We are Childfree

We spill the childfree tea on the complicated feelings that come up when we find out our friends are pregnant. It’s something almost all of us will face at some point - so we surveyed the childfree community to get the truth about the topic!Then, in a re-released Ask WAC chat, we rally round a couple whose friend groups are now full of parents, with little time for anything but their kids. This is such a tricky problem, so we tapped the We are Childfree community hive mind for some stellar support and amazing advice!If you’d like more support making and keeping friends, you can join Zoë and a small group of childfree cheerleaders for a live workshop to feel seen, supported, and connected - especially when your friendships are shifting 🤗LinksChildfree Cheer Camp Presents: Navigating Friendships 🤗Survey: Navigating Friendships 🤗 Help us help you!Podcast: Claiming Zero - Friendship Before and After Kids

Maria Coffey has lived A LIFE. She started travelling in her teens, desparate to escape safe, settled life in the UK and see the world. From Morocco to Malawi to the remote Solomon Islands, Maria’s adventures have taken her to places and people she never would have experienced had she had children. Now 73, Maria looks back on a life full of love and loss, of risks and rewards - but no regrets!Follow Maria on Instagram and read her memor Instead: Navigating the Adventures of a Childfree Life (a We are Childfree book club favourite!)Join your community of childfree cheerleaders and sign up for a We are Childfree membership today!

A listener asks: what do you say when a child asks, do you have kids?This one goes out to all the cool aunts, childcare professionals, and our wonderful childfree community who offered such great advice!If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksWinery: Vinarija BoškovićA Bit Fruity podcast: Christian Indoctrination in HomeschoolingThe New York Times: Women Who Said No to MotherhoodStory: Mary Gay, 79, USAWe are Childfree: Share Your Story#DefundPawPatrol

OK this one’s a doozy! Even if you’re sure you want kids, society’s going to try and pressure you to doubt yourself and change your mind. And when that happens, how do you separate those external influences from your true heart’s desire. We offer some guidance, with the help of our wonderful childfree community!If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksPodcast: No regrets, with 78 year-old childfree trailblazer Marcia Drut-DavisMasterclass: Create Your Childfree Life VisionBook: The Baby MatrixPodcast: Don’t fear regret, with Orna DonathPodcast: Kids or ChildfreePodcast: Navigating ambivalence, with clarity coach Keltie Maguire

We rally round a childfree couple whose friend groups are now full of parents, with little time for anything but their kids. This is such a tricky problem that we’ve all either faced or one day will, so we tapped the We are Childfree community hive mind for some stellar support and amazing advice!If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksStudy: Parents spend more time with children now than they did 50 years agoThe Cut: Adorable Little DetonatorsReport: Our Epidemic of Loneliness and IsolationMeetup Group: Cape Coral Childfree WomenBook: We Should Get Together: The Secret to Cultivating Better FriendshipsChildfree Trip: Belize: Jungles, Mayans & Manatees With ZoeBook: Harpy: A Manifesto for Childfree Women

“Now I wish I'd never brought it up but mostly I'm sad and feel quite alone.”We help out a childfree woman whose partner is pushing back against her decision to get permanent birth control surgery. There’s tons of great advice from the childfree community here, about negotiating this tricky subject with your partner, what to do if they seem to be sitting on the fence, and owning what is ultimately your choice, for your life.If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksChildfree Stories: My Body Their ChoicePodcast: Don’t fear regret, with Orna DonathJournal: Do childfree people regret their choice?Journal: Happy World Vasectomy Day!Resource: The Childfree Friendly Doctors ListResource: Sterilisation Binder Guide

Ever wondered how van life or any kind of long term travel really works? Like, practically speaking? In this episode we answer a great question from a day one supporter about how to downsize for a life of adventure. Listen in to hear...💪 Our brutal Marie-Kondo-on-steroids approach to shedding stuff🗺️ The logistics of long term travel without a home base🔮 How Essentialism (not Minimalism) helped us focus on what really matters📚 And some big news (HUGE) from the We are Childfree team!If you're worried about facing unwelcome questions this festive season, check out our FREE Childfree Holiday Survival Guide 🤶👍LinksPodcast: Cool aunt energy, with environmentalist, atheist and big, blended family member Marie FisherPodcast: Life done differently, with Lisa JansenMasterclass: Create Your Childfree Life Vision Book: Vagabonding by Rolf PottsBook: How to Be Childfree by We are Childfree! Sign up for updates 🙌If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌

Welcome to a very special episode, part 2 of our AWA - Ask WAC Anything 🙌We welcome your questions about how to live your best childfree life and this vital project. Listen in to hear...💝 How to navigate friendships and dating when you're childfree😱 What to do if you fear aging alone🦸‍♀️ The We are Childfree origin story🧌 The worst trolls and how they'll never stop us!If you're worried about facing unwelcome questions this festive season, check out our FREE Childfree Holiday Survival Guide 🤶👍LinksPodcast: Don’t fear regret, with Orna DonathPodcast: The Search for Close Connections: Making Friends in Your 40s"They were best mates. Then one had a baby, while the other struggled. Two brutally honest takes on what happens when motherhood affects friendship" in The GuardianChildfree WealthDie With ZeroPodcast: You are enough, with Dr Kate TomasWe are Childfree: Building BridgesIf you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌

Welcome to a very special episode, part 1 of our AWA - Ask WAC Anything 🙌We welcome your questions about us, our relationship, our childfree choices! Listen in to hear...🍻 How Zoë and James met🤪 How we've handled being "different"💸 Who we're leaving our money to in our wills🚐 And what it's REALLY like living in a van!If you're worried about facing unwelcome questions this festive season, check out our FREE Childfree Holiday Survival Guide 🤶👍This podcast was brought to you by the generous support of the We are Childfree member community, who get to hear it before anyone else. Thank you so much for your support 🙏LinksMasterclass: Create Your Childfree Life VisionPodcast: Marie Forleo X Liz Gilbert"People say you’ll know – but will I regret not having children?" in The Guardian Population MattersMyvoicemychoice.orgDie With ZeroIf you have a question or problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree with "Ask WAC" as the subject line, and we'll tap into the childfree hive mind for a future episode! 🐝

This is a very special episode of the podcast! I interviewed Orna Donath, the author of Regretting Motherhood, for an exclusive We are Childfree member event, and our conversation was so full of inspiration and insight that I had to share a preview with you all.Listen in to hear how…🔥 Regret often comes from societal pressures, not from our own choices🔥 Choosing not to have children can be a radical act🔥 We’re not the first! We’re continuing the legacy of women who’ve chosen to live childfree for generationsThis podcast was brought to you by the generous support of the We are Childfree member community. To hear the full interview and get invites to exclusive member events, join our community of childfree cheerleaders at wearechildfree.com/joinThank you so much for your support 🙏Links🔮 Live Masterclass: Create Your Childfree Life Vision 🔮Read Regretting Motherhood by Orna Donath

Meet Lydia, a 53-year-old childfree trailblazer who welcomed us into her wonderful home in Athens, Greece, and opened up about her two decade journey to fulfilment. Her story has so much to teach us, especially that it’s never too late to embrace who you are and create the life that’s right for you 💖This podcast was brought to you by the generous support of the We are Childfree member community. To hear the full interview, and unlock a beautiful portrait of Lydia living her best life in Athens, join our community of childfree cheerleaders at wearechildfree.com/joinThank you so much for your support 🙏Links🔮 Live Masterclass: Create Your Childfree Life Vision 🔮Portrait: “If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.” - Lydia, Greece

How do you decide whether to have kids or not? That's the question from a self-proclaimed fencesitter that we put to the We are Childfree community for this classic episode of Ask WAC! (Originally published as a bonus episode on August 28, 2023)How can you even imagine life as a parent? How do you separate external pressures from your own inner feelings? Listen to find out!If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌Links"My choice to be childfree is important to me, because I have a very special relationship with my body.” - Léa, BerlinPodcast: No regrets, with 78 year-old childfree trailblazer Marcia Drut-DavisWithout Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother by Peggy O'Donnell Heffington

How do you decide whether to have kids or not? That's the question from a self-proclaimed fencesitter that we put to the We are Childfree community for this classic episode of Ask WAC! (Originally released as bonus episode on July 28, 2023)How can you even imagine life as a parent? How do you separate external pressures from your own inner feelings? Listen to find out!If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌Links"My choice to be childfree is important to me, because I have a very special relationship with my body.” - Léa, BerlinPodcast: No regrets, with 78 year-old childfree trailblazer Marcia Drut-DavisWithout Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother by Peggy O'Donnell Heffington

Do childfree people ever regret their decision? That's the burning question we put to the We are Childfree community for this classic episode of Ask WAC! (Originally released as a bonus episode on June 14, 2023)How many childfree people experience regret? Where does that regret come from? What does it feel like? Listen to find out!If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksMSU study confirms: 1 in 5 adults don’t want children — and they don’t regret it laterChildfree by Choice: The Movement Redefining Family and Creating a New Age of Independence by Dr Amy BlackstonePodcast: No regrets, with 78 year-old childfree trailblazer Marcia Drut-DavisRegrets, hot and cold on The History of Emotions Blog

“How do you pave the way for your childfree future?”We help out a childfree woman who’s facing down 40 and wondering what it means for her future that she didn’t have kids? There’s tons of great advice from the childfree community here, about finding role models who inspire you, defining your own purpose and living life on your own terms!If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌Links🔮 Live Masterclass: Create Your Childfree Life Vision 🔮Mrizi I Zanave AgroturizemPeople: Miley Cyrus Reveals Why She's Not Sure She Wants to Have KidsMiley Cyrus & Dolly Parton - Wrecking Ball & I Will Always Love You [Miley’s New Year’s]Podcast: Life just gets better and better, with Cindy GallopPodcast: Taking the road less-travelled, with 65-year-old clinical psychologist Shelley

“We both wanted kids but I’ve changed my mind - how do we talk about this?”The childfree community shares their advice and experiences with someone who’s found herself on the other side of the “kids fence” as her husband. Find out what men think about fatherhood, how to help your partner understand your side of things, and how to work to create a life that’s right for the both of you 🫶If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksShare your Story with We are Childfree!Nikki Glaser: Someday You’ll DieThe Baby Decision: How to Make The Most Important Choice of Your Life by Merle Bombardieri

“How do you steer the conversation away from kids?”Listen in as the childfree community rallies around someone whose friends have kids going off to college, and can’t talk about anything else! Find out how to support the mothers in your life and foster reciprocal relationships, even if it sometimes means boring them to tears about your dog 🐾If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksShare your Story with We are Childfree!Reggie Watts on Instagram: “Table for 1 please”Reggie Watts on Twitter: “If I never have or adopt children…”*Demographic Research:* The timing of parenthood and its effect on social contact and support

“My new coworkers keep asking me if I have kids. What should I do?”That’s the burning question we answer with the help of the childfree community, for someone who’s started a new job where the watercooler conversations are… not cool.If you have a problem you'd like the community's help with, email hello@wearechildfree.com with "Ask WAC" as the subject line.Questions from We are Childfree members get priority! To jump the queue, get episodes a week early, and find your community of childfree cheerleaders, join us at www.wearechildfree.com/join/ 🙌LinksPrivate Parts Unknown: Pet Loss, Part 2 - Working Through the Grief & Guilt of Losing a Beloved Pet with Beth Bigler of Honoring Our AnimalsSunday Herald: Shirley Manson - ‘I’m not married anymore’@garbage on InstagramWe are Childfree podcast: Life just gets better and better, with Cindy GallopWe are Childfree report: Unseen, Unheard & UndervaluedWe are Childfree: Building Bridges at Work

Natasha is a British-Asian woman who was born with a bicornate uterus, who found out at 21 that carrying a child to term would be very difficult and dangerous.This helped Natasha make a careful, considered choice about being childfree, but it was the final disappointment for her traditional Hindu parents who she’s now cut out of her life.This was an eye-opening conversation about growing up in England as someone of South Asian heritage, being “not brown enough” for some people, and breaking free of your family’s rigid expectations to create a lovely childfree life for yourself.Read Natasha’s story on We are Childfree: “It was very much a decision thrust upon me at a really young age so it’s probably why I’ve thought about it more than my peers.”Join your community of childfree cheerleaders and sign up for a We are Childfree membership today!

We are Childfree community member Lisa Jansen is really living up to her idea of a “life done differently”.Based in New Zealand, Lisa left her cosy corporate life behind to live in a van for a summer - which turned into 5 years on the road! She’s just published a memoir called Life Done Differently, in which she shares the ups, downs and all the life-changing experiences of full-time van life.We’ll be discussing Life Done Differently in the We are Childfree book club on September 21st. To join in, become a We are Childfree member today!