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The ikario Podcast: human thriving in the modern world

The ikario Podcast: human thriving in the modern world
Author: Shane Melaugh
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The world is noisy, complicated and overwhelming, but you can learn to surf the chaos. On this podcast, we explore what it takes to break free from digital distractions, addictions, social isolation and everything else keeping us down in the modern world. Learn how to become more capable, build (and stick with) good habits and become a force to be reckoned with.
The ikario podcast is hosted by Shane Melaugh and produced with the help of the ikario team.
The ikario podcast is hosted by Shane Melaugh and produced with the help of the ikario team.
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Chapters:
00:00 - Just Be A Jacked Millionaire Bro...
07:17 - What is the Implementation Gap?
9:43 - Why "Just Try HARDER" Doesn't Work
14:43 - Don't Be An NPC
15:58 - Don't Have A Morning Routine
21:51 - Advice for Someone Who Wants to Make Money Fast
26:53 - You Have Got to Make Movement a Priority in Your Life
33:49 - As a Man You Are Judged by Your CAPABILITY
44:21 - The Last Piece of Advice for Any Man
49:37 - Be Strong Like A Jaguar
55:47 - Outro
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Alex Hormozi -- My $100,000,000 Morning Routine
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PFKGHL1MqkU
Alex Hormozi -- $100M Offers (Book)
https://www.amazon.com/100M-Offers-People-Stupid-Saying-ebook/dp/B099QVG1H8
Gabor Matte -- The Myth of Normal (Book)
https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Normal-Illness-Healing-Culture-ebook/dp/B0946LP9L8/
James Nestor -- Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art (Book)
https://www.amazon.com/Breath-New-Science-Lost-Art-ebook/dp/B07Z49Z32V/
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Chapters:
00:00 - What is the Creator vs. Consumer Mindset?
04:33 - A Balance Between Consuming and Creating
10:38 - A Consumer Attitude Towards Life in General
11:03 - Example 1 - A Consumer Attitude Towards Health
17:00 - The Average Person is Extremely Unhealthy
20:49 - Example 2 - Fitness
26:37 - Example 3 - Consuming Information & Media
27:42 - How to Actually Learn Something
33:59 - Consumables Are EASY Because Someone Else is Making Money
37:52 - Self-Determined vs. Externally Determined Goals
41:34 - People Like to Think They're Doing Their Own Thinking
44:07 - Social Media and Social Discourse
49:00 - Liberals and Conservatives Want the SAME THINGS
54:26 - Conclusion + Outro
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Cured by Jeffrey Rediger M.D:
https://drjeffreyrediger.com/cured-the-life-changing-science-of-spontaneous-healing-testing/
The Human Zoo Podcast Episode:
https://ikario.com/009/
Lex Fridman and Joscha Bach:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-2P3MSZrBM
Daryl Davis - Why I, as a black man, attend KKK rallies:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ORp3q1Oaezw
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Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
01:33 - I Think I'm Doing This Wrong Because It's So Hard
03:18 - Failure IS the Path to Success
07:25 - How Shane Did It Without Knowing How to Do It
11:39 - Shiny Object Syndrome + How Things Are Sold to Us
20:09 - How Do You Know When and What to Quit?
23:25 - Most People Are Strong Starters... But WEAK Finishers
29:15 - Be the Type of Person Who Cringes When You Look Back at Your Older Work
32.47 - Leading vs. Lagging Indicators
37:03 - How to Balance Between Wanting Money and Engaging in the Process
43:14 - What Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self
45:05 - You Don't Need to Go It Alone
46:19 - Closing Stoic Remarks (Outro)
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Building a StoryBrand by Donald Miller:
https://buildingastorybrand.com/
Q&A Video Playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WndRI9a741M&list=PLQJBlFqPEtKfxpVQ-cX4JQXdmtFlyAJVF
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Free ikario Wealth Building Class:
https://ikario.com/wealthbuilding
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FREE Class: Stop procrastination Crash Course
[https://ikario.com/crashcourse/stop/](https://ikario.com/crashcourse/stop/)
Free Class: Become an Implementer
[https://ikario.com/im-register/](https://ikario.com/im-register/)
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
01:15 - What is Financial Freedom?
07:07 - Financial Freedom and Priorities
10:51 - How do you keep the ego out of being rich?
17:55 - Having Self Determined Goals
28:46 - What are the sources of externally imposed goals?
34:05 - How to identify Goals you ACTUALLY want
45:24 - Where is the line between Financial Freedom and Happiness?
51:49 - What is the link between Money and Happiness?
1:02:07 - Question Things You Learn + Outro
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Free ikario Wealth Building Class:
https://ikario.com/wealthbuilding
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Chapters:
00:00 - Intro + Warrior Archetype and Real Life
04:07 - What is the Warrior Archetype?
05:36 - Make Yourself Stronger in Service of Others
10:12 - How Else Can You Be Strong and Uplift Others
15:19 - Getting Your Shit Together Emotionally is Very Attractive
16:22 - The Warrior's Attitude is a Counter to "Bubble Wrapping the World”
21:53 - There is an Optimal Amount of Childhood Trauma
23:23 - Be Unflinching in the Face of Danger
28:26 - You Don't Seek the Comfort of Delusion
35:16 - Seek Out and, If Possible, Eliminate Your Weaknesses
41:09 - The Solution to Fake Posturing
49:08 - Shadow Work
57:03 - Have Principles to Live By
58:48 - How to Find Out Your Principles and Core Values
1:01:17 - This is a Reminder to You and Me
1:04:32 - Outro
Links & Resources Mentioned:
The Book of 5 Rings by Miyamoto Masashi — [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25789.The_Book_of_Five_Rings](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25789.The_Book_of_Five_Rings)
Tao of Jeet Kune Do by Bruce Lee — [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57858.Tao_of_Jeet_Kune_Do](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57858.Tao_of_Jeet_Kune_Do)
Good to Great by Jim Collins — [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/76865.Good_to_Great](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/76865.Good_to_Great)
Shadow Work-shops — [https://ikario.com/shadowwork](https://ikario.com/shadowwork)
Somatic Theory — [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somatic_theory](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Somatic_theory)
ikario Community — [https://ikairo.com/join](https://ikairo.com/join)
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Chapters:
00:00 - Intro
01:03 - The Problem with the Self Development Space & Elite Content
05:21 - 4 Levels of Self Development
06:21 - Level 0 - No-Lifer
13:06 - Level 1 - Average
18:05 - How to Make Green Smoothies Easy and Effortless for Yourself
20:30 - Same Thing for Other Areas of Life
32:29 - How to Be in the Top 10% of People
33:43 - Level 2 - How to Go From Top 10% to 1%
47:30 - Level 3 - Going Beyond Yourself
1:02:57 - Outro
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TJ's Instagram - the best place to find and interact with him: https://www.instagram.com/tjpower/
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Chapters:
00:00 - Intro + What TJ's Company Does
02:32 - A Neuroscientist's Perspective on Tech Induced Suffering
04:53 - 4 Key Hormones that Drive Human Behaviour
06:30 - The Truth About Dopamine
10:51 - We Are Taking Shortcuts to What We Want & It's Making Us Unhappy
15:19 - The Discomfort We Feel Is Actually A Healthy Response
24:15 - Loneliness and Oxytocin
30:30 - How the Presence of a Phone Influences You
36:03 - What Does Serotonin Do?
39:50 - Connection Between Seratonin and Your Environment
43:25 - What Do Kids and Teens Think About Getting Off Screens and Tech?
45:50 - Tech Optimisim vs. Negative Side Effects
50:35 - Turn Your Phone Into A Tool + Being Different
54:22 - What are Endorphins?
57:19 - How to Release Endorphins
1:00:34 - Practice Sitting in Discomfort
1:01:54 - Limbic Friction is the Key to Discipline
1:05:28 - How to Have What You Want from a Physiological Perspective
1:08:39 - Cooking as an Experience is Good for You
1:10:20 - Humans Love Doing Things Socially and for Others
1:13:31 - Neuroscientist Reveals Habits That Make Him Happy
1:16:17 - How Porn Affects Us
1:18:26 - A Neuroscientist's Perspective on NoFap and Masturbation
1:25:25 - Outro
Links & Resources Mentioned:
TJ's IG: https://www.instagram.com/tjpower/
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Chapters:
00:00 - Intro + Why Living with Integrity is so Important
00:58 - Marshmallow Experiment
03:01 - Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset
06:21 - Definition of Integrity
10:41 - A Single Moment That Changes Someone's Life
14:16 - Be The Example
16:47 - Your Words Having Weight
19:11 - What It Means to Be Deliberate
22:03 - Integrity is a Habit - Whether You Have It or Not
25:47 - Why Most People Don't Have Integrity
26:42 - Living with Integrity Means Honesty Especially When it's Difficult
27:46 - Is Integrity Innate?
30:16 - Living with Integrity is an Active Decision
34:08 - You Can't Only Keep Your Word When It's Convenient for You
Links & Resources Mentioned:
Habits of Mind Podcast: https://youtu.be/u2OHOBF84bw
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The productivity self-help-scene is always finding new ways to sell you old tricks. But, it seems some old tricks, like the Pomodoro Technique for example, stick around for good. In this episode we explore why it's time to retire 5 of the most popular productivity hacks that are still being peddled by productivity gurus around the world AND what you should be thinking about doing instead.
We also address the 5 most common "Productivity No-Buts" or "resistance to advice" that we encounter from students that participate in the ikario productivity classes.
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If you have any burning questions you'd like us to answer, email us at: hello@ikario.com.
Links and Resources Mentioned:
Potato Diet Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hu2vGVTwKj4
How to Prioritize: https://youtu.be/tP4VAawx2qw
Shadow Workshops are in the ikario Community, join here: https://ikario.com/join/
The Bacon Fallacy: https://youtu.be/4ROcIj8k6Rg
How to Stop Procrastination (The Crash Course): https://ikario.com/stop
Wealth Building Course: https://ikario.com/wealthbuilding/
Shane on Building Teams + Team Culture: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/entrepreneurship-on-hard-mode-shane-melaugh/id1618984651?i=1000571222194
Timestamps + List of Questions:
1:37 - How to deal with brain fog?
6:50 - How to be productive despite chronic health issues?
13:17 - How to focus when you can't turn off notifications?
16:26 - How to be more productive with my time?
23:35 - What to do when I can't take in any more information?
26:50 - I'm always distracted it's hard to focus, what should I do?
32:40 - How to stick with things and reach long term goals?
40:16 - How to deal with uncertainty and fear of failure?
44:10 - Feeling guilty about not spending time with family
53:51 - How to remove busywork and focus on high priorities?
55:40 - How to prioritize what's important, how to pick the right goals?
59:33 - How to break big goals into smaller steps?
1:04:58 - What to do when you know what you need to do but can't get yourself to do it? How to pushing thru emotional resistance of doing the difficult thing?
1:12:51 - How to stay motivated and implement along the way? (How to not fall off)
1:17:37 - How to create and stick to a schedule long term?
1:24:55 - How to reset a negative thought when you convince yourself you shouldn’t be doing something because it scares you?
1:34:27 - Why do I keep sabotaging myself and limiting my own success?
1:40:29 - What does Success mean?
1:49:28 - What is the difference between Success and Impact?
1:50:49 - Do your intentions for impact matter?
1:51:59 - What is the difference between productivity and success?
1:58:27 - How to manage online addictions like gambling, video games, social media, porn? How to deal with Dopamine Addiction? Advice for overcoming dopamine addiction.
2:16:04 - How to beat procrastination?
2:17:06 - How to organize myself to be financially successful at a later stage in life?
2:19:07 - How to create SOPs and Processes? How to build a team and leverage others?
2:24:35 - How to know when to Let Go and when to Double Down on Ideas, Products, Employees and Opportunities?
2:31:42 - I worked for 5 years for no money, what should I do to move forward?
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Chapters
0:00 — Why Men Tend to Get this wrong
1:56 — The Anthropological View
3:00 — The Biggest Difference Between Men and Women
4:12 — Why You Will Never Look Like a Hollywood Celebrity
10:08 — What REALLY Makes a Man Attractive
12:48 — Why Being Out of Shape is Unattractive
13:30 — How to Be Physically Attractive as Yourself
16:01 — What’s Attractive About Material Possessions
17:22 — How to Have True Confidence and Passion
21:07 — Why Women Test Guys
22:10 — Why Men Are Lucky in the Dating Game
25:25 — Most Women Find This Out Later in Life
27:45 — Smartphones, Anxiety, and Why Dating Apps Suck
30:42 — How to Be Happy Long Term
35:32 — Focus on What You CAN Control to Be Attractive
38:09 — Men are Built to Develop Their Capability (It’s Innate)
42:41 — How to Get Out of “Needy Mode”
48:08 — How Advertising Affects Us as Men
50:21 — My Experience of Not Using Any Soap or Anything
53:38 — Using Cologne, Fashion Sense and Your Frame
58:49 — What To Do To Become Attractive
Books and Resources mentioned in the episode:
The Amazing Development of Men by Alison Armstrong
Understanding Women by Alison Armstrong
Evolution of Desire by David Buss
Don’t Trust Your Gut by Seth Stephens-Davidowitz
How to Get Your Shit Together Physically: https://youtu.be/gfYaJ9TTqzE
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Difficult economic times are upon us. Inflation is seeing record highs, destroying people's purchasing power and at the same time assets like stocks and crypto have been plummeting in value. Not to mention a war in Europe, talks about energy and food shortages...
Where does this all lead? How can mere mortals still work their way towards financial freedom, when the odds seem so strongly stacked against us?
That's what we discuss in today's episode.
00:00:00 - Why personal finance?
00:04:20 - Is the economy screwed?
00:07:11 - The most important question to ask
00:17:50 - Knowledge is power/wealth
00:21:46 - Active vs. passive investing
00:26:07 - How to win with an imperfect strategy
00:34:28 - The game is not to make money fast...
00:35:32 - Are current asset prices a good buying opportunity?
00:40:44 - Why things might still get worse
00:46:18 - Narrative overextension
00:54:29 - Why you must make your own financial decisions
00:57:52 - Income Expense Gap
01:03:00 - My biggest investing mistake last year
01:07:35 - Be a participant
01:12:20 - Plan to get rich slowly
Learn my simple model for strategic thinking: https://ikario.com/decisions/
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Ever said "I could never live without bacon... or cheese, or coffee, or alcohol" or anything else? In this video Shane reveals The Bacon Fallacy: The idea that living without something you love makes your life worse, is untrue.
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We recently completed our first official 100 day ikario challenge. The goal was to complete 100 days of physical training without a break. Before we set out to make a compact video of this experience, Shane and Dean knock about the lessons from doing a challenge like this.
Links & show notes: https://ikario.com/061/
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2021 was filled with loads of personal development for the ikario team. In this episode we look at each person's biggest takeaway from the year.
Links & show notes: https://ikario.com/060/
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In this episode Shane and Dave Danzeise, an old collogue and friend, share a bit of catchup on what's happening in Bali, before turning their attention to journaling. Shane and Dave share their devotion to writing practices as the best tools for self development.
Show Notes: https://ikario.com/059/
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The Crypto discussion continues covering topics like NFTs and Metaverses as well as some speculation on how the future might look.
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Shane has been helping onboard newbies to the crypto space in the safest way possible. In this episode Jonas and Dean (newbies) talk with Shane about the difficulties of being new to crypto currencies and the issues with the early adoption phase that is playing out right now.
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In this episode we explore levelling up one's skills to make problem solving an effortless task. We also look at "the right amount of frustration" for performance optimisation. It's good to know when your comfort zone has become too comfy or when you've stepped out too far. Striking that balance is like designing a game.
Links & show notes: https://ikario.com/056/
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In episode 55 of the ikario podcast, Shane speaks with Jan Broders, a coach who helps high performers from around the world with stress management. Links & show notes: https://ikario.com/055
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