Imperfect Heroes: Insights Into Parenting

This podcast episode explores the challenges and changes parents face as their children grow, focusing on the transition to empty nesters. In the segment, DJ discusses the emotional journey of parenthood, highlighting the importance of adapting parenting styles, managing emotions, and allowing children to become independent. Tune in as she reflects on the evolving nature of affection, the necessity of letting children navigate their own problems, and the significance of continued personal growth for parents. And stick around, DJ announces additional content like workshops, blogs, and bonus episodes to support you in your parenting journey.TIMESTAMPS3:45 - Parenting changes require adaptability and flexibility.5:39 - Parenthood brings unexpected joys and sorrows, requiring prioritization and self-reflection.8:06 - As children grow, affection displays evolve, becoming more independent and less physical.13:12 - Parents must let go of control and allow children to solve problems independently.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleLink to insiders https://little-hearts-academy-usa.newzenler.com/courses/imperfect-heroes-insidersLink to blog https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/blog/Link to Parent Perspectives. https://little-hearts-academy-usa.newzenler.com/editor/2199069🎙️ Podcast Production by Dandelion MediaSupport the show

This podcast episode explores the theme of managing changes in parenting, discussing various types of changes from small inconveniences to significant life events like moving or loss. In the segment, host DJ Stutz and guest Cindy Hunt, share their experiences and strategies for helping children navigate change, underscoring the importance of open communication, problem-solving, and allowing space for emotions. Listen in as they also discuss the role of being a parental example and creating a positive, fun environment for children to thrive in. Stay tuned! Throughout the discussion, they acknowledge the challenges of parenting and the importance of supporting children through various transitions.Cindy Hunt is an outdoor-loving, adventure-seeking mom and photographer. She has three girls, 11, 8, and 6, and a fantastic husband who makes her world go ‘round.TIMESTAMPS4:27 - Cindy shares how she prepares her kids for change by having simple conversations and mental preparation.12:31 - DJ shares tips for helping children cope with change, such as checking in with their own emotions and verbally walking through the process with them.18:14 - “Parents should be aware of red flags in young children's behavior, as early experiences can have lifelong impacts.”22:21 - Cindy finds it challenging as a parent to balance providing emotional support with fixing problems, recognizing the importance of space and trust-building in the process.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleCindy Hunt - Website: https://www.cindyhuntphoto.mypixieset.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cindyhuntphoto/?hl=enFacebook: https://m.facebook.com/cindyhuntphotoSupport the show

The episode discusses strategies for parents and children to navigate transitions and changes, emphasizing the importance of unconditional support, acknowledging losses, and embracing uniqueness.In the segment , DJ invited Parent Coach and Internal Family Systems Practitioner Joris Gjata on the show to discuss the challenges children face dealing with changes. Listen in as Joris shares her personal journey of transitions, offering insights and strategies for parents to support their children through changes like moving or cultural adjustments. And stay tuned as Joris emphasizes the importance of acknowledging losses, providing unconditional support, and fostering a sense of belonging and self-worth in children. Joris was born in Albania and has a rich educational background spanning Turkey, the United Kingdom, and the United States. Currently residing in the Greater Boston Area, she is deeply committed to fostering a sense of rest and belonging for individuals, even amidst uncertain times and life changes. As a Parent Coach and Internal Family Systems Practitioner, her passion lies in nurturing wisdom and belonging within families and communities, with a focus on securing a prosperous future for upcoming generations. Drawing from her extensive expertise, she adeptly taps into the wealth of wisdom inherent in partnerships.TIMESTAMPS2:15 Parenting coaches and transition coaches support individuals in becoming more rested and confident, especially during moments of change and transition.12:48 Parents going through changes and transitions should acknowledge what is lost and grieve, while also recognizing their strengths and values for support.17:29 Joris shares the importance of setting aside dedicated time for connection and nurturing relationships with loved ones, acknowledging that it takes effort and intention.25:28 DJ shares strategies for helping children and families connect and become part of a community, despite challenges posed by cultural differences or changes in environment.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleJoris Gjata - Website: https://www.jorisgjata.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jorisgjataphd/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jorisgjata/Support the show

This podcast episode is focused on helping children navigate changes effectively by providing strategies for parents. In the segment, DJ discusses the importance of structure, stability, and resilience in managing both big changes like divorce or moving, as well as smaller ones like routine adjustments. Listen in as she advises parents to acknowledge their own emotions and involve children in decision-making processes to help them feel heard and secure. Stay tuned! The episode also highlights the significance of maintaining routines, offering choices, and fostering open communication to support children through various life changes, ultimately emphasizing the role of parents as anchors and sources of comfort for their children.TIMESTAMPS• [1:28] DJ suggests that changes, even small ones, can be challenging for children and adults alike, and it's important to check in with your own emotions and assess how you are feeling about the change.• [7:18] DJ also suggests involving children in planning and preparation for moves or changes to help them manage their emotions and feel more in control (17:18).• [15:01] DJ discusses how to talk to children about absent loved ones, emphasizing honesty and openness while avoiding embellishment.• [31:13] DJ emphasizes the importance of consistency and familiarity for children during times of change, serving as a source of comfort and stability.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleSupport the show

This podcast episode explores the concept of patience in parenting, highlighting how impatience pervades modern society and affects interactions with children.In the segment, DJ references expert insights, delves into the developmental aspects of patience in children, suggests strategies for promoting patience and addresses impatience-related challenges. Listen in as she talks about setting examples, engaging in activities, and minimizing screen time to foster patience in both parents and children. TIMESTAMPS• [2:36] “Impatience is fueled by rapid technological advancements and is passed down to children through media and personal behavior.” • [8:52] At age 4-5, kids are self-centered and struggle with building skills, but begin to develop perspective-taking abilities and self-regulation.• [13:28] DJ Stutz suggests giving children alternatives to waiting, such as playing with toys or coloring, to help them develop patience.• [20:36] DJ Stutz encourages parents to use patience and teach their kids to manage their bodies and minds, rather than relying on screens for entertainment.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleSupport the show

This podcast episode delves into the imperfections of parenting, encouraging open admission of mistakes for a mutual learning environment between parents and children.In the segment, Lindsey Terry, a mother of three, shares insights on cultivating patience in parenting. Listen in as she underscores the importance of starting patience practices early, even with newborns, advising exhausted mothers to count to ten or fifteen and take deep breaths. Stay tuned as Lindsey advocates for teaching children self-control through techniques like deep breathing and discussing situations calmly. Additionally, she highlights the significance of setting expectations and the role of community support in alleviating the challenges of parenting alone. TIMESTAMPS• [7:42] Lindsey shares how she uses role-playing to help her children resolve conflicts, practice empathy and develop communication skills.• [12:02] Lindsay & DJ discuss the importance of setting expectations and boundaries with your children before going grocery shopping, to avoid tantrums and meltdowns.• [18:23] “Find balance between personal time and motherhood… even small moments of peace can be valuable.” • [25:34] DJ emphasizes the importance of leaning on others for support, especially for parents raising children alone. For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleSupport the show

Dive into this episode for a profound exploration of the dynamics of patience and gain valuable insights into fostering this essential quality.In the segment, DJ hosted Dr. Stephen Rowley, who brought his wealth of experience and a profound emphasis on instilling patience in children. Listen in as they unravel the essence of patience and its pivotal role across various facets of life. And stay tuned as Dr. Rowley underscores the extraordinary impact of unstructured play, the power of self-reflection, and the significance of meaningful connections in nurturing patience, a virtue crucial for both children and adults alike. TIMESTAMPS• [4:51] DJ and Dr. Rowley agree that patience is an acquired skill, and delayed gratification is also an important aspect of patience.• [7:12] Stephen emphasizes the importance of becoming aware of one's mind and its inherent distractibility, and how this awareness can lead to a higher level of spiritual consciousness… and more patience. • [11:39] Dr. Rowley suggests identifying and understanding the underlying complexes or triggers that contribute to impatience to help develop more effective strategies for managing emotions and behaviors. • [16:52] DJ & Stephen discuss the importance of self-reliance in children, citing examples of how modern society's emphasis on structured activities can stifle creativity and inner drive.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleDr. Stephen RowleyWebsite: https://stephenrowley108.com/memoir/Twitter: https://twitter.com/srowley108Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/srowley108Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephenrowley108/LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/stephen-rowley-ma-lmhc-b83ab811Support the show

This podcast episode encourages parents to set realistic expectations based on each child's age and temperament, promoting a journey of growth and understanding rather than expecting immediate perfection.In the segment, host DJ Stutz explores the theme of teaching and developing patience in children. Listen in as DJ emphasizes the importance of modeling patience as parents and highlights the positive impact it has on children's relationships, academic performance, and future success. Stay tuned as she shares practical tips, such as using timers, songs, and activities like the marshmallow test to help children grasp the concept of time and develop patience. TIMESTAMPS• [3:40] “Parents can teach children patience by modeling it and practicing it daily.“ • [9:03] DJ suggests using familiar objects or activities to help children understand time.• [13:58] DJ explains how using songs and activities can help children understand waiting.• [18:51] DJ shares how engaging children in activities like gardening, puzzles, and treasure hunts will develop their fine motor skills and patience.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleSupport the show

This episode explores the profound impact parents have on shaping their children's understanding and practice of love throughout their lives.In the segment, DJ explores the importance of teaching children about love and its various dimensions. Tune in as DJ talks about building a foundation of love within the family, introducing the concept of different types of love, and teaching appropriate ways to express love in various situations. Listen in as she emphasizes actions and emotions associated with love, encouraging parents to engage in early conversations with their children about feelings and relationships. And stay tuned as she addresses extending the circle of love to friends, teachers, and even strangers, promoting kindness and compassion. TIMESTAMPS• [2:47] DJ discusses teaching children about love, starting with building a foundation of love in your own family.• [7:54] DJ suggests starting conversations with children about love and relationships by asking them what they like about someone and how they show love. • [12:30] DJ emphasizes the importance of being patient and mindful of the words we use when communicating with children, as it can shape their language and behavior.• [27:06] DJ shares the importance of educating children about healthy relationships and boundaries, and encourages parents to listen to their kids and offer help when needed.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleLink to episode with Tyson Wright.  https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/episode-91-operation-underground-railroad-and-putting-an-end-to-human-trafficking-with-tyson-wright/Support the show

This episode explores the dynamics of parenting, including understanding children's emotions and fostering strong family relationships. In this episode, Jenna Jones, a stay-at-home mom, shares her experiences of juggling parenting, work, and household responsibilities. Listen in as the conversation covers themes of love, parenting challenges, and finding balance amidst life changes. Stay tuned as Jenna discusses practical strategies, like creating special moments with her kids and emphasizes the importance of play. TIMESTAMPS• [8:08] Parenting tip: “Let kids get dirty, it's okay to take a bath.” • [13:34] DJ and Jenna discuss the common misconception that the "terrible twos" are inherently terrible, and instead, they explore the reasons behind toddlers' temper tantrums, such as communication barriers and overstimulation.• [17:28] DJ and Jenna agree that providing a supportive environment and encouraging children to explore and try new things can help build confidence and resilience.• [22:07] Jenna and DJ share personal anecdotes and insights on how playtime can be a way for fathers to show love and affection, even as children grow older.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleSupport the show

This podcast episode delves into the profound impact of children's early relationships, highlighting attachment disorders and the essential need for a secure environment. In the segment, DJ invited Dr. Sally Goldberg, an expert in early childhood education, to the show to discuss crucial aspects of parenting, with an emphasis on cultivating love, bonding, and fostering self-esteem from the very beginning. Tune in to understand the essential role of strong bonds in the mother-child relationship, which extends to encompass diverse extended family personalities, thereby shaping a child's foundation for future relationships. Stay tuned to hear practical tips including the importance of holding and hugging, avoiding pacifier overuse, and staying informed about effective parenting practices to establish a foundation for a healthy parent-child relationship.Sally Goldberg, Ph.D. was the first parenting expert on “Parent to Parent,” a FOX TV Channel 7 weekly news segment. Dr. Sally is a professor of education and parenting book author. A prolific magazine writer, Dr. Sally has been published often in a multitude of magazines across the country. Her regular columns have appeared in Florida Wise, Florida Baby, Today’s Parent, and Viewpointe. Her unique, logical, and down-to-earth advice has been quoted in numerous magazines and newspapers including Parents Magazine and American Baby. Consumer Reports featured her concepts in two major editions of Best Baby Products.TIMESTAMPS• [5:48] Sally emphasizes the importance of understanding what's going on in a baby's head, and how parents can be teachers and bearers of this information to make the most of their time with their baby.• [8:33] Babies' minds are active even before birth, learning and processing information from their environment.• [19:47] Dr. Goldberg discusses the importance of holding, hugging, and touching babies, as these actions help form a strong bond and lay the foundation for future emotional development.• [25:31] Sally and Dj talk about the importance of setting boundaries for children while also allowing them to explore and investigate their surroundings. For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleDr. Sally GoldbergWebsite: https://www.earlychildhoodnews.net/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100076383874757LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sally-goldberg-ph-d-1b8780177/Amazon: https://www.amazon.cSupport the show

This podcast episode encourages parents to engage positively, set boundaries with love, and emphasizes the long-term impact of a child's early experiences on their future well-being.In the segment, DJ announces changes in her podcast format going forward to focus on raising independent and kind children by emphasizing values and morals. February’s theme revolves around fostering love in childhood, highlighting its significant impact on a child's well-being, social-emotional, cognitive, and physical development. Listen in as DJ shares her personal anecdotes, such as the importance of skin-to-skin contact after childbirth, and offers advice on creating a safe and loving environment for children. TIMESTAMPS• [4:14] DJ discusses the importance of skin-to-skin contact after birth and its impact on early relationship development.• [13:26] On parenting strategies for soothing a crying baby, DJ recommends tag-teaming with a partner or other supportive person to share the responsibilities of caring for a crying baby, allowing for necessary rest and self-care.• [18:44] On strategies for toddler’s safety and boundaries, DJ emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and taking away unsafe items, while also acknowledging that every child is different and may require different approaches.• [28:42] By modeling self-regulation, DJ suggests we can teach our children how to correct themselves when they are in the wrong. For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleSupport the show

This podcast episode contains insights into creating a positive and joyful food environment to instill good habits in children.In the segment, DJ interviews Judith Yeabsley, an accredited picky eater advisor, who advocates for a balanced approach to feeding children and encourages parents to guide food choices without being dictators. Listen in as she suggests offering options like "peas or carrots with the chicken" to involve children in decision-making. Stay tuned as she discusses how Introducing a variety of foods early on, including meat and vegetables, positively shapes taste preferences and how involving kids in food preparation, such as shopping and washing vegetables, enhances their familiarity and comfort with diverse foods. Judith, MA Cantab (Cambridge University), Post Grad Dip Psychology (Massey University), is an AOTA accredited picky eating advisor and internationally certified nutritional therapist. She works with 100+ families every year resolving fussy eating and returning pleasure and joy to the meal table. She is also mum to two boys and the author of Creating Confident Eaters and Winner Winner I Eat Dinner. Her dream is that every child is able to approach food from a place of safety and joy, not fear. TIMESTAMPS• [4:49] Judith shares that parents' stress over child's selective eating can exacerbate the problem.• [11:15] Judith suggests mixing store-bought baby food jars with homemade purees and family foods for baby led weaning because baby food consistency and uniformity can hinder texture and taste development. • [17:22] Serving vegetables as snacks to help children become more comfortable with them.• [28:48] Judith suggests involving children in meal planning and cooking to promote healthy eating habits and autonomy.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleJudith Yeabsley -Website: https://www.theconfidenteater.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconfidenteater/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theconfidenteater/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzTEALraCVQBldWQc1QqefQLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/judith-yeabsley-5b87a673/Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.nz/e403a43e58acd8d8a706bed7150803/Support the show

This podcast episode provides practical tips for parents to minimize tech time and engage children in meaningful activities that contribute to language acquisition and essential life skills.In this segment, Marci Melzer, a seasoned speech therapist, addresses the challenges parents encounter in raising children in the digital age, particularly focusing on late speech development and the emergence of "virtual autism." Listen in as she and DJ discuss the crucial role of parents as primary language facilitators and as they critique the automatic labeling of late-talking children as autistic. Stay tuned to hear Marci advocate for creating a connected community around children, stressing the importance of exposure to peers and familiar adults to enhance language development and social skills. Marci Melzer is what you might call an "old school" speech pathologist with more than 3 decades of research and development experience from her therapy practice. Marci has personally worked with thousands of clients in medical, educational, clinical, and natural environments, and thousands more have benefitted from her teachings in the 5.5 years she has been coaching online. Over the years, Marci has learned exactly what parents need to facilitate the kind of improvement they want... FUNctional speech that a child can use with everyone.TIMESTAMPS• [2:34] Marci categorizes late-talking children as "virtual autism" due to over-diagnosis and lack of speech therapy.• [10:58] Marci argues that today's children are "parented by tech" due to increased screen time and decreased parental involvement.• [12:44] “Technology is not teaching children important life skills, such as taking turns in talking and learning about the value of hard work and budgeting.”• [18:12] DJ & Marci discuss the importance of giving parents the responsibility to teach their children, rather than relying on schools to provide the necessary support.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleMarci Melter -Website: https://www.wavesofcommunication.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wavesofcommunicationFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/wavesofcommunication/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wavesofcommunicationAmazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MJ3K798/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=marci+melzer&qid=1638451001&sr=8-2Support the show

In this podcast episode, DJ talks with Kaley Metler, a fitness enthusiast and youth sports program organizer from Canada. Listen in as Kaley shares her experiences encouraging kids to engage in outdoor activities, especially during cold weather and as she expresses the importance of community involvement in homeschooling. Stay tuned because Kaley discusses the need for parents to be proactive in fostering outdoor play for their children, even in winter and shares insights into her fitness programs, including activities like skating, tobogganing, and creative games, while highlighting the positive impact on children's physical health, mental well-being and confidence levels. TIMESTAMPS• [3:40] Kaley talks about the  winter activities for homeschoolers in Canada, including skating and tobogganing.• [10:12] DJ & Kaley emphasize building community through outdoor play. • [20:41] Kaley highlights the importance of allowing children to explore and play, making them the best athletes and businessmen/women in the future. • [22:29] DJ & Kaley discuss childhood freedom and safety; and kids finding ways to socialize and have fun despite distance and transportation challenges.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz -Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rkoDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastCICERONE MASTERS Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/cicerone-mastersONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleKaley Metler - Website: https://www.kjstransformationfitness.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kjs_transformation_fitness/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/transformyourbody22LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaley-metler/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCC0XRvERYCAHWvJn3Ej6KRAPinterest: https://www.pinterest.ca/coachmetler/Episode 91 with Tyson Wright Link to news story https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHtEWz_U4boLink to Dad builds snow hill. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQM-ArFgzX0Support the show

In this episode, special guest Melinda Mulcahy is sharing the pivotal role of language and curiosity in parenting young children. Listen in as she and DJ discuss the positive impact of tweaking language to align with the brain's understanding, fostering curiosity to enhance a child's life. And stay tuned! Melinda is highlighting the benefits of curiosity, including improved observation, mindfulness, and happiness… and providing practical examples, such as using curiosity to navigate challenging situations and enhance communication with children, ultimately promoting growth and development. Melinda Mulcahy is one of only a handful of Curiosity Specialists in the world. She helps you understand your greatest superpower - your curiosity - so that you can take control and thrive in negativity, challenge, complexity or uncertainty. She does this by helping individuals and organizations understand exactly how curiosity works and its numerous benefits – because curiosity is so much more than just asking questions. This enables you to capitalize on how you think, take action and get what you want, or something even better.TIMESTAMPS• [5:09] Melinda discusses the importance of language in personal growth, suggesting that tweaking one's inner dialogue can significantly impact life.• [10:50] Melinda shares that she uses "I wonder" questions to diffuse difficult situations with children and teenagers by showing curiosity and interest in their perspectives.• [15:49] Melinda explains that curiosity downregulates stress hormones and engages the neocortex, improving resilience and brain health.• [28:50] DJ & Melinda talk about their obsession with curiosity, believing it's essential for emotional intelligence, self-regulation, and success.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz - Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQRumble: https://rumble.com/v449rko-episode-131-resolution-realities-strategies-to-top-yelling-at-children.htmlDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastCICERONE MASTERS Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/cicerone-mastersONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleMelinda MulcahyWebsite: https://www.curiousyou.com/Twitter: https://twitter.com/melindamulcahyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/melindamulcahy/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MelindaMulcahy/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melindamulcahy1/TikTok: https://tiktok.com/melindamulcahySupport the show

Welcome to season 4 and the first episode in 2024 of the Imperfect Heroes podcast! In this podcast episode, DJ explores challenges and strategies related to New Year resolutions with a focus on a common issue of yelling at our kids. Listen in as DJ discusses the varying approaches people take towards resolutions and as she delves into the impact of yelling at our children… noting the potential negative outcomes and providing practical tips to curb this behavior. Stay tuned as she encourages self-reflection, seeking feedback from our children, teachers, and personal observations to initiate positive change and make the process enjoyable. YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/XRnxl0__JVERumble Link: https://rumble.com/v449rko-episode-131-resolution-realities-strategies-to-stop-yelling-at-children.htmlTIMESTAMPS• [5:58] DJ discusses her coaching which helps parents and caregivers with parenting goals, including reducing yelling and improving relationships with children. • [8:40] DJ encourages parents to give themselves grace and find ways to reduce yelling frequency and volume to be more effective in disciplining their children.• [13:19] “Yelling at kids can trigger stress response in both parent & child, leading to negative beliefs & low self-esteem.”• [21:57] DJ shares parents' frequent yelling can create a sense of insecurity in children, leading to stress and anxiety.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz - Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastCICERONE MASTERS Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/cicerone-mastersONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleSupport the show

In this podcast episode, DJ has a lively conversation with the jolly man himself - Santa Claus! Grab your children and listen in as Santa shares insights into life at the North Pole, mentioning a recent heatwave at -40 degrees, and sheds light on the magic behind the flying reindeer, explaining the combination of special breeding and Christmas magic. Be sure to stay tuned! Santa also delves into the activities of the elves during the summer, with some heading to the South Pole for a change of scenery. Father Christmas also addresses various questions from children around the world, explaining that elves attend school in "Santa's Village" and describing Mrs. Claus’ role in logistics and developing the reindeer genetics program. Santa reassures children that it's hard for them to end up on the naughty list and encourages kindness. The episode touches on various fun aspects, including leaving carrots for the reindeer, the appearance of elves, and Santa's use of a magic key for houses without fireplaces. Santa and everyone up at the North Pole hope you’ll tune in!TIMESTAMPS• [4:20] Santa tells listeners that all the elves go on holiday to South Pole for the cold weather and penguin jokes.• [15:40] Santa explains that Mrs. Claus is the brains of the operation, working on reindeer genetics and logistics to ensure efficient delivery.• [21:57] DJ is worried about Krampus, an evil creature who punishes naughty children, but Santa Claus reassures her that Krampus is not real.• [36:26] “Look at your children with wonder and pride, as they are doing a hard job growing up in a changing world.“For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz - Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastCICERONE MASTERS Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/cicerone-mastersONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleMike Facherty (a.k.a. Santa Claus)Website: https://henleysanta.com/Podcast: https://santasvillagevoice.buzzsprout.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063765364221LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mike-facherty/You might want to watch this one on YouTube (Little Hearts Academy USA) or on Rumble (Imperfect Heroes) so you can see Santa.  He is taking questions from kids from around the US, the UK and Spain.Support the show

Are you ready to prioritize love and kindness to transform your perspective and foster a more positive and loving environment in your life? This episode holds the key! In this episode, DJ invited author Paul Zolman on the show to share his remarkable journey from a challenging upbringing marked by abuse to a life focused on spreading love. Listen in to hear Paul tell the story of growing up in a family with 19 children, witnessing his father's struggles and the impact it had on their household. And stay tuned to hear how as an adult, he realized the residual anger he carried and decided to break the cycle… developing the "Roll of Love," a daily practice where he rolls a die to determine which love language he'll focus on that day… emphasizing the importance of teaching children to love to create a lasting impact on future generations.TIMESTAMPS• [9:00] Paul shares his abusive family history reflects on his upbringing, realizing he was taught to blame others for his problems, rather than taking responsibility.• [14:36] Paul discusses his struggles with understanding love languages, citing Dr. Chapman's book as a source of inspiration but ultimately feeling that the applications provided are not effective for him and shares a game he created to solve it.• [19:39] DJ & Paul talk about using a "Love Jar" to teach children about expressing love and appreciation. • [28:29] Paul found shifting focus from what's wrong to what's right with others led to reduced annoyance and increased positivity. For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz - Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastCICERONE MASTERS Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/cicerone-mastersONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundlePaul Zolman - Website: https://www.roleoflove.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/roleoflovediceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/roleoflovediceInstagram: https://instagram.com/roleoflovedice/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulzolman/Gary Chapman's BookSupport the show

In this special episode, DJ explores the challenges and stress associated with the holiday season and shares six keys to manage and find joy amidst the chaos. Listen in as she talks about the overwhelming nature of decorating, party planning, cooking, and gift-buying, and as she delves into the impact on both adults and children. And stay tuned for tips on prioritizing and managing time effectively, nurturing family traditions, finding a balance in cooking and party planning, thoughtful gift-giving, and practicing self-care. TIMESTAMPS• [4:52] DJ discusses the importance of setting priorities and boundaries to manage time effectively. • [9:55] DJ talks about the importance of family traditions and how they help create a sense of belonging and understanding of heritage. • [17:58] “Delegate cooking tasks to others and focus on enjoying the holiday traditions rather than trying to do everything yourself.” • [23:09] DJ advises against overspending and suggests homemade gifts as a more personal and affordable option.For more information on the Imperfect Heroes podcast, visit: https://www.imperfectheroespodcast.com/Connect with Us!DJ Stutz - Website: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/littleheartsacademy/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleheartsacademy/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOpphCRklDJiFXdS76U0LSQDJ Stutz Booking Link: https://bookme.name/ImperfectheroespodcastCICERONE MASTERS Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/cicerone-mastersONE ON ONE COACHING Link: https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/one-on-one-coaching-bundleAdventures in Parenting: Traveling with Kids https://www.littleheartsacademyusa.com/courses/adventures-in-parenthood  *DON'T FORGET TO USE coupon code Christmas at checkout!Support the show