Parenting Decolonized

In this solo episode of Parenting Decolonized, I’m sharing my plans for 2023 and the exciting (and much-needed) changes I’m making to both my life and the Parenting Decolonized community. Spoiler alert! I’m moving Parenting Decolonized to YouTube! Listen in to hear why I’m doing this, along with my thoughts on a 2023 conference, the books I’m starting to write and publish, and the podcast I’m thinking of starting with the ladies of the Black Femme Freedom Collective. These are exciting shifts so if you want to join me for the ride, get on board and buckle up! Thank you for being such a beautiful, caring, and supportive community. Take care and I’ll talk to you in 2023. Subscribe to our YouTube channel here:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3S1LO4fNRvAI1JH0FsBm0ADon't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of Parenting Decolonized Podcast on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/parentingdecolonized and Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/prntgdcolonized! Read the TRANSCRIPT here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/episode-61-big-changes-are-coming-in-2023-a-solo-episode-with-yolanda This episode of Parenting Decolonized was produced by Crys & Tiana.

Have you traced your ancestral roots? Regardless of what your answer is, let’s talk about it! In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Walter English, an artist and the Founder of Brister English Project, an organization that offers 20 hours of free genealogy work to Black people to help them discover and learn about their hidden roots and ancestors. Listen in as Walter and I talk about the power of genealogy and DNA testing in releasing shame about your family’s history with enslavement. In this episode, we talk about…Walt’s experience learning the truth about his African-American ancestry.How your family history impacts your parenting.Why I decided to get my DNA tested after being resistant to it.Overcoming the resistance to genealogy and using it to learn, liberate, and find pride in yourself.What is the best ancestry/DNA testing company?What to do with your DNA results.….and more!If you’d like to donate to the Brister English Project, visit https://linktr.ee/formerlovepoet. Sign up and join the waitlist to get your 20 hours of FREE genealogy work: https://bristerep.me/take-action To connect further with Walter English:Visit his website: https://bristerep.me Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/formerlovepoet Connect with him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WaltWayMusicFollow him on Twitter: https://twitter.com/FormerLovePoet Read the TRANSCRIPT here:Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of Parenting Decolonized Podcast on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/parentingdecolonized and Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/prntgdcolonized! This episode of Parenting Decolonized is produced by Crys & Tiana.

In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Princess Cole, a yogi, herbalist, business owner, homeschooler, and mom of three who loves gardening, traveling, and teaching. Listen in as Princess and I talk about decolonizing food, herbalism, and gardening.In this episode, we talk about…- The colonization of food and farming.- Gardening as an act of resistance & The benefits of growing your own food.- How to start growing your own food with limited space.- Ways you can access affordable, nutritious food (with EBT too!).- How to get started in decolonizing your relationship with food and gardening.- ….and more!Read the show notes and transcript here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/episode-59-decolonizing-food-reclaiming-gardening-with-princess-coleTo connect further with Princess Cole:Visit her website: https://www.princesscole.com Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_princesscole Connect with her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/princesscoleblog Check out the Alliance of Native Seedkeepers: https://www.allianceofnativeseedkeepers.com Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!This episode of Parenting Decolonized is produced by Crys & Tiana.

In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Sarita Covington, an Educator, Harlem Mom, and the Founder of Upper Manhattan Forest Kids, an organization that leads outdoor classes for children and their families in New York City’s green spaces. Listen in as Sarita and I have a fascinating discussion about decolonizing our relationship to nature. In this episode, we talk about…Sarita’s mission and inspiration behind Upper Manhattan Forest Kids.The connection between nature, white supremacy, and anti-racism.Steps you can take to start decolonizing your relationship to nature.How to shift your mindset around spending time outside.What I struggle with most in decolonizing my relationship to nature.….and more!To connect further with Sarita & Upper Manhattan Forest Kids:Visit their website: https://www.uppermanhattanforestkids.comFollow them on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uppermanhattanforestkidsConnect with them on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uppermanhattanforestkidsDon't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!Read the TRANSCRIPT here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/episode-58-decolonizing-your-relationship-to-nature-with-sarita-covingtonThis episode of Parenting Decolonized was produced by Crys & Tiana.

Do you feel like you’re a good ancestor? What does it even mean to be a good ancestor? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Jana Lynne (JL) Umipig, a Creator, liberation educator, Ilokano healer, and cultural/knowledge bearer. Listen in as JL and I talk about how to be a good ancestor as you decolonize your life. In this episode, we talk about…How colonization impacts Filipino people.The intersectionality of intergenerational trauma and colonization.Challenges we face in setting boundaries and communicating with family, especially elders and parents.JL’s tips for people struggling with familial boundaries in their liberation journey….and more! To connect further with JL:Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jlcreator Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!Read the TRANSCRIPT here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/episode-57-what-it-means-to-be-a-good-ancestor-with-jana-lynne-umipig/This episode of Parenting Decolonized is produced by Crys & Tiana.

In this solo episode of Parenting Decolonized Podcast, I’m sharing my thoughts and reflections on the 2022 Rona, Racism, and Radical Parenting Conference. I also get very personal about my current mental health struggles and the moves I’m making to heal. Tune in to hear my genuine thoughts about organizing this conference, why I’m struggling to be a conscious parent right now, and the healing work I intend to do via the Parenting Decolonized Podcast. If you’re struggling right now, know that you are in company. We’re not meant to do any of this alone, so stick with me and we will heal alongside one another.Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of Parenting Decolonized Podcast on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/parentingdecolonized and Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/prntgdcolonized! Read the TRANSCRIPT here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/episode-56-reflections-after-the-2022-rona-racism-and-radical-parenting-conference-a-solo-episode-with-yolandaThis episode of Parenting Decolonized is produced by Crys & Tiana.

Our country and our people are facing a harsh truth… the American education system is failing Black folks. So, what can we do about it? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Kaya Henderson, the Founder and CEO of Reconstruction, a tech-focused company offering a K-12 supplemental curriculum that’s centered around Black people, culture, and contributions. Listen in as Kaya and I talk about the immense value of supplementing your children’s education beyond the classroom.In this episode, we talk about…How I discuss race and Blackness with my young daughter.How Black people reconstructed their communities in the 12 years after emancipation (& why this is powerful information to know/share).Examples of Reconstruction classes you and your kids can take.3 tips for supplementing your child’s education at home.….and more!Learn more about Reconstruction & Enroll in their classes for $10/class at https://reconstruction.us.To connect further with Kaya:Follow Kaya on Twitter: https://twitter.com/HendersonKaya Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kayashines Connect with her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kayahendersonconsulting Listen to Pod Save the People Podcast: https://apple.co/3dtObSt Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!Read the TRANSCRIPT here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/episode-55-why-you-need-to-supplement-your-childs-education-with-kaya-hendersonThis episode was produced by Crys & Tiana.

In this solo episode of Parenting Decolonized, I’m reaching out to you from Georgia, where I’m meeting with the Black Femme Freedom Collective and celebrating our one year anniversary! I also address a serious struggle I’ve been having lately and how I’m overcoming it. Plus, I give you a sneak peek into some of the speakers you will hear from and the workshops you can participate in during the Rona, Racism, and Radical Parenting Conference!Parenting Decolonized is brought to you by the Rona, Racism, and Radical Parenting Conference on September 23rd-25th, 2022! With 25+ speakers from various backgrounds and experiences, this conference is designed to equip you with the knowledge and practical advice you need to help you manage your triggers, yell less, connect more, and raise liberated, emotionally-well children.With this conference, I’m hoping we can come together and not only talk about what’s wrong, but discuss solutions and focus on how we can be the change we want to see.Get $40 OFF early bird tickets (for a limited time only): https://parentingdecolonized.lpages.co/tickets Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of Parenting Decolonized Podcast on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/parentingdecolonized and Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/prntgdcolonized! Read the TRANSCRIPT here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/episode-54-building-community-in-conference-a-solo-episode-with-yolanda

How do you raise socially aware children without centering white supremacy or destroying their innocence? It can be difficult, but it’s simpler than you may think… In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Decoteau J. Irby, an author, educator, and father of two. Listen in as Decoteau and I talk about effective, impactful methods of conscious parenting that will help you break down systems of oppression in your family and community.In this episode, we talk about…How to teach your kids to think expansively and use radical imagination.The powerful role of community involvement in raising conscious kids.How do I build up an armor of resilience and resistance in my children?Decoteau’s decolonized parenting tips and advice.….and more!This episode of Parenting Decolonized Podcast is brought to you by the Rona, Racism, and Radical Parenting Conference being held on September 23rd-25th, 2022! With 25+ speakers from various backgrounds and experiences, this conference is designed to equip you with the knowledge and practical advice you need to help you manage your triggers, yell less, connect more, and raise liberated, emotionally-well children.Get your early bird tickets and get $40 OFF here: https://parentingdecolonized.lpages.co/tickets/Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Decoteau:Visit his website: https://www.decoteauirby.com Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/decoteaublack Follow her on Twitter: https://twitter.com/decoteauirby Connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/decoteau-irby

What does it mean to decolonize your spirituality? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I speak with Ally Henny, a writer, speaker, podcast host, and Master of Divinity who writes and speaks about race, identity, culture, and racial concilation. Listen in as Ally and I talk about how to decolonize your spirituality and raise liberated free-thinkers. This episode was recorded during our Conscious Parenting for Social Justice Conference back in June 2021. Consider this a taste of what you’ll experience during the Rona, Racism, and Radical Parenting Conference coming up this September 23rd-25th, 2022!In this episode, we talk about…The intersection between race, social justice, spirituality, and conscious parenting.As a spiritual or religious person, how do we navigate hierarchies of power?How to balance gaining trust from your child while modeling mistakes and apologizing.How do the dynamics of my household’s relationships impact my parenting?How do I reconcile the atrocities committed in the name of religion and still hold onto religious, social justice, and decolonization practices?….and more!Are you registered for the Rona, Racism, and Radical Parenting Conference yet?Go to https://parentingdecolonized.lpages.co/tickets/ to get your early bird tickets and get $40 off!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Ally:Visit her website: https://allyhenny.com Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allyhenny Follow her on Twitter: https://twitter.com/thearmchaircom Connect with her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allyhennypage Follow her on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theallyhennyListen to Combing the Roots Podcast: https://allyhenny.com/podcast

I’m back, y’all, and boy do I have some things to say… In this solo episode of Parenting Decolonized, I reflect on the much needed break I took over the last month along with the things I did (and didn’t do) to rest and restore my well-being. Parenting Decolonized is hosting the Rona, Racism, and Radical Parenting Conference on September 23rd-25th, 2022! With 25+ speakers from various backgrounds and experiences, this conference is designed to equip you with the knowledge and practical advice you need to help you manage your triggers, yell less, connect more, and raise liberated, emotionally-well children.Get your early bird tickets and get $40 off: https://parentingdecolonized.lpages.co/tickets Thank you for your support and kind messages during this time, they’ve made me feel so loved and cared for. Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of Parenting Decolonized Podcast on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/parentingdecolonized and Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/prntgdcolonized! Read the TRANSCRIPT here: https://parentingdecolonized.com/im-back-in-action-lets-reflect-a-solo-episode-with-yolanda

The weekend of May 20th-22nd, 2022 was supposed to be the Parenting Decolonized Conference, but the conference has been postponed and rescheduled for September 23rd-25th, 2022. In this solo episode of Parenting Decolonized, I share my candid thoughts and feelings behind this decision and what you can expect from Parenting Decolonized moving forward in 2022. You’ll also hear a bit about my journey in building an intentional community in Georgia with other single, Black moms. I hope to see you at the Parenting Decolonized Conference on September 23rd-25th, 2022!Until then… Pause. Seek rest. Choose joy.Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of Parenting Decolonized Podcast on Facebook and Instagram!Read the TRANSCRIPT here: link

We need new educational curriculums, we need to unpack our ableism and check out privilege, and we need to do it now. In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Heather Clarke, a Black Afro Caribbean educational disability advocate, professor of special education and child development, and neurodivergent mother of two. Listen in as Heather and I have a powerful discussion about how to create real change in your child’s school system and why it’s important to unpack your own ableism and privilege (even if you’re Black and neurodivergent).In this episode, we talk about…How to better show up for your community’s education and advocate for your child.Should parents be in charge of their children’s educational curriculum?Anti-Blackness and ableism in the parenting space.How to unpack your ableism and your privilege as a parent.….and more!Are you ready to lead with acceptance, dismantle ableism, and see real change in your child’s education? Tune into this discussion to learn more! Then, join us in the Conscious Parenting for Social Justice Collective, our Black-led, multiracial collective of parents, working together to simultaneously transform ourselves, our families, and our communities by decolonizing our minds! Can’t wait to see you there!P.S. Heather is hosting a workshop for parents on navigating the IEP process with a culturally responsive lens during the Parenting Decolonized Conference (May 20th-22nd, 2022). Don’t miss it!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Heather:Visit her website: www.learning-advocate.comFollow her on Instagram: www.instagram.com/learning_advocateFollow her on Twitter: www.twitter.com/learnadvocate

What can our ancestral history teach us about parenting, liberation, and revolution? A lot. Let’s get into it. In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Dr. Crystal Menzies, Founder and Chief Innovation Officer of EmancipatED, an organization that centers stories of joy and resistance within the African Diaspora through the creation of educational resources and curricula. Listen in to learn about how liberation work and conscious parenting are rooted in our ancestral practices and how we can reclaim these colonized practices to revolutionize our future.In this episode, we talk about…The history of Maroon communities and why they’re significant to us today.How white people have colonized and rebranded tribal parenting methods.How to intentionally build a supportive community to help nurture your conscious parenting and liberation work.The EmancipatED Experience: A brand new community education resource that supports the enrichment of Black families and our larger kinship communities.….and more!Looking for a community that will support you on your parenting decolonization journey?Listen in to this discussion to learn more and consider joining the Conscious Parenting for Social Justice Collective, our Black-led, multiracial collective of parents, working together to simultaneously transform ourselves, our families, and our communities by decolonizing our minds and healing racial traumas! Hope to see you there!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Dr. Crystal & EmancipatED:Visit EmancipatED’s website: www.emancipatededucation.comFollow them on Instagram: www.instagram.com/emancipate_ed

In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Ira X Armstrong, a mixed Black trans parent, Freedom Fighter, Social Entrepreneur and Educator who is working to create climate sustainability through social permaculture. Listen in to gain insight into Ira’s decolonization journey and learn how you can begin to shift your mindset, reprogram yourself, and become the decolonized parent you want to be.In this episode, we talk about…Defining social permaculture through the lens of decolonization.Overcoming depression and exhaustion as an activist and decolonizer.The impacts of enslavement and colonization on African-Americans & The traumatic effects of experiencing houselessness.How colonization harms everyone, including white people & Why decolonization is harm reduction.4 ways to start decolonizing your life.….and more!Curious to know more about what it means to decolonize parenthood? Need a community that will support you on your decolonization journey?Tune in to this powerful discussion to learn more and consider joining the Conscious Parenting for Social Justice Collective, a Black-led, multiracial collective of parents, working together to simultaneously transform ourselves, our families, and our communities by decolonizing our minds and healing racial traumas caused by white supremacist/capitalist power structures. Hope to see you there!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Ira & PEACE Out Loud:Visit Ira’s website: www.iraxarmstrong.comFollow them on Twitter: www.twitter.com/fraggle94 Visit PEACE Out Loud’s website: www.peaceoutloud.orgConnect with them on Facebook: www.facebook.com/polberkeleyFollow them on Instagram: www.instagram.com/peace_out_loud

So, your child just received an Autism diagnosis… Now what? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Maria Davis-Pierre, the Founder and CEO of Autism in Black Inc., an organization that aims to bring awareness to Autism and reduce the stigma associated with the diagnosis in the Black community. Tune in to gain insight into what it’s like to be the parent of a Black Autistic child and how to best support yourself and your child throughout this journey.In this episode, we talk about…How difficult is it to get an Autism diagnosis for my child?What to do after your child gets diagnosed.The problem with Autism “support groups” & Dealing with racism and ableism inside and outside of your community.Defining ableism in the context of anti-blackness.The two most important things you can do for your Autistic child.Advice for parents struggling to self-regulate during stressful parenting moments.What is masking? Why is masking harmful for disabled kids?….and more!Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Maria & Autism in Black:Visit Autism Black’s website: www.autisminblack.org Connect with them on Facebook: www.facebook.co/autisminblk Follow them on Instagram: www.instagram.com/autisminblack

What can we do to nurture not only our own mental health, but the mental health of our children? How can we raise children to be more conscious? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Olaolu Ogunyemi, a husband, father of three, teen mentor, U.S. Marine Officer, and author of the best-selling children’s book, Crow From the Shadow. Tune in to learn how to combat harmful mental health norms while raising conscious children.In this episode, we talk about…The importance of discussing mental health/illness in the black community.Advice for parents who are struggling with mental illness & parents whose children are struggling with mental illness.Raising mentally tough boys - Is it necessary? How patriarchy and “masculinity” are actually harming men.How to change unhealthy behavior patterns to become a more conscious parent.Helping children build resilience in the face of racism and the pressures of life.Why Olaolu started writing children’s books & The meaning behind Crow From the Shadow.….and more!Ready to combat harmful mental health norms? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Olaolu:Visit Parent-Child-Connect: https://parent-child-connect.com Connect with him on Facebook: www.facebook.com/olaolu.ogunyemi Follow him on Instagram: www.instagram.com/captainono06

Do you ever wonder: What is going on with my kids at school? Are they truly thriving or just scraping by? Is homeschooling the best option for us? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Jae Williams, a former teacher turned BlackDad YouTuber and relaxed homeschooler for his two young kids. Tune in to learn about the flaws of the traditional education system and how unschooling attempts to counter those flaws, along with tips for black dads on being a conscious parent.In this episode, we talk about…• Why Jae left his teaching job to unschool his children at home.• How he reacts to stigmas and misconceptions of homeschooling, particularly from family/in-laws.• Advice for parents whose children are struggling in school.• Advice for parents who want to pursue unschooling/homeschooling.• Jae’s biggest fears as a black dad and unschooler & How he parents from love instead of fear.• Capitalism, societal constructs, & raising happy, liberated children.• Trying to be a good father after growing up without a father.• ….and more!Ready to start unschooling yourself and child(ren)? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Jae:Subscribe to his YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/blackdad Follow him on Twitter: www.twitter.com/BlackDadJourney Watch the Happy movie: https://thehappymovie.square.site Join Conscious Parenting for the Culture Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/CPTime

Does low self-worth impact the parent/child dynamic? Can we raise liberated children by cultivating our unconditional self-worth? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Dr. Adia Gooden, a licensed clinical psychologist, speaker, and host of the Unconditionally Worthy Podcast. Tune in to learn why it’s crucial to center your self-worth in your parenting journey.In this episode, we talk about…Ways that low self-worth can impact you and your children’s lives.How to recognize underlying triggers that stem from low self-worth and respond appropriately.Why it’s important to detach your worthiness from your child’s worthiness.How to cultivate unconditional self-worth in your children.….and more!Ready to start cultivating your unconditional self-worth? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Adia:Visit her website: www.dradiagooden.com Listen to her podcast: www.dradiagooden.com/podcast Connect with her on Facebook: www.facebook.com/dradiagooden Follow him on Instagram: www.instagram.com/draidagooden

Is it possible to decolonize parenting by “fighting the system”? In this episode of Parenting Decolonized, I welcome Sundiata Soon-Jahta, an Unschooler, Systems Thinker, Authentic Dialogue Facilitator, Entrepreneur, and Anti-Oppression Educator, Content Creator, & Organizer. Tune in to learn how systems thinking can help us understand the root cause of colonization and how to dismantle systems of oppression.In this episode, we talk about…Defining systems thinking, specifically in the context of decolonization.Why we shouldn’t be “fighting the system” & What you should do instead.How various systems, like patriarchy and white supremacy, were created & How they continue to evolve and feed one another.Conscious parenting and unschooling as an act of social justice and decolonization.Resources for learning more about systems thinking.….and more!Ready to start reimagining the future using systems thinking? Listen in to this powerful discussion to learn more!Don't forget to share, rate, and let me know what you think of this week's episode on Facebook and Instagram!To connect further with Sundiata:Visit his website: drsundiata.comListen to his podcast: www.liveindivisible.com Connect with him on Facebook: www.facebook.com/iGoToGrowFollow him on Instagram: www.instagram.com/dr.sundiataMore Resources:Theory of Indivisibility Framework: https://bit.ly/33FXqK5 Systems Thinking Resource - The Unschool of Disruptive Design: www.unschools.coSystems Thinking Resource (free) - thwink.orgThinking in Systems by Donella Meadows: https://amzn.to/3rn17ws “My Violent Youth And The Systems That Made Me” by Sundiata Soon-Jahta: https://bit.ly/3fCZl4I“After The Protest…Organize. A Radical Guide For Creating Sustainable Change” by Sundiata Soon-Jahta: https://bit.ly/3nBAOSf