You can follow Sedalia's  journey...On Instagram: @perfectonelifeYou can also find me...On Instagram or TikTok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"On Clubhouse: @elsieboboOr my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR
In this episode I talk with Lauren, a podcaster, mindset coach, and entrepreneur on the rise! Lauren shares her unique story of finding love, asking for an open relationship, falling in love with someone else, and then marrying the man of her dreams.  Her experience is far from traditional, but that is what makes it powerful.  If you're looking for a modern alternative to the typical relationship, this episode is a must listen! You can follow Lauren's journey...On Instagram: @laurenmkeplerHer Podcast: https://laurenkepler.podbean.com/Or Her Coaching Page: https://www.laurenkepler.com/You can also find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR
In this episode I talk with Simon Ravona, a trained mediator, lawyer, negotiator, and divorce coach. Simon helps clients (including myself) manage the realities of relationships, break ups, and divorce by creating a life of purpose and meaning. For today's conversation, Simon and I talk about the top reasons for couples to break up, the differences between coaching and therapy, what keeps couples together, and his top tips for making relationships work.  If you are in a relationship, thinking about divorce, or plan on dating in the near future, this episode is a must listen! You can find Simon...On Instagram: @Divorce_WisdomBy Email: simon@catalyticcoaching.coOr his Coaching Page: www.catalyticcoaching.coYou can also find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn TikTok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.com
In this episode, I talk with Mary, a former bikini competitor, grandmother of 2,  and one of my dearest friends.  Mary explains how the loss of her unborn son resulted in infidelity and divorce from her husband of 5 years (15 years together). She also shares her uncharacteristic method of coping, and what she wishes she would have done differently. Mary's story is one of heartbreak, loss, and reinvention. I hope you're inspired by her journey!   You can follow Mary's  journey...On Instagram: @fab_over_50_mcYou can also find me...On Instagram or TikTok: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.com
In this episode, I talk with the brilliant Japji, an interdisciplinary qualitative researcher, a playful yogi, a poet, a dancefloor mama, a mom of two, and a Ph.D!  Japji shares her powerful story of allowance, betrayal, and finding the strength to leave an unhealthy relationship with her two young sons. She also opens up about learning to trust again with someone new. You can follow Japji's journey...On Instagram: @wordmamawordOr Coaching Page: www.flourishwellbeingsass.comYou can also find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR
I didn't think we'd make it to this day. I didn't think we'd have anything to celebrate. I didn't think we'd still be married. Our story is far from perfect. Joe and I are a tragic example of what happens when two people become disconnected and fall apart. We’re also proof of what’s possible when two people focus on reconnecting, communicating, and becoming more present. This year wasn't our best...but we're still here...together. Cheers to many more years of figuring out life and love.  Follow my Journey...Instagram: @wakeupelsie and @wakeuporbreakupYouTube: www.youtube.com/wakeuporbreakupCoaching: www.wakeupyourpassion.comMusic Produced By: Deshawn Sinclair
In this episode, I talk with Ashley, a mother of 6 and mompreneur on the rise.  Ashley explains  how her experience with young love and betrayal helped her redefine her idea of "happily ever after." Ashley also shares how trusting God's timing for her life helped her heal her wounded heart and find love again.  If you're looking for inspiration or clarity in your personal love life, this episode is a must listen! You can follow Ashley's journey...On Instagram: @ashleys_point_of_viewHer Mommy Squad IG: @conqueringmotherhood2getherOr on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCESCpyTKR5nhzxYCESM3s7AYou can also find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comEPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR
In this episode, I talk with my dear friend Destiny about her on again off again love story with the father of her daughter.  She shares how his initial acts of cheating and dishonesty led to her engaging in her own acts of infidelity. She's not proud of the direction her relationship took, but she OWNS and ACCEPTS what happened between them as a necessary part of their love story and personal growth.  Destiny is a mother of one, a podcast host, a master waxer, entrepreneur, and body positivity BOSS BABE!  You can follow her on instagram @destinedtoinspire or check out her business @the_smoothsecret, and listen to her podcast on Spotify "Taboo Talks with Destiny"!You can also find me...On Instagram: @wakeupelsieOn Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.comMUSIC BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR
Prior to getting cheated on, I thought I only had ONE OPTION if someone ever cheated on me,  and that was divorce.  After reading the stories of strangers and friends who had been cheated on, I quickly realized there were multiple possibilities.  There were stories of making things work,  walking away, seeking revenge,  and starting over.  Although the circumstances were similar, the end results were different. There was no rhyme or reason to why people chose what they did. They simply chose what they thought was best.  For Season 2, and maybe for the entirety of this podcast,  I want to normalize the concept of possibility and choice for life after infidelity.  Whether someone decides to stay, walk away, find someone new, or swear off relationships forever,  I want to celebrate the power of the journey and not just the outcome. If you have a powerful story of infidelity or know of someone who does, please email me at wakeupelsie@gmail.com. I'd love to have you on a future podcast! And please know, these interviews are totally open to people who were cheated on, who did the cheating, or someone who was involved as the "other person." I want to represent the full spectrum of the human perspective. I hope you'll follow my personal journey on Instagram at @wakeupelsie and check out my coaching page at www.wakeupyourpassion.com.Cheers to a Season of New Beginnings!
It's not easy talking about the past...especially when it involves hurting someone you love. Here's part 2 of my question and answer session with Joe.Follow our Journey...Instagram: @wakeupelsie, @giant_asianYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wakeuporbreakupCoaching: https://www.wakeupyourpassion.com/
Comments (1)

Annie Felx-Frankfurth

it's nice he gave you space. I did not get that. I was pressured by him to hurry into a decision

Dec 4th
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