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Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Diana and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.

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The Queens discuss why having hobbies is essential for women and why it often triggers anger or insecurity in men. They explore how hobbies help women build independence, confidence, and fulfillment outside of relationships, making them less reliant on male validation. They also break down why some men become resentful or controlling when women have their own interests, seeing it as a threat to their dominance. Learn how to prioritize your passions, embrace your individuality, and sidestep men who can’t handle a self-sufficient woman.   FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
The Queens kick off the first part of the "Scrotal Recall" series, where they present the case for why women need to hold and keep our standards sky high.   FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
The Queens are joined Dr. Ashni Dhawale to explore the parallels between the modern dating world and the animal kingdom. From peacocking to power dynamics, we dive into the primal behaviours that men exhibit—and how some things never evolve. Do modern dating trends mirror the mating strategies of our primate cousins, or are we just dealing with a lot of monkey business? Tune in to learn the biological roots of male behaviour, the tactics animals use to secure the best mates, and how to apply that knowledge to your own high-value strategy!   FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
The Queens dissect the rise of Kamala Harris and ask the tough questions: Is she truly breaking barriers for women, or playing into the same old political games? What does Harris really represent for women today? And is she embodying the high-value woman ethos FDS champions?    FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
The Queens expose the Tricky Tricksters—those sneaky, low value men who know all the right things to say but never follow through. These master manipulators use charm, flattery, future faking and emotional sleight of hand to get what they want without ever offering the real deal. Learn the classic tricks, the subtle gaslighting, and how to stop falling for these low-effort clowns, as the Queens give you the tools to outsmart the players before they even step on the field. Stay sharp, Queens—it’s time to flip the script on those tricky tricksters!   FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Rose and Diana tackle the 4B Movement where "Boys, Beauty, Boundaries, and Beyond" are getting a major overhaul. Get ready for some sharp-tongued truth bombs as we dive into the movement that's got women worldwide setting higher standards and saying "bye" to low-value men and outdated beauty ideals.    FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Diana and Rose begin their reign as Queens of the FDS Podcast with a deep dive into female friendships. Get ready to LEVEL UP your friendships, sis! FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
It's coronations day as the new FDS Queens have been crowned! Join Savannah as she introduces Diana, Rose and Patricia to the FDS audience and their journey to becoming FDS royalty.  Rose's audition: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-ins-and-outs-of-2024/id1558083287?i=1000654150195  Patricia's audition: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/remaining-true-to-your-values-when-dating/id1558083287?i=1000657934513  Dick size matters (because we all know it does) episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/we-like-big-dicks-and-we-refuse-to-lie/id1558083287?i=1000520221855  FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Welcome back to our Podcast Host audition series! This week, Savannah is joined by Patricia to discuss how Queens remain true to their values whilst dating.  Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Welcome back to our Podcast Host audition series! This week. Savannah is joined by Rose to discuss what is in and what is out for 2024.      Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Welcome back to our Podcast Host audition series! This week, Savannah is joined by Maddy to unveil the glamourous illusion that is being a stay-at-home girlfriend.      Article on how embarking on a relationship with a man is one of the biggest financial risks to a woman: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/mar/19/divorce-women-risk-poverty-children-relationship  Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Examining Heritability

Examining Heritability

2024-04-0955:45

Welcome back to our Podcast Host audition series! This week, Savannah is joined by Laura to discuss heritability and why your choice of partner matters genetically.  Article on male infertility: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-tayside-central-50180235   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Welcome to our Podcast Host audition series! This week, Savannah is joined by potential podcast host Cassandra to discuss anti heroes and villainesses in Hollywood.   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us!
The queens are joined by  special guest and long-time FDS'er Khristen for another instalment of our Slice of Life series, followed by a complimentary visit to the FDS BBQ.    Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
A Tale of Two Scrotes

A Tale of Two Scrotes

2024-03-1343:09

The queens recount and dissect two tales of scrotery from their listeners.   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Attachment Theory Pt. 2

Attachment Theory Pt. 2

2024-03-0637:501

The Queens are BAAAAACCCKKK (did you miss us? We hope so, because we missed y'all too!). The Queens finish their analysis of attachment theory and what it means for your dating life. Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
The queens discuss the nuances of attachment theory. Is it a useful theory for examining relationship styles or just more gendered pop psychology BS?   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Advice for high value women, continued. Some focus on men, with modifications. Real inspirational.      Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
Taking it all the way back to the original handbook. Advice for high value women, with some modifications.      Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771
The hypergamy gurus have it all wrong about how to marry up. Here's why. Also, updates on the podcast.   Join our newsletter: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com FDS War Room on the Queen Patreon Tier: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat   Follow us! Weekly Bonus Content/Merch/Discord on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat Website:https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat @femdatstrat Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/  @_thefemaledatingstrategy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The-Female-Dating-Strategy-109118567480771            
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Comments (36)

sweet dee is azor ahai

the second story is guaranteed fake. it just conveniently hits EVERY red flag FDS has always objected to? the only thing missing is a wife 20 years his junior.

Mar 17th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

the volume is way too low, even when I have it turned up high, just an FYI

Mar 14th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

I'm excited to see the new hosts ❤️

Aug 14th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

the flyover states have great food. don't need immigrants necessarily for that.

Jun 30th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

Jesus doesn't cuss, that's not cute.

Apr 28th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

hourglass shape never left style, people just decided thicker ones are better than skinnier ones

Feb 7th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

most pro-lifers are women ♀️❤️

Dec 29th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

where's Lilith?

Oct 27th
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P M

I love FDS but this episode was definitely out of pocket. I felt a bit annoyed listening to the two ramble on about moving to another state while Savanah was trying to be reasonable. Had to stop listening.

Oct 17th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

I like Lilith on her twitter but my gosh she can be annoying here, way more than Reaux or Savannah ever have been. non Americans are so obsessed with the US while accusing Americans of being self absorbed. Imperialists, come claim your own 😂

Sep 28th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

Britain has nothing over us, Lilith 😂

Sep 22nd
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sweet dee is azor ahai

this discussion was really needed. I get sick of radfems and blackpillers resentfully and smugly telling attractive women they have no problems. Gives off pickme energy without being a full-on pickme.

Sep 17th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

No hate on Lilith but I wish she would stop abusing the words trauma and trigger the way she does. They're never used correctly and the flippancy just looks bad.

Sep 17th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

It's not "porn" to write romantic poetry. That's super disrespectful. I actually wish more men read this and instead of taking it as "this guy's getting some", they understood it's just a couple enjoying the intimacy of marriage in a physical and MUTUAL way.

Aug 31st
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sweet dee is azor ahai

it's not the church (which one anyway? I might agree in general with: the Roman Catholic church), it's Complementarianism. And since neither Reaux nor Savannah are Christian why are they talking about it? not an attack, btw.

Aug 31st
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sweet dee is azor ahai

we don't need to sneak out to parties, just try to be a decent person 🤷🏻‍♀️

Aug 18th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

why is a Canadian saying everyone in the Midwest is fat? 😂 Lilith, you live in Maple Leaf Land. some weird remarks from her and Reaux. southern and Midwestern ladies are much more naturally pretty but aight.

Aug 9th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

I really wish Lilith would stop using "traumatize" for every unpleasant experience. A bad breakup is not inherently traumatic, a lazy boyfriend is not inherently traumatic, things aren't traumatic just because they make you sad. I believe she even touched on Zoomers doing this one or two episodes ago.

May 19th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

What Lillith said about toxic men taking apologies from you as admitting defeat is SO. TRUE. I eventually had to learn to just stop saying sorry to my dad growing up after arguments because he would do this- he never apologized despite him saying cruel stuff, and every apology I gave just made him feel better about verbally abusing me.

Mar 16th
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sweet dee is azor ahai

Belle is the biggest pick-me? She's not my favorite character but she specifically said she could not connect to any guy in town because they couldn't get on her level lol. I think she's very much "not like other girls" but she didn't want the beast to pick her, it was the reverse. Every time you guys shout out animated movies it seems like y'all don't actually watch them 😂

Mar 14th
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