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A smart & funny weekly audio series about sex, love, and dating from 4 queer Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC.
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Today’s episode is a REWIND of an episode hosted in 2016 by Sam and Shanika all about the importance of an intersectional feminist approach to revolution as well as the necessity of self care in times of resistance. The intro to this episode features Sam, reiterating the ways in which we must look at this moment as it pertains to all Black folks — because whether you’re aware or not All Black folks are suffering under an unjust policing and criminal justice system. Sam also gives out a list of orgs to donate to in order to support the varying intersections of Black folks, orgs to become involved with if you’ve been activated to do the work, and other tips, reminders, media and resources to keep in mind today and everyday.  *Note* The tittle of this episode is an episode title not to be conflated with the organization mentioned in this episode “The Movement For Black Lives”  Watch on this episode Youtube: https://youtu.be/wAxlSC7C38A Here's a Google Doc With all the resources mentioned in this episode: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1chECCCUOLyjJ4yr7GSBwMpVt2Y1UE6JL1fwlAENiedk/edit ORGS TO SUPPORT FINANCIALLY: Donate to folks on the Ground in Minnesota fighting for justice for George Floyd Black Visions Collective Learn more: https://www.blackvisionsmn.org/ Donate: https://secure.everyaction.com/4omQDAR0oUiUagTu0EG-Ig2 Support folks on the Ground in Louisville fighting for justice for Breonna Taylor Black Lives Matter Louisville Learn More: https://blackliveslouisville.org/ and https://www.instagram.com/blmlouisville/ Donate: https://blackliveslouisville.org/stand-up-sundays/donate/ Support folks on the Ground in Tallahassee fighting for justice for Tony McDade Tallahassee Community Action Committee Learn More: https://www.facebook.com/tallycac & https://www.instagram.com/tallycac/ & https://twitter.com/tallycac Donate: https://www.paypal.me/tallycac Support the Black Trans Travel Fund: Learn More: https://www.blacktranstravelfund.com/ Donate: https://www.blacktranstravelfund.com/donate Support Black Trans Media:  Learn more & Donate: https://www.facebook.com/blacktransmedia/photos/a.263133917179512/1512705758888982/?type=3&theater or https://afgj.org/donate-fsp Support The Okra Project’s Mental Health Resource for Trans Folks  Learn More: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScFbCqnPzsY0pSi39i_AjsTpVZpqJ20IOlJoX37N5qOHqN6cA/viewform Donate: https://www.paypal.me/theokraproject Support Incarcerated Sex Workers:  SWOP Behind Bars Learn More: https://www.swopbehindbars.org/ Donate: https://www.swopbehindbars.org/donate/ Support Incarcerated Black Mamas and Caregivers. The National Bail Out collective Learn More: https://nationalbailout.org/black-mamas-bail-out/ Donate: https://secure.actblue.com/donate/national-bail-out-1?amount=$100 Support Incarcerated Survivors of Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence Survived & Punished  Learn More: https://www.survivedandpunishedny.org/ Donate: https://www.survivedandpunishedny.org/mutual-aid/ Support Black, queer and POC Disabled Artists Sins Invalid  Learn More: https://www.sinsinvalid.org/ Donate: https://www.flipcause.com/secure/cause_pdetails/OTMxNQ Support the LGBT Freedom fund  Learn More: https://www.lgbtqfund.org/about-us Donate: https://www.lgbtqfund.org/donate-1 Volunteer: https://www.lgbtqfund.org/volunteer ORGS TO GET ACTIVE WITH:  Black Youth Project: https://www.byp100.org/chapters The Movement for Black Lives: https://m4bl.org/ Dream Defenders: https://dreamdefenders.org/squadds/ Black Lives Matter: https://blacklivesmatter.com/chapters/  Action STL: https://actionstl.org/ Black Visions Collective: https://www.blackvisionsmn.org/ The BlackOut Collective: https://blackoutcollective.org/ OTHER RESOURCES:  The Movement for Black Lives National Week of Action Call: https://www.facebook.com/watch/live/?v=287223139099058&ref=watch_permalink The Movement for Black Lives National Week of Action Plan: https://m4bl.org/week-of-action/  Find Your Role During a time of Resistance: (credit: Deepa Iyer & Tarisa Siagtonu)  https://www.instagram.com/p/B-X2s8pAR4o/ NY Voters: https://www.elections.ny.gov/votingabsentee.html Ballotpedia: https://ballotpedia.org/Main_Page  Media Literacy Courses: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8dPuuaLjXtM6jSpzb5gMNsx9kdmqBfmY https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8dPuuaLjXtN07XYqqWSKpPrtNDiCHTzU MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES: A Self Care Flow Chart that helps you to address what you might need in this exact moment: https://philome.la/jace_harr/you-feel-like-shit-an-interactive-self-care-guide/play/index.html The Nap Ministry: https://www.instagram.com/thenapministry/ Free Black Healing and Grieving Sessions via Ethel’s Club: https://ethelsclubnyc.typeform.com/to/V7zvFk Heal Haus (Meditation, talks, workshops, yoga): https://www.instagram.com/healhaus/ Therapy For Black Girls https://www.instagram.com/therapyforblackgirls/  SPIRITUAL RESOURCES Juju Bae, Black Ass Spiritual Content Curator: https://www.instagram.com/itsjujubae/ Jade T. Perry, Black Feminist Mystic and Tarot Reader: https://www.instagram.com/jadetperry/ IHU EPISODES S4E05 The OG’s of  #MeTOO: @ApplePodcasts: https://apple.co/2serUQc @Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/2EoxtjW S4E06 Women of the Black Panther Party: Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/2HiUeUY Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2F7uuug S4E07 Women and COINTEL PRO: Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/2CmPFtC Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2FxBh0p S4E08 Black Queer Story Month: Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/2oCLsZx ApplePodcasts: https://apple.co/1OUpOUo S4E11 Black Trans Heroines Past and Present: Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/2uaB01m Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/2DJ5043 S5E14 Feminista Jones: Apple: https://apple.co/2rM6k2l Soundcloud: https://bit.ly/2BET9VN Also recommending FJs book https://www.amazon.com/Reclaiming-Our-Space-Feminists-Battlefront/dp/0807055379 S5E51 Intimacy After the Apocalypse: Apple: https://apple.co/2WBOw8Y Soundcloud: https://bit.ly/2q3FZPP PODCAST SUGGESTIONS QueerWOC:https://apple.co/2DJlsnn Bag Ladiez:https://apple.co/2DLydxB Marshas Plate:https://apple.co/38hwEpk Tea with Queen and J:https://apple.co/2LDXxdt A Little Juju Podcast:https://apple.co/2YjRK1F Ms Vixen:https://apple.co/2OOTJru The Black Guy Who Tips:https://apple.co/2Yiaqic The Sexually Liberated Woman:https://apple.co/38adVvw 1619:https://apple.co/2DYQgRf Stush an Bush:https://apple.co/2OOTTPC In Those Genes:https://apple.co/33JY0ko  ADDITIONAL COMPREHENSIVE RESOURCE LISTS National Resource Lists for the Current Uprisings: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1CjZMORRVuv-I-qo4B0YfmOTqIOa3GUS207t5iuLZmyA/mobilebasic COVID 19 Mutual Aid Relief Efforts: https://pad.riseup.net/p/gdfJAGq7ZGJFBeVN-70q-keep
The hoes chat about risk mitigation via quarantine pods and secksbuddies, unpacking ableism in your sex life, our good ol friend ethical non-monogamy, a reminder that you are not your trauma, some walks down memory lane, PLUS we fucked up ya’ll and we’re gonna address it and apologize. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qY1oeeL7xrg Fuck That (Currents Events): How global governments are (or aren’t) advising citizens on engaging in partnered sex during the pandemic. Plus we discuss the move by some folks to opt into Quaranteams, pods, and seksbuddies. And we talk about harm mitigation and risky ‘rona behavior.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): What’s it like making 200 episodes of your fave podcast about sex, love and dating?! Find out here.  Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener calls out our usage of language and ideas that are harmful to survivors and perpetuate rape culture. We read the letter, apologize and respond.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: @ImSoLoveLee, Ajeeezy (AJeezy), Nikita (La fan Nikita), Philip (PhilipDelphia), Rhamah (Ray. Shout out to Ash!), Kristen (Bella), Shavauna (MonsterMash)  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  CONTENT WARNING(S) Suicide Attempt 52:39 - 54:30 Harmful Language especially for survivors of assault: 1:12:42 -1:23:40 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Slate Article: https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/05/why-i-decided-to-join-a-quarantine-bubble-and-you-should-too.html WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to VIRTUALLY speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC Love and light to the artists who have lent their music to the pod!  Our opening is a remix of “Queen S%!T” by SheReal (https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by) We also play “Party on the Weekend" by King Kam X DVRKAMBR, “Keeping it Cool Witchu” by Chhoti Maa, "Chandelier" Dramangar and “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst (https://twitter.com/wavghxst). ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Still social distancing Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @pubiscus Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @RobbyTheeBody | OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/bbyboirob  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
19: You're Addicted to Love

19: You're Addicted to Love

2020-05-2001:06:252

The hoes chat about romance addictions, do you have one -- what’s the science behind that b*llshit and how to deal with it. Plus, a review of the new Netflix film that puts white heteronormative Rom Coms to shame, healing from trauma whilst understanding hyper-sexuality, and the cutest Black Feminist virtual date in the history of all virtual dates.  Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/-F3r-dDfXVQ Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Rob does a deep dive into addictions to love and romance.  A$$ Media (Media Review): Sam reviews the Netflix film “The Half of It” Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rob has an epiphany regarding their hyper-sexuality  Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener tells us about how their using Black feminist lit to bond with their partner during isolation. Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Dontre H, (MONTRAY), Charmizzy (Charmayne), Gee L (Get Light), Arianna S (Arianna RANDEE), Nikita M (La fan Nikita), Kojo (Konothan Kostarr), Roxxanie (Roxannes Revenge) HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Listen to Akua on Ms. Vixen Pod: https://www.msvixenmag.com/blog/9-whats-on-your-biscuit-w-akua Limerence Episode: Apple (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-hoe-uprising/id1057045285?mt=2) : https://apple.co/2XcO04H Soundcloud (https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising) : https://bit.ly/2IS3lPc Breakups, Why They suck and How to Cope: Apple (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-hoe-uprising/id1057045285?mt=2) : https://apple.co/2zw60Zt Soundcloud (https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising) : https://bit.ly/2ZAUlaz Study Referenced during F*ck It: "Intense, Passionate, Romantic Love: A Natural Addiction? How the Fields That Investigate Romance and Substance Abuse Can Inform Each Other" https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4861725/ Also Mentioned: https://www.rehabs.com/about/ FACT CHECKS The psychological replacement theory mentioned in this video is called Sublimation: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sublimation_(psychology) WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to VIRTUALLY speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck It: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam is still socially distancing. And she hopes you are too. SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @pubiscus Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @RobbyTheeBody  | OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/bbyboirob  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
18: This P*$$y Be Yankin!

18: This P*$$y Be Yankin!

2020-05-1301:13:221

The hoes chat about Sam’s new fav podcast all about infidelity in Queens, NY, the laws jeopardizing the wellbeing of survivors on college campuses, Black women flying planes outchea, A new resource for domestic violence victims in quarantine, dating a narcissist -- revisited, healing broken family relationships and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UQQAAROcF3A Self Care Tip: Free Uber rides available for domestic, sex violence survivors in Michigan during coronavirus pandemic Fuck That (Currents Events): DeVos’s Rules Bolster Rights of Students Accused of Sexual Misconduct and other Title IX regulation changes Points of discussion include: Colleges and Universities, rape culture, transformative justice and reformative justice, legislation and public comments.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rebecca has started therapy and is working on healing her relationship with her sister. Sam Present’s A$$ MEDIA: Sam reviews Domino Sound’s podcast “The Cheat Code”  Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener relates to Rebecca’s experience dating a narcissist and offers us some resources on how to spot one. Rebecca describes her journey coming to terms with the fact that she has experienced abuse in previous relationships. Love and Light to out Hoes of the Week! Chanda W (CW Network), Marissa C (Candied Yams), Maya C (The AnimaTOR), Juju Bae (Juju Bae! Shout out ALJP), Paideia (The EducaTOR), Carla T (Banks), Douvante F (Gummi Bears), Vikki G (Slicky Vicky), Janee (P*ssyPowerPuff Girls), Reggie (Reggie Rocket), LaKela (La Kee Kee SqueaKee) HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  CONTENT WARNING(S) During our discussion about the Title IX regulations there are mentions but no descriptions of sexual assault. Here is the timecode if you choose to skip this segment:   13:06 - 29:52 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES MICHIGAN COALITION TO END DOMESTIC & SEXUAL VIOLENCE: https://mcedsv.org/ The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 The Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255 Help Judeen become a Black Woman Pilot: https://www.gofundme.com/f/r4yby-flight-school-training Cashapp: $Passion4flying WTF are Public Comments?!: https://www.boundless.com/immigration-resources/how-to-submit-public-comment/ Our Episode on upcoming LGBTQIA Healthcare restriction legislation: https://bit.ly/2KMaIYQ More on Title IX in Colleges: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/05/06/us/politics/campus-sexual-misconduct-betsy-devos.html  More on Title IX in K-12: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/education/betsy-devos-new-title-ix-rules-will-shake-how-k-n1201616  The Cheat Code Podcast: https://www.dominosound.co/network Dating a Narcissist Episode of IHU: https://bit.ly/2YtJ8oM Lindsay’s Article on Dating a Narcissist: https://www.lindsayyoungpoetry.com/rxy Salt to Taste Links: https://www.amazon.com/Salt-Taste-Lindsay-Young/dp/1732812020/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=salt+to+taste&qid=1569994769&sr=8-1 https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/salt-to-taste-lindsay-young/1132607350?ean=9781732812024 WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to VIRTUALLY speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst EDITING BY  Sam  SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #adultery #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #cheating #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #cheating #titleix #domesticviolenve #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
The hoes talk about the ins and outs of virtual sex parties, self care tips for survivors of sexual assault, SXSW’s sexy short film selections, missing periods, how to keep the fire burning when you and your partner are quaranting apart, growing tired of masturbation and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2xhlnLyrjRE  Hoe(s) of the Week: Caroline (North Cackalacky), Joesphina/@xitsjoey (Hunter), Kaysie (KZ), Calvin Peirce Jr (C Jizzy), Aish (Ish), Aurelia (lee lee), Angelica (Pickles), Celeste (Celestial Being), Lucious Lyon (Lona), T Ray Ray, Syd, My pussy power  Self Care Tip: This week self care tip is for survivors of sexual assault who may have found the news and social media triggering this week.  Fuck That (Currents Events): Zoom Says no to  Virtual Play/Sex Parties  PLUS some tips on how to find or make your own virtual sex parties. A$$ Media: Sam reviews the South by Southwest short film selections Fuck Me (Our Lives): Akua is missing romantic relationships AND her period Fuck You (Your Lives): Hey boyfriend and I are quarantine apart. How do we keep our sex life interesting? HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) This weeks Inner Hoe Uprising is sponsored by RayCon. Everyone needs a great pair of wireless earbuds. But before you go dropping hundreds of dollars on a pair, you need to check out the wireless earbuds from Raycon! Get 15-percent off your order at BUYRAYCON.com/ihu CONTENT WARNING(S) Self Care tip on how to deal with consuming media for sexual assault survivors: 00:07:55 - 00:14:32 A discussion (and spoilers) on a film that’s plot involves sexual assault: 00:41:09 - 00:51:17 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Watch this episode on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/2xhlnLyrjRE Tips for Survivors Consuming Media: https://www.rainn.org/articles/tips-survivors-consuming-media State Specific Laws: https://apps.rainn.org/policy/?_ga=2.34808354.268704840.1588740110-940648808.1588490960 RAINN: Call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (4673) or chat online at http://online.rainn.org More resources for survivors: https://www.feminist.org/911/resources_general.html Tara Reade Joe Biden Allegations: https://www.forbes.com/sites/jackbrewster/2020/05/01/a-timeline-of-tara-reades-sexual-assault-allegations-against-joe-biden/#260851937e6f NYC Party Promoter Chris Stylezz Accused of Sexual Assault: https://www.vulture.com/2020/04/dusse-palooza-host-chris-stylezz-fired-sexual-misconduct.html Writer Lamar 'Blogxilla’ Valentine Accused of Sexual Misconduct: https://www.essence.com/news/lamar-valentine-blogxilla-sexual-harassment/ IHU “Jezebel” Watch Party: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/inner-hoe-uprising-watch-party-jezebel-tickets-104482303382 Vice’s Guide to Online Group Sex: https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/y3myax/a-beginners-guide-to-video-chat-sex-parties SXSW Shorts on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/adlp/sxsw SXSW Shorts on Mailchimp: https://mailchimp.com/presents/sxsw/ Sex Experts on IG Article in Elite Daily: https://www.elitedaily.com/p/10-sex-experts-on-instagram-to-follow-asap-22597169  WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to VIRTUALLY speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam  SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #SXSW #funny #filmreview #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #virtualsex #playparties #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #abstinance #sexualhealth
The hoes chat about Ramadan for queer muslims, venturing into the wonderful world of Only Fans, sex affirmations, harmful LGBTQIA healthcare legislation, when grief and horniness collide, porn binges, safe guarding our mental and physical health while on the frontlines of that Rona, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Chlotown Brown (Cholotown Brown), Stin K (Stinka), @IG_Hoodgoddess (Hood Goddess), Nigerian Hair (Camille), Tawiwi and Martini (Tawanna and Martina), Marissa L (Zoom), Monica P (Billiards), Kahlia P (Screwdrive), Emma (Degrassi), Lona Lyons(Lucious) and Lizy_gf Bae of the Week: Creator of #ramadanqueerem  @abdimaroodi/@lgbtq_somalis Self Care Tip: Taking care of your mental and physical health as a frontline worker in the time of the ‘Rona Fuck That (Currents Events): The Trump- Pence Administration is moving to Overturn  healthcare protections for LGBTQIA folx in the time of the ‘RONA Fuck Me (Our Lives):  Sam: Needs some time to process trauma Rob: Masturbation affirmations, Sex work, Sex and grieving  Akua: Porn Binges and quick mindful masturbation Rebecca: Starting therapy and hitting up virtual meet ups! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  CONTENT WARNING(S): Rob’s Self Care Tip at the 9 minute mark involves some discussion of coronavirus related deaths and medical emergencies. Skip to the 14 minute mark to avoid this conversation.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES FDNY Counseling Services Unit - 212-570-1693 NYC Well - 1-888-692-9355 NY Coronavirus Hotline - 1-844-863-9314  Safe Call Now – 1-206-459-3020 (A 24/7 help line staffed by first responders for first responders and their family members.) WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to VIRTUALLY speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sad her vacation is over Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @pubiscus Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god | OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/bbyboirob  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #masturbation #porn #meditation #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
The hoes chat about conspiracy theories, sex work during the pandemic, MTV Cribs virtual dates, opening up about mental health in your relationship, sheltering in place with toxic family members, quaranting with your partner, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Briana (Ballsanna), Jason (Vorheezy), Aurien ( an AUROAA ?! ), Shaun (Tell All),  Melini, Martini, Tougher than Nigerian Hair, Dr. E, Earlini, and Tawiwi! And Sweepstakes winner Diana Diaz! Bae of the Week/Self Care Tip: Check out journalist Patrice Peck and her work covering how COVID-19 affects Black people.  Also check out In Those Genes, and their updates on COVID-19 from a science perspective.  Fuck That (Currents Events): An overview of how the COVID-19 pandemic has affected different areas of sex work. Stories include: Japan’s Red Light districts, German Brothels shutting down, US full service sex workers and new personal safety precautions, OnlyFans surge in membership, Influx of sugar daddies and babies on Seeking Arrangement, Instagram Live strip clubs and Respectfully Justin Show. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam has once again created a fun virtual date idea…this time it involves MTV Cribs, and Rodecka talks about the importance of opening up about your mental health to your partner. Fuck You (Your Lives):  A discussion on how to cope when your quarantined with toxic family members.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Coronavirus News for Black Folks: https://speakpatrice.substack.com Coronavirus Conspiracies & the Black Community: https://www.instagram.com/p/B-4pQe8pmSA/ In Those Genes: https://inthosegenes.com/listen-1 National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1−800−799−7233 or TTY 1−800−787−3224 https://www.thehotline.org/ or text LOVEIS to 22522 Interactive Safety Planning via NDVH: https://www.loveisrespect.org/for-yourself/safety-planning/interactive-safety-plan/#gf_1 WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to VIRTUALLY speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam As seen in the New York Times and Hustler Magazine. SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #sexwork #porn #onlyfans #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #quarantine #sexualhealth
The hoes talk about about the FDA ban on blood donations from men who have sex with men, the sweetest virtual date, navigating solo sex while your home with kids, dickheads on dating apps, how to get over ghosting, de-attaching yourself from dick, the beauty of volunteering and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: Adaeze  (Amethyst),  Camillion here camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair  Rosemary (Pink Diamond), Jordan (23), Tawiwi, Martini, Tina Belcher, Ray and Ash (aka Chuck and Pikachu), and Chris (topherson)  Self Care Tip: Volunteer while sheltered in place  Fuck That (Currents Events): We cover the FDA’s restrictions on men who have sex with men giving blood. We talk about the history of these restrictions, the science that debunks the restrictions and how these restrictions hinder COVID-19 relief efforts.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam and Akua drew booties virtually over the weekend. Plus Sam gives a cute celestial virtual date idea and both hoes lament over dickheads on dating apps.  Fuck You (Your Lives): I got ghosted by some good D. How do I get over missing the D? HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Podcasts in Color: https://podcastsincolor.com/pods NY Times Mask Sewing Tutorial: https://www.nytimes.com/article/how-to-make-face-mask-coronavirus.html How to Donate PPE in NYC: https://www1.nyc.gov/site/helpnownyc/give-help/donate.page Signing up for Volunteer Relief Efforts NYC: https://www1.nyc.gov/site/helpnownyc/give-help/volunteer.page More PPE Donations Resources specific to NYC: https://thecity.nyc/2020/03/how-can-i-donate-supplies-to-new-york-hospitals-in-need.html COVID 19 Mental Health Hotline:  1-844-863-9314  https://omh.ny.gov/omhweb/covid-19-resources.html GLAAD Petition to lift the Blood Donation Ban on MSM Populations: http://glaad.nationbuilder.com/blood?fbclid=IwAR2ogzsNzms3sL_DwUsJV6sRXWKc9eTbvJigcCt1m9Vcx8-T_rueC1nCxWw WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Shelter in Place Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #covid19 #porn #coronavirus #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #shelterinplace
13: Mega Mutual Masturbation

13: Mega Mutual Masturbation

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The Hoes talk about how to have sex during a pandemic, the beauty of masturbation, virtual drink and draw dates, how to get out of your head during sex, fulfilling your civic duty, a 2 year anniversary of abstinence, nonconsensual edging and much more.  Hoe(s) of the Week: T Ray Ray (Terell), K - 1 Visa (Kaeli), Dimitri! (Marble), DWHOSED?! (Dara), Tawiwi (Tawanna), Mont-gizzy! (AL), and Martini (Matrina) Self Care Tip:  If you live in the US, fill out your census. Fuck That (Currents Events): A discussion on sex and COVID-19 advisory, and how to navigate different kinds of sex and masturbation in the era of dat Rona. Other points of discussion include: Anxiety and sex drive, quarantining with your partner and socially distancing with your kids.  Fuck Me (Our Lives):  Akua: 2 years abstinent from sex! And longing for dating apps Sam: Try a drink and draw virtual date Rob: Non consensual edging plus sex and SSRIs Rodecka: Feeling less desirable and quaranting with a sick partner. Fuck You (Your Lives):  How can I get out of my head, lower my inhibitions and have fun with sex again? How can I let go of some of my insecurities around not being good enough in bed? HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES The 2020 Census: https://2020census.gov/ Hoe Bag Sweepstakes:  https://innerhoeuprising.com/hoebagsweepstakes WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  2020 census Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quarantine #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #socialdistance #porn #coronavirus #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
The hoes chat about sex trafficking and sex work….theres a big difference and its important that you understand that, social distancing dance parties and karaoke sessions, lost your job during COVID-19 -- we can relate, pandemic dating SUCKS, sex robots are the PERFECT quarantine buddies, THE FUTURE of romance, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: AL (Mont-gizzy), Erika (Eazzzzzzy), Karla (K- 2 Visa) Self Care Tip: Dance! Here are some instagram accounts to follow who host virtual dance parties: @dnice, @soulection, @joekay, @raechardonnay, @fwfnyc, @mocada_museum, @museofire, @houseofyes, @hellagaydanceparty, @nowadaysnyc, @hazelmarimba, @dreamwknd, @basquiatsbottle, @everydayppl Fuck That (Currents Events):  How Sex Dolls companies are reacting to the Coronavirus Pandemic.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam shares a new virtual dating idea and the hoes chat a bit about how the pandemic has effected our lives.  Fuck You (Your Lives):  A listener wrote in with a question about porn, addiction, and how to distinguish between sex work and sex trafficking. The hoes give a thorough break down on the differences between sex trafficking and sex work and why it’s important for everyone to understand those differences.  Also included: Lateral reading, why internet porn is problematic, SWERFS, OnlyFans, and more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Hoe Bag Sweepstakes:  https://innerhoeuprising.com/hoebagsweepstakes Abyss Sex Doll Post: https://www.instagram.com/p/B96-pRmJOXo/ In Those Genes episode on Dat Rona: https://inthosegenes.com/listen-1 https://apple.co/3ak9HCy CashApp: $RebbyOrNot Slate Article on Dopamine and Addiction Myths: https://slate.com/technology/2013/07/what-is-dopamine-love-lust-sex-addiction-gambling-motivation-reward.html Lateral Reading: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GoQG6Tin-1E WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  SOCIAL DISTANCING SAM SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny  #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #pandemic #porn #sexwork #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth #sextech
The hoes talk about about managing coronavirus related anxiety, Good sex positive legislation in the US, glass dildos, intimate partner violence in the times of COVID-19, cute social distancing dates, job hunting as a gen Zer, and more!  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Tia (Tina Belcher), Samantha (Scaff Beezy), Jenn (Kylo Jenn)  Camillion here tougher than nigerian hair (aka Camille), Devon (Nightwing), plus Martini, Tawiwi, and Earlini Self Care Tip: The four step guide to managing corona virus related anxiety  Fuck That (Currents Events): We cover sex positive and pro LGBTQ legislation being passed in the US that you may have missed and talk about how COVID-19 related quarantining may lead to surges in rates of domestic violence.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam suggests some cute socially distant  dates you can try with your bae(s) and Akua discovers she loves a cold hard glass dildo.  Fuck You (Your Lives): Help! I’m a Gen - Zer with little job experience looking for work.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  CONTENT WARNING(S) DV & COVID 19 segment: 29:03 - 30:07 Depression & suicidal thoughts:  50:29 - 51:45 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES State Specific Resources for DV Survivors: https://www.womenshealth.gov/relationships-and-safety/get-help/state-resources Country Specific Resources for DV Survivors: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_domestic_violence_hotlines DV Cases surge in China: https://www.sixthtone.com/news/1005253/domestic-violence-cases-surge-during-covid-19-epidemic The National DV Hotline:  CHAT https://www.thehotline.org/ CALL:  1-800-799-7233 or TTY 1-800-787-3224 Hoe Bag Sweepstakes:  https://innerhoeuprising.com/hoebagsweepstakes Twitter thread of cute dates: https://twitter.com/thegarance/status/1238819914082811906 Metropolitan Opera House Live Streams: https://www.metopera.org/ The Environmental Film Festival: https://dceff.org/ Job Corps: https://www.jobcorps.gov/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  Sam’s Cash App: $SamRidd WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Socially Distant Sam  SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism  #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth #covid19 #coronavirus #selfcare
The Hoes talk about love (or lack there of) in the time of coronavirus, Cute dates to commemorate Women’s History Month, what do when you’re looking for a third but you kinda hate all the people your partner wants to court, finding sex positive friends when you’re over the age of 50, the beauty of gay parties, and more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: Melyssa D - (Mel D), Ophelia K (OK-K-K-AYYYYYY), Sarah (Saturday Night Sarah), T-Ray Ray, Argent (Sargent B!), Charmayne (Charmizzy), Sid (Sid the Kid), Earlini, Dara (D whose D?!), Kaylah (Halyak!), Kendra H (Broadway K), Sleepy, and Emaistr (E-Ma!)  Fuck That (Currents Events): Some not so gentle reminders on how to not act a damn fool during the outbreak of COVID-19 and some more light hearted news on the ridiculous dating lives of folks in the time of corona  The difference between social distancing, isolation and quarantine; can surfaces make you sick?, augmented and virtual reality dates, and crappy dating app openers.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam: Took my binch out on a Women’s History Month Date Rodecka: A foray into polyamory, feeling unwanted by femmes, and Black gay parties Fuck You (Your Lives):  I’m not comfy with the potential thirds my husband is introducing me to and open marriage discomfort.  I’m 50+ and finding sex positive friends is a pain in the ass! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Hoe Bag Sweepstakes: https://innerhoeuprising.com/hoebagsweepstakes DV cases surge amidst Coronavirus quarantines: https://www.sixthtone.com/news/1005253/domestic-violence-cases-surge-during-covid-19-epidemic The New York Parks Dept Events: https://www.nycgovparks.org/events/womens_history_month Black Podcasts You Need in your Life: http://titanmagazine.ca/black-podcasts-you-need-in-your-life/ Sex and Relationship Resources for Black Folks: http://blackyouthproject.com/sex-and-relationship-resources-by-black-folks-for-black-folks/ Poly Dallas Millenium 2020: https://www.polydallasmillennium.com/ What is a Pandemic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqtfqVsFaqc What is COVID-19: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTYfke545vI A Ratchet Realm Party Series: https://www.instagram.com/aratchetrealm/ Forty Something Sex Positive podcast hosted by Black Women Sam referenced: https://www.facebook.com/weknowhowtodothispodcast/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam As seen in the New York Times and Hustler Magazine. SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
The hoes talk about the importance of a solo bae-cation, dealing with the stigma of an HSV-2 or a genital herpes diagnosis, cocktails and coffee dates, AND we finally answer the age old question — how much are you motherf*ckers really paying for dates? Hoe(s) of the Week:   Caroline (Timb Cackalacky), Kaeli (K - 1 Visa), Karla (K - 2 Visa),   Golden Ambre (The bawdy), Tawiwi, Martini, Mel Lady (Melini), and Earline (Earliny).   Self Care Tip:  Schedule a bae cation with yourself (inspired by @danielleg_19 on instagram) Fuck That (Currents Events): A small scale study reveals how much you mother fckers are reallyyyy spending on a first date. Plus we talk about how different generations and genders deal with money and dating.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Cute Date suggestion: Coffee Crawl Sam: Cocktail making and a perfume party Rob: Decentering Sex Fuck You (Your Lives):  Help! I’m dealing with internal and external stigma around a recent HSV-2 (genital herpes) diagnosis. HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Poly Dallas Millenium 2020: https://www.polydallasmillennium.com/ Inner Hoe Uprising Hoe Bag Sweepstakes: https://innerhoeuprising.com/hoebagsweepstakes Akua on Ghosting in Elite Daily: https://www.elitedaily.com/p/should-you-give-them-a-second-chance-after-ghosting-you-experts-say-maybe-21819715 IHU with Anti Stigma Activist Rukiat ADDITIONAL HSV-2 Resources Something Positive for Positive People: https://www.spfpp.org/podcast Letting partners know you have HSV-2: https://www.instagram.com/p/B73oVCLJc3c/ You’re Guide to Dealing with a Positive STI Diagnosis: https://www.instagram.com/p/B6TPJY9jRY9/ The STI Project (Destigmatizes Herpes): https://www.instagram.com/thestiproject/ Tales of Toney (A sex positive blog written by a Black woman with Herpes): https://talesoftoney.com/category/herpes/ SPFPP HSV Specific Episodes: https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/17975986435153052/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Jeopardy Beat: prod. xonthebeat (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR6u7YfwnY0WNOC9a4kmzGw) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVLgQbmirIo Family Feud Beat: Prod. ghostface https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgfEM1xQJ8A Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst https://twitter.com/wavghxst ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam aka Katt Williams aka Scarlett Johanson    SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
The hoes chat about teen parents and the NYC board of education, when your adult child tells you they want to become a porn star, cute dates for artsy people, plus we answer the age old question — Are there any decent, single, non-homophobic straight men???  Hoe(s) of the Week: Eddy R (Double D), Gustavo M. (Gus Fring), R.D. Lang (The Supreme), Jas (Jazz Hand) Fuck That (Currents Events): The NY department of education’s new initiative to build lactation rooms in schools for teen parents PLUS a brief history of the departments sordid history with teen parents and Akua recounts her history as a teen parent going to high school in Queens.  And Steven Spielberg’s daughter Mikaela Takes Up Career In Porn Industry PLUS we go over some nuance often lost when non-sex workers talk about sex work.  And how would you navigate an older teen child expressing interest in a career in sex work.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Something to do for Artsy folks into Hip-Hop and Graffiti  Fuck You (Your Lives):  How to navigate homophobia and transphobia from Black cisgender men on dating apps. Points of discussion include: homophobia as it shows up in the Black community, exhausting your energy on dating apps, emotional labor, dubs and red flags, and tips for casting a wider dating net.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Poly Dallas Millenium: https://www.polydallasmillennium.com/  To sign up for IHU event updates: InnerHoeUprising.com Mikaela Spielberg Feature in the Sun: https://www.the-sun.com/entertainment/405226/steven-spielberg-daughter-mikaela-porn-star-erotic-dancer/  WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  SLam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth
The hoes chat about expressing gratitude, Zaya Wade, puberty blockers and the mental healths of young trans kids, what to do when your date robs a bank, what to do when the comedy show date turns dark, dealing with jealousy, finding your g-spot and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Tawanna (aka Tawee-wee), Matina (aka Martini), Tamaj (aka Panini), BigEYEKnows All (#MustStayWoke...niggas creepin), Camillion Here Camillion There Tougher than Nigerian Hair, T Ray Ray, Vana Rosas Aguirre (aka Bad Bitch contest u in first place), Erika (aka Pretty Ricky), Kristen Doherty (KD!), Black Poly Pride: (you down wit BPP)   Bae of Week: Courtney Brame of Something Positive for Positive People Podcast Self Care Tip: reach out to someone who you feel like you should have thanked/expressed gratitude to Fuck That (Currents Events): Bills targeting trans kids are getting defeated in state legislatures and the date that turned into a bank heist.  Puberty blockers, gender affirming surgies, suicide rates in trans teens, and Dwyane Wade’s daughter Zaya Wade Fuck Me (Our Lives):  Sam: When comedy shows turn dark Rebecca: Dealing with Jealousy  Akua: Finding your g-spot HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Black Poly Pride DC: https://ticketbud.com/events/e6755778-2f18-11ea-b04d-42010a717009 IHU on Something Positive for Positive People: https://www.spfpp.org/podcast/spfpp-episode-118-self-health-care  WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam the G.O.A.T. SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast
The hoes chat about how to ghost and let people know you’re only DTF with care, the new bill thats been introduced in congress to study the safety of sex workers, dating people who complain TOO fucking much, biphobia, battling back against self deprecation PLUS we watch some awful porn together.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Camille (aka Camillion here Camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair) and Sydnee D (aka Syd Deez Nutz)  Self Care Tip: Check out @whatswrongwithmollymargaret (https://www.instagram.com/whatswrongwithmollymargaret/) on Instagram for texting templates on how to deal with potentially awkward sexual and romantic conversations and how to put certain identifiers on your dating app profiles Fuck That (Currents Events): Sex in the snack aisle: Gas station faces possible closure over porn video  Points of discussion include: pornhub, exhibitionism, and the porn star @fellarunitall, men centric pornography  PoliDICKZ: Elizabeth Warren on Criminal Justice Reform (sex work, the violence against women act, rape kit backlogs and more)  Fuck Me (Our Lives):   Rebecca: Working on self deprecation  Sam: I hate MFers who complain a lot Fuck You (Your Lives):  A 29 year old queer Black femme tells us about her experience with bi-phobia and politics on dating apps.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com CONTENT WARNING(S) Brief discussion about the sexual assault of a minor - 26:03 - 26:25 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES To find the gas station porn you can search: “35TH AND TOWNSEND GAS STATION SURVEILLANCE VIDEO LEAK” on porn hub WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam aka the Audio Unicorn SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
The hoes chat about the life and times of Bayard Rustin -- the Black gay civil rights leader who went to jail 70 years ago kinda just for being gay, cute dates for film nerds and history buffs, how rape culture hurts men, sexuality and anti-depressants, sexuality, weight, face sitting and body image, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Terrell J (tee ray ray), Raymah, Ash, and Tawanna, & Dyme 203 Fuck That (Currents Events): California lawmakers ask Governor Newsome to posthumously pardon gay civil rights leader Bayard Rustin.  Other points of discussion: Adoption in lieu gay marriage, anti-sodomy laws, MLK, Adam Clayton Powell Jr, and the conspiracy to stop the March on Washington. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rodecka: Face sitting, Body image, and being comfortable with my own weight Rob: My journey with Sex and SSRIs (Anti-depressants) and a new found love of masc on masc porn Sam: Contemporary Art by white people is so weird sometimes. Cute Date Suggestion: Have  a Black women movie marathon Fuck You (Your Lives):  A Response to our segment on Season 6 Episode 3 episode “Sh*t Happens” about how societal views of male sexuality make men vulnerable to sexual assault and a subsequent lack of peer support.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU CONTENT WARNING(S) Discussion about Sexual Assault and Male Survivors: 47:00 - 58:08 RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Film Forum’s Trailblazing African American Actresses & Images, 1920 – 2001 Series:   https://filmforum.org/series/black-women-trailblazing-african-american-actresses-images-1920-2001 The list of films is at the bottom of the page for people who’d like to Marathon these films at home.  The episode “Five” is responding to in their listener letter is “Sh* Happens”. They are referring to the segment that begins at the  19:24  time mark. Click below for direct links to that episode. Apple (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-hoe-uprising/id1057045285?mt=2) : https://apple.co/2RFvNHx Soundcloud (https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising) : https://bit.ly/2NKZqGb RAINN Hotline: If you or a man that you know is a survivor of sexual assault (or a survivor of any gender) and needs space to talk about it you can hit up RAINN -- the rape, abuse, and incest national network. You can call their 24/hr hotline at  800.656.HOPE (4673) or hop on their live chat at https://rainn.org/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam Ray Ray  SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #agender
The hoes chat about how folks in 2020 are defining and navigating political beliefs on dating apps,  shame and nuanced approaches to dating, losing friendships after pregnancy, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Emeka and Danielle E. Self Care Tip: A reminder:  Be gentle with yourself.  Fuck That (Currents Events): How dating app users are considering their personal politics when it comes to finding potential partners.  Topics Include: Tinder, OK Cupid, Climate Change, and Sam’s deep personal shame.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): The #HowSamanthaGotHerGrooveBackChallenge, Bad Boys 3, Personal growth, and Sam’s deep personal shame. Fuck You (Your Lives):  I feel disowned by my friends after giving birth to my first child, help! Topics include: Grieving friendships, pregnancy, navigating relationships with depression, life stages, and a tad bit more on Sam’s deep personal shame.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You! Thanks for your continued support homies! RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES New York Times Politics and Dating Survey is closes but here’s the article that came of it:  https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/18/reader-center/politics-dating-apps.html & Here are the Questions: Do you screen potential dates for their political beliefs on dating apps? If so how? How do you signal your own political beliefs on your dating profiles? Are there lines you won’t cross when it comes to dating someone who disagrees with you on a politically charged topic? How important are a person’s politics when you’re dating or beginning a relationship? WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Name Your Shame Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
3: Sh*t Happens

3: Sh*t Happens

2020-01-2201:06:021

The Hoes chat about why you don’t need to stay hard for 4 hours, how antiquated ideas about sex and sexuality hurt da boys, the new Netflix film about a Black Cam Girl in the early 90s, group sex, and shitting yo pants.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Kitty L and Amber R.  Self Care Tip:  Manage your expectations Fuck That (Currents Events): The man who took bull stimulant to stay hard and the new book that reveals some obvious truths about what sex, love, and dating means to young men.  Viagra, erections, the pressure to stay hard. Peggy Orenstein’s “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity,” and a brief tangent on the Aaron Hernandez documentary.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Group Sex, sometimes you soil yourself in front of your partner and thats okay, being “jazzed to date,” and Numa Perrier’s new film Jezebel HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU CONTENT WARNING(S) Sexual Assault: 00:32:08 - 00:33:30 SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTER   InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sh*tty Booty Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #nonmonogamy
The hoes chat about sleep, the young Black sex trafficking victim who’s facing life in prison for killing her trafficker, nude models and body shapes, dating while misanthrope, and PoliDICKZ aka your run down where the candidates stand on sexuality and gender.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Tamika and Elizabeth Self Care Tip: Akua gives tips on how to improve the amount and quality of sleep that you’re getting  Fuck That (Currents Events): Justice for Child Sex Trafficking victim facing life in prison for killing her trafficker — Chrystul Kizer Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam doesn’t like people but thought Parasite was great film.  PoliDICKZ: A break down on Julian Castro’s proposed policies on sex, love, gender, sexuality and race — and why they’re important  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com CONTENT WARNING 19:20 - 31:00 Sex trafficking, child abuse, sexual abuse, misogynoir,, intimate partner violence RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES How to Practice Progressive Muscle Relaxation: https://www.uofmhealth.org/health-library/uz2225 How to Practice Body Scanning: https://www.mindful.org/beginners-body-scan-meditation/ Bed Time Stretches: https://fitnessista.com/bedtime-relaxing-stretch-routine/ Sleep Diary:https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sites/default/files/inline-files/SleepDiaryv6.pdf Chrystul Kizer GoFund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/handsoffchrystulkizer Chrystul Kizer Petition: https://www.change.org/p/drop-all-charges-against-incarcerated-trafficking-survivor-chrystul-kizer Jaoquin Castro Thirst Trap: https://twitter.com/Castro4Congress/status/1215093435247550471 Who All was Running (2020 Dom Primary Canidates List: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2020_Democratic_Party_presidential_primaries WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
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Comments (18)

Careema Parks

I just want to say how much I love listening to you all every week. I'm also a New Yorker, currently living in white ass Portland Oregon. listening to you all reminds me of all the best parts of New York city.

Mar 18th
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Careema Parks

I went to Bayard Rustin high school. As a queer black woman this brought me so much pride and joy. Thank you for sharing his story.

Feb 8th
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Fanjaah Fox

great episode and host! ❤ esp. on the topic of religion

Oct 31st
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Ramsay Vituperation

This guest is lit!

Sep 20th
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Stephanie DeShawn Spann

that sponsor transition was smooth af lol

Jun 10th
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Ares

If you want a good podcast check out AMERICAN NIGHTMARE PODCAST. ROLAND FLAGG is an orphaned African-American left in the care of YVONNE FLETCHER, a treacherous single mother who is on the edge of a mental breakdown. In order to escape his reality, ROLAND creates a fictional character called the Golden Ninja.

May 17th
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Ben Sunday-k

if you can separate sex, relationships and some fetishes.. u can understand the poly-s Ben K.

May 17th
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Scientist

this is miss information from your speaker. HSV 1 and 2 can be transmitted via bodily fluids. You do NOT have to have sores present to pass the virus on to a partner. You can pass it on if you do not have symptoms, some folks are asymptomatic, never have sores, and cand transmitt the virus. You DO have to specifically ask for a herpes test, but can get tested by your doctor for it if you dont have blisters.

May 7th
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Sydnie Montgomery

I've literally had this exact same dating experience with the apps. I thought it really was something wrong with me. I'm so glad this is an experience other people are having cause I ready to just believe I was crazy and give up on dating all together.

May 5th
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Jennifer Dudley

You all give me LIFE!! keep doing your thing

Feb 23rd
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Lakisha Brown

I loved The Gift!

Jun 19th
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