Married to Addiction

If you’ve ever wondered why you should keep praying when nothing seems to change—or felt like your prayers are just hitting a brick wall—this episode is for you.When you’re married to an alcoholic, it’s easy to feel hopeless and wonder: What’s the point of praying if God is going to do what He wants anyway?In this heartfelt episode, we’ll talk about:Why prayer isn’t about controlling outcomes—but about anchoring your soulHow prayer shifts our focus and brings strength when circumstances don’t changeWhy even Jesus prayed for a different outcome—and what that means for usWhat to pray for when you don’t even have the words anymoreFriend, your prayers are not wasted. God hears the cries of your heart, even when all you can offer are tears or silence.💛 If you’ve been weary, discouraged, or questioning whether prayer even matters—this conversation will remind you why it does.👉 For deeper support, including the full lesson “What Your Prayer Life Should Look Like Right Now,” join me inside the Secret Sisters Circle: secretsisterscircle.com____________________________________________________PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join my Secret Sisters Circle coaching program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

If you’ve ever wondered why you feel stuck, numb, or constantly on edge while living with your husband’s addiction—this episode is for you.I’m sharing what I’ve learned on my own journey of healing from nervous system dysregulation—and why this hidden struggle might be at the root of so many things that still feel hard for you.You’ll hear:Why your body reacts like it’s “in danger” even in calm momentsHow long-term stress affects your mind, body, faith, and relationshipsThe real reason boundaries and coping tools feel impossible sometimesWhat healing your nervous system can unlock in your life and faithA gentle, faith-aligned way to begin this healingFriend, none of this is your fault—and you don’t have to stay stuck in survival mode. Come listen and take the first step toward peace.👉 Join the Secret Sisters Circle to get help with this beginning today: secretsisterscircle.com____________________________________________________PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join my Secret Sisters Circle coaching program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Why does it seem like he keeps choosing alcohol over everything—especially you?In this powerful episode, we break down the truth so many wives of alcoholics need to hear.You’ll discover:Why addiction rewires the brain and overrides willpowerWhat’s really happening when he “chooses” rehabHow to stop carrying the weight of a decision he’s no longer capable of makingWhat you can do while he’s still in addiction—or early recoveryThis isn’t about excusing his behavior—it’s about freeing you from the confusion, shame, and heartbreak of trying to understand the impossible.💛 If you’re feeling unseen, unloved, or like you’re not “enough” for him to quit… this episode will bring clarity and relief.____________________________________________________PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

What do you say to your children when their dad is struggling with alcohol?How much do they need to know?And how can you protect them—without damaging their relationship with him?In this episode, we’re tackling one of the hardest parts of being the wife of an alcoholic with children: setting healthy, loving boundaries that keep your kids safe, informed, and emotionally supported.You’ll learn:Why boundaries are essential for kids living in a home with addictionHow to talk about Dad’s drinking in an age-appropriate, grace-filled wayThree practical ways to teach emotional boundaries without making kids feel responsibleWhether your kids are tiny or teens, this episode offers guidance, language, and perspective to help you lead with love while protecting their hearts.💛 Bonus Mention: Inside the Secret Sisters Circle, you’ll find deeper coaching and resources specific to each age group—designed to help your children navigate this situation with truth, grace, and emotional safety.---------------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Can you love your alcoholic spouse and still protect your peace? Yes. But it takes intention—and it starts with you.In this heartfelt and practical episode, we’ll explore:Why the line between love and self-neglect gets blurry in addictionHow to love your husband without losing your identity or sanity3 powerful ways to care for yourself while still showing up with compassionIf you’ve been feeling drained, lost, or unsure how to keep going, this episode will help you reclaim your strength, your voice, and your daily peace.💛 You’ll also hear about:→ How healthy boundaries can help (not hurt) your relationship→ Daily spiritual tools to refill your soul→ Where to find the right support and healing path for you👉 Listen now, and then head to marriedtoaddiction.com to explore what support option is right for your current season.---------------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Feeling overwhelmed by the idea of setting boundaries with your alcoholic spouse? You’re not alone, and good news.....you don’t have to change everything overnight.In fact, you can start with just *one* small change.In this episode we’ll walk through:What a micro-boundary is (and why it’s so powerful)How to choose one small boundary that protects your peaceA simple 3-step plan to actually follow through—without confrontation or fearIf you’ve been longing to feel more empowered, more grounded, and more aligned with God’s desire for your healing, this episode will give you the clarity and courage to take that first small but mighty step.👉🏻 Listen now—and then visit marriedtoaddiction.com to take your next step with the Boundaries Mini Course.---------------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

You know those times when you're so overwhelmed that you don't even know what feeling you're feeling??Or you are just so over it that you feel completely numb?Maybe you're just experiencing SO many emotions at one time that you can't even *begin* to start processing through your feelings?That's a tough place to be, and unfortunately as wives of alcoholics we find ourselves experiencing those things a lot.In this episode I'll share with you a really powerful practice to employ during those times. And I've even put together a free resource to get you started.Please tune in to learn more.👉🏻 To get the FREE 'What Now' Private Online Journal please click here: Get the Free Journal---------------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

You know the feeling, right? You hear a bottle crack open and think 'Oh, heeeeere we go!'That thought might also be accompanied by sweaty palms, an increased heart rate, or anger rising up in your chest.You're triggered.In this episode we will talk about what is actually happening to us when we feel this way.And I'll help you put together a Personal Response Plan to use so it doesn't suck the air out of your lungs going forward. ---------------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

I'm sure you've heard the term 'new year, new you', right? It implies that the beginning of a new year is a chance to better ourselves and/or our situation. Except that's not usually what happens, is it? Instead we set some intentions and maybe even make some changes for a while, but nothing ends up changing long-term. So in today's episode I'm giving you just *two* things to focus on right now as we move into a new year. Two things that if you are intentional about them will go a LONG way towards getting you closer to the positive long-term changes you're so desperately wanting. Tune in to find out what they are. _______________________________________________________ PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠click here⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. I felt like I was married to *both* of them. One was nice. The other not so much. But actually they both irritated me, if I'm being honest. In this episode we will talk about the two personalities our husbands sometimes seem to take on due to their drinking. I'll also give you some guidance around how to navigate each of them. _______________________________________________________ PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Do you spend a lot of time thinking about the worst case scenario in your marriage? I sure did. In this episode we will talk about some of the worst case scenarios that hold us hostage. I'll also discuss... What if it doesn’t happen? What if it does happen? And what if you just stay in a holding pattern for an extended period of time? --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

My guest for this episode is Tanya Gioia, a Family Recovery Coach and host of the 'Sober on Purpose' podcast. Tanya and I discuss financial infidelity, which is something that affects most marriages where addiction is involved due to the addict's continual need for substances. We'll outline exactly what financial infidelity is, how it shows up, what to do if it is happening in your relationship, and how to protect yourself going forward. We also discuss not one but TWO awesome opportunities for you to get lots of *free* help during the month of October through events that Tanya and I are hosting. You don't want to miss this one! --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In this episode I am speaking with one of my Secret Sisters Circle members about her journey as the wife of an alcoholic. I think you will find SO many relatable shares in this episode. I hope it encourages you and helps you feel less alone, knowing that others can relate to *so* many of the things that you are going through. If you'd like to join us in the Secret Sisters Circle (or just learn more about it) just head to ⁠marriedtoaddiction.com/secret-sisters-membership⁠ --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Are you unknowingly setting yourself up for more pain, heartache and frustration as the wife of an alcoholic? Sometimes along this journey we end up inadvertently doing things that actually make it even harder for us. In this episode I will share with you three things you might be doing to set yourself up, and we will talk about how they might be harming you. If you are currently doing any of these things please know that you are not alone! I did literally all of them when my husband was deep in addiction. But my hope with this episode is that it will shed some light for you and spare you some additional heartache going forward. --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Sure wish I could've found someone to give me a dollar every time I said that back when my husband was deep in addiction! I would be rolling in the dough. It seemed so obvious to me back then. Most of my problems stemmed from my husband's drinking. Therefore if he stopped drinking so would my problems. In this episode we will talk about the BIG problem with this way of thinking. I'll also give you some important shifts you can make towards a mindset that will serve you much better. --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Obviously we focus mostly on alcoholism here on the podcast because that is the type of addiction that I walked through personally with my husband. But what about other types of addiction? How do they differ and how are they the same? Is there anything that we as wives need to do differently depending on what our husband is addicted to? We'll talk about all of that in this episode. --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Triggers. As wives of alcoholics we experience them daily. Sometimes even multiple times a day. They affect us to or core: emotionally, mentally, and many times even physically. (Ever felt sick to your stomach when you realize your husband has been drinking?) They also affect what we *do*. And sometimes we do things that are not in our best interest because of our triggers. So in this episode I will give you some best practices for dealing with your triggers. This is important guidance for every wife of an alcoholic. --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Staying stuck in the negativity of being married to an alcoholic is a place where most wives stay, at least for a while. I mean, it's understandable....this is a really hard thing to go through. And it's hard not to find yourself drowning in the difficulty of it all. Problem is that when we stay there it *poisons* us. And the longer you stay there the worse it gets. But HOW can we not stay stuck in negativity when most everything in our lives feels negative due to our husband's drinking. I'll offer you some tips on how to do just that in this episode. --------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Let's talk about silence. When is it good? When is it bad? And how can we know the difference? In this episode I'll talk about the value...and danger...of intentionally using silence in your relationship with your alcoholic husband. -------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

It can feel like the last thing we are concerned about as the wife of an alcoholic....caring for ourselves. We are usually so caught up in our husband's life that we feel like we just *don't* have the time or energy to worry about us. But as a result we fall deeper and deeper into a pit of neglect, ending up a shell of our former selves. And when you add that to all of the emotional trauma we are experiencing in our day-to-day lives it is truly a recipe for disaster. In this episode we will talk about what 'making yourself a priority' means, what it *is* and what it *isn't*, and I'll give you three simple steps to get you started. -------------------------------------------------------- PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available. 👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my Boundaries Mini Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To join the Secret Sisters Circle (my group for Christian wives of alcoholics) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.