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A smart & funny weekly audio series about sex, love, and dating from 4 queer Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC.
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3: Sh*t Happens

3: Sh*t Happens

2020-01-2201:06:021

The Hoes chat about why you don’t need to stay hard for 4 hours, how antiquated ideas about sex and sexuality hurt da boys, the new Netflix film about a Black Cam Girl in the early 90s, group sex, and shitting yo pants.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Kitty L and Amber R.  Self Care Tip:  Manage your expectations Fuck That (Currents Events): The man who took bull stimulant to stay hard and the new book that reveals some obvious truths about what sex, love, and dating means to young men.  Viagra, erections, the pressure to stay hard. Peggy Orenstein’s “Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity,” and a brief tangent on the Aaron Hernandez documentary.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Group Sex, sometimes you soil yourself in front of your partner and thats okay, being “jazzed to date,” and Numa Perrier’s new film Jezebel HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU CONTENT WARNING(S) Sexual Assault: 00:32:08 - 00:33:30 SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTER   InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sh*tty Booty Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #nonmonogamy
The hoes chat about sleep, the young Black sex trafficking victim who’s facing life in prison for killing her trafficker, nude models and body shapes, dating while misanthrope, and PoliDICKZ aka your run down where the candidates stand on sexuality and gender.  Hoe(s) of the Week: Tamika and Elizabeth Self Care Tip: Akua gives tips on how to improve the amount and quality of sleep that you’re getting  Fuck That (Currents Events): Justice for Child Sex Trafficking victim facing life in prison for killing her trafficker — Chrystul Kizer Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam doesn’t like people but thought Parasite was great film.  PoliDICKZ: A break down on Julian Castro’s proposed policies on sex, love, gender, sexuality and race — and why they’re important  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com CONTENT WARNING 19:20 - 31:00 Sex trafficking, child abuse, sexual abuse, misogynoir,, intimate partner violence RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES How to Practice Progressive Muscle Relaxation: https://www.uofmhealth.org/health-library/uz2225 How to Practice Body Scanning: https://www.mindful.org/beginners-body-scan-meditation/ Bed Time Stretches: https://fitnessista.com/bedtime-relaxing-stretch-routine/ Sleep Diary:https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sites/default/files/inline-files/SleepDiaryv6.pdf Chrystul Kizer GoFund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/handsoffchrystulkizer Chrystul Kizer Petition: https://www.change.org/p/drop-all-charges-against-incarcerated-trafficking-survivor-chrystul-kizer Jaoquin Castro Thirst Trap: https://twitter.com/Castro4Congress/status/1215093435247550471 Who All was Running (2020 Dom Primary Canidates List: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2020_Democratic_Party_presidential_primaries WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
Happy New Year! The hoes chat about porn watching habits of 2019, media literacy, Butt Stuff, Anti-depressants and sex, the Get Sam’s Groove Back Challenge and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: @Wowow_vanaa and all the signal boosting homies, Our Patrons, Alia Sterns, Yewande A. Whitley H, Alicia T, and Kyrstal C Self Care Tip: Practice Lateral Reading, Media Literacy and Fact Checking  Fuck That (Currents Events): PornHubs annual user data round up and Vice’s annual “what people are putting in their butts” round up.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): How Samantha Got Her Groove Back Challenge Rob’s SSRI & Sex Journey Akua has a dating blockage  Fuck You (Your Lives):  I still have feelings for my ex International bae even though I’m in a new relationship. What should I do? HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get accessible, affordable, private therapy online with Better Help. For 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy visit betterhelp.com/IHU Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Patrons! New perks have been added to our Patreon page. They are access to a private Slack community and access to our weekly live stream. For more information on how to join the Slack community head over to http://Patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising and read our pinned post.  How Sex Changed During the 2010s: https://uproxx.com/life/how-sex-trends-changed-2010s/ Here’s a good course on Media Literacy that goes in-depth into lateral reading: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8dPuuaLjXtM6jSpzb5gMNsx9kdmqBfmY Pornhub 2020 Highlights: https://uproxx.com/life/interesting-insights-pornhub-year-in-review/ Quiahuitl Villegas Episode: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/i-got-a-spiritual-bitch-slap-from-my-two-spirt-femme Black and Brown Party Series in Tuscon: https://www.instagram.com/eltambotucson/  WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) CALL IN VOICE MAIL (404) 491-9158 SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Speakeasy Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
The hoes do a deep dive on what sex, love, and dating has looked like in 2000s and the 2010 and predict what’s to cum in the 2020s. Bae(s) of The Week: Sam’s Fav Podcasts Podcasts you should listen while we are on break: QueerWOC, BagLadiez, Marsha’s Plate, Tea with Queen and J, A Little Juju Podcast, Ms. Vixen, Man Up, Flash Forward, The Black Guy Who Tips, Sexually Liberated Woman, 1619 Project, Stush an’ Bush, Not Yet & In Those Genes  Hoe(s) of the Week: Everyone who made this season possible Self Care Tips:  Listen to your inner dialogue and continue journaling Cute Date Idea: Please have a roaring twenties themed New Years party and speak in the accent.  Fuck That (Currents Events): The Hoes review the decades 2000-2009 and 2010-2019 from the lens of sex, love and dating. And then give some futuristic predictions of what sex, love and dating will look like in the 2020s 2000s: Madonna & Brittany, Girls Gone Wild, Online Dating, Dating Shows, Gay Marriage, The Pregnant ManSex Tapes, Pops on Blast, Elliot Spitzer, Sex Work, Abstinence, Sex Bracelets,  2010: Democratized Sex Sells, The First Slut Walk, Rise of self-identifier “hoe”, Dating Apps, Emma Sulkowicz & Campus sexual assault, #MeToo, reclaiming sexual autonomy, Aziz Ansari, the millennial “sex drought”    The 2020 Predictions: Corporations take over sex work, Increased gender violence, the rise of Alternative ways to fulfil our sexual and emotional needs, Folks have more pleasurable, kinkier, shame free, fluid, care-filled sex with lots of enthusiastic consent. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rob is on Zoloft and having a good time, and Akua and Sam miss romance. HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com Brighten up your life and make your home or office an indoor jungle. Head to rooted.nyc/ihu and use the code IHU to receive 15% off your first order of houseplants PODCASTS SUGGESTIONS  QueerWOC: https://apple.co/2DJlsnn Bag Ladiez: https://apple.co/2DLydxB Marshas Plate: https://apple.co/38hwEpk Tea with Queen and J: https://apple.co/2LDXxdt A Little Juju Podcast: https://apple.co/2YjRK1F Ms Vixen: https://apple.co/2OOTJru Man Up: https://apple.co/34SlhSD Flash Forward: https://apple.co/3658LPL The Black Guy Who Tips: https://apple.co/2Yiaqic The Sexually Liberated Woman: https://apple.co/38adVvw 1619: https://apple.co/2DYQgRf Stush an Bush: https://apple.co/2OOTTPC Not Yet: https://apple.co/2reUjpD In Those Genes: https://apple.co/33JY0ko @InThoseGenesPod on Instagram and Twitter RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES 5 Year Journal: https://amzn.to/2PfKkZ5 Gratitude Journal: https://amzn.to/2Lp2o21 The 00s in sex According to the Daily Beast: https://www.thedailybeast.com/decade-in-sex VICE The 2010s Made Sex Political Again: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/gyza3m/the-2010s-made-sex-political-again WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck It: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Podcast Producer of this Decade and the Next, Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
Two Spirit Trans Femme Indigenous Rock Star Quiahuitl Villegas joins IHU to talk about growing up queer and punk, having a spiritual gender awakening, reconnecting with indigenous roots, Traditional Afro Latinx Music and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: @turtlexxo, veryone who wished us happy bidet; Angela D, NCSD Folks (Lakita, Leandrea, Matt, David, Desiree), PLUS Sophia and Chloe and Annie, and all of our new listeners  Self Care Tips: Flex & strengthen your introspection muscle Cute Date Idea: Attend a glass blowing or ornament making class to make a shared decoration for you and bae.  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Quiahuitl — a two spirit trans femme musician and educator —  joins us to discuss her gender, sexual, musical, cultural and life journey.  Points of discussion include: Growing up In Tuscon Arizona, the (false) gender binary, Yoreme, Yoeme, Yaqui, Mayo, Aztec, assimilating into whiteness, the early 2010s, punk rock aesthetics, Salvador Bahia Brazil, Samba, Cumbia, decolonizing, retribalizing, Peyote, Sweat Lodges, Feminine clothes and expression, gender dysphoria, chosen families, fetishization, cis people being weird, dating while two-spirit, community and much more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Plan your wedding free of antiquated wedding culture with Zola. Build your free wedding website on Zola and get $50 toward your registry. Go to ZOLA.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Inner Hoe Uprising @ STDENgage: https://bit.ly/2QPMe5c our segment starts at 1:41:00 Ways to Flex Your Introspective Muscle: https://positivepsychology.com/introspection-self-reflection/ Everyday Feminism Article on being 2 Spirit: https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/10/consider-two-spirit-identity/ Geo Neptune’s Two Spirit Video for “Them”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4lBibGzUnE WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  My Chemical Samantha SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Quiahuitl | IG: @quiahuitlv | El Tambo @eltambotucson | @tacosauceband  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #indigenous #native #twospirit #gendernovember
Scientist, Youtuber, Intersex person, and Gayest of all Gays, Babalwa Mtshawu joins Akua and Sam to discuss her journey being an Intersex queer person living in South Africa First, Sam and Akua give some intersex 101, including definitions, condition descriptions, and misconceptions.  Points of interview discussion include:  Discovering that you are intersex, South Africa Khossa, Family dynamics, Coerced Intersex surgery, Androgen insensitivity syndrome, The Medical Industry and surgeons, Menopause, Hormone Replacement Therapy, coming out as intersex, pity, exotification, being a touch-me-not, body shame, sexual harassment, genetics, dealing with doctors, family secrets,  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Bad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921 Intersex 101 Notes: https://isna.org/faq/ RadioLab Gonads Series: https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/radiolab/projects/radiolab-presents-gonads Babalwa’s Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzIv_qDrHdBZ_pWMo3wudMA WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Babalwa | IG: @tomboibarbie  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #gendernovember
56: He/Her/Daddy w/ Ari Fitz

56: He/Her/Daddy w/ Ari Fitz

2019-11-1301:52:093

Filmmaker, model, and Youtuber Ari Fitz joins IHU to talk about their gender journey to coming out as non-binary, growing up queer, sex on reality TV, navigating accountability on twitter ad much more!  Bae(s) of The Week: INNER HOE UPRISING!  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Lucky W, Whitney, Tamika C. Self Care Tips: Have monthly check in’s with yourself and your partner(s) Cute Date Idea: Make weighted blankets together Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Ari Fitz joins IHU to discuss their gender journey.  Points of discussion include: Processing ones gender and sexual identity in childhood, androgyny, harmful queer archetypes,  being kind to yourself, being on reality TV whilst Black and queer, f*cking on national TV, growing and learning in the public eye, coming to the conclusion that you’re non-binary, coming out on the internet, getting canceled on Twitter, navigating hurt, harm and accountability on the internet, attraction, navigating sexual identity while non-binary, internalized femme and queerphobia in masc on masc relationships, touch-me-nots and navigating masculinity in sexual practices, fashion brands who care about queer folks, masculinity and pregnancy, telling queer stories as a filmmaker, MTV’s The Real World, Chappelle’s Show, Are You the One, YouTube, and much more! HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Head to rooted.nyc/ihu and use the code IHU to receive 15% off your first order Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Bad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921 Ari’s Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/itsarifitz My Mama Wears Timbs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRgTLb5EbiQ Bubbles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkn9eJa1oXk Joy Practice Dance Class:  Wepreacticejoy.com WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Reality Show Connoisseur Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Ari | Twitter: @itzarifitz Joy Practice: @JoyPractice  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang  #nonbinary #gendernovember #gender
55: I’M AKUUUUUUUUUU(A)

55: I’M AKUUUUUUUUUU(A)

2019-11-0601:28:012

The Hoes chat about science baes, getting away in nature, seasonal affective disorder, anti-depressants and sex drive, hiring a sex worker, body hair, coming out to your child, virginity pacts, and more! Bae(s) of The Week: @lab_shennanigans & Dr. Nadya Mason Hoe(s) of the Week: Happy Birthday Tamika C! & Kai P, Kitty L, ImSoLovelee, Ashlee Blackwell & Xavier G Self Care Tips:  Akua gives some tips on how to help combat seasonal affective disorder  Cute Date Idea: Go for a getaway in nature Fuck That (Currents Events): “Female First” Razor Brand encourages women to grow their mustaches, movember and cis normativity in advertising campaigns.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rob: I’m on Zoloft and my sex drive has declined  Akua: After 2 years without sex I miss it again. How to hire a sex worker and navigate sex without forming attachments? & Low-key coming out to my son.  Fuck You (Your Lives):  My sapiosexual boyfriend is abstaining from sex until marriage. How do I satisfy my sex drive and respect his abstinence HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES QUEER WOC: Money's Mental Health Moment on 7 Types of Rest https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/76tomato Bad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921 November Billie Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1D0yCsg8a64&feature=youtu.be SAD Notes “Boosting your Serotonin Activity” - Alex Korb PhD https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/prefrontal-nudity/201111/boosting-your-serotonin-activity (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/prefrontal-nudity/201111/boosting-your-serotonin-activity-) “ 6 ways to Boost Serotonin without medication”- Crystal Raypole https://www.healthline.com/health/how-to-increase-serotonin#diet “How to Balance Norepinephrine Levels Naturally” – BeBrainFit.com https://bebrainfit.com/balance-norepinephrine/ “ Natural Ways to Produce Norepinephrine” https://www.addiction.com/73986/natural-ways-produce-norepinephrine/ “ 33 ways to Increase Dopamine to Boost your Productivity”- Glenn Santos https://helloendless.com/10-ways-to-increase-dopamine-to-boost-your-productivity/ https://hms.harvard.edu/sites/default/files/HMS_OTB_Spring10_Vol16_No2.pdf  WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck It: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa (not Akua) Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  SamAKUUUUUUUUU SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god CashApp: $RobSemp  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #agender
On the eve of Halloween Afrofuturist, Scholar, Visual Artist and Ultimate Philly Jawn Zalika U. Ibaorimi joins Rebecca and Sam to discuss horror, technology, Afro Surrealism, sexuality, Christianity and much more!  This is the part in our #OccultOctober series Bae(s) of The Week: @thouartanuli and @kieraplease and special shout out to @mototcityprettycreative Hoe(s) of the Week: @Wittywit & Jasmine MP  Self Care Tips: Take a Kink Test With your partner. & If you’re broke stay your ass at home (aka manage your finances)  Cute Date Idea: Go Hiking and attend a cider festival  Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Zalika U Ibaorimi joins the hoes to have an imaginative on Afrofuturism, Horror, Afro Surrealism, Christianity, Ifa, Digital Spaces, the End of the World and much more.  Points of discussion include Afrofuturism, Sexual Shame,Slasher Films, “Teeth”, “Carrie”  Trauma & Sex, “Catfish”, Digital Intimacy, Is Social Media “Real”?, Frictionless sharing, Instagram Aesthetics Desirability and Black Femmes, “90 Day fiancé”, Horror, Christianity and the Bible, Jesus & Hoes, Sex & Christianity, Philadelphia, Sexual Stigma in Academia, Dating with queer politics.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES The Partner Kink Test: http://old.mojoupgrade.com  Autumn Date Challenge: https://www.instagram.com/p/B2PKOMOF7L9/ Bad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921 Aria Dean’s “Closing the Loop”: https://thenewinquiry.com/closing-the-loop/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  SCAMantha SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Zalika | IG & Twitter: @ZalUIbaorimi  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #horror #afrofuturism #afrosurrealism #occultoctober
Filmmaker, Goth/punk bad ass and Horror film connoisseur Monika Estrella Negra joins Sam to talk about the intersections of Black Womanhood, Queerness & Horror. Bae(s) of The Week: @AmorousEbony Hoe(s) of the Week: Waciuma Maina, Mel Lady, Gustavo Self Care Tips: Take a Self Care Quiz Cute Date Idea: Attend a mixology class with bae Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Filmmaker and Horror film expert Monika Estrella Negra and Sam speak about the horror genre from the lens of Black Queer Womanhood.  Points of Discussion Include: What is the horror genre, transgenerational trauma, socioeconomic trauma, death, grief, the macabre, Goth Black kids, Haunted places,  Blackness and Horror,   Blaxplotiation films, Black Women and Queer Folks in Horror films, Tokenism, The Black experience watching horror films versus the white experience, Black Final Girls, Audre Lorde, A list of Horror must-watch films and much more! Films mentioned: Hell Raiser, Friday the Thirteenth, The Shinning, Tale of Two Sisters, Midsommar, White Zombie, Abby, Shango, Ganja and Hess, Blacula, Ma, Get Out, US, Little Monsters, I Know What You Did Last Summer, Scream , Halloween, Candyman, The Serpent and the Rainbow, Angel Heart, Marlene Clark films, CAM, Hair Wolf, Eve’s Bayou, Bitten: A Tragedy HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Immerse yourself in some sensual story telling with the Dipsea app. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES The Mighty Self Care Quiz: https://themighty.com/2019/07/unexpected-self-care-quiz/ https://audresrevenge.weebly.com/ Bitten a Tragedy Go Fund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/6xuzve0?pc=ot_vs_campaignplus_r&rcid=r01-156020893849-abdf41948ba34576 Monika on Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/user/monikaestrella/posts/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck That & End: “Creepy Hallow” by Alexander Nakarada ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Spooooooky Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Monika | Twitter: @Negra_Monika  Audres Revenge | Instagram: @audres.revenge.film Twitter: @audrerevenge  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #horrorfilms #october #horror
Akua and Sam give you a quick rundown of Horror film genres to prep you for todays episode “Black Women are THEE Final Girls” with Monika Estrella Nega.
Witch, Cunty Conjurer, and podcaster Juju Bae joins Rob and Sam to talk about all things at the intersections of African Traditional Religion and sex.  Bae(s) of The Week: Shelly Ann Fraser Pryce, Simone Biles, and Allyson Felix Hoe(s) of the Week: October Sex Trivia Attendees  Cute Date Idea: Try on Halloween Costumes  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Juju Bae joins the hoes to talk about Hoodoo, Ifa, and sex, love, and dating thru the lens of spirituality.  Points of Discussion include:  African Traditional Religions;  Ifa, Hoodoo, Espiritismo, Palo; Healing; Communicating with the dead; Gender and Sexual Queerness in African Traditional Religions ; Ancestors who pop up during sex; White and abusive ancestry; Reiki and Divination; Sex Magic, Orgasm Portals, and Manifestation; Glamour workings to amplify sex; Binding to people; Dating as a medium; Living people in romantic relationships with the dead; Hatian Vodou and Loas; Marrying deities; Ancestral trauma; Spiritual boundaries; Hoodo misconceptions; Setting up your altar space; and connecting with your spiritual gifts.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Ready to have Birth control delivered to your door step quickly and conveniently? Try Simple Health for free - just go to http://simplehealth.com/INNER or enter the code INNER at checkout.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES http://www.newyorkcostumes.com/ http://www.gothren.com/ https://www.itsjujubae.com/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god Juju | IG: @itsjujubae | Juju Podcast IG: @alittlejujupodcast  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #juju #magic #transgender #agender
On a very spooky episode of Inner Hoe Uprising all four hosts come together over a metaphorical campfire to trade hoe-rror stories. Think “Lore” meets “Are You Afraid of the Dark” meets hoe-tales. Bae(s) of The Week: The Carnival KVNG @omgitsalphie Hoe(s) of the Week: Samantha B., Carla P., Melissa C., Aida J., Chris J., Carly & LoveAlwaysANg Self Care Tips: Make your house (or room or sleeping space) a home Cute Date Idea: Hit up The Worst Case Scenario Experience in Philly or hit up a survivalist course in your home town.  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  IHU trades and react to three horror stories in the realm of sex love and dating. They are: The Phantom Fuckboy Thread by twitter user @CaIiKapowski “Viv’s Revenge . . . Or How the Douen Came to Love Herself” by Debra Providence & “Addicted” by Zane Themes include: Getting flewed out, rappers, Blueface, J’Ouvert, Carnival, Carribbean, Duppies, Sexual Harassment, Breakups, Shapeshifting, Duppies, Stalking, Graves, Revenge & more!   HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) You can smell amazing, be toxin free, & save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Worst Case Scenario Experience: https://www.fi.edu/exhibit/worst-case-scenario NY Parks Department: https://www.nycgovparks.org/events/keyword%20survival/f2019-10-10 The Phantom Fuckboy Thread: https://twitter.com/CaIiKapowski/status/1176707811939639301 How the Douen Came to Love Herself: http://www.akashicbooks.com/vivs-revenge-or-how-the-douen-came-to-love-herself-by-debra-providence/ Akashic Books: http://www.akashicbooks.com/ Addicted: http://www.akashicbooks.com/ WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Scary Horror by Scott Dugdale Creepy Hallow by Alexander Nakarada Caribbean Sunshine by Alan Lightner Mighty Calypso by Jayme Stone Hor Hor by Alexander Nakarada Laudromat Romance by Global Genius Asking Questions by Rafael Krux ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  SPOOOOOOKY SAMANTHA  SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @clint.yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #horror #thriller #suspense #erotic
Rob and a Sick Sam are together to chat about navigating trauma in relationships, dating burn out, solo polyamory, getting ghosted and more! Bae(s) of The Week: Roselyn of Loving Solo  Hoe(s) of the Week: Lis20182019, Zuri Love, & @S_Hero4Hir Self Care Tips:  Get comfortable with discomfort Cute Date Idea: have a chilli making competition Fuck That (Currents Events): Is there a Gay Gene? Fuck Me (Our Lives): ROB Self Doubt and Negativity in a Relationship How to Vent to your partner Going thru therapy while in a relationship When to reveal your traumas in a relationship SAM Maybe dating won’t ever be for me. I want to date just to experience it but ya’ll won’t let me be great. Fuck You (Your Lives):  I go over to people’s homes but they won’t have sex with me, help and how to navigate hook ups.  My partner won’t touch me and why don’t you hoes talk about more queer experiences? & How should I reach out to the person who ghosted the f*ck outta me? HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Make sensuality a part of your daily self care routine. Dipsea is offering a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Loving Solo:  https://lovingsolo.wordpress.com (https://lovingsolo.wordpress.com/) https://www.facebook.com/livesololovefree/ Solo Polyamory w/ Roselyn: https://apple.co/2nJsUul PolygaMAY Series: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/sets/polyga-may Sex Trivia: https://sextriviasundaysoctober.eventbrite.com Gay Gene Study: https://science.sciencemag.org/content/365/6456/eaat7693  Gay Gene Article:  https://www.inverse.com/article/58900-same-sex-attraction-genetics-study WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck It: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sp00ky Sickly Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #agender #transgender
Journalist, Activist, and Sex Worker N’Jalia Rhee aka The Blasian Bytch joins the hoes to discuss life after a coma, the pressure to go into vanilla work, pro-sex worker activism, race, gender, ethnicity and size in sex work and much more!  Bae(s) of The Week: The FDNY woman graduates Hoe(s) of the Week: Yewande A., Anna T. Christina C. Zeziljah P. Lakisha W, Samantha B, Carala P V, & Melissa C Self Care Tips: Ground. Yourself with a non-fiction novel Cute Date Idea: Plan each others thrifted outfits and go plant shopping Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Journalist, Activist, and Sex Worker N’Jalia Rhee aka The Blasian Bytch joins the hoes to discuss her 10+ years as a sex worker of many varieties. Points of discussion include:  Waking up from a coma, dancing, stripping, caming, phone sex, sugaring, the “whorearchy”, whoreophobia, racism, misogyny, & fatphobia in strip clubs, “extras”, the recession of 2008, Craigslist and Backpage, corporate America, Being Blasian & the implications of race & exotification in sex work, , CAM (film), Hustlers (film), Twitter shadow bns, FOSTA/SESTA, Pro-sex worker Activism  & more!   HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Better Help: Get 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy at http://betterhelp.com/IHU Blue Chew:  Visit BlueChew.com and get your first shipment of  chewable sildenafil and tadalafil Erectile Dysfunction tablets FREE when use our special promo code IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES IHU Autumn Date Challenge: https://www.instagram.com/p/B2PKOMOF7L9/ CAM Spoilers: 1:01:00 -1:06:48 Hustlers Spoilers: 1:06:48 - 1:11:13 http://blasianbytch.com/ Listen to The C*NTCast: https://apple.co/2lCRyLW N’Jalia on Twitch: https://m.twitch.tv › blasianbytch › profile (https://m.twitch.tv/blasianbytch/profile) NJ Red Umbrella Alliance: NJRUA.org WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god N’Jalia | IG & Twitter: @BlasianBytch  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
Your Big Titty Goth JoyFriend  This week Zuri Love -- a Black non-binary goth nerdy babe chats with Akua and Sam about  escorting, full service sex work, companionship, and other forms of sex work. Bae(s) of The Week:  Marquise Wilson  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Vicki W, Carly, Jason G, Destiny E, Rosemary & KWezt, Tampa Hoes Notorious Vick, The Lone Ranger, Clit tv, and our potential people from Virginia, @daninicole, @_dooleynoted_, @NikaMiraEst, @HighQPersephone (asha), djyellabone, Joi_not_joi, Imsolovelee, tiffpeso, @anaspanikopita, @butimvikki, @GGEastLDN, @NotGeauxGabby, @MostDopeDanay, @ambivalentaddis, @LocGoody, @I_am_NJS, @MissxLita Self Care Tips: Put sleep, dates, getting together with friends and other enjoyable activities into your to-do list  Cute Date Idea: Grabs some disposable cameras and go on a photo walk  And if you’re in the NYC Long Island area hit up the A Kitten Kadoodle Coffee Cafe Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Zuri Love chats with the hoes about their experiences as an escort and companion.  Points of discussion include: The definitions ofDate Mate, Escort and Companion; Sites and apps like craigslist, tinder, eros, backpage, twitter, snapchat, onlyfans, and instagram; Fatphobia, racism and misogynoir in sex work; the importance of fostering community as a sex worker; the physical and emotional labor of sex work; expenses and finances of an escort; getting flewed out; FOSTA/SESTA; project protection; sex, love, and dating as a professional companion, catching feelings for clients and much more!   HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy at http://betterhelp.com/IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES zurilove.com WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Scissorhands Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Zuri| Twitter: @zuril0ve |  IG: zuriilove  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
24/7 Slave Veronica Yahns talks to Akua and Sam about master/slave dynamics, polyamory, therapy, loved ones, feminism, kink and more!  Bae(s) of The Week: Jamiesha Prescod @cinejamographer @youlookokaytome Hoe(s) of the Week: @Kunjo & His Sleeping Beauty Photo Series  Akeela, Layla and Amaya, Antoinne M, Grecia P, Vikki W, sharks3212, kalidoty, bodega_hive212, MarsMwenja, TheVargasShowYT, SENORLAZER, Self Care Tips:  Use daily affirmations to combat anxiety   Cute Date Idea: Take your partner out to play with some furry friends  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Veronica Yahns discusses her life as a 24/7 lifestyle slave.   Points of discussion include Dom/Sub v Master/Slave dynamics, Ethical non-monogamy and polyamory, Life partnerships in a Master/Slave Dynamic, Being Collared , Letting vanilla friends know you’re a sex slave  Protocols, Punishments vs corrections, Going to a therapist as a kinky person, Making your children aware of your master/slave relationship, How to prevent abuse in master/slave dynamics, Communication practices  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Head to rooted.nyc/ihu and use the code IHU to receive 15% off your first order You can save 20% off your first Native Purchase by using the promo code IHU at http://nativedeodorant.com RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Kunjo: https://www.instagram.com/kunjo_/ Sleeping Beauty Series: https://www.blkpillowcases.com/  Affirmation Building Worksheet: https://www.archmil.org/ArchMil/Resources/SOLJUS/AffirmationWorksheet.pdf Finding Animal Shelters: http://theshelterpetproject.org Youtube.com/DesiresLaidBare WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Veronica | Twitter & IG: @VeronicaYanhs  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #kink #bdsm
The Hoes are all together to discuss breakups, why they freakin’ suck, and how to deal with them. Bae(s) of The Week: @randybaby11 Hoe(s) of the Week: @giveherthephd24, @thatsdifferenttye, Emensa, @king_himself, @90skindofworld, @itstarekali, @Alicia_flower_child, Ophellia, Jolana W, Kwetz Self Care Tips:  Stop editing yourself to fit another persons narrative. It’ll make you bitter, especially if they don’t notice it.  Cute Date Idea: Hit up a Botanical Garden Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  Break Ups, How to cope with them (get the fuck over them) and Why they suck Points of discussion include: Why break ups suck, according to science The Stages of a Breakup and how to process The additional level of trauma with breakups that involve cheating  How to get to know yourself again after a break up Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rodecka tells us about how her ain’t shit ex cheated, gas light her, and general behaved like a dispicable human being.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) Get 10% off your first month of Tele-therapy at http://betterhelp.com/IHU Visit BlueChew.com and get your first shipment of  chewable sildenafil and tadalafil Erectile Dysfunction tablets FREE when use our special promo code IHU RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Register for our September Edition of  Sex Trivia: https://sextriviasundaysseptember.eventbrite.com Break Up Articles https://www.inverse.com/article/31463-love-addiction-science-antilove-drug https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5378292/ https://www.pnas.org/content/pnas/108/15/6270.full.pdf https://lifehacker.com/the-science-behind-why-breakups-suck-and-what-you-can-1460495310 https://drsoph.com/blog/2018/8/2/the-very-real-pain-of-breakups-why-they-hurt-so-badly-and-what-you-can-do-about-it Rodecka’s CashApp: $RebbyorNot WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by   Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Retracts-all-the-positive-things-she’s-ever-said about-Bryce-Samantha SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @rebbyornot |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | IG: @Clint.Yeetwood Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer  #quiltbang #breakups #agender #transgender
Akua and Sam link up to chat about work day dates, a suspicious public toilet sex policy in Wales, creepy couples, PMS & universal basic income, dating while moming and more Bae(s) of The Week: Kendra Austin @kendramorous Hoe(s) of the Week: Lyan718, Tayo, Phillip M,  Caroline Colvin, the shade room comments & new followers, and Darius H. Plus Akua gives a recap of her Dating in the Digital Age panel, her Elite Daily article, and speaks about dating burn out and how to break awkward silences on dates. Self Care Tips:  Make daily check lists and mark down ALL of the things that you’ve done  Cute Date Idea: Work day with bae Fuck That (Currents Events): A town in Wales is taking action to stop folks form having sex and sleep in toilet stalls and the hoes don’t like it! We discuss the anti-transient and potentially anti-sex work motivations behind the policy. Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam: When PMS shits on your quality of life you take birth control. A rant on how people who menstruate deserve paid time off for it and that we could all use Universal Basic Income. Denouncing creepy couples and  even creepier single men.  Fuck You (Your Lives):  A recently divorced mother questions how she can get back in the dating game  and Akua gives some very practical solutions. HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR(S) BETTER HELP: Get 10% off your first month of teletherapy at betterhelp.com/IHU  ROOTED: Get 15% off your first order of house plants by heading to rooted.nyc/ihu  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Cherry Magazine: https://www.cherrymagazine.net/ The Elite Daily Article w/ Akua: https://www.elitedaily.com/p/heres-how-to-break-the-ice-on-a-first-date-when-the-conversation-feels-stilted-18560270 Sex Trivia September: https://sextriviasundaysseptember.eventbrite.com Anti Sex Toilets: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/aug/16/seasides-town-new-toilets-feature-high-tech-anti-sex-measures Update: The town of Porthcawl says toilet plan was all a lie? https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/aug/20/plans-for-anti-sex-toilets-in-seaside-town-submitted-in-error PMDD Episode: Apple (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-hoe-uprising/id1057045285?mt=2) : https://apple.co/2TMt8Pe Soundcloud (https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising) : https://bit.ly/2VT5w8Q CastBox (https://castbox.fm/channel/Inner-Hoe-Uprising-id470383?country=us) : https://bit.ly/2TGV6vO WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by  Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa  Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin  Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl  Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang
42: HPV Havin' H*es

42: HPV Havin' H*es

2019-08-1401:37:292

Rob and Sam discuss HPV, cervical cancer, and why you should definitely be getting your Pap smears. Plus: a man with an emoji family, late summer date ideas, a rocky relationship between siblings and more!  Bae(s) of The Week: Nica Marie Hoe(s) of the Week: @Imsolovelee, @theesupaman, & kunjo  Self Care Tips: Go to events without trying to find a mate to go with  Cute Date Ideas:   Do an Adventure Course. Here’s one you can do in NYC for free:  https://www.nycgovparks.org/programs/rangers/adventure-course/free-sundays Go watch the US Open Qualifying Matches, (also in NYC): https://www.usopen.org/en_US/about/eventschedule.html  Fuck It (Topic of the Day): After a recent surgery to remove abnormal cells from their cervix Rob has an open conversation about Pap smears, HPV and cervical health.  Points of discussion include:  What is HPV? How can you contract it What is a Pap smear Racial Health Disparities regarding HPV  Abnormal Cells on your cervix  Rob and Sam’s experiences with HPV Gardasil and HPV vaccines  Fuck Me (Our Lives):  Sam: When a man dubs you for his emoji family and swearing off dating fathers.   Rob: Breaking up with their partner, the woes of a post surgical cervix, and beginning to love someone else.  Fuck You (Your Lives):  An update from Jean who was dating the potential pedophile  Second Story: Content warning for domestic abuse and self harm HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening.  SPONSOR This episode of IHU is sponsored by Simple Health The annual prescription is usually $20 but our listeners can try Simple Health for free - just go to INNER> or enter the code INNER at checkout.  RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Ms Vixen Body Affirmation Workshop: http:/www.msvixenmag.com/2019/07/affirming-our-bodies-workshop.html Sex Trivia Sundays September: https://sextriviasundaysseptember.eventbrite.com WEBSITE  InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE  http://Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising  WRITE IN EMAIL ihupodcast@gmail.com (mailto:ihupodcast@gmail.com) SPEAKING GIGS Wanna pay us to speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to ihupodcast@gmail.com  MUSIC  Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by Fuck It: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa Fuck Me: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR  Fuck You: "Chandelier" Dramangar End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY  Sam SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego Rob | Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @robthe_god  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang  #hpv #sexualhealth
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Fanjaah Fox

great episode and host! ❤ esp. on the topic of religion

Oct 31st
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Ramsay Vituperation

This guest is lit!

Sep 20th
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Stephanie DeShawn Spann

that sponsor transition was smooth af lol

Jun 10th
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Ares

If you want a good podcast check out AMERICAN NIGHTMARE PODCAST. ROLAND FLAGG is an orphaned African-American left in the care of YVONNE FLETCHER, a treacherous single mother who is on the edge of a mental breakdown. In order to escape his reality, ROLAND creates a fictional character called the Golden Ninja.

May 17th
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Ben Sunday-k

if you can separate sex, relationships and some fetishes.. u can understand the poly-s Ben K.

May 17th
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Scientist

this is miss information from your speaker. HSV 1 and 2 can be transmitted via bodily fluids. You do NOT have to have sores present to pass the virus on to a partner. You can pass it on if you do not have symptoms, some folks are asymptomatic, never have sores, and cand transmitt the virus. You DO have to specifically ask for a herpes test, but can get tested by your doctor for it if you dont have blisters.

May 7th
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Sydnie Montgomery

I've literally had this exact same dating experience with the apps. I thought it really was something wrong with me. I'm so glad this is an experience other people are having cause I ready to just believe I was crazy and give up on dating all together.

May 5th
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Jennifer Dudley

You all give me LIFE!! keep doing your thing

Feb 23rd
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Lakisha Brown

I loved The Gift!

Jun 19th
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