Show Up With Christine Chang

We often want others to be accountable when dating, but are YOU being accountable? Do you take charge and show up in an effective manner, or are you constantly blaming other people + modern dating culture? Have you been guilty of saying things like, “no one wants to commit” or “I hate online dating”?!On-air host Yue Xu is on the podcast and is the dating BFF you didn’t know you needed. During our conversation, we talk about:A healthy approach to online datingHow to be “normal” when dating. i.e. when is a good time to call someone after a good date?Healing from infidelityDating the “spiritually enlightened” personWhy love languages and attachment styles are BSYue Xu’s website: https://www.yuexu.com/Yue Xu’s Instagram: @nonplatonic🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Are you codependent? Do you want to feel safe and feel liberated in love? Mark Groves talks about his new book Liberated Love, written alongside his wife Kylie McBeath. Mark is an old friend of mine, so during the conversation we also have silly talk about:Mid-life crisis and Life in your FortiesBotox, Lip injections, Butt ImplantsHow Religion can make people do weird thingsLeaving Social MediaNarcissism and Men out of integrityMark & Kylie’s book Liberated Love is available for purchase at all major book dealers. Mark Groves Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@markgroves🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Do you have to be Asian to hire an Asian matchmaker? May Bugenhagen, AKA “Matchmaker May,” introduces men of all ethnicities to Asian women. If you have ever been curious about hiring a matchmaker, in this episode May talks about what it’s like to work with her. We also talk about her personal love life (she got married in her forties), love languages, dating etiquette, and what to look for in a long term partner.May Bugenhagen’s Instagram, FB, & Tiktok: @matchmakermayMay Bugenhagen’s Matchmaking website: https://twoasianmatchmakers.com/🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” Strong Coffee Company: Use code CHRISTINECHANG for 15% off. 

Kevin Kreider is back on the podcast to give an update on his love life and career in Asian Entertainment. Last time Kevin came on the podcast two years ago, he was single and had just finished season one of Bling Empire. Now he is in a long-term relationship with an old girlfriend Devon - a romance rekindled after Kevin became sober. Kevin Kreider & Christine Chang talk about love, business, and the Asian Entertainment scene. They discuss:Learning to be in relationship when you’ve been single for a long timeBoundaries when you work with you romantic partnerAlcoholism, getting sober, and the 12 step programAre Asians prejudice against good looking people?Kevin Kreider's Instagram: @kevin.kreider🛎 Subscribe to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” Strong Coffee Company: Use code CHRISTINECHANG for 15% off. 

Entrepreneur Aliscia Brorman shares her story of growing up in foster care and how it has impacted her intimate relationships. *Warning: This episode may contain triggers of sexual abuse and abandonment.During the conversation we talk about:Healing childhood trauma and healing an addiction to chaosDistracting ourselves through accomplishmentCreating a persona based on survivalLearning self love before helping othersWe also talk about giving back to foster youth (something I am very passionate about)! To get involved with Foster Love: https://www.fosterlove.com/Aliscia Brorman's Instagram: @the.ali.vue🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco Strong Coffee Company: Use code CHRISTINE CHANG for 15% off. My personal favorite flavor is Cacao. :)

Jules Aurora and Christine Chang have girl-talk about breakups + what they have learned so far in relationships. Jules had a public relationship that ended earlier this year. She shares what she has done on her healing journey, including writing music to share what’s on her heart. I think everyone can agree that breakups are NOT fun! We talk about:- Healing our relationship patterns- The pressure of perfectionism in a public relationship- How to know your dreams are on the way. :)Jules Aurora’s Instagram: @julesauroraJules Aurora’s website: https://www.julesaurora.com/🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Savior Complex: A need to save others, often neglecting your own needs in the process. Do you have Savior Complex? Kat Shelton shares the story of having a “wake up” moment to truly begin taking care of herself after she realized she was completely ignoring her own needs. Her healing journey began with her physical body - healing from a chronic auto-immune disease, and then moved to emotional and spiritual healing (since everything is connected, anyway)! After arriving at a point where she felt healthy and clear, she opened herself to love and met her partner Eben.During this conversation, we discuss: - Healing the physical body from a chronic auto-immune disease - The importance of community on your personal growth journey - How to heal from Savior Complex in order to create a healthy relationship - What to look out for if you are dating someone who is still healing from a previous relationship. Kat Shelton’s Instagram: @beloved.body 🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Do you ever feel like you are too independent to be married? Do you feel like you might intimidate men? Michelle Wong is the Chief Marketing Officer of Sprinkles Cupcakes. She is a fiercely independent, high performing, C-suite executive who travels 50% of the year, and, she's been happily married for 17 years.In this episode we talk about how to be independent while also in a relationship. She talks about flowing through marriage with her husband Dave, living in abundance, and staying unapologetically true to you.Michelle Wong's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michimichibee/🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Author & Comedian Kelsey Chittick is back on the podcast. Last time she came on the show two years ago, she had just finished her book Second Life, a book about healing after her husband suddenly died. Now Kelsey is dating and loving life again! We talk about: Dating in your fortiesHow to find new friendsHow to feel like you’re on drugs all the time, without taking drugsLearning about yourself through sexKelsey Chittick’s website: https://kelseychittick.com/Kelsey Chittick’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelseydchittick/🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

What is masculinity in today’s world? Eben Britton is an Ex-NFL Athlete turned yogi. He is a conscious Alpha man, so I asked him to come on the show so I could ask him some questions about masculinity. We discuss:The history of masculinity and mens' “role”Traits of a masculine manThe negative impact of pornographyHealing the mother woundCheating, lust, and infidelityEben Britton is Author of the Eben Flow, and host of the Eben Flow Podcast. Eben Britton’s Instagram: @edsbritton Eben Britton’s website: https://www.ebenbritton.com🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

If you want to hear a joyful man talk about his consciousness journey, this episode is for you. Joe Fauria is a former NFL player turned wellness entrepreneur. He specializes in facilitating breathwork and is co-founder of Hello Wellness Retreats. Joe, aka “Big Joe,” normally talks about his time in the NFL in interviews, so I’m happy we get to talk about other fun topics like wellness and relationships!In this episode we discuss:The benefits of Breathwork, Ice baths, and psychedelics.Dating in your twenties vs. Dating when you’re older.Emotionally-unavailable men vs. Men who simply do not want a relationship (yup, it's different). Big Joe Fauria’s Instagram: @bigjoe🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

How do we move through life with more ease? I talk to Dr. Neeta Bhushan today about how to get through the sucky moments in life. We talk about growing up with immigrant parents, healing, building resilience, and self-acceptance. Her fourth book, "That Sucked Now What?" gives detailed framework on how to re-direct your life when you feel like you're falling. Neeta Bhushan's Instagram: @neetabhushanNeeta Bhushan's website: www.neetabhushan.com🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

What kind of partners do rich girls choose? Comedian Shining is on the podcast. We talk about growing up wealthy and how that can impact relationships. I love this conversation because money is something that should be normally talked about. In this candid episode, we chat about:What character traits to look for in a partner if you are an opinionated woman The downside to choosing a really rich guyCharacter versus Lifestyle - which is more important for long term happiness?Shining on Instagram & TikTok: @shiningluvsmile🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Yuri Sinata is a beauty influencer and single mom. She grew up in Indonesia and was raised in a way that caused her from a young age, to view the world in survival mode. In this episode we talk about her first marriage, co-parenting, and now, dating again. We also discuss:- Learning about yourself after divorce- Toxic masculinity and toxic feminism- How your previous partners shape what you prioritize in relationshipsYuri Sinata's Instagram: @yurisinata🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Lee-Michael Pronko is a single guy who created a dating app based on the challenges he experienced with traditional online dating. He is co-founder of Heartstring Dating App -  a new thoughtful and efficient way of dating that includes video, and your friends pitching you!In this episode we talk not only about the app and modern dating, but Lee’s own experience with dating as a single parent, co-parenting, and what he’s learning. Lee-Michael Pronko’s Instagram: @itsmelmpHeartstring Dating App’s Instagram: @heartstringdating🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco ❤️ Stop wasting time and identify your right partner. Get my FREE PDF!📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

In this episode I discuss two signs that show you are truly READY to create the relationship of your dreams and call in your soulmate/life partner.🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” ❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/

If you are dating and into personal growth, chances are you want to find a partner who is into personal growth too. In this solo episode I talk about the downside of choosing someone who is into personal growth. The key is BALANCE. 🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco ❤️ Stop wasting time and identify your right partner. Get my FREE PDF!📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Nobody looks forward to having to reject or break up with someone. Is there an actual nice way to do it? What if you only went on one date - is it necessary to pick up the phone? Is a text enough? I discuss it in this solo episode!🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco ❤️ Stop wasting time and identify your right partner. Get my FREE PDF!📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 

Are you truly OPEN to creating the relationship of your dreams? Hint: It might not look like what you think it will look like! In order to date well, you have to be OPEN. In this episode I share two examples of guys I went out with when I was dating. One was the BEST DATE EVER! 📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!” 🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/

Los Angeles Artist Ruben Rojas is on the podcast. We talk about the (often uncomfortable) emotions that come with life transitions, including changing careers, getting married, and having kids. How do we shift our mindset so that it's easier? We also dive into: Why it's important to STAY OPEN when datingWhat men want to feel in a relationshipBalancing masculine/feminine energy, especially for boss babesRuben Rojas’ Instagram: @rubenrojas 🛎 Subscribe and hit the bell to watch my recordings on Youtube (if you're visual)! https://www.youtube.com/c/cyschang❓ Got a question? Send me a message on Instagram!: @cchangandco 📩 Get my BEST life advice & no-fluff relationship tactics from me straight to your inbox: http://christinechang.com/newsletter-page/📘 Create the relationships of your dreams with my Best-Selling book, “Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women!”