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Author: Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App

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Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;) 

They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.

Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com

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You hear us talk about sex ALL the time on the podcast and the things couples can do to have an amazing sex life. So many couples look at sex completely differently and have a hard time understanding the things they can do to have a better sex life.Nick recently heard a lady give a 6-minute talk on YouTube about how treating sex like a hobby can completely change your sex life with your spouse. So naturally, he sent it to Amy to get her thoughts, and her reaction wasn't what he expected... So...
We do podcasts on all sorts of subjects and issues that most couples face... and there are a ton of them.For many of us, it may seem overwhelming thinking of all the things we as couples need to do to have a great marriage! We hear a lot of couples say they feel like it is just too much and they don't think they can do everything, or ever get to having the marriage they want.While all good marriages do take work, there are a few foundational and fundamental things that are proven to help coup...
We got some emails back from our audience on our newsletter and podcast episode 282 where we answered many of your tough questions. Some of you didn't like the way we answered some of the questions, and we also got a bunch more questions that you wanted us to answer... so in this episode, we respond to your emails, and answer more questions.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage....
Ever wondered how political differences can coexist within a loving relationship without causing constant conflict? Our latest episode promises to equip you with the tools and insights needed to navigate these challenging waters. Join us as we uncover the secret to maintaining respect and open communication when political views clash. You'll learn how focusing on common values, such as mutual respect and effective communication, can help couples stay harmonious despite their differing opinion...
We talk quite often about the negative consequences of a wife having no sexual desire, but what about the negative impacts on a wife when the husband has no sexual desire?We hear from many women that their husband doesn't have any sexual desire, and therefore they aren't romantic, don't fulfill emotional needs, don't pay compliments, etc.For many men, their sexual desire drives them to be more romantic, fulfill their spouse's emotional needs, have better communication, etc. A husband's desire...
We got this idea and topic from someone who emailed us about something they are struggling with. This is absolutely a topic we can discuss because we are both very career-driven, love to work hard, and we work together EVERYDAY. It is often very tough to balance things when life gets extremely busy and when you are both career driven.For a while in our relationship, we didn't have things balanced, as we put our dreams and ambitions above our marriage, and it really hurt us as a couple.But the...
Okay, before we jump into this episode, we do recognize that there are women out there who just don't want to have sex and do have AMAZING husbands. We totally get that, and our hearts break for the husbands because sexual intimacy is so vital and important in marriage.But... what if there are things that some husbands are doing (that they don't realize) that are causing their wives not to want to be sexually intimate?We had a wife reach out to us and express that her husband has a temper, ge...
Have you ever wondered how unresolved emotional pain can manifest into destructive habits like pornography addiction? Today, we welcome back Austin Ellis, a dedicated therapist specializing in sexual addiction recovery, who shares his intimate journey from personal struggle to professional savior. Austin’s deeply personal anecdotes and professional wisdom provide a roadmap for couples grappling with the devastating impact of pornography on their marriages. Austin tackles the root causes of ad...
We get so many of you reaching out to us with questions and concerns or stating things that you are facing in your relationships. The 4-5 questions or statements we get are almost always the same things that couples are navigating or seeking answers and solutions to.To help us answer these important topics, we wanted to bring on a marriage expert who deals with thousands of couples that also struggle with many of the same things. In this episode, we talk with Austin Ellis (LMFT). Austin offer...
In this episode, we explore how establishing thoughtful morning and evening routines can significantly enhance intimacy and connection in your relationship. The way you start and end your day together sets the tone for your relationship and can create a deeper bond between the two of you.This episode can be one of these transformative podcasts that can bring significant change to your relationship by doing some of these things in your relationship.If you haven't already, go check out the Ulti...
In this episode we talk about the 15 ways to be more attractive to your spouse. Do we get ready for them and look good on date nights, or put forth and effort, or do we go out looking like we just got done waking up from a 3 day nap? Do we take care of our hygiene, are we exercising and trying to stay in shape? Do we have positive attitudes and treat our spouse good? It is all about putting forth effort in our relationships. When we put forth effort, it shows we care. Join us for this episode...
Do we make marriage harder than it needs to be? For most of us, the answer is a resounding yes. It's easy to fall into patterns and habits that complicate our relationships, often without even realizing it. Drawing from personal experiences and observations, we delve into the common ways couples inadvertently make marriage more challenging.In this episode, we explore the specific behaviors and mindsets that add unnecessary stress and strain to marriages. From communication breakdowns to unrea...
Part 2 of ask us anything. We continue our conversation and answering questions that you as an audience submitted to us. Some of the questions we received and answer in this episode are:What if my wife never wants to have a high sex drive? What are your thoughts on backdoor (anal) sex? My husband is cheating; should I divorce? Is TV in the bedroom healthy or not? Why do men keep trying so hard for their family when they know their marriage is over? Can you be friends ...
In this episode, we dive deep into the questions you submitted on social media, and no topic was off-limits. We encouraged you to ask anything, and you delivered with a wide range of insightful, thought-provoking, and sometimes challenging questions.From dealing with conflict resolution and communication barriers to managing finances and balancing personal and relationship goals, we tackle the real issues that many couples face. Each question opens up a discussion that not only provides answe...
Yes, we know this can go both ways and it's not always the wife, but in this episode, we tackle the 6 types of wives who don't enjoy being intimate with their husbands. We discuss the reasons why women make excuses to not be intimate with their husbands, and many of them are valid excuses.As we always talk about, we are trying to help marriages become more connected and find "Ultimate Intimacy." For that to happen, sometimes we need to recognize the mistakes or things we are doing that keep t...
In Episode 277, we explored the habits wives should stop doing to foster a more peaceful and intimate marriage. Now, it's time to turn the spotlight on husbands.There's no question that as men, we can develop some bad habits or make mistakes that create conflict in our relationships. Nick can personally attest to this. Often, we don't even recognize these habits or the impact they have on our marriages.In this episode, we will identify the common habits that husbands tend to fall into that pr...
Ever wondered how a simple query like "What do you need from me right now?" can revolutionize your marriage? In a heartfelt exchange, we unravel the complexities of marital intimacy and uncover the keys to a deeper connection. We discuss how open communication and teamwork are essential in understanding and fulfilling each other's needs.If you feel like your marriage isn't where you want it to be (which is many of us), then this episode is for you. In this episode we share the 8 questions you...
There are many habits that a wife can get into if they are not careful, that can cause disconnect and conflict in the marriage. Habits are things are being done or said constantly and could include, nagging, complaining and other things. Sometimes these habits are completely understandable and justified... but often times can turn into "habits" that occur regularly and become normal in the relationship.In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the habits that wife's should stop doing to have a be...
This is an episode that both the high desire and low desire spouse (every couple) is going to want to listen to. As many of you know, Nick is a high desire spouse, and Amy is a low desire spouse, yet they have a great sex life. In this episode Nick puts Amy on the spot and she answers all the important questions about how she (as a lower desire spouse) makes sexual intimacy a priority, and she also shares the things high desire husbands need to know about their low desire wife.If you are look...
The big myth that a hefty paycheck equals husband of the year.We get a ton of men telling us on our social media, "My wife should be intimate with me because I provide for the family," not realizing that there is so much more to being a good husband than just providing for the family, although that is very important.Although bringing home the bacon is a great thing, there is much more, which we unpack in this great episode. So if you are a husband who is a good man and wants to connect more w...
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