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One of the greatest battles we as Christians fight today is that against pornography. Our youth are becoming exposed at younger and younger ages. Marriages are ending in divorce and heartache. Men and women alike are becoming more and more estranged from God and the only way to freedom is to let Christ into our lives. But what is it that keeps us from letting Christ in? I believe more often than not it is shame. You have a dirty house and you want to straighten it up before you have such an important guest over. Little do you know the reason he came to your house in the first place is to clean. This podcast explores the ways we can let Christ into our lives and allow His grace to change us.
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Thank you to Lia for sharing her story and bringing light to an important subject. More and more women are struggling with pornography these days and the stigma surrounding the issue is immense. Lia's testimony is incredible in this weeks episode.If you would like to reach out to Lia you can email her at gibson.liahona@gmail.comIf you would like to share your story, please reach out to
Thank you Wesley for sharing your amazing story. You can contact Wesley at:Instagram: g_wesley_quintonFacebook: Wesley QuintonEmail:
In this episode we get special insight for what the battle against pornography looked like pre-internet and how it has morphed into what it is today. Charlie was exposed to pornography as a young man before the internet was invented. As he matured, the growing accessibility to porn  made it increasing easier to find and harder to overcome. Charlie has learned that true recovery is found in faith in Jesus Christ. His experience has been a blessing to his boys as well who have had a struggles with porn as well.You can contact him at charliegladwell@gmail.comKeep up the good fight.
We are back! Tune in to hear Jade and Chandler share their story and the important insights they have learned together while working through how pornography has affected their relationship. Chandler also talks about an app he helped develop called Relay. It provides a place for accountability and community with others who also struggle with addictive behavior. You can download the app for IOS and Android.You can contact us by emailing hayden@istandatthedoor.comKeep up the good fight!
Geoff Steurer is a licensed marriage and family therapist and relationship coach with over 20 years of experience. He is the co-author of, "Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity", the host of the podcast, "From Crisis to Connection", and the creator of the "Trust Building Bootcamp" online program. He specializes in helping couples heal and rebuild trust from the impact of betrayal, including addiction, abuse, affairs, and abandonment. He maintains a private practice in beautiful Southern Utah, has been married for over 25 years, and he and his wife are the parents of four children. Ways to connect with Geoff My free guide to help couples quickly end arguments: Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity 
Sathiya Sam is a coach and speaker that helps men live with confidence and integrity. Arecovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepCleanTM – a research-based andBible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction. DeepCleanTM has helped everyone from college students to medical doctors regain control of their lives and walk in greater levels of freedom. He is married to his lovely wife Shaloma and is based out of Toronto, Canada.Website - www.sathiyasam.comFree Recovery Guide - www.ultimaterecoveryguide.comThe New Man Podcast - - - you would like to share your story on the podcast reach out by emailing
We are writing a book! So we are slowing down with our podcast. Not ending it for good, just not doing it weekly. If you  want to share your story or you have a subject you’d like us to address, then please email us!
In this episode, we break down some of the awesome insights gained from Brad Wilcox's talk during the Saturday evening session of the October 2021 General Conference.Share your story with us by emailing 
Contact us at hayden@istandatthedoor.comHow does vulnerability play a role in recovery? In order to accomplish great things, we have to be brave. And in order to be brave, we have to face uncomfortable things. We often think, “What if I fail?” and we forget the other real possibility that we might SUCCEED! 
When we sin, we distance ourselves from God. But we don't have to stay distanced. God is always ready for us to return to Him. It is the adversary's voice that tells us we need to STAY distant. Sincere prayer can help us gain a true perspective on the nature of God and repentance.
Today we discuss the biblical story of Jesus and the young rich man. Christ asks each of us to give up the thing that holds us back from being like Him. Sometimes that's pride. Sometimes it's dishonesty. Sometimes it is something that was once good but must be retired to excel in the next phase of life. Our invitation to you is to ask Him what YOU need to give up in order to become the person He wants you to be.Contact us by emailing
Regaining your agency through surrendering you’re agency to the great multiplier, the Savior Jesus Christ.
Nathan's story was enlightening and give great insights into what many of our youth are facing in Middle School and Highschool! Here is a little more about Nathan.My name is Nathan Jackman, I’m from Cedar Hills, UT, and I just recently returned from serving in a mission in San Antonio, TX.  I’m currently studying commercial music at UVU and I love all things music.  Apart from music, I like the outdoors and helping others see their value and purpose in their life.  I have a firm testimony of repentance, and I know that everyone has the power within them to make their way on the path to our Heavenly Father.Reach out to us at
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Savannah takes over on this episode, talking about several things that will help you navigate that FIRST conversation about porn in your relationship. The first four points are aimed at the person receiving the info, and the fifth is for the person who struggles. * I am no expert and I’m not a therapist. But these principles are things I have found to be helpful in my own experience! *Email us with thoughts, questions, or your own personal stories at
Tyler grew up in Bullhead City, Arizona and is currently studying finance at BYU in Provo, Utah.  He is the oldest sibling of 3 younger sister, loves sports, the outdoors,  and spending time with his family and friends.  He knows what it feels like to feel defeated and frustrated when struggling with pornography and has found particular success in his journey.  He hopes to be a source of light and hope for others in their fight against pornography and shares experiences and insights from his story how he was able to learn to open up to those closest to him and access the Atonement of Jesus Christ more fully in his life. You can reach him on Instagram (@clark_tylerc), Facebook (Tyler Clark) or through email (
Savannah and her dad take over this week’s episode and discuss a church leader’s perspective on pornography,  confession, and repentance. Jeff Stowell has been a stake president in the Champaign, Illinois stake for almost nine years. He is a husband, a father of six, and a psychology professor. Contact us at
Contact us at hayden@istandatthedoor.comKeep up the good fight!
Contact us and share your story at hayden@istandatthedoor.comBo and Hayden discuss two prominent lies that we must recognize before we can overcome porn.1.  Porn hurt you alone.2 . You can overcome porn alone. Love you guys and keep up the good fight!
Ashlee Ayre, your average 20 year old girl who loves music, anything outdoors and being with friends and family and who also struggled with pornography and other addictions during her teen years. She is speaking out against pornography to be a voice of hope for someone that she didn't have herself when she was struggling to reach out and get help!You can contact Ashlee through instagram HEREOr via email at
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